Qal Posted February 16 Report Share Posted February 16 😉😎 notd and cycle25 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted February 19 Report Share Posted February 19 On 2/16/2024 at 6:27 PM, samdiggin said: Â Was it me? LOL Â I do the same nowadays. There are plenty of people who always approach you with a "Hi" but never post anything else. Then they are silent for 2 days and contact you again with a "hi". Â Mostly I will reply with a "Looking for?" reply, but in some cases this Hi Hi thing will just go on. Â I fail to understand the approach (by the other party). Â Worse, if the profile is empty, no picture and nothing else to take some clues. Â So, when I encounter this, I will just reply with a "hi" also. Â Â Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Same same Posted February 19 Report Share Posted February 19 On 2/16/2024 at 6:27 PM, samdiggin said: looks like you deserve each other Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leanmeat Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 (edited) On 2/16/2024 at 6:27 PM, samdiggin said: I enjoy giving people what they give too. Similarly if they keep asking things and not answering then I stop answering too. Until they start replying what I ask. Edited February 20 by Leanmeat yhtang 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 11 hours ago, Leanmeat said: I enjoy giving people what they give too. Similarly if they keep asking things and not answering then I stop answering too. Until they start replying what I ask.  But some questions are a bit out of reach if they are not connected to any dating.  People asked me the weirdest questions for ONS. This only happens here in Singapore.  Whether I am an employee or the boss at my work. What my salary is. How many rooms my flat has What the ceiling height of my bedroom is (not sure if he wanted to bring a sling)... Whether I cook myself or eat outside etc etc  But I know it can be annoying. Most interesting is how much some guys can ship around to tell the age.  There are also plenty of answers I would not give, because it is irrelevant, but I will reply with something like: "Why is this relevant?"  Such questions are: When was the last time you had sex. How long can you f... How long didn't you cum   Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leanmeat Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 2 hours ago, singalion said:  But some questions are a bit out of reach if they are not connected to any dating.  People asked me the weirdest questions for ONS. This only happens here in Singapore.  Whether I am an employee or the boss at my work. What my salary is. How many rooms my flat has What the ceiling height of my bedroom is (not sure if he wanted to bring a sling)... Whether I cook myself or eat outside etc etc  But I know it can be annoying. Most interesting is how much some guys can ship around to tell the age.  There are also plenty of answers I would not give, because it is irrelevant, but I will reply with something like: "Why is this relevant?"  Such questions are: When was the last time you had sex. How long can you f... How long didn't you cum   Those ques u mention are too out of the blue. I am referring to the standard ques like role, stats, where they stay .. etc Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 (edited) 2 hours ago, Leanmeat said: Those ques u mention are too out of the blue. I am referring to the standard ques like role, stats, where they stay .. etc  Ok. But why wouldn't they answer these basics.  In my opinion they should have most of this info already in their profile. Makes any chat faster instead of requiring to ask every detail.  For location I would understand but the rest can be already mentioned in the profile bio.  But I noted more recently many guys on the app leave their profile bio empty. For what reason?   Edited February 20 by singalion Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leanmeat Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 (edited) 7 hours ago, singalion said:  Ok. But why wouldn't they answer these basics.  In my opinion they should have most of this info already in their profile. Makes any chat faster instead of requiring to ask every detail.  For location I would understand but the rest can be already mentioned in the profile bio.  But I noted more recently many guys on the app leave their profile bio empty. For what reason?   Exactly. Some people likes to ask and ask but pretend not seeing your ques untill you repeat again. Some things like where they stay also I don't know what they are worrying about. As if just by saying an estate name I can find their block. Then there are too many with no picture but ask for your picture when they are the one initiating the chat. Trying their luck. Not forgetting those who can ask what they want before exchanging tele to chat but didnt. Exchange only to realise not looking for similar things. Time waster. Now I make a point to ask what I think is a deal breaker to me before exchanging. Save the trouble. Some ppl cannot think logically. First thing only ask where you stay can I come? Wonder what makes them think everything will work out when i don't even know what kinda fun he is looking for. Edited February 21 by Leanmeat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted February 21 Report Share Posted February 21 4 hours ago, Leanmeat said: Some things like where they stay also I don't know what they are worrying about. As if just by saying an estate name I can find their block.  