Masturbation / Jacking Off Discussion - Learn From Who? When? Where? [Home, Work, Public?] How Often & What Techniques? How Many Times is too much? (Compiled)

[mijsdlog]

Up until about 5 years ago I used to rely a lot on my foreskin. There was even a time early in my adulthood that I thought that circumcized guys couldn't possibly enjoy masturbation. Now I don't even involve my foreskin anymore; it's always with lube.

A more recent change was the liberation from the belief that ejaculation necessarily meant drop in energy level. A lot of times I ended up edging myself but stopping just short of ejaculation. Then I came across the YouTube videos (you can find them in the Health/Fitness part of the forum) of Taiwanese urologist - there were a couple of episodes addressing frequency and timing of masturbation and whether or not it was good to always stop short of ejaculation (the answer was no.) I also learned that, if one was generally well rested and in good health, rubbing one out the morning would not rob you of your energy for the day. I put these suggestions into practice, and have actually been enjoying myself more since. Maybe it will work for some of you too.

[shenalone]

2 hours ago, mijsdlog said:

Up until about 5 years ago I used to rely a lot on my foreskin. There was even a time early in my adulthood that I thought that circumcized guys couldn't possibly enjoy masturbation. Now I don't even involve my foreskin anymore; it's always with lube.

A more recent change was the liberation from the belief that ejaculation necessarily meant drop in energy level. A lot of times I ended up edging myself but stopping just short of ejaculation. Then I came across the YouTube videos (you can find them in the Health/Fitness part of the forum) of Taiwanese urologist - there were a couple of episodes addressing frequency and timing of masturbation and whether or not it was good to always stop short of ejaculation (the answer was no.) I also learned that, if one was generally well rested and in good health, rubbing one out the morning would not rob you of your energy for the day. I put these suggestions into practice, and have actually been enjoying myself more since. Maybe it will work for some of you too.

foreskin is use for making the place lessessy after masturbation when you about to ejaculate hold the foreskin together and make it a bag and then dispose 

[mijsdlog]

On 6/13/2020 at 12:55 AM, shenalone said:

foreskin is use for making the place lessessy after masturbation when you about to ejaculate hold the foreskin together and make it a bag and then dispose 

Seriously? I can't imagine how that could work. You must have quite a lot of foreskin.

[shenalone]

45 minutes ago, mijsdlog said:

Seriously? I can't imagine how that could work. You must have quite a lot of foreskin.

Yap, my foreskin is very long, even if I erect the foreskin will still cover the head 

[cutejack]

3 hours ago, Since u r here said:

How much is more?? 

 

Cute guy with shiny thigh n knee. Love it

[Guest Uncle]

On 6/14/2020 at 5:25 PM, cutejack said:

Cute guy with shiny thigh n knee. Love it

My uncle used look like him, so I would secretly watch him sleeping and jerk off...

[Yas1950]

On 6/10/2020 at 11:51 PM, Dumain said:

I was a late bloomer, and lost it 10 years ago at the ripe old age at 24. For the longest time, I thought I was straight and couldn't quite come to terms with my sexuality. I was a prude when it comes to sex, possibly due to the environment I grew up in.

 

I discovered masturbation at the age of 13 while imitating what the actor was doing in a porn video I stumbled upon. Unfortunately, I forgot to lock my room while masturbating one day in sec 2 and I was caught. My father raised his voice and I was scolded by my parents that day - I was taught that porn is ungodly, masturbation is against religion, sex is revered only after marriage and I am strictly not to touch myself anymore. Till this day, I don't think my parents understand how badly this incident has screwed up my attitude towards sex. I began to repress my sexuality. Of course, I still had the urge to masturbate (I am only human), but every single day when I feel the urge, I try to convince myself that masturbation is a sin. I limit myself to masturbating no more than one time a month, usually doing it in public toilets so that my parents don't suspect that I still touch myself.

