[Hiv Support Group] Looking For People Who Are Hiv + Poz For Poz (Compiled)

[Indbottom]

On 1/24/2023 at 2:40 PM, lonelyguy28 said:

Any lonely poz in Singapore seeking LTR? PM with your stats to get the ball rolling.

Hi would like to knw u. Jus chat and see how things go. Positive here. 

 

Edited April 7, 2024 by Indbottom
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[Indbottom]

Why not have a telegram chat group for positive ppl or is there a positive channel where we can chat. Maybe can chat discreetly. 

[Greenman]

Good day any telegram for this group. 

 

Helping a friend.

 

Please PM me. Thank you. 

[Poz90]

Hey all. Anyone here for friends/chats?

 

If there are any tele groups or sth would be good too

[mx67]

Seek friends/LTR with poz+ interested do drop me a msg

[lonelyguy28]

Hi. Any poz seeking dates and settle down? Feeling lonely these days. PM with your intro to start the ball rolling.

[SagiA]

Hi. I m looking for LTR with fellow poz/UD.

 

Myself: Chn, 40, flex btm. 165cm 80kg. Muscular stocky build. UD for few years already. Am financially independent. Loves travelling, music, movies, shopping, nature. Gyms 4x a week. Dislikes cf, wild orgies & the like. Not into saunas. Am a scorpio, so would prefer fellow water or earth signs. I love muscles hehe. Down to earth.

 

You: Mature >45 yrs old. Muscular stocky build like me. Prefer flex top. Similar hobbies like me so we can do things & grow together. Looking to settle down. 

 

If this is you, and i m what you're looking for, hit me up! 

[cutegeek]

Just curious, any Malaysians in this thread.

[pozasianboyy95]

anyone?

[Hugsforyou]

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Edited June 8, 2023 by Hugsforyou

[Hugsforyou]

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Edited March 3, 2024 by Hugsforyou

[PosPOZ2023]

Hi all

 

I have recently been diagnosed poz and been on treatment for a month. 
would like to find out if there’s a chat group (telegram/WhatsApp) I could join?

 

thanks 

 

J

Edited June 29, 2023 by PosPOZ2023

[waverman123]

Hi there, 

 

Does anyone have experience on disclosing hiv+ status to dates or loved ones?
wanted to understand your experience and how you overcome some of the challenges...

 

thanks!

[Tommy vietnam]

HIV infected rate in Singapore high in SEA?

[mx67]

Seek chn friends/LTR above 40 with poz+ interested do drop me a msg

[card3290]

Hi all, seeking fellow poz ud for friends, dates, chats and more... PM me on my tele @card3290.

[Sonador]

On 6/29/2023 at 5:22 PM, PosPOZ2023 said:

Hi all

 

I have recently been diagnosed poz and been on treatment for a month. 
would like to find out if there’s a chat group (telegram/WhatsApp) I could join?

 

thanks 

 

J

I would like to start the telegram group for us to share experience and support. You can pm me. Group will be discreet and screened through and non-judgmental. 

[Balestier]

3 hours ago, Sonador said:

I would like to start the telegram group for us to share experience and support. You can pm me. Group will be discreet and screened through and non-judgmental. 

Please note that hiv+ members may not be comfortable to show their contacts on the chat group. Please ensure security and  privacy if you are going to set it up and be sensitive

Edited January 26, 2024 by Balestier

[WeAreNotAlone]

If you need a friend, a buddy or someone just to hold hands … I’m happy to be doing it with you 🙏. 

[am_btm_4_u]

...............

Edited June 1, 2024 by am_btm_4_u

[G_M]

On 3/28/2024 at 4:59 AM, Michaelcold said:

Slammed myself fully nude at [Remove by mod]

 

Slam

Urban Dictionary

https://www.urbandictionary.com › define › term=Slam

 

The term used when injecting speed (crystal methamphetamine), via syringe, into your blood. Looking to slam. Come on over, we're already slammed. We're slamming ...

 

Banned for drug abuse.

