bipaocruz Posted July 11, 2015 Report Share Posted July 11, 2015 how about being grazed in a bus or mrt? do you guys do it? or any of you experienced it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joshTWjosh Posted July 12, 2015 Report Share Posted July 12, 2015 how about being grazed in a bus or mrt? do you guys do it? or any of you experienced it?You mean outrage of modesty/molest? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bipaocruz Posted July 12, 2015 Report Share Posted July 12, 2015 light touching only. not molest!! LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stan_chit Posted July 13, 2015 Report Share Posted July 13, 2015 Gaydar. This is the ability that we have. Quote Smiling and Laughing will cure the sadness Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bipaocruz Posted July 13, 2015 Report Share Posted July 13, 2015 mine's kinda off. needs recalibration haha muscles makes my gaydar wonky. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oldschool Posted July 13, 2015 Report Share Posted July 13, 2015 Invite him to your room to watch porn tgt. Lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roy Mourinho Posted July 13, 2015 Report Share Posted July 13, 2015 Haha oldschool mighy as well I get u in my room hehe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EasleyLim Posted July 14, 2015 Report Share Posted July 14, 2015 If he's sucking dick, there's a high chance he might be gay. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bipaocruz Posted July 15, 2015 Report Share Posted July 15, 2015 LOL how about those gay for pay guys? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daydreamingfish Posted July 17, 2015 Report Share Posted July 17, 2015 ...and... idk *shrugs* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teatree Posted July 19, 2015 Report Share Posted July 19, 2015 (edited) Yes, his voice and the way he talks and gesture. Also, observe the way he sits, like sitting on one side of the bum crossed legged. Edited July 19, 2015 by teatree Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
derryfawne Posted July 19, 2015 Report Share Posted July 19, 2015 Clothes & groomingGesture/mannerismFav. movies/music/booksWhere do his eyes wander at? Guys or girls?# of mutual gay friends on FB If only 1-2 above ticked, then still 50-50. But if 3-5 ticked, then quite likely yes. And of course, if your gaydar breaks, there's always Grindr/Jack'd/etc to fall back on. Quote “Do not take life too seriously. You’ll never get out of it alive.” — Elbert Hubbard Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boycott Posted July 21, 2015 Report Share Posted July 21, 2015 Grooming and clothesWalking style, mannerism Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kelvinzz1020 Posted July 23, 2015 Report Share Posted July 23, 2015 open the apps - jackd or grindr to see whether he is near to you or nt.. XDXD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted July 23, 2015 Report Share Posted July 23, 2015 Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted July 23, 2015 Report Share Posted July 23, 2015 if he's top, he will stare at your butt. if he's btm, he will stare at your crotch. Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yuukito Posted July 31, 2015 Report Share Posted July 31, 2015 Hmmm , i can just say i suspect that guy is attracted to me when he stares at me more than 2-3 times in a row , what do i mean by that ? well as a guy stare at me , and i stared at him , he would look away in some other places , so i just stay my cool and look in other places , and this person would continue stare me back again, with a notice-able reaction on his face , normally , that's a sign that the person either atracted to you , or maybe ... you have something on your face that is weird , haha , so just be aware , i am pretty sure i do have nothing on my face when this thing happened to me. but anyhow I would like to remind people that as the the word of wisdom says , "don't judge the book by it's cover" , the only way to confirm only know a person is gay is let that person eventually be open with you , and let him tell you , or either if you are really close to this person , ask him , but i would avoid that at all cost , cause sexual preferences is kind of very sensitive and a private matter in we are from. we are no where near open yet , if not , hang out in a friendly gay community areas , cause most majority of guys in there might be gay , but there are some majorities straight dudes as well in those places , they are there just to be with their gay friends , so be careful. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nothandsome Posted August 2, 2015 Report Share Posted August 2, 2015 honey, as a gay man,, i am sure you wouldn't be happy if people just stare at you and compare the silly tricks they read online with your behavior, trying to tell if you are gay, you know what i mean? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