 

Sexuality became nothing but an after thought to me. During NS, when my bunk mates talked about sex, I will feel embarrassed and I will excuse myself out of the room. So for 24 years of my life, I avoided thinking about sex at all cause; the closest action I ever had was possibly 1 - 2 guys asking me for my number in the gym and at my internship. 

 

Out of boredom and out of curiosity one weekday afternoon during my Uni holidays, I downloaded IRC. It was just one of those days where I did not know what came over me. I started talking to one guy, asking him to describe how oral sex feels like. Something just snapped in me that day, possibly also because I hadn't jerked off in a few weeks. The guy I was chatting with asked me to come down to his place to try out getting sucked for the first time. I remember feeling so pent up that I immediately booked and took a cab, still in my singlet and boxers. I couldn't even think straight enough to put on proper clothes. 

 

10 mins later I was taking the lift up to his apartment. I was so nervous but at the same time, it felt like something has taken over my body, and nothing was going to stop me from going over to his house. 

 

He was a pleasant looking man in his early 30s with a gymfit bod. At his place, I just couldn't control myself. I started touching and undressing him and kissing him at the living room before he could even close the gate. It honestly felt like I was possessed. He was possibly possessed too; he undressed me and kissed me in the living room, and to my horror I realised that he was not alone at home when a man (probably his housemate or tenant) came out from one of the bedrooms to go to the toilet. In our naked state of embarrassment, he ushered me to his room, where he fulfilled his promise of giving me my first BJ. 

 

I was foolish enough to think it would have stopped at just a mutual BJ, hugging and heavy petting. Before I knew it, he asked me to sniff a small vial of liquid (I have never heard of poppers back then) and then a new wave of horniness came over me. It was nothing like what I have ever experienced. In our euphoric high, he put some lube on his dick and tried inserting his dick in me. In my mind, I was saying NO but my body just couldn't cooperate. Before I know it, I was getting penetrated for the first time. It hurt like hell, but my body didn't care for it and it still felt so good. The whole encounter was the best 40 minutes of my life.

 

Of course, everything came crashing down once we came and I snapped back to my senses, horrified at what had happened. I quickly put back my singlet and boxers, and asked to leave. I did not even took up the offer to clean myself up first in his toilet. At the void deck, I broke down and cried, feeling dirty and asked God for forgiveness. I wandered around the neighbourhood in a catatonic state for hours. Once I reached home, I spent an hour in the toilet cleansing myself of the guilt and trying to wash out every single drop of him from inside me (everything was such a blur, I only realised we had done it raw after I felt him cumming inside me). 

 

It took me many days later for me to forgive myself and carry on as per normal. Also took a comprehensive STD test 4 weeks later to make sure that I didn't contract anything from that encounter, and promised God that I will never do such a thing again after I was given the all clear. 

 

Of course, 4 months later I felt the urge again, hooked up with another guy and felt guilty again. It took me probably one year later to finally realise that sexuality is healthy and a  normal part of being human. Once I have reconciled my thinking on sex, from my mid 20s to early 30s, I became a compulsive masturbator, masturbating at least once a day on weekdays and 4x a day on weekends. 

 

Today, I think I have adjusted my attitude towards sexuality, and no longer feel guilty if and when I have my occasional hook up encounters at the gym. However, my compulsive masturbation habits from a few years back have now given me a new problem (premature ejaculation). 

 

 

Very honest and painful confession. Hopefully by now you have overcome your demons and have come to terms with your sexuality.
The thing about coming to terms with your sexuality is just do what comes naturally; no guilt. Feel free; be free. But all in all be safe; stay safe.
I feel for you Bro. Good luck and God Bless.

[Guest Much]

I'm in my 30s. Is it too much to do everyweek? Is it okay to masturbate? Does saving my semen or avoiding spilling it will be good to my health in the long term? Do we have a limited times of how much we can ejaculate in our lifespan? If I save it now maybe I can still enjoy in my later years? What if it is still the same, no difference, wouldnt it be a regret if I dont enjoy it now?

[Gabriel83]

O good question I hear tat some guy Everyday cum 

[Kimochi]

You horny you release.  You not horny you don't release. 

