Masturbation / Jacking Off Discussion - Learn From Who? When? Where? [Home, Work, Public?] How Often & What Techniques? How Many Times is too much? (Compiled)

[Guest Luv2wait]

I usually try to not jerk off for a week even though I might watch porn during the course of the week. Until like Thursday or weekend then I’d jerk like three or four times. I realise I have a lot of precum and cum a lot.

 

I love to jerk only when I have precum. So if I jerk everyday then won’t have precum - not shiok for me.

 

anyone produces a lot of precum when you j/o? How often do you j/o to produce alot of precum?

[Guest Cum@lot]

I precum alot when I watch porn when I masterbate. Do you all watch porn when you masterbate? 

[Zealouslogue]

On 4/6/2021 at 11:56 PM, Guest Cum@lot said:

I precum alot when I watch porn when I masterbate. Do you all watch porn when you masterbate? 

I do watch porn but i don't masturbate. I cum hands- free. 

[Gozu]

Anyone gets an erection or lost your erection when u stick ur finger into ur arse ? 

Edited October 7, 2021 by Gozu

[GachiMuchi]

On 6/22/2021 at 11:55 PM, Zealouslogue said:

I do watch porn but i don't masturbate. I cum hands- free. 

 

There is a special group of people who will cum hands free just by playing with their nipples.

[Zealouslogue]

4 minutes ago, Gozu said:

Anyway, gets an erection or lost your erection when u stick ur finger into ur arse ? 

Would you keep your erection if i stick my finger into your ass? You can keep masturbating, lol. 

[Zealouslogue]

3 minutes ago, GachiMuchi said:

 

There is a special group of people who will cum hands free just by playing with their nipples.

Oh! But i cum WITHOUT touching anything, lol. Just by watching hot, steamy porn. 

[GachiMuchi]

15 minutes ago, Zealouslogue said:

Oh! But i cum WITHOUT touching anything, lol. Just by watching hot, steamy porn. 

 

Lagi jialak, PME.

Pre Mature Ejaculation!

[Zealouslogue]

2 minutes ago, GachiMuchi said:

 

Lagi jialak, PME.

Pre Mature Ejaculation!

Yes! Feels so good, though. You want jialat, jialat ah? 🤣

[NeverAsk]

On 7/17/2021 at 11:29 PM, GachiMuchi said:

 

There is a special group of people who will cum hands free just by playing with their nipples.

Saw that on porn, but never see in real life 😄

[NeverAsk]

On 4/6/2021 at 4:33 PM, gucici said:

Some ppl will grab it and start to jerk it immediately. I think is such a turn off. 

 

It should be treated with light touches from balls to head. Very very light touches. This can make me high immensely.. 

Love the slow and soft touch... 👍

[NeverAsk]

On 9/5/2020 at 3:53 PM, LeanMature said:

For younger guys, the urge to masturbate is stronger and thus more often.  You won't enjoy the same intensity and sensitivity at older age, so do it more often before you lose it.

Totally agree, just do it when you feel like it, or else you might regret for not doing it enough when young 😄

[And then]

On 10/5/2021 at 2:05 AM, NeverAsk said:

Saw that on porn, but never see in real life 😄

I saw it once, in Spa world Osaka.

It was freaky!

The guy was lying face up, eyes closed (pretending to be sleeping?), and then... boom, eruption!

[Guest Curious]

I was a late bloomer. I was the pure, innocent, super guai one and I am still sort of like that lol.

 

My naught friend sort of taught me how to jerk off in sec 1 but I ignored him. In sec 4, boys started to talk more and joke about it. I felt left out. I tried but I didnt get it. I think I didn’t try hard enough until I came. I was quite desperate. I almost wanted to ask my friend how to do it, but I didn’t.

 

My first masturbation was because I got wet dream two days in a row and it was so mafan to have cum stained shorts. I forced myself to do it until I cum. however, I found it quite underwhelming. It was not as amazing as I expected, but I still keep doing it until now haha.

[NeverAsk]

On 10/5/2021 at 4:53 PM, And then said:

I saw it once, in Spa world Osaka.

It was freaky!

The guy was lying face up, eyes closed (pretending to be sleeping?), and then... boom, eruption!

