Questions For Bottoms: Do You Like To Be Fingered?

[Guest Idunlikefingers]

I am bottom but I dislike the feeling of finger up my arse. It is extremely uncomfortable. Maybe due to the hardness of the fingernails. Wonder why the top assume bottoms like to be fingered.

[lonely57]

trim the nails before u finger?

[Dorkable]

Yes, I do.

[Kwon]

In my experience, its totally depends on individuals. I ussd my fingers to relax my partner not to feel painful when i top him. But some of them told me he didnt like it. Reason is diverse. Because of my nails even i cut shortly. Sometimes they dont like the emotional feeling that i put my finger into his ass. So they prefer to use my dick slowly. After some experiences, i ask them to use finger or not.

Same problem is on prostate stimulating sex. I like to stimulate my partners prostate, and make them cum during pistoning, but some doesnt like it because they feel like peeing. Maybe you can tell to your partner and find some better way.

[fab]

Basic tops module 101.

 

Tops do not keep finger nails.

Edited January 9, 2016 by fab

[Guest]

Yes, after rimming. Loosening up the boy pussy. And the nails must be cut though. Love it when the top says the number of fingers too. Kinky!

[Blacque]

Actually no .. i keep worrying about the dirt on his fingers after that

 

Afraid that he might ask you to lick his fingers? 

[Guest Guest]

Isn't it hot to have the 肉随砧板上 feeling of vulnerability?

[fab]

Actually no .. i keep worrying about the dirt on his fingers after that

 

do u think there r more dirt on his fingers or your anal?

[Guest alexisss]

If the person fingers well.

Once meet this bisexual ah beng in cruise.

He got a small dick but when he finger...

Oh.my.god.!

Never been fingered like that before; it was like in heaven. Overwhelming till the point it was pre cumming bloody alot and almost wanted to cum. It was better than having a dick. His finger really massage the prostate very well. And when he vibrate his hands. Gosh! Orgasmic.

Should have kept his contact.

[solomondude]

I like to finger my bottoms when he is about to cum.

My index finger (or using both fingers) will pulse like a mad twitch.

After many practices I know how does a prostate feels like. It's like a small lumpy wall firm when pressed.

[Guest Idunlikefingers]

Whether the nails are cut or not, the hardness of them make the penetration extremely uncomfortable. Does using gloves help?

[Btmbtm1069]

Top must slowly fingering btm. Btm will enjoy it of course if enought relax and lubrication. Haha

[whywhy]

I enjoy anal masturbation but surprisingly, didn't enjoy my first and last gay sex, only a few seconds and i stopped him.

[Clickclock]

actually, no, most of the times, the fingernails will scratch my anus and it will hurt. Unless the fingerer is bale to mimick the feel of a cock in my ass.

[darkflame]

Depends on the technique!

[JYAG-sim]

Oh yes, definitely! It's my Achilles heel. Damn it! (That being said, keeping nails trimmed is very important.)

[Winnie]

No, please don't finger me, especially not when you did not trim your nails, and not when you just touch your precum before putting on condom, so terrified when you remove your dick to finger in more lube while I still on my fours

[azimuth]

If the worry is over dirt and nails (seems like these are the main concerns), maybe can try putting a condom over the finger or try gloves? *shrugs*

[Qatch]

On Tuesday, January 05, 2016 at 0:17 AM, azimuth said:

If the worry is over dirt and nails (seems like these are the main concerns), maybe can try putting a condom over the finger or try gloves? *shrugs*

 

I dun think there will be many people who will do this though. 

[donkeykong11]

I'm a btm I had my first sex today and my daddy did it well he first slowly fingered me and then putting his dick in I felt like I was in heaven!! would love to have more of this kind of swx!! and it was raw sex!

[Tstumble769]

Don't mind being fingered but only if the top has really trimmed nails and lubes up well. Nothing is more off putting than a top that rams his finger(s) up my hole.

[Hornybtm]

Agree that sharp finger nails are not cool. If they're trimmed and buffed good, it's very enjoyable especially when I'm sucking him and he fingering me. 

[ZealousZeno]

Got to admit it does give a nice sensation :3. I do trip my nails and wash up before doing anything though (Always do that to keep it more hygienic) ~

[Sebastian Dylan Wang]

Not for me. It feels weird haha

[ren_tkd]

I love it. Fingering gets me super horny.

[nchehe]

yes, love the feeling of being wanted/dominated. must be a mental thing

[wdl_mix]

Delete 

Edited October 3, 2016 by wdl_mix

[Guest Guest]

Three fingers in my ass while being blowjob makes me shiok

[cutejack]

Anti climax story.lol

[Ritchie]

i like being fingered rather than the top pushing his cock right in because it will be painful and usually bleeds if his tool is big

Edited December 15, 2016 by Ritchie

[qedcwc]

I enjoy it, provided the fingernails are blunt and the person who does the fingering has good techniques.

[Guest Poopie]

Pse dun shit on the finger like in the other thread where someone shit (with corns some more) on his dick.

[Guest Cave]

Fingering is essential for properly loosening up most bottoms before fucking them. To avoid scratching the inner anal walls, tops should start wearing condoms on their finger(s) while fingering their bottoms, and some companies even manufacture specialized fingering condoms for this purpose.

