Long Term Relationship (Compiled)

[True079]

Hello, I’m a 46-year-old bi  discreet, 1.81m, and 87kg.

 

I’m looking for respectful, discreet, and manly married/straight brothers to connect over coffee, meals, etc.

 

I spend my weekends at Le Quest Mall. If you're interested, feel free to DM or chat with me. Thanks!

Edited October 22, 2025 by True079

[Relationship]

Hi there

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 61 age 39.

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards

[Flexiguy]

Discreet 47/165/50kg slim/skinny local SG Chinese - Flex/Versatile - SG West

Likes: Pc gaming, Shopping, Movies, activities and staying indoors and more.
It's alright if you have different hobbies from me.

 

DIslike:
X People who like to Dominate others
X No Open Relationship
X No Fetish
X No Sugar boy

X No Fwb
X No CD
X Not interested in abit femboy, a bit sissy, a bit cd, a bit ladyboy

Looking for:  Fem Boy, Sissy(Not Crossdresser type), Ladyboy for LTR

Discreet
Singapore Local Chinese
Slim, Skinny, Average - Flex,Versatile, Top, Btm

46 years old and below 

 

Hit me up if we have lost contact before.

If I did not reply, it means I am not interested. Thank You!

[sgind]

Looking for a man with wit, humour, confidence and a sense of occasion & adventure. A grounded chap with the heart of a dreamer and an eye for life’s finer things. Am a local professional here.

 

PM to spark a convo. 

 

Darling, hold my hand
Oh, won't you hold my hand?
'Cause I don't wanna walk on my own anymore won't you understand?
Cause I don't wanna walk alone
I'm ready for this, there's no denying
I'm ready for this, you stop me falling
I'm ready for this, I need you all in
I'm ready for this, so darling, hold my hand

[Leoj]

Finding love as a gay man is challenging…finding love as a gay man who is aging and a btm is even more challenging…

 

Nonetheless…the search goes on…

 

Compatibility and Chemistry are important

if we match…let’s go on a Hiking Date so we can get to know more about each other shall we?

 

1. Name: Joel

 

2. Age: 45

 

3. Height: 185cm

 

4. Weight: 94kg

 

5. Role: Bottom

 

6. Interests/hobbies: Gym, Cooking, Baking, Traveling 

 

7. Self-description: Primarily Looking for potential dates leading to a long-term relationship. My values - family, commitment and honesty. I believe that love can be for life. Are you the one? 

 

8. The kind of guy I hope to be with: A Top Manly Guy who believes in Loyalty, Honesty and Monogamy and is ready to date (with having a Long Term Relationship in mind)

[Rocket_]

Thanks for your ❤️emojis✌

Edited January 18 by Rocket_
Quick update

[pusheenpika]

Another year, another attempt at this. It's been so long since I dated, that I find starting a conversation to find out more about that person of interest kinda awkward. 

 

But it doesn't need to be. With the right person, a conversation should just...flow...right? So lets be friends first, lovers later. 

 

Looking for:

Stable (money and emotions) & mature (in thoughts)

Loves cats (cat owner here)

Speaks good English (I'm a grammar nazi)

Someone whom I can stare into space with on the bed (or just netflix the weekend away) 

Foodie (then works it all off at the gym with me) 

Decisive (because see below) 

1 (because what comes after 0?) 

Around my age (80s and early 90s kids please!)

 

What am I?

Plus-sized, and still trying hard to be the biggest loser. 

Joker, but everyone knows someone who jokes around a lot hides a dark past.

Foodie, but can't eat much cos control is the in thing now.

Opinionated, I listen and do not judge. I just have opinions.

Indecisive, but I'm the mini boss at work. 

0, although these days I prefer to just hold hands, be on my knees, pray and stay holey.

I prefer indulging in a 10-date no fun experience before indulging on you.

I work out (my eyes) where virgins try to be active.

 

Slide into my DMs for more. kthxbai.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Edited September 27, 2025 by pusheenpika

[LookingforLTR]

 

Hi, I’m a 45-year-old (2025) discreet, local Chinese guy looking for a long-term relationship and soulmate.