Interesting... 😄

[shenalone]

On 10/5/2021 at 10:37 PM, Guest Curious said:

I was a late bloomer. I was the pure, innocent, super guai one and I am still sort of like that lol.

 

My naught friend sort of taught me how to jerk off in sec 1 but I ignored him. In sec 4, boys started to talk more and joke about it. I felt left out. I tried but I didnt get it. I think I didn’t try hard enough until I came. I was quite desperate. I almost wanted to ask my friend how to do it, but I didn’t.

 

My first masturbation was because I got wet dream two days in a row and it was so mafan to have cum stained shorts. I forced myself to do it until I cum. however, I found it quite underwhelming. It was not as amazing as I expected, but I still keep doing it until now haha.

Hahaha the first cum was confusing but after it's just shiok hahaha. 

 

Secondary 2 never teach you about the organs? And then make you more curious? Hahaha I was super curious I read about it before I even started secondary 2 after buying the books 

 

The first time I masturbated I was like what's that I can shoot white things out haha and without an erection. 

[Guest Curious]

On 10/6/2021 at 12:15 PM, shenalone said:

Hahaha the first cum was confusing but after it's just shiok hahaha. 

 

Secondary 2 never teach you about the organs? And then make you more curious? Hahaha I was super curious I read about it before I even started secondary 2 after buying the books 

 

The first time I masturbated I was like what's that I can shoot white things out haha and without an erection. 

as I mentioned before, I was and still am the pure innocent kind. I wasn’t curious nor interested about it. I tried but I guess it took too long and then I stopped. The one that pushed me to get my first masturbation was the hassle of stained short lol.

 

I am very vanilla as well, like just do one variation lol. Being here kinda made my imagination wilder but still havent done anything more than my left and right hand haha.

[shenalone]

On 10/6/2021 at 2:34 PM, Guest Curious said:

as I mentioned before, I was and still am the pure innocent kind. I wasn’t curious nor interested about it. I tried but I guess it took too long and then I stopped. The one that pushed me to get my first masturbation was the hassle of stained short lol.

 

I am very vanilla as well, like just do one variation lol. Being here kinda made my imagination wilder but still havent done anything more than my left and right hand haha.

Haha wet dreams it's really a nightmare blanket will be wet too xD. I think it's normal to not have done anything wild all you need is a wild imagination to make your masturbation exciting 

[Guest Curious]

On 10/6/2021 at 2:24 PM, shenalone said:

Haha wet dreams it's really a nightmare blanket will be wet too xD. I think it's normal to not have done anything wild all you need is a wild imagination to make your masturbation exciting 

it was never a dream for me. I always wake up and feel my didi stood up. It is always too late to go to toilet.

 

recently I feel I enjoy it slightly more maybe because I’m getting hornier and my imaginations getting wilder? Haha.

[shenalone]

On 10/6/2021 at 4:02 PM, Guest Curious said:

it was never a dream for me. I always wake up and feel my didi stood up. It is always too late to go to toilet.

 

recently I feel I enjoy it slightly more maybe because I’m getting hornier and my imaginations getting wilder? Haha.

It really a dream just that you cannot remember haha, and especially those sex dream you wake up almost ejaculate that one is even more scary xD

 

Usually if watch too much and never shoot will end up wet dreaming.

[Guest Curious]

On 10/6/2021 at 3:35 PM, shenalone said:

It really a dream just that you cannot remember haha, and especially those sex dream you wake up almost ejaculate that one is even more scary xD

 

Usually if watch too much and never shoot will end up wet dreaming.

hmmm it’s like I am always awake when I was about to erupt the volcano. I never experienced wake up and found it wet haha.

 

i mean I kinda enjoy jerking off more recently lol. I experienced once that I jerked off almost midnight, saw/watch some stuffs before sleep and a few hours later got another eruption haha. And it was when I was in my late 20s. It’s so unpredictable.

[mantin30]

On 10/6/2021 at 5:33 PM, Guest Curious said:

hmmm it’s like I am always awake when I was about to erupt the volcano. I never experienced wake up and found it wet haha.

 

i mean I kinda enjoy jerking off more recently lol. I experienced once that I jerked off almost midnight, saw/watch some stuffs before sleep and a few hours later got another eruption haha. And it was when I was in my late 20s. It’s so unpredictable.

