Dear Straight People (compiled)

[Guest guest]

2 minutes ago, Guest PngPng said:

 

Pierre Png anytime!

He is really suave and attractive, nice body too!

Still can find other actors with nice body. 

[Guest hotguy]

3 hours ago, fab said:

Pp n 715 r head turners in persons.

 

James lye, tph n ix r equally attractive on n off TV. 

 

Allan Wu is tall and fit in real person. A typical prawn.

 

Steven and Lawrence wong are easily missed in person especially lw. 

 

Steven Lim has those kind of baby face that will look good even as he age but too bad i think he did not take care of his looks well.

 

I have seen James Lye a few times in CBD. I think some people turn to look at him cos they recognise him but not that he is a head-turner.

He have aged, does not look as good as before but still relatively charming and handsome.

Seems to have put on abit of weight but still alright, can see that he still try to maintain his physique.

If he wasn't a celebrity before, I will not turn to look at him.

 

Have seen Allan Wu a few times too in public. To be honest, he looks good. Handsome and have a very good bod.

He ozzes off sex appeal instantly - I will not hesitate to sleep with him immediately.

But he seems to have this 'hey, im a hot celebrity. come look at me' vibes which is quite turn off.

I always think that Allan Wu has nothing much to offer other than his bod and looks. Not prawn, but more like a male vase.

 

Seen Ix Shen twice. Still hot!

Cute and still fit. can tell he is still maintaining his bod.

Kinda friendly too. Will not hesitate to bed him.

 

[fab]

3 hours ago, Guest guest said:

715 does not seems to age and change a lot since he entered showbiz back then until today. Unlike many star search contestant changed drastically. But i always find 715 body looks weird and unnatural.

 

Allan wu is prawn? His face not cute?

 

Lawrence wong seems to get more and more cute. He is fair with big eyes, most guys looks cute in this way now.

 

The last I saw 715 almost 20 yrs ago, he was really hot n way hotter than on screen. I din recognise him at first but thought he was really hot. 

 

Allan is really tall and fit, if not for his height and physique I won't look at him.

 

Lw has a pretty face but that's just about all. He is really short like below 1.7 m. 

3 hours ago, Guest guest said:

Still can find other actors with nice body. 

 

But nice face body n height at the same time is rare.

 

 

[Guest Hok Eng]

Like metoo movement a! You don't want, you leave. Stay if you enjoy it. No drama.

[Guest Guest]

On 2/22/2019 at 11:11 AM, Steve5380 said:

 

I would choose to pay a dime for a dozen young twinks with nice toned bodies over an older gay with maintained body that comes free.

Why is that?

[TPYmuscle69]

Don’t want to sound like I’m off topic but if you have one wish to “teach” straight people about GLBT, would you wish for them to be turned into a gay persons as well, or have their kids, or a family member turned gay? Is this too much of a “retribution”? 

Asking this question because a close lady friend said she suspect her 14 yo son acting “weird” - not into girls, always go gym, go jogging at night, lots of cute guy friends, zero gf. I told her to be mentally prepared and that it wasn’t really a bad thing as that means she don’t need to put up with a haughty daughter-in-law in the future. Needless to say she doesn’t like to chat with me that much nowadays... 

[Steve5380]

3 minutes ago, TPYmuscle69 said:

Don’t want to sound like I’m off topic but if you have one wish to “teach” straight people about GLBT, would you wish for them to be turned into a gay persons as well, or have their kids, or a family member turned gay? Is this too much of a “retribution”? 

Asking this question because a close lady friend said she suspect her 14 yo son acting “weird” - not into girls, always go gym, go jogging at night, lots of cute guy friends, zero gf. I told her to be mentally prepared and that it wasn’t really a bad thing as that means she don’t need to put up with a haughty daughter-in-law in the future. Needless to say she doesn’t like to chat with me that much nowadays... 

 

Yes, I wish they would turn gay and have gay children.  Not so much for "retribution" but for pushing forwards the understanding that homosexuality is natural and morally neutral.

[fab]

9 minutes ago, Steve5380 said:

 

Yes, I wish they would turn gay and have gay children.  Not so much for "retribution" but for pushing forwards the understanding that homosexuality is natural and morally neutral.

 

Y retribution? 

 

Is being gay something negative from your pov?

[Steve5380]

4 hours ago, fab said:

 

Y retribution? 

 

Is being gay something negative from your pov?

 

WHAT??  Have you ever read anything I posted that is negative about homosexuality ??

