Firday Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 I m working at home but i can't afford the kid crying daily n worst at wee hour. The young parent dun know how to pacify their kid about below 5yr old - he seem to have down syndrome or issue. I already feedback to them but they just ignore the situation and shout me off that they plan to move on end of this years but i need to sleep and work at home - i plan to file an official complaint to Town council and MP but the other neigbour feel we should bear with it. Any advice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 Usually the authorities cannot do much, they can only advise them no to disturb others. Even you call police also no use. Just have to bear with it and consider unlucky to have meet such neighbour. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Star Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 Me too... the neighbour’s kid staying above me have been slamming the doors, jumping and running all day long. There is nothing the authorities can do. Suffer in great pain Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 7 minutes ago, Guest Star said: Me too... the neighbour’s kid staying above me have been slamming the doors, jumping and running all day long. There is nothing the authorities can do. Suffer in great pain The neighbour staying above me also always slam doors, stomping on the floor, dragging things on the floor and also throwing things on floor anytime of the day. Next time must stay on the highest unit of the blk to avoid such nuisance neighbour. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Papaya Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 Pls show yr symphaty to the young parents, nobody wants their kid cry all days Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Papaya Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 If every Singaporean just like u, I cant imagine how would it like stay in this ignorent city Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FattChoy Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 Sway sway.... perhaps you should also cry as loud. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 45 minutes ago, FattChoy said: Sway sway.... perhaps you should also cry as loud. Moan louder than the kids. yuquidam and cutejack 2 Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dexter9898 Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 6 hours ago, Firday said: I m working at home but i can't afford the kid crying daily n worst at wee hour. The young parent dun know how to pacify their kid about below 5yr old - he seem to have down syndrome or issue. I already feedback to them but they just ignore the situation and shout me off that they plan to move on end of this years but i need to sleep and work at home - i plan to file an official complaint to Town council and MP but the other neigbour feel we should bear with it. Any advice Ear plugs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jdu Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 Either ear plugs or sound proof the room. Adding curtains might help to damper off the noise as alternative to sending complains. Steve5380 1 Quote Life is like a river flowing into the sea, Love Life. Love, Joy and Peace. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firday Posted January 23, 2021 Author Share Posted January 23, 2021 5 hours ago, Guest guest said: Usually the authorities cannot do much, they can only advise them no to disturb others. Even you call police also no use. Just have to bear with it and consider unlucky to have meet such neighbour. indeed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firday Posted January 23, 2021 Author Share Posted January 23, 2021 5 hours ago, Guest Star said: Me too... the neighbour’s kid staying above me have been slamming the doors, jumping and running all day long. There is nothing the authorities can do. Suffer in great pain You have my sympathy too Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firday Posted January 23, 2021 Author Share Posted January 23, 2021 thank everyone for the input. i talk to a senior neigbourhood to go advise them : the outcome is : 1. The dad also suffer as much as me and the neigbour 2. both parent can't do much about it bcz the boy like to cry 3. they ask us to bear until end of this years to shift out 4. the couple promise to bring the crying kid to outside or downstair based on the senior experience, she say some kid are having issue to adjust their discomfort, maybe i heard ghost noise or tv crying noise or that no crying but i imagination. i will not make any police report, TC and MP meet session bcz i can't afford to be the "troublemaker" bcz it seem family is alway their favouritism than single hood. i just bought a noise cancelling headphone from challenger Next i really think the kid is having down syndrome lastly, i decide to wait until end of this years for them to move out. my secret weapon is spread about their kid issue at the coffeeshop so that everyone will gossip why their kid like that so that exert some pressure on them. Maybe weekend they go back to grand parent house to hide. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firday Posted January 23, 2021 Author Share Posted January 23, 2021 Admin kindly closed this thread since nothing much to progress Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonelyglobe Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 5 hours ago, Guest guest said: Next time must stay on the highest unit of the blk to avoid such nuisance neighbour. Staying highest floor can only avoid the top floor, but if really suay, can still kena from left, right and below. New town like Punggol probably have more young couples with babies and young child. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonelyglobe Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 5 hours ago, Guest guest said: Next time must stay on the highest unit of the blk to avoid such nuisance neighbour. Staying highest floor can only avoid the top floor, but if really suay, can still kena from left, right and below. New town like Punggol probably have more young couples with babies and young child. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firday Posted January 23, 2021 Author Share Posted January 23, 2021 actually noise is unavoidable no matter high floor or next right or left .. my issue is down sydrome kid crying, yelling with high pitch voice - that killing me ! now i can salute those child care centre teacher for their bravery act ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firday Posted January 23, 2021 Author Share Posted January 23, 2021 Just now, Firday said: actually noise is unavoidable no matter high floor or next right or left .. my issue is down sydrome kid crying, yelling with high pitch voice - that killing me ! now i can salute those child care centre teacher for their bravery act ! also affect my work especially zoom meeting - my boss is very unhappy about it. i try to re locate at a quiet spot ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 9 minutes ago, Firday said: also affect my work especially zoom meeting - my boss is very unhappy about it. i try to re locate at a quiet spot ! Tell your boss to be more inclusive. Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firday Posted January 23, 2021 Author Share Posted January 23, 2021 Just now, fab said: Tell your boss to be more inclusive. my female boss say : make police report then file official complaint to TC and MP session. next ask newpaper reporter to disgrace them ! or find another job ! anyway she unmarried - heartless, emotionless and not very "clever type" i tender my resignation few day ago bcz of the stress from the down sydnrome kid ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firday Posted January 23, 2021 Author Share Posted January 23, 2021 Just now, Firday said: my female boss say : make police report then file official complaint to TC and MP session. next ask newpaper reporter to disgrace them ! or find another job ! anyway she unmarried - heartless, emotionless and not very "clever type" i tender my resignation few day ago bcz of the stress from the down sydnrome kid ! ps : i decide to shift to my parent house for time being ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
auscent Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 This is not easy to solve. Special needs kids are not easy to deal with. You did the right thing exploring more practical steps like moving out for time being, trying to sound proofs. Dont let the issue bug you. No choice but to up ur resilience for now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stock-top Posted January 24, 2021 Share Posted January 24, 2021 7 hours ago, Firday said: anyway she unmarried - heartless, emotionless and not very "clever type" Then most gays and lesbians are heartless, emotionless and not very "clever" because many of them are not married. 😑 fallmerees 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Derelict Posted January 24, 2021 Share Posted January 24, 2021 When I was doing my A levels, I asked my econs private tutor who stayed in a condo: apart from the facilities, what is the difference between a condo and HDB? He knocked on the wall and explained that private condo wall, ceiling, floor are solid concrete whereas HDB is hollow. That's why you can hear all those nosies above and sideways. Also all condo pipes are concealed, so you can't hear upstairs bathe, flush toilet etc. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 24, 2021 Share Posted January 24, 2021 18 hours ago, lonelyglobe said: Staying highest floor can only avoid the top floor, but if really suay, can still kena from left, right and below. New town like Punggol probably have more young couples with babies and young child. I find most of the time noisy neighbour usually come from the unit staying above you. Left and right not so bad. Punggol and sengkang really have many kids and babies due to many young couples stay there. Better don't stay there if you don't like kids. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 24, 2021 Share Posted January 24, 2021 17 hours ago, Firday said: my female boss say : make police report then file official complaint to TC and MP session. next ask newpaper reporter to disgrace them ! or find another job ! anyway she unmarried - heartless, emotionless and not very "clever type" i tender my resignation few day ago bcz of the stress from the down sydnrome kid ! You tender your resignation due to this? Did you found another job? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted January 24, 2021 Share Posted January 24, 2021 11 hours ago, stock-top said: Then most gays and lesbians are heartless, emotionless and not very "clever" because many of them are not married. 