It just happened to me 2 days ago. I slept early and woke up early. Just wanted so badly for a man. And I jerked off. And then continue to sleep after that. I didnt expect to have wet dream after that and the feeling is much better than jerking off. So much muscle contractions going down there. 

[Guest Curious]

On 10/6/2021 at 5:35 PM, mantin30 said:

It just happened to me 2 days ago. I slept early and woke up early. Just wanted so badly for a man. And I jerked off. And then continue to sleep after that. I didnt expect to have wet dream after that and the feeling is much better than jerking off. So much muscle contractions going down there. 

I never like the feeling of wet dream. I never enjoy myself. All I think is to save my bed and blanket from the burst haha. Maybe I should try to let it go naturally, but I will end up sleeping on smelly and cum stained bed.

[shenalone]

On 10/6/2021 at 7:03 PM, Guest Curious said:

I never like the feeling of wet dream. I never enjoy myself. All I think is to save my bed and blanket from the burst haha. Maybe I should try to let it go naturally, but I will end up sleeping on smelly and cum stained bed.

You won't know until you wake up but down there wet wet haha, I remember once it's quite dry already I was like wtf my blanket gonna be dirty... Then quickly wake up and smell the blanket where the cum stain at and clean it 

[Guest Curious]

On 10/6/2021 at 6:09 PM, shenalone said:

You won't know until you wake up but down there wet wet haha, I remember once it's quite dry already I was like wtf my blanket gonna be dirty... Then quickly wake up and smell the blanket where the cum stain at and clean it 

the thing is all my life all I got is wet awake lol. I always suddenly wake up and realized that my didi is growing. Then I try to run for my life but always failed. Maybe I should just take off my blanket and let it flow naturally haha.

 

Ok, I need to watch some stuffs tonight before sleep XD

[Guest Shaky Jerky]

Is once a week too much?  Thinking of cutting it down further as we aged.

[tapsilog]

every night. except when i had sex earlier the day or get home and too sleepy to do it.

[Guest Neh Neh Pok]

Hourly

[Guest Shaky Jerky]

On 4/16/2022 at 10:14 AM, Guest Neh Neh Pok said:

Hourly

You milking Cows or what?

On 4/16/2022 at 10:03 AM, tapsilog said:

every night. except when i had sex earlier the day or get home and too sleepy to do it.

I used to be like you, daily and sometime twice a day if too horny.  After reaching certain age, I no longer find cruising exciting and also tend to touch my "private area" lesser and lesser each passing year.    Not sure whether other people can relate, though I still see many old uncles cruising in the toilet.  I just can't.

[FlippantMount]

It depends. If I'm horny enough, two to three times a day. Otherwise, once every one or two weeks. There were whole months when I went without it as well.

[Guest Shaky Jerky]

On 4/16/2022 at 11:41 AM, FlippantMount said:

It depends. If I'm horny enough, two to three times a day. Otherwise, once every one or two weeks. There were whole months when I went without it as well.

You can fluctuate so drastically "down there"?  I used to be consistent, whether horny or not.  It was like part of my daily routine to whip it out, but now no more.  If I see a good looking guy signalling to me to have sex,  I will still need to hesitate.  In the past, I will quickly jump into bed without a 2nd thought or used force on people to have sex with me.  Now,  I became unbelievably decent.  I think we all have a phase in life.

[FlippantMount]

On 4/16/2022 at 11:57 AM, Guest Shaky Jerky said:

You can fluctuate so drastically "down there"?  I used to be consistent, whether horny or not.  It was like part of my daily routine to whip it out, but now no more.  If I see a good looking guy signalling to me to have sex,  I will still need to hesitate.  In the past, I will quickly jump into bed without a 2nd thought or used force on people to have sex with me.  Now,  I became unbelievably decent.  I think we all have a phase in life.

Yeah. The side effect of long term anti-depressants. Emotions/feelings are dampened and flatten.

[tapsilog]

the say masturbating helps the prostate. Im just trynna be healthy. hihi

[Guest Shaky Jerky]

On 4/16/2022 at 12:11 PM, tapsilog said:

the say masturbating helps the prostate. Im just trynna be healthy. hihi

Yes, it does help to pee smoothly and in large quantity. 