 

About Me:

• Height: 178cm

• Weight: 78kg (working towards 72kg—currently hitting the gym!)

• Professional and independent

• Simple and easy-going personality

• Straight-acting and discreet

• Enjoys movies, BLs, and Netflix

• Loves traveling and exploring cafes

• Non-smoker

• Social drinker (occasionally)

 

What I’m Looking For:

• Someone around 30 to 48 years old (+/-)

• Preferably Chinese

• Average, toned, or lean build (and open to hitting the gym together)

• Professional, financially stable, and independent

• Easy-going, fun-loving, and cheerful

• Straight-acting and discreet

• Enjoys spending quality time, whether it’s a simple dinner or wandering aimlessly at the mall

• Open to doing silly activities together once in a while 😂

• Loves traveling

• Non-smoker or occasional/non-drinker

• Most importantly: someone who takes good care of themselves and takes pride in their grooming and appearance

 

If this sounds like you, I’d love to connect! 😊

[Want to try]

If I had seen this profile 20 years ago, it would have been a perfect match for me..... What a pity.. 

[True079]

Hello all. Bi-single 46, 87kg, 1.81. Enjoys brisk walk, coffees for chat, Open to bro hugs etc

 

I seek respectful, discreet, and manly married/straight brothers to connect.

 

I spend my weekends at Le Quest Mall. If you're interested, feel free to DM or chat with me. Thanks!

[waxsc]

Trying it again.

 

Hi guys, Wynn here! 24/169/92, currently employed by MOE. Looking for a partner to grow together with, as well as enjoy life's journey.

 

Things I like 

- volunteering

- cafe hopping

- JB/ overseas trips

- Netflix and chill

 

What I'm looking for

- 23 - 32 years old

- experienced tops preferred

- decent, manly looking individuals, probably w stable jobs

- character wise: down to earth, loyal and perhaps humorous

 

Do dm me on @wynn_ohgs for more info! I do believe in chemistry, so let's see if we click!

Edited September 30, 2025 by waxsc

[True079]

Hello all. Am 46, 87kg, 1.81 ,local Chinese...enjoy brisk walk, nature, open to bro hugs etc.. 

 

I seek respectful, discreet, and manly married/straight curious brothers to connect and have friendships. 

 

I spend my weekends at Le Quest Mall. If you're interested for kopichat, feel free to DM me. Thanks!

Edited October 5, 2025 by True079

[Bighands00]

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Edited October 19, 2025 by Bighands00

[mindconcepts]

everyone, I'm a 46-year-old, 1.81m tall, 87kg Chinese guy looking to connect with discreet bi married/straight individuals and to expand my network of friends. 

 

I'm single & somehow reserved, so it might take time for me to open up

 

I enjoy exploring new interests. If you're around my age and value respectful discreet brotherhood relationship, let's grab kopi and chat.

 

DM me if you're interested to know me.

Edited October 8, 2025 by mindconcepts

[ReallyMeh]

Hi Im 41/175/66 local Chn, Top/Side who lives in the East. 

Size: Lean-fit 

Outdoor Interest: Jogging, Gym, cycling, Hiking, Trekking, OCR and anything fun

Indoor Interest: Singing K, Movies, Board Games, Tabletop wargame, Switch games, meeting friends, hugging and cuddling 

Preferred local chinese who is not drama queen or sissy or chub, and maintain regular workouts/active, and
someone of age from 36 - 43.

 

If the above simple introduction does pique your interest, please message me.

Edited October 6, 2025 by ReallyMeh

[Lna]

Hi! 29 Chinese, 169cm, 63kg guy with glasses.

looking for discreet sex relationship with someone that can be a buddy friend or some sort. Prefer no chubs and hygiene is a must! Of course a fit body will be a plus
 

no strings unless for fun and exploration, idk what else but hit me up with tele or Snapchat if u roughly get the idea 😂😂
 

 

Edited October 6, 2025 by Lna

[retrohao]

Late 30s (younger looking) local chinese here hoping to find dates here:

 

- your age can be up to 30s

- bottom / verse bot?