 

[jason212]

6 more months to 10 years living with HIV. Time flies indeed. I have not been back on this forum for a long time. I wonder if guys posted here before are all doing well. I am not entirely sure if I will ever have to courage to tell anyone about my status. I have decided to live my life with this hidden secret. It seems to have worked well for the past 9 years. Decided to pop in here again. Hello Guys, Hope you are doing well. 

[1983rophi]

This week N.U.H. Confirmed i am infected(   not H.I.V. But its spreads by blood & anal sex ) so for the next year:

No Sex. 

                                    

According to the public health system/protocol, they checked> did i have sex the past 6 Months.

                           

Sorry but if u private-message me,

i will delete coz i don't wanna talk about it. Next week i see the SOCIAL WORKER & one month from now:

i start treatment. 

[1983rophi]

I'll be honest with u, 

i spent an hour with a Doc in private practice, DOCTOR LEONG HOE NAM & he gave me 3 pieces of advice, his words changed my life.

                                           

my liver specialist at N.U.H. Doctor Claire did a bad job explaining my current infection so this is what Dr. Leong told me this week at the Consultation:

 

"sheez, aiyoh, Sorry to hear. Do u have any idea how you got this? 

Yes, you are in trouble. 

It means you have a virus in your body that is replicating. Your blood can spread infection from one person to another. U need to do additional blood tests. U had the disease for many mths already. So waiting an extra month won't matter very much. ***I need you to curtail all these activities strictly.*** And whoever has sex with you now, risk getting XXX too. REMEMBER!!! When u have sex u mite pick up a new strain (So> no sex) & complicate things."

 

i am not mad with Doctor Claire(NUH), in fact, when the N.E.H.R. labelling me as Gay & Partnered, i feel doctors in public Svc feel scared/sad/disgusted:

GAY MEN ARE HAVING ANAL & SPREADING THIS VIRUS. 

[1983rophi]

i have gd news to share, after seeing Dr. Leong i Whatsapp my D & M & sister & passed-them-doc-Leong's

                        

mobile & i told them: i am infected.

I am thankful,

                         

This Virus spreads thru blood & sex so my Parents don't worry about using/sharing utensils with me. 

 

the last time i had a S.T.D. 

i hide/kept it from them for 6mths =(

[1983rophi]

On 3/23/2024 at 5:33 PM, WeAreNotAlone said:

If you need a friend, a buddy or someone just to hold hands … I’m happy to be doing it with you 🙏. 

Thanks Brother =0)

[1983rophi]

On 4/2/2023 at 6:55 PM, lonelyguy28 said:

Hi. Any poz seeking dates and settle down? Feeling lonely these days. PM with your intro to start the ball rolling.

How to settle down? 

My virus/infection scares-the-hell

 

of gay men. I want to settle dn but finding a Guy > acceptance of my poor health > i assume is 1% of the gay population. 

[1983rophi]

On 4/16/2023 at 9:12 PM, SagiA said:

Hi. I m looking for LTR with fellow poz/UD.

 

Myself: Chn, 40, flex btm. 165cm 80kg. Muscular stocky build. UD for few years already. Am financially independent. Loves travelling, music, movies, shopping, nature. Gyms 4x a week. Dislikes cf, wild orgies & the like. Not into saunas. Am a scorpio, so would prefer fellow water or earth signs. I love muscles hehe. Down to earth.

 

You: Mature >45 yrs old. Muscular stocky build like me. Prefer flex top. Similar hobbies like me so we can do things & grow together. Looking to settle down. 

 

If this is you, and i m what you're looking for, hit me up! 

Thx for ur post. I am stocky. 

Not muscular. Maybe u can train me in my Gym to be muscular =0)

[1983rophi]

On 7/30/2023 at 5:15 PM, waverman123 said:

Hi there, 

 

Does anyone have experience on disclosing hiv+ status to dates or loved ones?
wanted to understand your experience and how you overcome some of the challenges...

 

thanks!

Hi. Please read what i posted today. Thx =0)

[WeAreNotAlone]

I think even if you are undetectable, it’s awkward to open up to potential non hiv person u meet.  Even if it’s  “no need to disclose”, it’s still weird. Unless it’s a ons thing, how are you going to come clean if the person eventually become a partner/bf? Anyway, just my 2 cents on this …. 
 - Blood donation is a NO go, do take note.