[Guest married man]

i don't. my boy does not allow me to masturbate. he will eat me at least 2 to 3 times a week and offer his ass to be fucked. he doesnt like me to waste energy to masturbate.

[DiDing]

Well first time was pretty much just hearing about it from friends and damn the was like in P6 and did a yahoo search and found out about how to do it. Stroked a few times feeling good and suddenly a huge amount of clear fluids came out with some specks of yellow. Was really shocked cos I wasn't prepared for it and it got everywhere. And I was frantically looking for tissues to clean it up.

 

Well eventually got hold of more techniques and ways to masturbate and the latest way was to do it hands free playing only the nipples. It's such a strange but fun way to do it.

[Guest Guest chi40]

Newbie here...

 

First time heard this concept of masturbation is when my dad told me about the facts of life. He said it is natural to want to do it but don't do too often or will get weak. At most once a week. Maybe he's not good at explaining but I didn't really understand what he meant. I was  almost 12 but not yet reach puberty yet so didn't know why got thing come out from my cock. Always thought only urine come out. 

 

Fast forward the next year in secondary school. A guy from the next class was talking about it & sharing his experiences with the small group of boys sitting close by. I joined in to see what's so interesting. He said that if you play with your cock (rub it up & down), then white color liquid will squirt out. Only then I connected the dots. By then both parents worked so one afternoon, I got curious & tried. First time, lots of cum and my prostate was aching. 

 

Tried again a few days later & it felt better. Then started to jerk off regularly, in my teens I could masturbate 3 times a day. Then I read some where that a guy could masturbate 7 a day. Tried that but my cock hurt like it could drop off. As I get older, I do it every few days or I find a hook up. 

[GachiMuchi]

 

[repulsivefudge]

first time cum was just diff. before that usually it would be hard and leak pre cum. but them one day i just rubbed and rubbed and then white stuff came out. 

[QinWei]

i noticed i tend to like in a row of 2-3days have the urges to do it 

but then die off after that,  the cycle of once 2-3days repeat again after a few days....

How do u guys cool yourself down? I will do it esp if i went home empty at those saunas

[Jo L]

Anyone wants to share experience they had in masturbation circles? What sort of masturbation games did you play with your group members?

A usual game I played was jerk off the guy on your left. We start by drawing numbers. Winning the game, we had a few variations. From the last guy to cum or yet to cum after everyone else shoots to clean up the cum mess, to the guy that lasted the longest without cumming, to have a choice of fucking any of the guys that cum earlier.

[Guest Thor]

It's not like I'm a teenager with raging hormones or anything. I'm in my thirties, and I've got a great life. I have a nice home, a successful career, and a loving family. But for some reason, I just can't seem to control my urges.

 

Yes, I touch myself about 5 times a day, and sometimes even more. And on days when I don't have work or anything else to do, I spend the whole day just doing it.

 

It started as a way to relieve stress. I was feeling overwhelmed at work and needed an outlet. I figured I could take care of myself without having to involve anyone else. I never intended to make it a habit, but before I knew it, I was doing it multiple times a day.

 

At first, I thought it was helping. I felt more relaxed and had more energy. But as time went on, I noticed that I was becoming more and more tired.

 

My energy levels were dropping, and I couldn't stay focused on my work. I started needing naps during the day, and my nights were filled with restless sleep. 

 

I thought it was just because I was getting older and my body wasn't as resilient as it used to be. But then I realized that it was because of all the time I was spending pleasuring myself. 

 

I was getting tired even when I wasn't doing anything. I was having a hard time focusing on my work, and I was starting to feel like I was losing my motivation to do anything. I was so exhausted all the time that I couldn't even make it to the gym anymore. I was starting to become a shell of my former self.

 

I have since cut down to about 2 times a day, and although i am seeing a bit of improvement, I still feel tired physically.

 

And it doesn't help that everytime I'm home alone, I just have this very intense and overwhelming urge to just go to p-hub, or when I see pretty girls and I just get tempted again.

Anyone else going through the same thing? I would love to hear from you guys about how you deal with this kind of thing.