 

"Retribution" could apply to those who are very anti-gay and then "gay" appears very close to them.  Like Dick Cheney (former US vice-president), a very conservative guy,  who had one of his daughters turn out to be a lesbian.    I don't think there is any need for such retribution.  People are not always responsible for their ideologies.

[Guest guest]

22 hours ago, TPYmuscle69 said:

Don’t want to sound like I’m off topic but if you have one wish to “teach” straight people about GLBT, would you wish for them to be turned into a gay persons as well, or have their kids, or a family member turned gay? Is this too much of a “retribution”? 

Asking this question because a close lady friend said she suspect her 14 yo son acting “weird” - not into girls, always go gym, go jogging at night, lots of cute guy friends, zero gf. I told her to be mentally prepared and that it wasn’t really a bad thing as that means she don’t need to put up with a haughty daughter-in-law in the future. Needless to say she doesn’t like to chat with me that much nowadays... 

First time i hear go jogging at night is one of the tell tale sign of gay? Haha.

[GachiMuchi]

Out Of The Closet: Justin Foo Shares His Story

Justin Foo’s experience as a signed artiste shines the spotlight on how queer public figures in Singapore are often forced back into the closet and pressured into putting up a ‘straight front’ if they want to make it in showbiz.

That’s the response Henry Wilson (played by Jim Parsons) spits at Rock Hudson (played by Jake Picking), when the latter shows up on the red carpet with his boyfriend in one of the most show stopping scenes of the recent Netflix extravaganza, Hollywood.

Now, Singapore is no Hollywood. But there are many parallels that can be drawn between Singapore’s entertainment scene and Ryan Murphy’s fantastical retelling of tinseltown. Race relations aside, anyone who wants to be anyone in Singapore showbiz is told to hide their sexuality.

A fact that my next interviewee is very well aware of.

Dear Straight People,

Meet 30-year old Singaporean Justin Foo – chef, entrepreneur and all-around personality.

If you find Justin’s handsome mug familiar, it’s probably because you’ve seen him on national television before. Not too long ago, Justin was signed to an artiste management agency. During his stint as an artiste, he rubbed shoulders on TV with some of Singapore’s biggest stars.

All of that however, came with a price.

I was told that me being part of the LGBTQ community will draw much gossip… I caved in and let the supposed experts tell me what I should do – don’t mention that you’re gay.

Having been ‘out’ since he was 20, Justin found himself in a somewhat peculiar situation. People usually come out of the closet, not head back in.

Justin first discovered his attraction to the same sex in secondary school. But he kept it to himself for fear of being outcast.

I had a secret admiration for one of my peers but I was afraid to let anyone know about these feelings. Being labeled ‘ah gua’ in my school was social suicide.

It wasn’t till his National Service that he had his first coming out experience.

I first came out to my army mates halfway into my service. But after I told them the truth, we laughed it off and became friends. I was glad to find a safe space where I could be myself.

Coming out to his family however, wasn’t quite as smooth sailing. When his sister noticed that his social circle was predominantly made up of men, she asked him point-blank if he was gay.

One night, she couldn’t sleep because of this unanswered question. I knew if she couldn’t sleep, neither would I. I answered her in hopes that she would go back to sleep.

She asked the second question: ‘When are you going to tell Ma?’

Frustrated and half asleep, I dismissed her by saying that she could tell when ever she felt like

His mum found out the very next day. A war of words erupted and tensions got so bad that Justin almost left home.

My mum told me that we both had to work on this together. I stayed on and went for one session of counselling.

I learnt that as much as we expect our parents to love and accept us, they are as human as we are. The struggles of LGBTQ people and the parents of LGBTQ people are equally as significant and difficult.

Upon completion of his National Service, Justin worked as a chef first before opening his own gastro bar. It was during his stint as a restaurateur that stardom beckoned.

His gastro bar eventually had to shut down due to various factors. But his time running the restaurant allowed him to connect with many people from the media.

I was offered opportunities from people from the media industry.

I was burnt and depressed from the grind of being a chef restauranteur. I decided to explore a new industry.

Justin scored a contract with a leading media agency, who had plans to groom him into a celebrity chef. The pursuit of stardom however, demanded sacrifices.

Very quickly, I was told that me being part of the LGBTQ community will draw much gossip and make life difficult for me. I was advised to clean up my social media accounts.

To me, this was a far cry from opening a shop with a rainbow flag hung at the shopfront.

Justin did as he was told. He deleted all traces of his partner from his social media accounts, and put on a ‘straight’ front in his public dealings.

