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Where is your link to twitter on this? We wanna see...

I liked planetromeo / gayromeo, because you were able to place your profile into any area beforehand, which was good, if you planned a travel to another city and were able to connect with people over there before your trip. it was initially also not meant for this instant meet up thing and you were able to get to know the other much better, by using the messages. I found planetromeo was more suited to find relationship partners. Disappointingly it switched to a similar site like grindr and lost the momentum it had before.

Probably you will see more gay guys around FX Sudirman shopping mall instead of the sports facilities at GBK. There are always plenty of family activities or other things every second day, which doesn't seem suitable for any gay cruising.

Most non-locals would go into other areas around Monas, or better to say the stretch between Sarinah to Senayan. But Jakarta is so huge. I never took any hotel at the very northern side like Kelapa Gading because you are far off from the city center, unless you travel to one of the islands north of Jakarta (as the harbour is nearer). Not sure what are lifestyle establishments but you can visit Kota Tua (the Jakarta old city) it has newer outlets (coffee shops, restaurants etc), There is a huge shopping area like MBK center in Bangkok called Pasar Baru. Kota Tua should be 30 - 40 mins by cab, Pasar Baru around 15 - 20 mins. Going to the hot spots more in the central from Kelapa Gading can take up to 1 hour by cab. If you aren't the true risk taker, would be careful going any parks at night. I am sure, even in the most far out placed remote hotel in Jakarta you will find sufficient new friends to play, massage boys through the apps, ...

Nah, they won't. Donald T can also call Infantino and nothing will change the policy... 😂

I thought at Chatuchak you can get some student pass for 15 $... 🤣

According to the website, they did some disinfection spraying. They even publish this on their website for the gym. https://www.hutong-fitness.com/ According to the Center for Health Protection HK, it was closed since end of 26 May 2026. it affected so far 5 people from HK and 2 from Mainland China who visited the place. The contact tracing stretched until 17 June as to the news. I love this word "high risk activities" when for Mpox just simple body to body touching might be sufficient to contract it (and it must not be anything "high risk"). It seems from the previous post, the place has reopened... Is Age discrimination still permitted in HK?

The one, that was truly good, at Dempsey La Salsa (not Margaritas) seems to have closed down in Feb 2026 or changed the concept to Thai food. There is still Chimichanga and Cha Cha Cha at Holland V, both quite authentic.

But that is a bit fast food like...

The no sugar option is rare. Mr Bean has it. 老伴豆花 Lao Ban Soya Beancurd has various options and outlets but until today they don't offer any no sugar products. annoying. But Jollybean still has 5 outlets. (at least according to their website).

Guided tours in a PLU group would be something for first time gay travellers to Bali. For the rest, many have been repeatedly to Bali. I personally don't fly to Bali any longer as I think the past 10 years it has totally lost its charm. Overtourism, total overtourism. In certain areas from Kuta to Canggu you don't even find any outlet offering halfway authentic Balinese food any longer. I think those who want to explore nudism (in a resort setting), would be just a minority. Being yourself or in a two or three guys environment for tours depends also. If you are in a bigger group such joint travel can be annoying, if you have the one or two guys who can't miss any souvenir shop, start drinking coffee while the rest is already sitting inside the tour bus or need hours for 3 insta while photo shots, in general when people need to wait for others and in the worst, the daily tour can't be completed in the end... The other question are personal lifestyles some people go clubbing until 3am and prefer to sleep until 4pm then get a short dive at the sea and after food and wait for the next beach pool party at finns. Others wake up at 5am to catch the sunrise and start a tour to somewhere at 9am the latest... I don't think there is any general rule for everyone. I actually don't like very much if BW is used for personal marketing purposes.

You mean private rooms that you can lock from inside? I am talking of such rooms. Other places in Saigon have that.

Sorry but Nadam doesn't have private rooms, closable cubicles/cabins with a bed or mattress. It are all so to say public open areas. The well known Saigon Sauna commentor Bry confirmed this also at one his video Quote: 2026 NaDam Spa Well-maintained facilities at Nadam include a dry sauna, steam room and large jacuzzi, but no private cabins. There are semi-private areas where you can retreat with a new friend.

The Okamoto condoms have one big issue, for bigger Tools above 6.5 they seems to tight and makes it uncomfortable for the top.