They are scared that you will wait at any HDB block to look out for them at 3am at night, while the HDB block has 15 floors, 300 units and 3 different lift lobbies.  However, I can understand if you mention a different block just nearby. As long as you didn't confirm where to meet it might be just a hint or helpful to show what area you are staying.   Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted February 21 Report Share Posted February 21 4 hours ago, Leanmeat said: Not forgetting those who can ask what they want before exchanging tele to chat but didnt. Exchange only to realise not looking for similar things. Time waster. Now I make a point to ask what I think is a deal breaker to me before exchanging. Save the trouble. Â But I do that on times also, to ask for the number after some amount of chat. It happens that meeting would be just inconvient, maybe parents visiting the flat or going on a travel in 2 days, out of mood ... just to stay in touch and reconnect again when it is convenient. Â I don't use telegram but it seems quite confidential, so shouldn't be an issue to give the number. Â Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leanmeat Posted February 21 Report Share Posted February 21 (edited) 7 hours ago, singalion said: Â They are scared that you will wait at any HDB block to look out for them at 3am at night, while the HDB block has 15 floors, 300 units and 3 different lift lobbies. Â However, I can understand if you mention a different block just nearby. As long as you didn't confirm where to meet it might be just a hint or helpful to show what area you are staying. Â Â That is provided I know the block. Obviously when I ask where they stay I meant like Amk, bedok, Clementi. They are likely a moron to think that I am asking for full address or exact block. Edited February 21 by Leanmeat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted February 21 Report Share Posted February 21 49 minutes ago, Leanmeat said: That is provided I know the block. Obviously when I ask where they stay I meant like Amk, bedok, Clementi. They are likely a moron to think that I am asking for full address or exact block. Â Ok to the clarification. But in my experience it is rare if guys don't even tell the rough location like above... Â Â I already had certain admirers, it happened to me that they waited in front of the entrance of my place, when I gave the address. This can be very annoying. As you already realised not all looks match with the profile pics or profile image. I once even had a guy who followed me nearly every evening at the MRT I took after my work up to my own MRT and walked the last part behind me also. That went on for more than a year until I confronted him. I got more careful nowadays also to give the full details early. There just guys who get totally nuts and lack self control. Â It is even worse when you stay in an HDB because anyone can just access it, walk up to the unit etc etc... Â Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leanmeat Posted February 21 Report Share Posted February 21 (edited) 31 minutes ago, singalion said: Â Ok to the clarification. But in my experience it is rare if guys don't even tell the rough location like above... Â Â I already had certain admirers, it happened to me that they waited in front of the entrance of my place, when I gave the address. This can be very annoying. As you already realised not all looks match with the profile pics or profile image. I once even had a guy who followed me nearly every evening at the MRT I took after my work up to my own MRT and walked the last part behind me also. That went on for more than a year until I confronted him. I got more careful nowadays also to give the full details early. There just guys who get totally nuts and lack self control. Â It is even worse when you stay in an HDB because anyone can just access it, walk up to the unit etc etc... Â I encounter a couple of times where they say they stay north, northeast. Like as if telling the estate name will give their address away. Such lack of security. Maybe even lack some common sense Edited February 21 by Leanmeat mate69 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 29 Report Share Posted February 29 Why i no longer find the chats in grindr with some money boy in bkk after their service? All their chats disappeared suddenly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Why Posted March 1 Report Share Posted March 1 Why so many people in Grindr are using drugs ? Chat and invited a btm nsf guy to my place . Went to bath and came back to the room and saw him injecting drug . He became so high that he stripped naked and spread his leg . At first was shy shy one . Suddenly turn horny . Did not want to continue , but eventually give in . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MasterFitMalaySG4U Posted March 2 Report Share Posted March 2 Grindr: no time waster. All is about fun sex or meet up or ONS.  Jackd: able to make friendship. Fun sex. Prefer to chat first before meet up.  Still both prefer same race or physical wise n cock wise. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singalion Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Do you think younger guys nowadays are more often if not always "demanding" for a cock pic compared to the 30s generation? Â Do you find these cock pic requests annoying on the apps? Â What is your point of view on this? How do you react? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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