- slim to average build

Do DM or use the chatroom function to msg me too.

[Roxas]

38yo/174cm/80kg Chinese side here. Enjoy traveling, gaming, netflix and reading manga.

 

Looking for someone who has similar interest as me, and also a side. Feel free to drop me a message to kickstart the journey knowing you and me.

 

[boyastro]

Hello. I'm 46 166 68 chn. Looking to expand my social circle. Working professional and homey person. Enjoy wine, jazz, swim, yoga, travelling and gardening. Have pet. DM to connect. Thanks.  

[marinacove]

Hi, my name is Adam.

I am 33 this year local chinese. I m 33 173 80.

 

I am looking for local chinese age 33 or less for friends/ ltr. No chub.

 

I like to watch movies, shopping and cafe hopping.

 

I looking for friends/ltr who is honest, friendly and kind. I do hope we have chemistry as well. Like factor is important.

 

Pm me for chat pls.

[lookingforreal]

Hello Everyone,

 

I’m a local Chinese white collar guy who is looking for a long-term relationship and a lifetime soulmate. I'm someone who enjoys the simple things in life like long walks, watching TV and having a good conversations, and genuine connection. I’m looking for someone who is mature, knows what he wants in life, values honesty and understand the meaning of monogamous relationship.

 

More information about me

• 45/175/90 (Not chub) 
• Working professional 
• Simple, straight acting and down to earth person
• Like long walk, playing puzzle to destress, slow jog, browsing tiktok etc, heading to JB once a while for the shopping and massage.
• Non smoker/Drinker

 

Prefer someone who are:

 

• Between 45 to 52 years old
• Non Chub
• Straight act and not feminine
• Chinese Single Gay (Not into bi or married)
• Enjoy spending time together whenever time permit doing anything we like
• Non smoker. Occasional drinking is ok la.
• Straight acting and discreet but i am ok if he wants to hold hand in movies
• Financially stable 

 

 

I am just looking for someone simple to spend the life with me and nothing complicated.

If you’re someone who’s ready for something real and lasting, I would like to get to know you and i hope to hear from you to walk the journey with me. Thank you.

 

 

 

 

 

Edited October 8, 2025 by lookingforreal
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[jcboy18]

helloos! trying out again for 2025

 

info abt me!!!

• 19yo nsf

• 170cm

• 90kg stocky build

• indonesian

• vers top/side

 

interests:

•kpop, jpop

•dancing
•concert band/music
•drawing
•knitting/crochet
•marine biology (especially jellyfish)

• my three cats❤️

• pokemon!!

 

looking for someone who is:

•open and honest with their feelings and intentions

•knows how to take accountability and responsibility for his actions

• easy going but also has boundaries and mutual respect for each others boundaries

•strictly monogamy, no open rs!

 

lets slowly get to know each other🩷

 

hmu on the chat function or the mail function for my tele ifyoure keen or interested in getting to know each other🥰🫶

[dam81]

reposted below

Edited November 3, 2025 by dam81

[marinacove]

Hi, my name is Adam.

I am 33 this year local chinese. I m 33 173 80.

 

I am looking for local chinese age 33 or less for friends/ ltr. No chub.

 

I like to watch movies, shopping and cafe hopping.

 

I looking for friends/ltr who is honest, friendly and kind. I do hope we have chemistry as well. Like factor is important.

 

Pm me for chat pls.

[Bighands00]

 

Gd day all.

 

Am 46, single Bi. Seeking a regular married/str buddy to connect with.

 

Would prefer a committed 1-to-1 arrangement for safety and long-term enjoyment reasons.

 

Am seeking Respectful Connection and side experience if any. Message me for discussion, coffee chat okay. 

 

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Edited October 11, 2025 by Bighands00

[1983rophi]

my kidneys died on 31-3-2025.

 

started Dialysis on 4-4-25.

 

Dialysis is for life.