Being forced back into the closet however, took its toll on him.

Suddenly I had to live a double life; something I struggled so much not to do in my growing up years.

At some point, it felt like I was back in school. Keeping my silence on my sexuality was the better thing to do lest someone does not want to engage me for any opportunities.

On one hand, Justin felt like a hypocrite for pretending to be straight. On the other hand, he felt like he let himself down by returning to the closet.

 I felt misjudged; caught in the middle of defending the community yet holding my ‘credibility’ as a straight man in the industry.

Because it was my decision eventually to step back from the community, I felt I have disappointed a lot of my friends, whom have been a huge support to me when I ran my restaurant.

It may have been a few years since Justin was told to hide his sexuality upon joining showbiz. But sadly, the situation has not changed much.

Many of those seeking stardom have been observed to ‘clean up’ their social media accounts once they become a contracted artiste. Some have even had to rename, or even restart their Facebook and Instagram accounts.

The LGBTQ+ community rarely outs one of their own. But in the world of social media, nothing ever gets truly erased. Traces of their ‘past life’ can still be found on forums and group chats. And so try as they might, the only closet they can possibly return to is a glass one.

Returning to the closet may seem like a non-issue to some. But doing so perpetuates a vicious cycle of marginalisation. And for a community that have been marginalised for so long, being open about one’s sexuality is a powerful statement in itself. Especially if it’s a public figure with significant influence.

But in a country that prioritises pragmatism over idealism, hiding in the closet will always seem like the smart thing to do. Most will not want to risk their rice bowl. And many will not see the need for it too. A peculiar byproduct of Singapore’s social climate, where gay sex is criminalised but not enforced.

As a result, Singapore only boasts a handful of public figures who are ‘out’. Kumar and Ivan Heng are some names that spring to mind. Steven David Lim too, was notably featured in our  ‘Out Of The Closet’ series last year, where his coming out story was groundbreaking enough to get picked up by other media outlets.

The rest of Singapore’s LGBTQ+ celebrities however, continue to lead double lives.

Justin and his partner, Sean.

As for Justin himself, he eventually left the pursuit of stardom, and now functions independently. At the start of 2020, Justin embarked on a joint venture called Forkcast – a digital media platform specialising in food and lifestyle content.

No longer pressured to put on a false front, Justin’s social media accounts are no longer ‘straight-washed’. Photos of his partner can be found peppered across his Instagram account, and he even took part in our Pride passion project last year.

While Justin is no longer leading a double life, he understands the risk coming out poses to those still in showbiz.

I know it is a scary thought for closeted stars to come out because they might lose fans and jobs.

The variety of jobs available to actors and actresses is not yet enough for local stars to take this risk, especially the ones who have been in the industry for some time.

At the same time, Justin too believes in the importance of greater queer public representation.

A change is needed, and there can be no better paragons of this change other than our local stars.

Hate and opposition will come, but that’s what public figures signed up for when they go public.

However, as much as there is hate, there will also be encouragement. But encouragement will never be found if no opportunities for it were presented.

I believe your sexuality takes a back seat in the public eye when your craft takes precedence. No one talks of Sir Ian McKellen as a gay man, that’s because he’s an astounding actor. 

For the record, Justin’s interview was conducted over a year ago. But as I binged watched my way through Netflix’s Hollywood, I couldn’t help but recall the predicament that Justin and many others like him find themselves in when pursuing a career in local showbiz.

In Netflix’s Hollywood, its ethnic and gay protagonists triumph over oppression by taking a stand and making bold gestures. Real life unfortunately, isn’t so simple. Despite its liberal front, even real life Hollywood continues to pressure its LGBTQ+ players to remain closeted.

That said, the importance of queer representation cannot be understated. As long as Singapore’s public figures continue to stay closeted, those looking to make it in showbiz will continue to be pressured into being someone that they are not.

Reality may not be as straightforward as Ryan Murphy’s fictionalised narrative of post-war Hollywood. But in a country where queer representation is sorely lacking, taking a public stand would be a good start.

Hopefully, Justin’s example will inspire other public figures to come out of the closet.

Once again, Dear Straight People would like to thank Justin Foo for sharing his story with us.

If you would like to keep up to date with how Justin Foo is doing, you can connect with Justin Foo on Instagram via @justinfjh. You can also check out Forkcast here.

[Ben S]

Though I would most likely never get involved in being a public figure, this is a good read

Thanks for sharing.