puppyfart Posted August 3, 2015 Report Share Posted August 3, 2015 just flash your dick everytime and ask "ai mai?" if he licks his lips, highly probable he is gay (no guarantees tho, he just might have chapped lips) if he cuts off yr dick, yeah... I guess he's not. pioneerboy and SomeGuyInSg 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Butterscotch Posted August 3, 2015 Report Share Posted August 3, 2015 Ask him who is better - Madonna or Cher Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loveseeker Posted August 3, 2015 Report Share Posted August 3, 2015 Very true... i always try not to do that when holding drink. But sometimes i still will do that accidentally. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheScientist Posted December 24, 2015 Report Share Posted December 24, 2015 How do you tell someone is gay/aj? Aside from the flamboyant ones who talk and act in a very distinct manner, I would think it would be very tough to sift out the gay from the straight. But some people claim to be able to take one look at a person and figure out his orientation! What are the signs? Haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 72%dark Posted December 24, 2015 Report Share Posted December 24, 2015 (edited) http://www.blowingwind.org/forum/index.php?showtopic=65530&p=1224508And btw, displaying effeminate mannerisms is no guarantee that someone is gay. I've encountered quite a few straight guys who prance, lisp, and flame like a xmas tree on orchard road. Edited December 24, 2015 by 72%dark Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted December 24, 2015 Report Share Posted December 24, 2015 http://www.blowingwind.org/forum/index.php?showtopic=65530&p=1224508And btw, displaying effeminate mannerisms is no guarantee that someone is gay. I've encountered quite a few straight guys who prance, lisp, and flame like a xmas tree on orchard road.How you know they are straight? You had sex with them as a girl before? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 72%dark Posted December 24, 2015 Report Share Posted December 24, 2015 How you know they are straight? You had sex with them as a girl before?Why yes, of course! Cos that's clearly the only way to know that someone is straight.*72%dark takes a bow* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coolbriz Posted December 24, 2015 Report Share Posted December 24, 2015 Totally no gaydar reception here. Couldn't detect any during NS as well as Uni. Some you thought he might be one but next moment you realised he wasn't. Unless he admits himself, I got to always go by the assumption that everyone is straight unless proven otherwise lol. The only place where my reception signal goes to 100% is like what some of you have said - in gay sauna -.-" Quote Be cool, like a breeze... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted December 24, 2015 Report Share Posted December 24, 2015 Why yes, of course! Cos that's clearly the only way to know that someone is straight.*72%dark takes a bow*You are so gullible and so naive. So many people want to pretend to be straight here and you can bank on what they told you? I rather believe in their body's language than their mouths. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted December 24, 2015 Report Share Posted December 24, 2015 Use her ashes to make snow globes and give to chc members as xmas presents and souvenir for their dogged support all these years Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ohteetwelve Posted December 30, 2015 Report Share Posted December 30, 2015 How do we sense someone is aj? i have a friend whom i really like but i hv no idea on how to find out if he is aj or bi or straight Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 12, 2016 Report Share Posted March 12, 2016 I find it first in the eyes. There is something there that gives every hint that the man is gay. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arm Show Posted March 12, 2016 Report Share Posted March 12, 2016 Remove all my clothes. Scan around how many and whom being attracted by naked body. Then analyze their gazes. Quote I CAN'T BE YOUR BOYFRIEND. BUT YOU CAN FUCK ME UNTIL YOU FIND ONE. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julio Posted March 12, 2016 Report Share Posted March 12, 2016 3 hours ago, Arm Show said: Remove all my clothes. Scan around how many and whom being attracted by naked body. Then analyze their gazes. me me. julio likey. julio likey. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted March 12, 2016 Report Share Posted March 12, 2016 Bad. I m a piece of wood. Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 12, 2016 Report Share Posted March 12, 2016 Bad for me too. Can't tell if a guy is gay or bi. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iloveboys Posted March 14, 2016 Report Share Posted March 14, 2016 I think in Singapore is very difficult to tell whether a guy is gay or not. Straight guys in SG are becoming so feminine nowadays as well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 14, 2016 Report Share Posted March 14, 2016 Many are closeted gays and gays-in-denial, get married and all. If he has no feeling for you, he pretends he is straight but when he likes you, he opens up to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted March 14, 2016 Report Share Posted March 14, 2016 1 hour ago, iloveboys said: I think in Singapore is very difficult to tell whether a guy is gay or not. Straight guys in SG are becoming so feminine nowadays as well. That s true Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 17, 2016 Report Share Posted March 17, 2016 On 14 March 2016 at 8:29 PM, Guest said: Many are closeted gays and gays-in-denial, get married and all. If he has no feeling for you, he pretends he is straight but when he likes you, he opens up to you. You are right. Even some gays get married or attached with gf. And some straight guys behave feminine or gay. So nowadays very difficult to tell. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Chaka Khan Posted June 27, 2016 Report Share Posted June 27, 2016 To the person who will comment next or quote this is either a cross dresser or drag queen and is totally gay!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kuchii Posted June 27, 2016 Report Share Posted June 27, 2016 (edited) 1 hour ago, Guest Chaka Khan said: To the person who will comment next or quote this is either a cross dresser or drag queen and is totally gay!!! O grow up... Think alot of people here starting to realize...it has nothing to do with whether a person likes guys or girls; its more of a matter of whether the person you like, likes you the same way you like him/her. Remember nothing is constant, he may not like you now but he might change his mind later and vice versa. Keep your mind open and stay positive. You may not find many who may fall in love with you but u sure will find yourself surrounded with friends Edited June 27, 2016 by Kuchii Typo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lean n mean Posted June 27, 2016 Report Share Posted June 27, 2016 (edited) . Edited July 11, 2016 by lean n mean Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Experience Posted June 27, 2016 Report Share Posted June 27, 2016 Gay guys tend to consciously not look at others, will smile by themselves and when they look at you, you get their checking you out gaze - slight narrowly of eyes that are constantly but gently trained on you. Also they tend to be fit and tanned, dress in none monochromatic colours and have nice complexion and short and neatly styled hair. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BranLim Posted June 27, 2016 Report Share Posted June 27, 2016 My gaydar gets an F grade. And oh... I assume everyone is straight and homophobic until proven otherwise: Like holding hands, PDA or look at one and another intimately. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest zoukie Posted August 9, 2016 Report Share Posted August 9, 2016 Something with the eyes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted August 10, 2016 Report Share Posted August 10, 2016 Hard to tell if other guys are gay even your gardar is good now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Hot Swimmer Posted August 10, 2016 Report Share Posted August 10, 2016 On Tuesday, August 09, 2016 at 10:26 PM, Guest zoukie said: Something with the eyes Yes i do agree. Something in their eyes will tell you. Gay boys and gay men have some sort of fairy elvish looks in their eyes. I think 90% good looking guys are bi. By saying that It doesnt mean bi will want to have fun with you. It still depends very much how much you can attract them and how hot you are. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted August 11, 2016 Report Share Posted August 11, 2016 7 hours ago, Guest Hot Swimmer said: Yes i do agree. Something in their eyes will tell you. Gay boys and gay men have some sort of fairy elvish looks in their eyes. I think 90% good looking guys are bi. By saying that It doesnt mean bi will want to have fun with you. It still depends very much how much you can attract them and how hot you are. You are saying most good looking guys are bi? So it means all ugly guys are straight then? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Confused Posted October 26, 2016 Report Share Posted October 26, 2016 Recently I got to know a friend a bit more. He says he has a girlfriend, but he likes to jokingly do things like touch my thigh, rub my crotch, spoon me in bed etc. I can't really tell if he's into me or really just joking around. How do you tell if someone is a plu? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Rubs Posted October 26, 2016 Report Share Posted October 26, 2016 You rub his pants if it bulging or not. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
killerwhale Posted October 26, 2016 Report Share Posted October 26, 2016 Ermmm..... "Are You Gay?" will solve the issue.... if not.... "Are You Into Me?" also can..... lovehandle 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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