 

Looking for anyone who has 2 conditions: you have a Hickman Line for chemotherapy or u have a Line for Dialysis Access. i hope to connect with u & enc you. thx, J.

 

 

[marinacove]

Hi, my name is Adam.

I am 33 this year local chinese, 173 80.

 

I am looking for local chinese age 33 or less for ltr. No chub pls.

 

I like to watch movies, shopping and cafe hopping.

 

I prefer someone who is honest, friendly and kind. I do hope we have chemistry as well. Like factor is important.

 

Pm me for chat pls.

Edited October 12, 2025 by marinacove

[BeKind21Another]

On 4/8/2025 at 8:53 PM, BeKind21Another said:

Hi! I'm seeking to date (for LTR) and to expand my social circle.

 

Me: SG'an, Malay VersB, 41yo, 172cm, 90+kg, stocky chub.  

 

Enjoys mutual sensible conversation, spend time with persons of interest, chill to Netflix, movies, music, some outdoor/indoor activities, planned getaways. 

 

Pref: Personable, friendly, financially/mentally stable, communicative, masculine, active, committed, enjoys hugs/cuddles, +/-5 years age difference, local/PR.

 

If you think there is a chance of match, dm me and let's talk. 🙂 

Back here again. Bump.

[yoyQ]

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Edited October 13, 2025 by yoyQ

[Bighands00]

 

 

 

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Edited October 19, 2025 by Bighands00

[justgymguy]

Hi everyone,
 

I’m Jon — early 50s, bi, married but currently separated pending divorce proceedings. At this stage of life, I’m looking to connect with guys who share similar values and interests — friendship first, and open to something deeper if the right chemistry happens.
 

To be honest, I’m giving myself a chance to be emotionally involved with a guy. I’ve never had that opportunity before, and I’m not sure if it’s too late — but I’d rather explore it than live wondering what if.
 

I’ve been told I give off solid partner energy — calm, dependable, a mix of heart and steadiness. I don’t rush connections, but when I care, I give fully.

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About Me

Personality: I’ve always tested between ISFJ and INFJ — reflective, steady, and grounded, with a quiet sense of humour that surfaces once I’m comfortable.
 

Body: 172 cm / 93 kg — not chub, but more bear-stocky, meaty build. I stay active but don’t chase abs or extremes.
 

Fitness & Health: Active in dragon boat, (used to do) Muay Thai, and still hit the gym regularly. I’m a bit of a homebody, but I believe in keeping fit through things I genuinely enjoy.
 

Music: Big fan of EDM and techno — I go to G-Circuit parties for the beats and the freedom to dance, not the sexual scene. This December will be my first White Party, and I’m both nervous and excited. When I unwind, it’s spa, lounge, or bossa vibes — Zen-inspired Asianic instrumentals (Chinese/Japanese). No lyrics, just rhythm and calm.
 

Lifestyle: I love food but I don’t chase trends. I eat what I enjoy and aim for balance. I like simple hangouts — drinks with friends, café chats, and the occasional short getaway.

Travel-wise, Bangkok and Taiwan top my list. Yet to visit Japan, and for some reason, Korea just doesn’t click. If given a choice, I’ll always pick mountains and open views over crowded cities.
 

Faith: Christian (Pentecostal/Charismatic background). My faith still anchors me even as I go through transitions in life and try to make sense of my sexuality.
 

Intimacy: I lean towards bottom/side, but for me, connection and trust come first. Chemistry’s important — but emotional safety is the real spark.
 

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Looking For

Like-minded bi or single guys — ideally around my age or life stage, but open to younger ones who are mature and real. I’m not wealthy and not looking to be a sugar daddy — just hoping for genuine connection and good company.

Also open to attached or partnered men who value authentic friendship without judgment.

Preferably sporty, active, or health-conscious — but more importantly, genuine, kind, grounded, well-groomed, and someone who takes pride in how they show up (please, not the 40s/50s baggy-shorts-loose-tee-and-unkept-goatee combo 😅).
 

Bonus if you’re Christian too, though mutual respect and chemistry come first.