[LeanMature]

For younger guys, the urge to masturbate is stronger and thus more often.  You won't enjoy the same intensity and sensitivity at older age, so do it more often before you lose it.

[Aces13]

My opinion is it depends on each individual needs. Guys with higher sex desires will do it more often. But guys with less desired definitely dun feel the need to do it that often.

[Guest Leonard]

I am 48 yet I masturbate almost daily. Sometimes twice within like an hour. 😬

[mopiz]

once a week is too less. if you have tried everyday twice a day you will know the difference.

[fab]

3 hours ago, Kimochi said:

You horny you release.  You not horny you don't release. 

 

I thought, 

 

You horny you u look Kimochi.  You not horny you don't look for Kimochi 

[And then]

once a week is too much??? seriously?

maybe at age 80

[Guest WowWow]

1 hour ago, Guest Leonard said:

I am 48 yet I masturbate almost daily. Sometimes twice within like an hour. 😬

Wow!!!! how cum you can achieve that?

[Flexi Rage]

1 hour ago, Guest Leonard said:

I am 48 yet I masturbate almost daily. Sometimes twice within like an hour. 😬

same same....i did it almost everyday. yes sometimes twice a day. even thrice.

[Polgnoru]

 

Sharing this video that I have come across a few months ago. There is no right and wrong answer to this. You can gauge it yourself. If you masturbate regularly and have difficulty having a morning erection, it may indicate that you have masturbated too much.

 

Edited September 5, 2020 by Polgnoru

[Guest How Cum?]

5 minutes ago, Flexi Rage said:

same same....i did it almost everyday. yes sometimes twice a day. even thrice.

If so, how come your Kuku bird look like it has not been well used?

[cutejack]

1 minute ago, Guest How Cum? said:

If so, how come your Kuku bird look like it has not been well used?

It is. Looks black black. Well used de

[Gabriel83]

2 hours ago, Guest Leonard said:

I am 48 yet I masturbate almost daily. Sometimes twice within like an hour. 😬

Wow so high 

[Wapper]

how many times did you all masturbate when you are young? I swear there was once i masturbated 4 or 5 times a day for like a month and yet I was still shooting cum out. No idea how that happened. Now i settle for once every alternate day so the intensity gets very strong for me to shoot super far and if still horny then wank again.

[Guest Saliva]

Have you ever use your saliva to masturbate?

[mith]

of course... i would salivate my rock hard cock, slowly rubbing, stroking and massaging it while watching porn... and ended the act with a huge, satisfied spurt of manjuice on my ab!

 

sometime in a threesome, guy A would salivate my cock with his saliva as lubricant to ready my cock for fucking guy B ass!

 

oops... too much info. 

[Guest Saliva]

For those who are circumcised since young, do you used saliva to masturbate? 

[cutejack]

1 hour ago, Guest Saliva said:

For those who are circumcised since young, do you used saliva to masturbate? 

Y dude? U r n have issue wanking is it? Use lube la. Cleaner. Was having fun with a guy n he spitted on my cock before sitting on it. I was like eeeewwww...

[Guest Avilas]

Can I use your saliva to masturbate instead?

[Guest Saliva]

My muslim colleague was joking and said if right hand was injured can use left hand to work. He pretends to spit on his hands and do the jerking motions with his left hand. I just feel aroused by that kind of conversation. Just curious if circumsized ppl jerk off like that. 

[DanielKing]

yes use saliva as my lube.

[Seedrick]

Only if the real lube is unavailable - last resort...

[chunchun]

Don't usually use lube or saliva, only use saliva to wet my fingers for nipple play

[Guest guest]

8 hours ago, cutejack said:

Y dude? U r n have issue wanking is it? Use lube la. Cleaner. Was having fun with a guy n he spitted on my cock before sitting on it. I was like eeeewwww...

Think those who have OCD would find it eewwww to use saliva. Use lube better, or if you have precum also can use.

[lightsmith32]

Saliva is charming when done right ...

