Thanks for your input. Its not like, I don’t hook up with guys of my ethnicity. Its just not free for everyone sort of thing right. Some guys if they see I am fooling around with someone, assume that I will fool around with everyone. I am not the sort of person who acts rude. But some people get real persistent and dont understand that “No means NO”. It really gets on my nerve, and I had to stop going to a particular place. Its not that hard to learn some basic manners. Obviously, I maybe irresistable to them, in which case I am flattered. But I cant tell if it is me they want or my ethnicity/race. Often I come across guys from other ethnicities liking particular other ethnicities because they have some fantasies. Most of the time its harmless, but sometimes, its a stereotype bodering on soft racism. Probably, this is not the thread to discuss it. But where is the line between harmless fantasy and racial stereotypes?