If you enjoy fitness, music, food, travel, cafés, or good conversation with a bit of wit and warmth, we’ll probably get along.

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Not Looking For

Hook-ups or party scenes — not my thing.

I’d rather start with coffee, a gym session (usually at Anytime Fitness), a movie, or a meal. If we click, we’ll know.

My schedule can be unpredictable since I work shifts with no fixed off days, but if the connection feels real, I’ll make time.

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If this resonates, DM me here or drop me an email at bimarstk@gmail.com with a short intro (the more personal, the better).

If we vibe, happy to continue on Telegram.

Cheers,
Jon

P.S. Most people say I don’t look 50+ — usually mid-40s, sometimes even late 30s. I’ll take that as motivation to keep moving.

Edited October 14, 2025 by justgymguy
some additional info

[btm-bubble_butt]

Hey guys, i’m a local chinese here looking for a Top to be my LTR

 

my stats:

Age: 22

Height: 178cm

Weight: 73KG

 

I like gaming, watching shows and currently getting back into badminton and running.

i’m also a really fast texter/replier so if that’s your thing then

 

Currently open for friends / LTR 

I’m looking for LTR with someone who is caring, protective & loyal. 

Height wise prefer close to my height or taller

Bonus if you have a chest/bicep for me to squeeze/lie on 🤪

 

Like this or HMU on telegram @potatobonlihoo

Edited March 13 by btm-bubble_butt

[Relationship]

Hi there

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 61 age 39.

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards

[EC2017]

Ended a very long relationship years back and immersed myself into work till a point when I come to realise I am quite empty.  Looking and hoping to meet more friends and hopefully a partner here.  I am very open minded, fun loving and a little bit silly and not the daddy sort.

Me:

50s, 164/55/Btm

Stable civil servant,

Dogs, music, holidays, shopping, crafts, driving aimlessly and anything visually attractive

Love to know:

Younger, slim

Chinese preferred 

 

 

[True079]

Hi, I'm 46, Chinese, and tall bi btm here.

 

Seeking bi brotherhood/bromance buddies and discreet companionship.

Dm me and see where it goes.

 

Start w Kopi chat/dinner, okay?

Edited October 25, 2025 by True079

[ykj]

hi 

34 178 86 chi here. Vers btm here

 

Interests: reading, travelling, walking, mahjong

Looking for: friends, relationship if click. In process of losing weight so an exercise buddy would be good as well.

 

For relationship: pref someone around my age? 27 to 41. Not too skinny or chub. Stable job with plans for future.

[sgind]

Looking for a man with wit, humour, confidence and a good sense of occasion & adventure. A grounded chap with the heart of a dreamer and an eye for life’s finer things. Am a local professional. PM to spark a convo. 

 

Darling, hold my hand
Oh, won't you hold my hand?
'Cause I don't wanna walk on my own anymore won't you understand?
Cause I don't wanna walk alone
I'm ready for this, there's no denying
I'm ready for this, you stop me falling
I'm ready for this, I need you all in
I'm ready for this, so darling, hold my hand

[Sushiforfun]

Hi Chi 31, 170, 65 here

Am straight curious and exploring. 

Looking for a casual long term buddy/bro/fwb preferably around my age to teach and try new things with. 
 

Am open to most things as long as its clean, safe, discreet fun. 
 

If you are caring, protective and horny please hmu! 

Edited October 31, 2025 by Sushiforfun

[littlejesselyn]

Any top Malay/indian open to long term relationship with a Chinese? 

[Sens079]

I’m drawn to respectful straight-acting, discreet, manly bi guys — the kind who know how to keep things cool yet exciting and brotherly (though I do have my sensitive side).

If we click, maybe we could have our own little bromance going.

If you drive, we could meet for a drink. PM me. Thanks.

Edited November 1, 2025 by Sens079

[ltr]

Any Malaysian guy from Penang looking for long term relationship? Kindly pm. Tq.