 

With current technology, there are quite a lot of people who chose to become Online public figure ... becoming youtuber, twitch, streamers, or even Onlyfans star

 

[GachiMuchi]

Stanley Poh – Letter To My Closet

It took Stanley Poh from Singapore, 3 decades of his life to come to terms with his sexuality. This is his letter to his closeted self.

Dear Closeted Me,

It has been more than 30 years of denial. 3 decades of your life living in confusion that translated to fear, guilt and a whole lot of other mixed emotions.  Because of the need to conform, you may not find it easy to come out to yourself, not to mention to other people.  But, take consolation that it does not matter how long it takes, there will come a point in time where you are ready to accept who you are. It is a huge step but, believe me, you are going to make that first step very soon and I applaud you for that.

But Stanley, coming out to yourself is just the beginning.  In front of you is a long and winding road and the journey will be filled with a lot of unknowns.  But, it also means a brand new world is waiting for you to unravel and you have no idea how excited I am for you.

16-year old me

Coming Out To Yourself Is Just The Beginning

Coming out to yourself already takes a lot of courage not to mention, to face this world especially when you are of the age to settle down.  You will find yourself trying ways and means to hide your new identity.  It will soon take a toll on you as you will tell lie after lie to people who ask about your status.  As the saying goes, A liar must have a good memory and if you do not have one, you better prepare a recording of what you want to tell people lest you forget.  It is such an irony that although you have finally come out of your shell, you still need to hide behind so many lies.  The toll on your conscience will make you shun gatherings, weddings, outings with family and friends because you will find yourself happier hiding in fast food joints than to face awkward questions.

After coming out, nobody is going to hand you a manual on how to navigate this winding road.  A part of you is glad that you have accepted yourself; the other part of you still wants to conform to social norms.  The fear of being judged still eats you up each and every day.  You can be having a lunch or coffee with an Ang Moh guy but you will be so conscious of how others’ may perceive you as ‘gay’ because of your own insecurities.  How can you ever be happy if you live your life thinking there is always a spotlight on you to judge you?

Someone Important Will Come Into Your Life

No doubt, the road in front of you is going to be long and winding.  You can get lonely and scared.  Be comforted that God will send someone into your life to make this journey easier.  This person will play a very large part in your coming out and it is him who first accepts you for who you are and to remind you that everything is going to be alright because he will be there.

This person will be right next to you when you decide to come out to your sister.  He may be silent throughout your conversation with her, but you know that just by having his presence gives you the courage and support that you need and without him then, you will never be able to have that conversation with your sister.  Not everyone gets the opportunity to meet a confidant, soul mate and someone who allows you to be you in their lifetime.  Take heart that you got sent one at least once in your lifetime.  

But Stanley, if this person ever wants to leave, let him.  Remember, love lost is still love.  It takes a different form, that’s all.  Memory becomes your partner and you nurture it, hold it and dance with it.  Knowing him is the best thing that will ever happen to you because without him, you will not be who you are now.  You will fall but you learn to pick yourself up and grow tougher from each fall you make.

 You will soon realize that coming out to the people around you is not as daunting as you once thought.  You will go through a few milestones starting from coming out to your sis, then to your friends and then, in your workplace and finally, this… yes you will never believe that you will come out to the world by writing what I am writing now! A letter to you, my closeted self! Look how far you will go and I am so proud of your courage.

Me after coming out.

Over the next few years of your life, you will see yourself grow so much. From someone who cannot even bring himself to say the word ‘gay’ to someone now who is able to openly declare to the world that “I am gay and proud of it!” This has to be the biggest milestone of your life so far.

I am able to pen this letter to you now because I have embraced who I really am and I come out stronger and happier.  Before signing off, I just want to remind you that not everyone will love you for who you are, but there will be people who will not stop loving you no matter what you do or who you are.  It does not matter what people think or say as long as you are true to yourself and to the people who love you. 

You deserve love just like everyone else. So, be happy. Each day is going to be different. Be it good, bad, beautiful or ugly, embrace each and every day as it comes and live your life to the fullest.  

To end this letter, I would like to quote this tagline from one of our favorite programmes, RuPaul Drag Race – If you can’t even love yourself, how the hell are you going to love somebody else! 

From me, your outed self

P.S: Special thanks to Lynn Awyong for your help with this letter and to my ex… thank you for crossing path with me because without you, I will not be what I am today. Elephant Juice

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Virein Sudheer – Letter To My Closet

Virein Sudheer from Singapore, pens a letter detailing his struggles with self-acceptance and coming out of the closet.