I think it is overrated. Some visitors to Saigon get a bit too thrilled by the outlet (as to the quite Asian style design). The biggest disadvantage is: There are no real private play rooms. It is just dark corners, balconies and angles here. (angles not angels ok!) It is happening but more to the light fun part... Know that many Westerners or gay travellers not very well acquainted with East Asian/ SEA cultures would be overwhelmed by the interior design...in particular on their first visit to Asia. Add the hype coming from the plenty of approaches by local Asian boys (if you're a hot bot) so these tourists will be overwhelmed... it won't cost you a fortune (even if they raised prices just recently), try and make your own review.

did you scroll back this thread the last 10 pages?

The towel was just some advice to avoid heavy stains on the bed sheets. On the sweating part: but sweat will dry off easily... Some bottoms always ask for long fun, naturally a top would start sweating at some point... ha ha

In that case, it seems to be lacking lubrication. the rubber would rub too dry at the same area. Also. stop in between and tell the top to add some lubricant. One time at the start might be not sufficient. I read in your post that you can't afford buying expensive condoms. I wouldn't think the watson ones are bad quality, but just ask the sex partner to buy or bring condoms n lub instead. If guys are horny, for sure they would do. Don't be shy to ask.

Hm, ... You didn't mention ages, then it is always difficult to assess. It could really mean that he is falling into a lower testosterone phase and just having fewer mood for fun. Then the withdrawal reaction is a bit due to his personal embarrassment of confessing to you. I am surprised that you sleep in separate rooms. For early years in couples it shouldn't be. I understand some guys can be snoring like hell at night, but ... It could hint, that he is intending to move out but just doesn't want to tell you now due to certain reasons. I would also not be overdemanding on sex or pushy, it can make the sex part to a routine and somehow just given in, to satisfy the other. In particular, if the other partner refrains from coming himself. That comes to an unwanted feeling and to a must, but will sooner or later cause the breakup, because the other doesn't enjoy the fun. My personal advice in such a situation would be: Do the surprise thing. Go home early, prepare a nice dinner, make the bedroom you usually play romantic. Further, try to change things out of the common sex play. Routine is the biggest relationship killer. Just start something new that might thrill him more. As we don't know your roles, but if you're the bottom put on some sexy tanga etc... A common holiday to an island or something might also help. Get out of the daily routine. The thing with his starting screentime addiction I would tackle later... if it is porn, then it is another thing. In the latter it could mean that his sexual attraction to you has waned. And eventually, yes often people in love put on fat, do something about it and get in shape again...

Hm, but don't you think that claim on cum and shit is a bit overrated? You can take precaution. I assume those guys prefer not to have any sex at all because they need to do some clean up afterwards. It is also rare that guys shoot their cum from the bed onto the curtains... You can take some precautions on top of your bed or take two thick towels. In the worst, buy those protective sheets or waterproof bed mats. there are also these waterproof disposable underpads called Chux or Chucks (50 pads , 40$), which they use in hospitals or clinics. Still cheaper than any hotel. There are also hotels that charge you if you stained the bed sheets. Can be quite costly. Like 100 for a bacterial cleaning. Actually, the budget hotels are the worst and most fussy on these things... Regarding that psychic fear of locals to invite anyone to their home I will refrain to comment... 🙃

I am very sure, but please don't play too hard balls ok! 😂

May I ask whether you usually have very hard motion or constipation? Is the source of the anal fissure truly anal sex? If the cut or bleeding is very bad, then my advice would be, refrain from anal sex until it is fully healed first. May take up to six weeks in bad cases. Because I assume, the regular anal fun, may always cause the fissure to re-open again. Just do light fun for the meantime. For treatment for fast healing it is recommended to place your anus into a bowl with warm water 3 - 5 times a day for about 20mins. Also look that your stool is softer during these weeks. (Linseed can help, one to two teaspoons in yoghurt per day in the morning, avoid anything too much that makes hard stool = rice!) My other advice in general for the future is: I noted plenty of bottoms don't apply sufficient lubricant. Worse if it is with a condom because the rubber rubs at the anus and if there is no lubricant, there might be too much friction. It also applies for bare fun, just please lubricate well. Don't rely on the top to bring lub and always have your own with you and force tops to take sufficient. Some tops don't even bring and take their spit, but that's not sufficient. Always lubricate the area sufficiently and also the top's dick. If the cause is also hard motion and frequent constipation, don't worry to PM me. Both issues might come together. Speedy recovery and maybe just take a bit of a break into anal fun for some time.

Hm, but some watch these Channel 8 Chinese soap operas there

The gayest thing on me? I think my dick! It never entered a Vagina but guys' mouths or asses.

He didn't say what he's disgusted about. It could be a feeling of guilt and have a religious background.