😑 Most cleverpeople, regardless of orientation are heartless. They tend to be very calculative. yuquidam 1 Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest My Thought Posted January 24, 2021 Share Posted January 24, 2021 On 23/01/2021 at 4:30 PM, Firday said: I m working at home but i can't afford the kid crying daily n worst at wee hour. If you hear bottom screaming during sex in the wee hour, will your reaction be any different? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted January 24, 2021 Share Posted January 24, 2021 12 hours ago, Guest Derelict said: When I was doing my A levels, I asked my econs private tutor who stayed in a condo: apart from the facilities, what is the difference between a condo and HDB? He knocked on the wall and explained that private condo wall, ceiling, floor are solid concrete whereas HDB is hollow. That's why you can hear all those nosies above and sideways. Also all condo pipes are concealed, so you can't hear upstairs bathe, flush toilet etc. That was in the past. Developers nowadays will try to cut corner wherever they can. They are not here to build houses for you to live in. They are just here to make a quick buck from you. However, condos, old or new, still got chance for enbloc sale and sell to other developers if the majority of the residents there say so. HDB residents got no such chance even if everybody wants to do so. Only if HDB wants to take it back, then there is a chances for SERS which is a chance in a million. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonelyglobe Posted January 24, 2021 Share Posted January 24, 2021 12 hours ago, Guest Derelict said: When I was doing my A levels, I asked my econs private tutor who stayed in a condo: apart from the facilities, what is the difference between a condo and HDB? A 2 bedroom condo can easily cost u 800k+ while a 3 room resale HDB cost u 300k+ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 24, 2021 Share Posted January 24, 2021 4 minutes ago, lonelyglobe said: A 2 bedroom condo can easily cost u 800k+ while a 3 room resale HDB cost u 300k+ There is a price for you to pay for a better walls? Haha. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yuquidam Posted January 24, 2021 Share Posted January 24, 2021 (edited) 8 hours ago, fab said: Most cleverpeople, regardless of orientation are heartless. They tend to be very calculative. Hahaha...for once am happy to admit I am very stupid ...LOL Edited January 24, 2021 by yuquidam fab 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firday Posted January 25, 2021 Author Share Posted January 25, 2021 16 hours ago, Guest guest said: You tender your resignation due to this? Did you found another job? due to my useless boss - incomptent and wasting time working with her - at my age, i have enough for basis living. 14 hours ago, Guest My Thought said: If you hear bottom screaming during sex in the wee hour, will your reaction be any different? seriously, i put my dick into his mouth to cease the moaning ! Only difference is porn clip can use headphone ! 12 hours ago, lonelyglobe said: A 2 bedroom condo can easily cost u 800k+ while a 3 room resale HDB cost u 300k+ Well say but money well spend is my main concern ! 7 hours ago, Steve5380 said: You have a good heart and this reflects in your decision to not make any police reports. I agree with this post: Given the seriousness of your hardship, you may not want to spare any cost to get an acceptable solution. And one could be a pair of EXCELLENT headphones. I recommend the Sony WH-1000MX4. They have the best noise suppression in the industry, not only because they fit tight over the ears in a very comfortable way, but also because of their electronic suppression, that can be optimized for the ambient. Another plus is to be wireless using bluetooth, great for mobility, with remote adjustments of volume and other settings at the source. The only negative is that they are expensive. I have had them for a month now, and they are changing my life. Not for any suppression of noise, of which I have little in my home, but for the mobility. I can use them nearly all day long and walk around the house without losing connectivity, which I get from one of to two places: my computer, where I listen to a lot of classical music from YouTube, and my television / stereo equipment which I use often to watch the news and other programs. I had to add buetooth transmitters to these rather old equipment, but this is only minor inconvenience. The sound quality is great, comparable to being in an auditorium. Another use I give them, which you may not have, is to listen to music while I am blowing the leaves in my yard, very well isolated from the noise of the blower. I still have to try how they do while mowing my lawn with the noisy gas mower. But you cannot sleep with these headphones on, unless... you lay on your back and don't move. For the night, it may be better to use regular ear plugs or noise-cancelling ear buds, but I'm not sure about these. If you get used to live your life decoupled from external sounds and at will immersed in your favorite music, you may thank that crying kid... thankyou for the nice compliment that make other forumer jeaslously - anyway ignore his comments, dun need to response to let him write more here. I already bought the headphone but you are dam right - not to my expectation - the brand is creative. Since i m going to relocate to my parent place - so i just stick on with the exisiting headphone. Once thng for sure, i alway feel Sony brand create fantastic product from my collection of cd player to xperia x mobile. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted January 25, 2021 Share Posted January 25, 2021 On 1/23/2021 at 11:44 PM, Firday said: my secret weapon is spread about their kid issue at the coffeeshop so that everyone will gossip why their kid like that so that exert some pressure on them. Shouldn't you be worried about karma? What you do to the little one ... 9 hours ago, Steve5380 said: You have a good heart and this reflects in your decision to not make any police reports. "Good heart" indeed..... Yes... just go ahead and goad him on. You only talk about his decision "not make any police reports", but not about his decision to "spread about their kid issue at the coffeeshop so that everyone will gossip why their kid like that". You are the really Satan-personified. And when karma happens, what will you be doing? Drinking tea or coffee? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted January 25, 2021 Share Posted January 25, 2021 My down stairs neighbor's daughter cry everyday. As big as 4 5 yo n still crying seeking parents attention. I shouted from my unit telling them to tame their kid unless she is crying coz her parents already died. From then onwards no more noise. Too bad some ppl need to be treated like treating an animal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 25, 2021 Share Posted January 25, 2021 1 hour ago, Firday said: due to my useless boss - incomptent and wasting time working with her - at my age, i have enough for basis living. Female boss not easy to work with. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
G_M Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 On 1/25/2021 at 11:48 AM, Steve5380 said: I am much in agreement with your opinion of Sony products. The CD player in my stereo equipment is the Sony CDP-102, a wonderful player I bought about 35 years ago and it has been working since. My amplifier/receiver is a Sony STR-AV480, my auto-reversing cassette deck (not being used anymore) is a Sony TC-K501R, both from about the same era. My great cellphone that has been in my pockets now for over 6 years is a Sony Xperia Z3 Compact, with excellent camera and battery. Not surprising that I have so much older stuff, since I am an older man who likes products of quality. Hello uncle, what has this got to do with this topic? You had been going off topics in many discussion. Did you take the wrong meds? Please stick to the topic before I give you a long holiday! Quote http://www.facebook.com/gachimuchi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Cry Baby Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 When baby cries, I tend to be more forgiving because poor little human beings, they have a long journey in this life. If parents allow their babies to create havoc like running and screaming in the library or kicking balls at their neighbour doors or pulling other plants from their pot, than we need to scream at the parents instead. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted January 31, 2021 Share Posted January 31, 2021 12 hours ago, G_M said: Hello uncle, what has this got to do with this topic? You had been going off topics in many discussion. Did you take the wrong meds? Please stick to the topic before I give you a long holiday! Oh please... forgive this poor grandpa who is more there than here... And he cannot take the wrong meds because he doesn't take ANY meds! It's good that you called his attention on the important issue of staying on topic. His feeble old mind is so vulnerable to be diverted to any tangent... But I will push him to be more careful Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluerunner Posted February 1, 2021 Share Posted February 1, 2021 On 1/24/2021 at 10:18 PM, lonelyglobe said: A 2 bedroom condo can easily cost u 800k+ while a 3 room resale HDB cost u 300k+ A new 2 bedrooms condo now cost more than $1million. Not easy to find new unit under $1mil. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 1, 2021 Share Posted February 1, 2021 13 hours ago, bluerunner said: A new 2 bedrooms condo now cost more than $1million. Not easy to find new unit under $1mil. Brand new 2 bedder condo also so expensive? Are you referring to those in good location? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 1, 2021 Share Posted February 1, 2021 On 1/31/2021 at 5:48 PM, Guest Cry Baby said: When baby cries, I tend to be more forgiving because poor little human beings, they have a long journey in this life. If parents allow their babies to create havoc like running and screaming in the library or kicking balls at their neighbour doors or pulling other plants from their pot, than we need to scream at the parents instead. Even you scream at the parents also no use. Nowadays many parents don't discipline their kids and even side their kids when they are naughty and disturb their neighbhours. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted February 1, 2021 Share Posted February 1, 2021 Speaking of screaming kids. Most of these idiotic couples only know how to fcuk and give birth but cunt educate their kids. Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 1, 2021 Share Posted February 1, 2021 1 minute ago, fab said: Speaking of screaming kids. Most of these idiotic couples only know how to fcuk and give birth but cunt educate their kids. This is how current the practice of all parents, they do not know and do not bother to educate and discipline their kids. Only know how to spoilt their kids Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted February 1, 2021 Share Posted February 1, 2021 On 1/23/2021 at 9:33 AM, jdu said: Either ear plugs or sound proof the room. Adding curtains might help to damper off the noise as alternative to sending complains. Your and @dexter9898's early posts about wear ear plugs and dampen the noise I find still the best ones (plus my deleted post about using noise cancelling bluetooth headphones to listen instead to nice music). Not a necessity anymore to @Friday since he is moving. These latest posts about insufficient disciplining of children were written by people... who never married and had children. This may excuse their lack of empathy. Yes, there are inconsiderate parents who don't care about the burden their kids are to others. But in general, the parents are the first and most direct victims of the inconveniences of having little children. Same with owning a barking dog or a cat that scratches everything to pieces. There are better ways to educate little children than beating them up, but a sad reality is that nearly everyone has the right to be a parent, without proper "certification of competence". Ng Ngai Lam 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluerunner Posted February 2, 2021 Share Posted February 2, 2021 9 hours ago, Guest guest said: Brand new 2 bedder condo also so expensive? Are you referring to those in good location? At Geylang and Dakota. I suspect some of them are free hold units. Not sure about that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Wrong!!! Posted February 2, 2021 Share Posted February 2, 2021 8 hours ago, Steve5380 said: But in general, the parents are the first and most direct victims of the inconveniences of having little children. Same with owning a barking dog or a cat that scratches everything to pieces. Wrong! Wrong! so very Wrong!! Many parents view their children as treasure, what inconveniences were you talking about? By over pampering your child, treating them like gem at the expenses of other people inconviences are the key issue here. Human beings need to be taught, disciplined and trained to be civilised in public space. If you don't do it when they are still young, they will become tough to bend when they get old and worse, radicalised by their own parents and then return you the fucking like a terror. and only then, you will know what inconveniences look like to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firday Posted February 2, 2021 Author Share Posted February 2, 2021 On 1/24/2021 at 12:17 AM, Firday said: ps : i decide to shift to my parent house for time being ! latest update : The young parent were interview by social worker on the autism crying kid - they have move "crying" to their parent place. Aplogise to me and the rest of neigbourhood with basket of biscuit,instant mee and cakes for the inconvience cause to us. I think teach or guide by the social worker to cease PR stunts. Being single , we can relocate, instant change and immediate adjustment but for couple with commitment is not that easy. So let be empathy as much as we can ! No more to argue about parenting, what make us expert about parenting when never experience before. So less argue who right or wrong - afterall i m the one who suffer the problem. so please cease fire fighting lah. Ng Ngai Lam 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve5380 Posted February 2, 2021 Share Posted February 2, 2021 23 minutes ago, Firday said: latest update : The young parent were interview by social worker on the autism crying kid - they have move "crying" to their parent place. Aplogise to me and the rest of neigbourhood with basket of biscuit,instant mee and cakes for the inconvience cause to us. I think teach or guide by the social worker to cease PR stunts. Being single , we can relocate, instant change and immediate adjustment but for couple with commitment is not that easy. So let be empathy as much as we can ! No more to argue about parenting, what make us expert about parenting when never experience before. So less argue who right or wrong - afterall i m the one who suffer the problem. so please cease fire fighting lah. This was so nice from the young parents! Are you still thinking of moving? 43 minutes ago, Guest Wrong!!! said: Wrong! Wrong! so very Wrong!! Where you see wrong? Good parenting is a constant outpouring of love. But this does not take away the inconveniences. It is the same with taking care of beloved who are incapacitated. Parents and caretakers deserve recognition for their sacrifices. There is victimization in parenting, in care taking, although it is accepted through love. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest guest Posted February 2, 2021 Share Posted February 2, 2021 Did i read that the child is an autistic child? Shame on those who criticise the parents. you are one of those kids whose parents cane u everyday thats why u are like that now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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