Dear Closeted Me,

“Why me?” I remember feeling how you feel right now like it was just yesterday. All those nights staying up wishing you were different. You will cry about it at times. It’s going to be lonely. You must be exhausted of hiding so much, having your guard up all the time.

What I want to tell you is that those same-sex attractions you’ve been feeling won’t fade away because this is you and it’s the you that you have always been even if you don’t know it yourself. Eventually all of this paralysing fear of coming out is going to move you further and further away from the person you actually want to be.

16-year old me

I know when you first realised you were gay, you made that conscious decision to hide this forever from your family because you thought they would never understand. Stop being so worried that society’s misconceptions and prejudices will influence the way they react. Stop being so terrified that assumptions and fears will take over and that nothing will ever be the same anymore. Yes, nothing will ever be the same, but please give them more credit than that. Really soon, your brother is going to find out and while that might seem horribly daunting at a time like this, you are going to be pleasantly surprised to see how completely open and supportive he is, and that right there is the beginning of when it gets easier. No one actually cares who you are attracted to, and the ones that do simply don’t understand what love is.

Learn to forgive yourself. But years from now you will unpack this and realise you did nothing wrong. Not everything is going to be easy but also not everything has to be as hard as it is so be gentle to yourself. You’re doing great. You’re going to be you for a long time, so start now. (Maybe stop being such a bitch at times – all that misplaced teenage angst.) Even though there’ll be moments that feel like the end of the world, they’re really not and one day you will look back and realise all the things you’ve gone through – the struggles of coming out and the internal conflicts you’ve dealt with in terms of being gay – have made you who you are today. You are proud of the person you’ve become.

Me in 2020.

You’re also not the only person with problems and emotions, so take a moment and step back sometimes, and remember that there’s a whole world of people besides you going through their own adversities. You are going to learn so much about yourself and life. The greatest reward is that this journey doesn’t end with you, you’re going to do this with friends that have your back no matter what, who will help you in ways that you may find unimaginable now. Friends who mean the world to you and who have gone through the exact same things you have and more.

You may not be ready to leave the closet now and you still may not be completely out to everyone for quite a while, but I promise you won’t regret this period of your life. You have to fully and completely understand what it feels like to be in the closet before you begin to fathom what it takes to leave it. Someday though, you will come to truly accept yourself for who you are and this is the most important thing that you will ever do.

Trust the process, take it one step at a time and embrace this empowering journey kiddo!

 

 

 

[Steve5380]

On 6/16/2020 at 1:14 PM, GachiMuchi said:

 

Coming Out To Yourself Is Just The Beginning

Coming out to yourself already takes a lot of courage not to mention, to face this world especially when you are of the age to settle down.  You will find yourself trying ways and means to hide your new identity.  It will soon take a toll on you as you will tell lie after lie to people who ask about your status.  As the saying goes, A liar must have a good memory and if you do not have one, you better prepare a recording of what you want to tell people lest you forget.  It is such an irony that although you have finally come out of your shell, you still need to hide behind so many lies.  The toll on your conscience will make you shun gatherings, weddings, outings with family and friends because you will find yourself happier hiding in fast food joints than to face awkward questions.

After coming out, nobody is going to hand you a manual on how to navigate this winding road.  A part of you is glad that you have accepted yourself; the other part of you still wants to conform to social norms.  The fear of being judged still eats you up each and every day.  You can be having a lunch or coffee with an Ang Moh guy but you will be so conscious of how others’ may perceive you as ‘gay’ because of your own insecurities.  How can you ever be happy if you live your life thinking there is always a spotlight on you to judge you?

 

 

Why make it so dramatic?  

 

The "coming out to yourself" is not necessarily a sudden realization,  but a combination of much knowledge about oneself.  What may not be part of the knowledge is "why am I the way I am"?  The answer to this is not always "I am gay".  If one grew up without a father figure, living with mother and grandmother, went to segregated boy's schools, had very little contact with girls,  one may think that it is "lack of experience".  This is what happened to me.   Yes, I was attracted to other boys,  but I never thought that this was some illness that DEFINED me. 

 

So after a while one may accept to have a mixture of attraction to boys and maybe the right girls. Unless sex is the first and foremost aspect of one's life,  there are many other things that one is.  One can be a man, with strong interests in a profession, a career.  This can take priority in DEFINING us. 

 

Trying to hide one's new identity?  What NEW identity?  Haven't we lived with ourselves all life long to know our identity?  If we like ourselves, we want to protect us from anything negative.  Not to disclose our sexual preferences to the public is NOT telling lies that negatively affect other people.  Our preferences, aren't they OUR business?  Do we have to disclose that we dislike barbecued ribs but we like vegetables?   And if someone has THE NERVE to ask,  what is the difference between "the Truth" and an innocent lie or diversion?  It is not the same as swindling money out of someone with a lie. 