Edited February 24, 2025 by WeAreNotAlone

[1983rophi]

Please don't reply to my post, if u aren't saying something constructive, TQ.

 

Last Yr i went to a Sauna& had sex & a guy/gay infected me with a S.T.D.

 

i feel judged:

 

Why? 

Everytime i do a random-blood-test, in 2025, before my apptmt to see my Specialist for my yearly consultation... Confirm the Doctor will order H.I.V. 

for my blood test. 

 

(as of today i am HIV negative🎉🎊)

[twistoff8]

In a world that has unlimited possibilities, only stupidity managed to limit their view to the pond unobstructed by it's only quality. Often, it always surprises me how familiar the smell is, the colour, the textures. After all, I was cooked in the same pot with the same ingredients, how did I managed to love the things I love and laugh at the things I laughed and talk to Tim about the things I talked to Tim about?

 

When I was given options, I didn't know what to choose. I thought it's gonna be ok, but it didn't. I had blindsided myself of possibilities by choosing. I was told it gets easier, better. It didn't. I just got more jaded that's all. My corners became more calloused and I navigate them with skill, rounding them firmer.

 

Tim is my rock. If you must know. When my only foundation can no longer be leaned on, I knew its time. It's my turn to be his rock. Only Tim deserves my patience, padded from my acidity, protected by the love I have for him, even if less is more, because he is Tim.

 

My world is breathable because there has been many possibilities who are willing to open even more possibilities that I cannot see. Once it had been nothing but an abyss of emptiness and negativity. Even at that extremity, something in my bones held when every cell in me had broken down.

 

I ask myself again. Why? What happened? Who? Where? When? How? Repeat.

 

Tim said, what will be will be, qué sera Sera.

[pozasianboyy95]

for anyone feeling lost, whether you're newly diagnosed or still can't get over it, and would like someone to speak to, feel free to reach out 

[kidster]

Is there anyone on Prep and taking it diligently but still get infected with HIV? 

 

Just trying to find out how effective is Prep if taken correctly from the practitioners. 

[cutegeek]

just curious, do you still have fun (lite or heavy) with U=U status. I know it is taboo (maybe) but just wondering how do you satisfy your urges.

[Saggiboy]

On 6/24/2025 at 8:43 AM, kidster said:

Is there anyone on Prep and taking it diligently but still get infected with HIV? 

 

Just trying to find out how effective is Prep if taken correctly from the practitioners. 

My friend on prep, only do it raw with his UD buddy every single time. 

Looks like no issues at all for them.

[Naughtyjackson]

Before starting a relationship, would you take the initiative to be honest about your personal situation?

 

[kevin]

14 hours ago, Naughtyjackson said:

Before starting a relationship, would you take the initiative to be honest about your personal situation?

 

When getting to know the person… probably no ba. 
but once things starting to get serious. Especially if sex is involve, eventho you’re U=U, better to be honest. Save the heartache. 

[Naughtyjackson]

23 hours ago, kevin said:

When getting to know the person… probably no ba. 
but once things starting to get serious. Especially if sex is involve, eventho you’re U=U, better to be honest. Save the heartache. 

Unfortunately, not everyone thinks so

[sgwildfire18]

On 6/30/2025 at 3:31 PM, Saggiboy said:

My friend on prep, only do it raw with his UD buddy every single time. 

Looks like no issues at all for them.

I'm not positive but not sure if u guys are aware HIV medication / prep causes kidney damage .. I know a friend who is HIV+ and takes medication to get to UD but his kidney function is progressively impacted. Hence for those who are on prep .. rather than take prep regularly ... it may be better to take prep on demand .. give your kidneys a chance to recover.

Edited November 23, 2025 by sgwildfire18

[kevin]

59 minutes ago, Naughtyjackson said:

Unfortunately, not everyone thinks so

It is still a very sensitive topic. Unless your potential partner is super understanding type. thennnn sure. 

[Poz94]

Hello all. Fellow 31yo poz here. Undetectable since 2016. Looking for connections and friends. Getting rather lonely 😅. 

