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Theres just same number of them, I guess. Just the proportion changes a bit.

18cm soft or hard? If you are not hard, are the staff gonna blow you to get you hard and measure ? Perhaps they employ a resident blower? The logistics of implementing such a system blows my mind 😂

Im sure the guest who posted it, meant it as a joke. Nowhere, they are gonna ask you to strip to see what you are packing 😂

Interesting thought occured to me. If there is no theretical limit, how much money does one want? We technically cannot have more money than the governments. There are also logistical problems. Where to keep the money etc. Most rich people on the planet do not have hard cash. They have assets whose value make them the richest people.

Open relationship might still be a better option, if there is love between you. Trouple is always troublesome. Even if he does not like the other one better, it will sow enough doubts in your mind that eventually, it will drive a wedge between you.

Well. If I may offer my honest opinion, if the guy likes the third person better, you will become reduntant and dropped. If there is no strong bond between you two, that will keep him around, I would suggest do not play with fire. Many have lost their partners to the third person in the relationship.

Not to mention full of catfishes. Come on, dont people say truth anymore?

Now many guys follow this pattern. I might soon stop hooking up at all.

I agree with what @Anon_cock said. But do you want to do something that you dont want, to keep your bf? There is no gurantee that he wont leave you still.

I would have adviced to try as well, if the relationship is purely physical. Problem will start when its not. And believe me, if they are regular partners, it is already not purely physical. So, to the guy posted the original question. Try at your own risk and think about the outcomes and if you are ok to accept them plus the pain in the ass.

My 2 cents. Do what you like, not what your partner likes. If both partners like non-anal, good for you. But if one is into anal sex and the other is not. You know what happens? CHEATING!!! It will turn ugly and ruin everyone's life.

Noble thought! 👏

I will pay all my debts 😄

Thanks for your input. Its not like, I don’t hook up with guys of my ethnicity. Its just not free for everyone sort of thing right. Some guys if they see I am fooling around with someone, assume that I will fool around with everyone. I am not the sort of person who acts rude. But some people get real persistent and dont understand that “No means NO”. It really gets on my nerve, and I had to stop going to a particular place. Its not that hard to learn some basic manners. Obviously, I maybe irresistable to them, in which case I am flattered. But I cant tell if it is me they want or my ethnicity/race. Often I come across guys from other ethnicities liking particular other ethnicities because they have some fantasies. Most of the time its harmless, but sometimes, its a stereotype bodering on soft racism. Probably, this is not the thread to discuss it. But where is the line between harmless fantasy and racial stereotypes?

You can search the forums for cruising places. For most gyms, you have to be a member. As a tourist, you cant become a member. You can try your hotel gym or spa. Might get lucky.

Do let us know, when and which sauna you are visting. We do like to oggle at hot caycasian guys here 😁

Actually, this makes sense. I have hardly met a bottom who took a different direction than I wanted, so I hardly thought about it. It's true, bots need to be patient with tops, especially if they look like sky vegetables or heavenly or something 😉 It does mess with the top's head. Role of the bot becomes more inportant. They can try stimulate them or calming them by cuddling etc. Here I like to mention my own experience. I once met the most gorgeous guy ever and after usual foreplay for sometime, we started fucking. Now usually I take my time to let the bottom cum first, if he wanted to. He was so hot and gorgeous, I did get bit selfish and came. It was only after that he said he wanted to cum. He was little disappointed but he suggested we stay in bed and cuddle. We cuddled for a while and he continued to tease me and in no time I was hard again and this time I let him cum first. In lovemaking, its always a but of give and take. You need to learn the trick of being selfish and a generous lover at the sametime. It takes practice. Porn usually suggests that sex is about body but most of the time, its about the mind. With experience you will learn. Just clear your mind and first learn what gets and keeps you hard. It is a process of self discovery.

Phones are allowed everywhere. Just not in the dark area, you know, because its supposed to be dark 😂

Congrats to the newly wedded couple! It certainly feels good to see some famous personalities are not closeted.

My 2 cents. I do not know about the other races, so this is about my own race/nationality. In dating apps or sauna, guys of my own race expect me to give preference over others because I belong to that race/nationality. Often they judge me if I dont hook up with them. TBH, I like certain guys in certain days, no preferences to the race/ nationalities/ethnicities. However, I get judged like im a traitor to my own kind or sort. It got really annoying to a point, I no longer even look at them on cruising. I supposr this is a difficulty of being a minority for totally different reasons. In an increasing globalised world, will we ever live in a world free of thinking along racial/nationality/ethnic lines. Just a food for thought.

Yep, thats true. I am an expat living here on and off for about 10 years now. Although, these days its better, it does resemble a ghost town during CNY holidays. Not really a good time for a tourist.

Depends on if you are top or bottom. If youre a top, goodluck, most of the muscle guys are tops. Other than that, you can try keybox. Thats where most guys in 20s and 30s go. For the other questions, I honestly have no idea. Someone with more sauna experience could help.

I think phone is not allowed only in the dark area. If someone wants to take a picture of naked guys, he wouldnt be so obvious and hold out his phone. If that is a reason not to goto a sauna, Sauna business is in a terrible trouble already 🤣

I ordered something from prepsingapore.com last week and they still have not confirmed the order. No response to communications through any channel. If you have any info, please let me know.