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Steve5380 Posted December 28, 2018 Posted December 28, 2018 6 minutes ago, fab said: In Chinese culture we usually address guys in similar age group as our dad as uncles. Also in SG in general, old people tend to address people in 40s as uncles. Its their respectful way of addressing equivalent to Mister. "uncle" is a relative term. I have no uncles anymore, but for me, "aunt" is 93 years old, ha ha. And I would not consider a 40 y.o. an "uncle". But "middle age" is not relative. The dictionary defines as between 45 and 65 y.o. And "old age" starts at 65 y.o. These definitions may fit an ordinary man with wife and children, hard working, with a belly and already some chronic illnesses. My estimation of middle age starting around 60 is for a healthy gay man with good lifestyle, and "old" should not exist before 75.
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Cube3 Posted December 28, 2018 Posted December 28, 2018 2 hours ago, fab said: In Chinese culture we usually address guys in similar age group as our dad as uncles. Also in SG in general, old people tend to address people in 40s as uncles. Its their respectful way of addressing equivalent to Mister. Actually it is not respectful, because people get treated differently - usually worse - because of how they become 'labelled' as not being of the attractive or desired group.
Steve5380 Posted December 28, 2018 Posted December 28, 2018 19 minutes ago, Cube3 said: Actually it is not respectful, because people get treated differently - usually worse - because of how they become 'labelled' as not being of the attractive or desired group. Good point. What if a young looking athletic, healthy guy is the same age as Fab's father, should he still call him "uncle"? When I was in my 40s I would have disliked to be called "uncle", and now... it is totally inappropriate to call me "uncle" because... I am a grandfather
blowmenow Posted December 28, 2018 Posted December 28, 2018 hahaha.... neither do i like to be called uncle too!
LeanMature Posted December 28, 2018 Posted December 28, 2018 23 minutes ago, Cube3 said: Actually it is not respectful, because people get treated differently - usually worse - because of how they become 'labelled' as not being of the attractive or desired group. I think it's disrespectful if someone of your age group or older calling you uncle. Lol. blowmenow 1 Don't read and response to guests' post
oralb Posted December 28, 2018 Posted December 28, 2018 漓江大叔 他虽已年过半百 身体却还若猛男般刚强 bluerunner 1 When I Think It, I Do It, I Win It!
snowball Posted December 28, 2018 Posted December 28, 2018 25 minutes ago, oralb said: 漓江大叔 他虽已年过半百 身体却还若猛男般刚强 super hot sexy body it.
Guest Guest Posted December 28, 2018 Posted December 28, 2018 In the Philippines we call them dad, daddy or papa bear. We don't call the uncles because we are not relatives. Lol
Guest Fit Uncle Posted December 28, 2018 Posted December 28, 2018 37 minutes ago, oralb said: 漓江大叔 他虽已年过半百 身体却还若猛男般刚强 These examples maybe impressive but they are actually not helpful because they're so far beyond what most uncles able to achieve that they simply give up. You don't need to overdo it; you don't need 6 packs, just a flat tummy will do; You don't need bulging biceps, be able to do heavy lifting will do, You don't need huge pecs. When you flatten your tummy, you'll be surprised your pecs will be big in contrast, Just aim to be fit and healthy will do. I don't know when men get old they think they deserve to slow down and its their earned privilege to get lazy after slogging most of their early lives. They think that's enjoying life. But when poor health creeps in, then they are actually suffering more than when they're active working. Still they refuse to exercise because they want to be pampered like kids being served.
LeanMature Posted December 28, 2018 Posted December 28, 2018 1 hour ago, snowball said: super hot sexy body it. Agreed, rare jewel. Don't read and response to guests' post
Cube3 Posted December 28, 2018 Posted December 28, 2018 10 hours ago, oralb said: 漓江大叔 他虽已年过半百 身体却还若猛男般刚强 11 hours ago, LeanMature said: I think it's disrespectful if someone of your age group or older calling you uncle. Lol. Above is a good example. By definition he should be discussed under the Sexy/Hot/Cute/Cool Guys thread. But being labelled as 'Uncle' because of his age reduces him to a 'less desired' minority (practically fetish!) thread. The label 'Uncle' only brings you disrespect and discrimination - whether called by someone older or younger - and nobody should have to put up with it
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Chi 27 like old Posted December 31, 2018 Posted December 31, 2018 On 12/26/2018 at 12:58 PM, tall_big30 said: I am into this type of Uncle... hehe my type too. so handsome
Steve5380 Posted January 2, 2019 Posted January 2, 2019 On 12/30/2018 at 10:09 PM, Chi 27 like old said: my type too. so handsome I'll bet it takes at least 5 minutes a day of shaving artwork to keep that round bush of hairs neat.
Shavedboy Posted January 3, 2019 Posted January 3, 2019 I belong to this group I'm uncle already 35 here.
Steve5380 Posted January 3, 2019 Posted January 3, 2019 1 hour ago, Shavedboy said: I belong to this group I'm uncle already 35 here. From my perspective, at 35 you are still a youngster. Shavedboy 1
superflawless Posted January 4, 2019 Posted January 4, 2019 (edited) Link to article : http://www.ifuun.com/a2018072114911907/ Edited January 4, 2019 by superflawless More links Nwest 1
superflawless Posted January 4, 2019 Posted January 4, 2019 (edited) 56 year old hunk: https://3g.163.com/v/video/VJ2QPFCQ3.html Edited January 4, 2019 by superflawless
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Shavedboy Posted January 4, 2019 Posted January 4, 2019 I hope these bear guys can hug me and crush my body.
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Steve5380 Posted January 4, 2019 Posted January 4, 2019 1 hour ago, Shavedboy said: I hope these bear guys can hug me and crush my body. These are cases where it is wise to stay on top of things.
fab Posted January 4, 2019 Posted January 4, 2019 1 hour ago, Steve5380 said: These are cases where it is wise to stay on top of things. Sit on tops. 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿
Shavedboy Posted January 4, 2019 Posted January 4, 2019 I love cuddling those beary guys I feel secured.
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