[Jackhammer]

Hi all, I am a local Chinese, 49 yo, 168/77. I am looking for a close buddy who can share my joys and problems with. In life, there are many events that need a third person point of views, and I need such a person in life. Likewise, I will do the same.

 

[mindconcepts]

I'm 46, 181 cm, 87 kg, Chinese. 

 

Wish to settle down with manly bi or straight comrade for respectful regular discreet companionship.

Dm me if u wish to know me over meals. Thanks!

Edited November 3, 2025 by mindconcepts

[dam81]

see new post

Edited November 30, 2025 by dam81

[1983rophi]

On 10/21/2025 at 12:54 AM, EC2017 said:

Ended a very long relationship years back and immersed myself into work till a point when I come to realise I am quite empty.  Looking and hoping to meet more friends and hopefully a partner here.  I am very open minded, fun loving and a little bit silly and not the daddy sort.

Me:

50s, 164/55/Btm

Stable civil servant,

Dogs, music, holidays, shopping, crafts, driving aimlessly and anything visually attractive

Love to know:

Younger, slim

Chinese preferred 

 

 

I can't P/Message u. 

Can u P/Message me? 

 

Thanks

J

[mindconcepts]

 

 

46 / CHN / 181 / 87

Attracted to manly, discreet, married or straight-acting bros.

 

Hoping to meet an easygoing buddy to share good convo and chill moments with. I enjoy connecting over common interests and seeing where things naturally go.

 

If you value trust, privacy, and genuine connection, let’s grab kopi sometime. For a discreet chat or quiet bromance if we click, PM me.

Edited November 8, 2025 by mindconcepts

[JJ888]

Hi,

 

Looking for a partner with local Chinese top/side guys. Preferably someone with a positive outlook about life, who work hard & play hard, committed to settling down.

 

I'm local Chinese 173 65 38 INFJ who enjoy sports, cooking and travelling. Often misunderstood as an E and looking much younger than my actual age.

 

Tele: Hellofromtheothersidewo (appreciate it if you can give an intro about yourself when you text me)

 

 

[ToughGuy]

7 hours ago, JJ888 said:

Hi,

 

Looking for a partner with local Chinese top/side guys. Preferably someone with a positive outlook about life, who work hard & play hard, committed to settling down.

 

I'm local Chinese 173 65 38 INFJ who enjoy sports, cooking and travelling. Often misunderstood as an E and looking much younger than my actual age.

 

Tele: Hellofromtheothersidewo (appreciate it if you can give an intro about yourself when you text me)

 

 

My or SG?

[Can_berry80]

Local Chinese 45yrs Standing at 170cm long. Slight heavy 75kg. Old but children at heart, still like doraemon n cute stuffs. So... Japan is my Fav place to go during Jan winter period.

 

Looking for same age or younger that str8 acting & discreet. Staying West Singapore to spend time together, go gym at AF and travel to any part in asia. And Sometime Cruise.. 

( I mean 🛳️cruise.... not cruising at toilet or park ). . 

Hope Get to know more about each other b4 jump into LTR.

 

Lastly..... my Position is Side. Sometimes Top

Strictly🙅‍♂️ Btm me. 😝

 No Photo to send. Too much photo collectors nowadays 😂

Normal looking guy. meetup to see face......

[1983rophi]

On 11/9/2025 at 10:35 PM, Can_berry80 said:

Local Chinese 45yrs Standing at 170cm long. Slight heavy 75kg. Old but children at heart, still like doraemon n cute stuffs. So... Japan is my Fav place to go during Jan winter period.

 

Looking for same age or younger that str8 acting & discreet. Staying West Singapore to spend time together, go gym at AF and travel to any part in asia. And Sometime Cruise.. 

( I mean 🛳️cruise.... not cruising at toilet or park ). . 

Hope Get to know more about each other b4 jump into LTR.

 

Lastly..... my Position is Side. Sometimes Top

Strictly🙅‍♂️ Btm me. 😝

 No Photo to send. Too much photo collectors nowadays 😂

Normal looking guy. meetup to see face......

 

Edited November 19, 2025 by 1983rophi
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