[repressednerd]

Depends on the cut style. Probably use saliva if it's a tight cut.

[Guest Eww]

Saliva smells. No doubt regardless how you brush your teeth or rinse your mouth. It is only a degree of how foul it is. That is the last resort.

[begleitung]

On 9/28/2020 at 2:29 PM, cutejack said:

Y dude? U r n have issue wanking is it? Use lube la. Cleaner. Was having fun with a guy n he spitted on my cock before sitting on it. I was like eeeewwww...

Dats really grossss

[yuquidam]

Twice everyday from PSLE to JC, and in uni too.

 

Morning before school and night before sleep. Morning is called Vitamin Shake. Night is called Deep Sleep Shake. Sometimes afternoon extra bonus time while still in school - the Break Time Shake.

 

Now if I do twice daily it's called the Shake Orh Kosong. Nothing comes out liao LOL

Edited October 5, 2021 by yuquidam

[yuquidam]

My record was 6 times in 12 hours (11pm to 11am) with a cute btm JC mate. He kept waking my kkj up with his hands or lips. But after that my kkj was like overnite yutiao for one week and painful like fxxks! Never dare repeat that again.. LOL

Edited October 22, 2020 by yuquidam

[repressednerd]

On 9/9/2020 at 1:19 PM, Wapper said:

how many times did you all masturbate when you are young? I swear there was once i masturbated 4 or 5 times a day for like a month and yet I was still shooting cum out. No idea how that happened. Now i settle for once every alternate day so the intensity gets very strong for me to shoot super far and if still horny then wank again.

 

I did it 8 times in a day once. Normally only happens if I get obsessed with a porn star and keep getting horny thinking of him.

[Steve5380]

I feel so fortunate that by not being cut I can masturbate to the heights of heaven without a need for lube or saliva   

[feedersmiracle]

Cut or not, lube makes everything feel better, just invest in a bottle, try different brands and products. It is worth the professionalism. I bought from male hq, but I would buy online if I live alone and can take parcels.

[Steve5380]

29 minutes ago, feedersmiracle said:

Cut or not, lube makes everything feel better, just invest in a bottle, try different brands and products. It is worth the professionalism. I bought from male hq, but I would buy online if I live alone and can take parcels.

 

You are saying that lube is more professional than bare hand?   You may be right. But I don't need to be professional. 

 

In reality, what I do is avoid the need for a professional.  I also cut the grass of my own yard,  repair my own cars and fix my own plumbing  

[feedersmiracle]

1 hour ago, Steve5380 said:

 

You are saying that lube is more professional than bare hand?   You may be right. But I don't need to be professional. 

 

In reality, what I do is avoid the need for a professional.  I also cut the grass of my own yard,  repair my own cars and fix my own plumbing  

... as opposed to using spit...

[G_M]

On 6/7/2020 at 9:03 PM, Ansonlim said:

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 1 warning point for posting ad in the Main forum

 

[Guest guest]

On 9/5/2020 at 6:06 PM, Polgnoru said:

 

Sharing this video that I have come across a few months ago. There is no right and wrong answer to this. You can gauge it yourself. If you masturbate regularly and have difficulty having a morning erection, it may indicate that you have masturbated too much.

 

How come the doctor never reveal how often he masturbate?

[Guest shyboy]

i just recently started working out and trying to build some muscles.. just wanna know.. is it advisable to jerk off? will it affect my gains? i always have the urge to jerk off after working out... and sometimes i just cannot resist my temptation.. but after ejaculating i will feel like all my gains are gone... is it sensi lol.. i have read some reports saying that ejaculating won't have any effect on gains but some says otherwise... advice pls...

[gucici]

Some ppl will grab it and start to jerk it immediately. I think is such a turn off. 

 

It should be treated with light touches from balls to head. Very very light touches. This can make me high immensely.. 

[Jonathandliai]

everyday once before bed to help with sleep. if hard n horny when wake up, milk again. super horny, can milk multiple times a day.

[camboy_xxx1]

Once or twice per day