[upshot]

10 hours ago, Guest Cave said:

Fingering is essential for properly loosening up most bottoms before fucking them. To avoid scratching the inner anal walls, tops should start wearing condoms on their finger(s) while fingering their bottoms, and some companies even manufacture specialized fingering condoms for this purpose.

 

Seriously a top SHOULD use a condom on their finger. You lucky MOST will bring ONE CONDOM and use that on their cock to fuck you left along waste another on his finger for you heheheh... For every 30 guys that fucked me, I am lucky he brought his own. I have to be the one to give a condom or there is no fucking taking place!

Edited December 16, 2016 by upshot

[Gary Changg]

Actually no due to the nails. Unless the nails are kept short, finger with a condom and plenty of lube, that's fine with me. 

[98boi]

For me nt really, cuz I always worry that shit might get onto his hands. Every time a top fingers me, I don't necessarily enjoy it, but its one of those things that you wont like, but its good for you later on when you have anal (tho I always end up backing out after fingering cuz I'm such a wuss)

[Guest Nega]

16 hours ago, 98boi said:

For me nt really, cuz I always worry that shit might get onto his hands. Every time a top fingers me, I don't necessarily enjoy it, but its one of those things that you wont like, but its good for you later on when you have anal (tho I always end up backing out after fingering cuz I'm such a wuss)

 

If you finally meet a top who you think is special, and are comfortable giving your ass to, I hope he is patient and considerate and good enough in bed to make you wonder why you didn't do it earlier. Just joking. In all seriousness, yes, fingering is good for bottoms even if they think they don't like it.

[riverrobles]

I really like to be fingered, regardless if I'm bottom or top :-)

It depends on the technique, starts with 1 and lots of lube . If someone whispers something naughty, licks my ears and my neck, I'm like an open buffet already.

[Guest Lalaland]

On 12/17/2016 at 10:58 PM, 98boi said:

For me nt really, cuz I always worry that shit might get onto his hands. Every time a top fingers me, I don't necessarily enjoy it, but its one of those things that you wont like, but its good for you later on when you have anal (tho I always end up backing out after fingering cuz I'm such a wuss)

Same sentiments exactly.

[AskMeNot]

On 12/16/2016 at 4:00 AM, Guest Cave said:

Fingering is essential for properly loosening up most bottoms before fucking them. To avoid scratching the inner anal walls, tops should start wearing condoms on their finger(s) while fingering their bottoms, and some companies even manufacture specialized fingering condoms for this purpose.

 

Agree. It feels more hygienic, like wearing gloves while handling food. 

[CumdrinkNgo]

prefers boneless meat than fingers

 

[repressednerd]

I like the fingering when I am being fondled elsewhere or even tongue kissed. Especially hot when the guy is on top of me and fingers me while his cock is jammed in my mouth.

[Backyard]

I don’t understand why you wanna finger when you have a bad nail maintenance... make sure your nail is SHORTS

[Hornybtm]

Yes I do enjoy getting fingered before being fucked. 

[Guest elgin3371 top]

where do you wipe your finger after came out from shithole?

did you sniff it?

[keyboard]

I think they should teach these in sex education in schools. The human anatomy.

 

There are different kinds of fingers. Fingers meant for fingering and fingers not meant for fingering. Use only those fingers with the flesh longer/covering than the fingernail. There are people, like me, with our nails at the shortest are still protruding beyond the flesh. Just stick the dick up there instead.

 

For those who don't like fingering. You just haven't met the right finger. Just like those who can't bottom, you haven't met the right dick. It is a physical thing, unless you lack the nerve endings as part of a normal human being.

[upshot]

4 hours ago, Guest elgin3371 top said:

where do you wipe your finger after came out from shithole?

did you sniff it?

 

Have a manpussy hole that is nicely cleaned out and you have worries where to wipe or not wipe... and nothing to smell. No worries. But that takes a lot of discipline and time to get it that clean. It is not only for him but for me too. Spend any hour or two and you come out with a asshole that is able to put out for long period of time... long then one guy is able to make full use of it. heheheh... thus... that is where the anal toys comes. in after which heheheh

[riverrobles]

I do enjoy and love it , again it depends on the fingering technique. I want it slow first , starts with one finger and of course with lots of lube and with me relaxed like what you see below.

[mike_amk]

That is a cool vid... Riverobles!!

it brings back memories of the first time I had a body massage by a Local Masseur.

I guess fingering is a skill... you need someone who knows what he is doing, and

to make it enjoyable and relaxing.

I feel that qualified Masseurs know that their fingernails must be kept well trimmed

so as not to injure their clients, I only trust a Masseur to finger massage my

butthole.

 

I don't think fingering is only for Bottom Guys,  I have a few close Top friends who

told me that they love to be fingered when they jerk-off.

There are too much Old-Fashioned stereotypes about Bottom or Top behaviours 

especially by asian gays... who have so much Rules or "traditional roles" to comply.

 

Further to what Upshot  mentioned in his post about deep cleaning your butthole,

well it sure works... and with a diet of high fiber foods, there is no problem with 

any smells or stuff on the fingers!!   hehe. 

 

Anyway... it is only shit...  you deal with it everyday... and if you have looked after

your siblings and wiped their bum after a poo... it is no big deal...!!

Some Tops behave like Faggoty Girls and scream if shit happens...!!

Be a Man ...!!.   for fuks sake guys.

 

Cheers, Mike   ;-)