[PoZ83]

Is there a tele group for poz pple?

[playfulpleisaur]

Open for casual chats on living with HIV.

 

Been having it for 15 years and counting now, and on medication throughout all of it.

[velink]

Got diagnosed since Dec 2022, get treated since May 2023.. But I know I got it on 2017.

[Kimochi]

Anybody posted this before?? 4 years ago video ~

 

 

[QinWei]

On 12/28/2025 at 5:53 PM, velink said:

Got diagnosed since Dec 2022, get treated since May 2023.. But I know I got it on 2017.

But why the gap? 
 

2017 gotten it yet only get it diagnosed end 2022? 5yr gap?

[Kye]

If only HIV drugs was avail back in 1990s, then freddy Mercury will still be able to make many more wonderful rocks for us...

 

[QinWei]

His is ONLY detected 

8 years later after having fun w a gal -during Uni 
https://www.xiaohongshu.com/explore/69d45cff000000001a0240a1?xsec_token=ABsUrILEembaeL2n2DxCHo38pfMWscc5XjHO4nYHokVXI=&xsec_source=pc_feed

and he is not too old yet

but i admit @ diff stage of life and at diff income group will impact our experience! before graduation also make an impact

we do not assume and nothing is foolproof in this world 

 

 

 

 

 

On 9/5/2018 at 12:34 AM, jerseyboys said:

so sorry u have to face this alone & hide it... 

                 

Sadly i am in no position help u, why? Facing this new diagnosis at ur 20s...is very different from what a guy in his 30s faces...

 

On 7/28/2018 at 9:52 AM, lostintranslation said:

pay for everything myself with no financial aid so I guess I can’t retire at age 35

 

 

On 8/2/2018 at 4:45 PM, Guest Poz1994 said:

24mly here. diagnosed in 2016. Been on medications since. Now viral load below 20(lower limit). Sometimes can get quite lonely. Noone in the family nor friends know about me. Pulling myself through university, health as well as financial burdens of HIV treatment.( I couldn't get 100% subsidy/medifund,  just 75% medical assistance fund) Anyway, I still managed to pull through till now, and I hope this goes on forever.

 

 

 

On 9/4/2018 at 11:59 PM, SomeGuest said:

m in northenwest side of malaysia. I am still a student 22 this year . I cant tell anyone i know about this but i hope i could get some emotional support here

 

[habibi_bear]

Recently got diagnosed in March’2026

Started treatment on April’2026

 

I am 28 years of age. and this is my self-reflection/story.

 

Back in February 2026, went to Bangkok, celebrated my birthday had fun. After a week, i was back in Singapore (home). Something felt off, i was having high fever , non stop vomiting and diarrhoea for 3-4 weeks. Lose about 13 KG of weight. Admitted to hospital twice in that 4 weeks. Initially, was told it was a parasite, but on the day of discharge of my second admission, the doctors wanted to do an HIV screen and i was like “sure go ahead” .

 

What was running in my head - “ Nahh it will never happen to me” 

 

The next day, i received a call, that call changed me. I was in shocked. My reality felt fake. I even told the doctor “ you are sure that is my result? like is this just a pre-result “ When he says “ No this is confirm, we will arrange an ID to see you and she will explain more”
 

I got to see my ID 2 weeks after that call.

 

In that 2 weeks, my head was a messed.. i was in disbelief, i felt dirty. I wasn’t sure how to break the news to my bestfriends, family. 

 

However, on the day of that call, i knew i had to tell my dad. that evening , i sad down with him and broke the news. I cried and he cried . And the words he uttered “ You will always be my son, and we will get through this together”

 

I felt blessed and grateful , after him, i told my 2 best friend and they were supportive too. 

 

Now,im on my 2nd month on treatment. i started back working out and living the truth. Even i go for interviews, they asked to declare i do. HIV is not a death sentence. 

 

I am sharing my story because in my dark times, i realised how i been taking life, health, family and friends for granted. HIV doesn’t define me. My actions, character and how i move on with it does.

 

Even though i am single , and yearn for a partner, i know i wouldn’t  take him for granted if he is to appear one day.