 

It is not so difficult to have a consistent answer to give to anyone who inquires about our sexual preferences.  We don't have to shun gatherings, weddings, outings with family and friends,  even if in Singapore some indiscreet aunties ask why one hasn't married already.  

 

And there is no need to be eaten up each and every day with fears of being judged.  Judged by whom?  If it is not by a boss,  by a judge in a criminal court,  why is that relevant?

WE SHOULD accept ourselves, and have the smartness to conform to social norms whenever it is necessary.  As we grow older the need to conform to some "social norms" may change accordingly,  and we may find a freedom that makes our life successful and enjoyable.

[fab]

https://dearstraightpeople.com/2020/06/17/v-rasak-letter/?fbclid=IwAR3bOn-5tZKu4WC0qzJCUmxpeO4ViISIrS_1BWj8nShKOKo7P_w_HhHxOUA

Edited June 18, 2020 by fab

[repressednerd]

I find it interesting that for almost every Dear Straight People article, it features some guy with a picture showing his past self, and then the recent picture of himself is usually topless/tank top/tight shirt with camera angle focusing on the muscles. 

[yuquidam]

1 hour ago, fab said:

https://dearstraightpeople.com/2020/06/17/v-rasak-letter/?fbclid=IwAR3bOn-5tZKu4WC0qzJCUmxpeO4ViISIrS_1BWj8nShKOKo7P_w_HhHxOUA

Feel sad for him and his childhood friend. Friend must have felt terribly hurt at that time. But V was young and couldn't blame him. Hope one day they would be reconciled as good friends again.

[Steve5380]

4 hours ago, fab said:

https://dearstraightpeople.com/2020/06/17/v-rasak-letter/?fbclid=IwAR3bOn-5tZKu4WC0qzJCUmxpeO4ViISIrS_1BWj8nShKOKo7P_w_HhHxOUA

 

At 31 y.o. it is not too late.

 

They went to school together and Thailand is a civilized country.

Why cannot he look after his friend of 18 years ago and find out what happened to him,

and if he can reach him get together with him and talk things out?

...  instead of talking to "his closet".

 

[Guest 电视剧]

1 hour ago, Steve5380 said:

 

At 31 y.o. it is not too late.

 

They went to school together and Thailand is a civilized country.

Why cannot he look after his friend of 18 years ago and find out what happened to him,

and if he can reach him get together with him and talk things out?

...  instead of talking to "his closet".

 

story will be more dramatic 有一种想见又不能见的伤痛，想爱又不是爱的悲伤。

[fab]

5 hours ago, yuquidam said:

Feel sad for him and his childhood friend. Friend must have felt terribly hurt at that time. But V was young and couldn't blame him. Hope one day they would be reconciled as good friends again.

 

Based on those Thai bl i have watched, his friend maybe a Tran now.

[yuquidam]

48 minutes ago, fab said:

 

Based on those Thai bl i have watched, his friend maybe a Tran now.

Hopefully when they meet there would be a happy ending (no pun intended, dun be notti LOL) with V falling in luv with his pretty trans fren. Then they can have many happy endings everyday?

Edited June 19, 2020 by yuquidam

[happiness]

9 hours ago, fab said:

https://dearstraightpeople.com/2020/06/17/v-rasak-letter/?fbclid=IwAR3bOn-5tZKu4WC0qzJCUmxpeO4ViISIrS_1BWj8nShKOKo7P_w_HhHxOUA

 

This shows that sissyphobic people may actually be gay (not all of them are straight), and more importantly, sissyphobia is a learned behaviour. He became sissyphobic because he learned that (1) sissies are judged to be of lower value/less desirable by other people, (2) associating with sissies are judged to be of lower value/less desirable too and (3) he believed other people's judgment of him was important because he based his value on their judgment, instead of valuing and loving himself.

Edited June 19, 2020 by happiness

[practease]

Hmm...based on these 3 stories it almost appears as though that after declaring you are gay, you would miraculously go from scrawny to muscled god after basking in fairy dust. 

[fab]

1 hour ago, practease said:

Hmm...based on these 3 stories it almost appears as though that after declaring you are gay, you would miraculously go from scrawny to muscled god after basking in fairy dust. 

 

Cos after gays start relationships,  they increase their protein intake.