Hooking up with your co-workers/colleagues

[juicyass]

Have you ever had any sexual encounters with your co-workers before? If you did, what was the post-sex situation between you two? awkward? one time thing ? still keeping strictly professional? still having sex often? I am genuinely curious about the afterwards drama. 😂 

[cbm]

I never. There's one recent famous hetero case. PropertyLim company boss and one of the lady staff. Both left their jobs. The lady is married. She cheated on her husband. After people see how the husband look like, they cannot understand why she would want to cheat on such a fine young man.

[cutejack]

Ever. After that meet at the canteen , see my mood. Sometime see them n wink2 n smile. Sometime ignore. Some would keep staring at me n some would ignore . OK la. Few of them since I'm working for a big organisation. Mutual n ok mah. Why awkward? I simply don't understand why gays behave like criminals. Hiding like fuck! Both want fun n pleasure. Done with it n act normal. We are adults.

Edited June 16 by cutejack

[leckmich]

Just fck n keep quiet

[Guest Guest]

He’s not exactly my colleague. Instead, he’s from another company located on the same floor. On each floor in that commercial building, there’re a common toilet (many cubicles and urinals) and next to it, another executive toilet (a small lockable room with one urinal and a toilet bowl). We noticed each other and have eye contacts. One day, I was walking out and saw him walking towards the common toilet. We exchanged glances. With a naughty thought in mind, I walked into the executive toilet, left the door unlock, stood in front of the urinal with my magic wand out. Soon enough, the door behind me was opened. He locked the door, hugged me from behind to hold my growing magic wand. He started to jerk it. I turned around, unzipped him and did the same. We did bj and hj. As most of the people WFH, there was no disturbance. We exchanged numbers and did quite frequently after that. This continued until WFH was progressively cancelled and people started to return to office. Soon, he left that company. Missed those COVID days.

[tinkymale]

3 hours ago, Guest Guest said:

He’s not exactly my colleague. Instead, he’s from another company located on the same floor. On each floor in that commercial building, there’re a common toilet (many cubicles and urinals) and next to it, another executive toilet (a small lockable room with one urinal and a toilet bowl). We noticed each other and have eye contacts. One day, I was walking out and saw him walking towards the common toilet. We exchanged glances. With a naughty thought in mind, I walked into the executive toilet, left the door unlock, stood in front of the urinal with my magic wand out. Soon enough, the door behind me was opened. He locked the door, hugged me from behind to hold my growing magic wand. He started to jerk it. I turned around, unzipped him and did the same. We did bj and hj. As most of the people WFH, there was no disturbance. We exchanged numbers and did quite frequently after that. This continued until WFH was progressively cancelled and people started to return to office. Soon, he left that company. Missed those COVID days.

Lucky you 

[Monsterbim]

yup found a colleague via g app and he started meeting me to suck my cock in various company toilets. eventually I even transferred to his team and we continued having discreet light fun while acting like totally normal colleagues. now both of us have left the company. good memories and I believe a lot of such cases out there

[MasterFitMalaySG4U]

Better not haha either one can be a bitch...quite surprised most don't bite drama bring other down......

 

But still we do see other body n cock blah3 but no fun sex 

 

Yes I do agreed for office fun sex it would be better if meet by gay apps and do other office building like what i did. U be surprised haha from 1-3 haha

[radiusulnar]

The advice is usually not to shit where you eat

[singalion]

On 6/16/2026 at 1:37 PM, cbm said:

I never. There's one recent famous hetero case. PropertyLim company boss and one of the lady staff. Both left their jobs. The lady is married. She cheated on her husband. After people see how the husband look like, they cannot understand why she would want to cheat on such a fine young man.

 

I could recall some reasons... LOL

[singalion]

On 6/16/2026 at 12:11 PM, juicyass said:

Have you ever had any sexual encounters with your co-workers before? If you did, what was the post-sex situation between you two? awkward? one time thing ? still keeping strictly professional? still having sex often? I am genuinely curious about the afterwards drama. 😂 

 

In the straight world it seems to happen quite often actually. 

But I would always advise against it. Namely because of the danger that later rejection leads to revenge, severe stalking or emotional stress. 

 

 

[Guest Co111]

Happened to me after I tender my resignation more than 1 occasion. One guy was touchy.  Wasn't obviously gay.  So I didn't stop him.  But I think after a few times, he thought it's ok and left his hands on my thighs.  I still didn't stop him, pretending to be focusing on something and didn't notice.  Then the smile came, etc, etc.  I think nothing much happened.  We just masturbate each other on that day.  No follow up.  I leave him with the thought that it's just one off and don't want him to think that there will be part 2.

 

Another time, the colleague came to me after I tender.  Was early morning and nobody else around.  We spoke.  Then later on, he told me he got a hardon this morning when we spoke. He told me he like me but was shy about it.  I actually didn't believe him cause he's quite a cunning guy.  And he has no baggage, in the sense that he can say/do anything and get away with it.  May be he was testing me and see if I fall for it.  So I thought, well, since leaving, may be good to try out and see if things can happen like in those videos.  I asked him if he was having a hardon at that moment and he say yes.  So I just touch and see if he's really hard.  If he is, then he's telling the truth.  If not, then he's lying.  And he was really hard.  We had 1 or 2 times after that.  But I don't like the guy.  It's just the thrill of doing with office people.

 

Another time was colleague from overseas.  He came to work here for a few months.  Company had gym and we met in the steam room.  He started it.  Just simple stuff in the steam room.  I also went overseas to his office sometime later and he came to my hotel.

 

All these short and one/2 off type.

 

One is longer term cause he's a good friend of mine.  Same company, different dept.  Before we didn't anything, we were close and we know quite a lot of each other already.  Somehow we got into this topic and the conversation lead us to try things.

[Guest Co111]

oh... one more I can remember.  This one is outrageous.  My also from office gym. Was late. This is a collague from another dept.  I only met him from gym and we spoke.  He was in the bathroom when I went in.  After I finish bathing, he was still standing there, don't know doing what.  When I was about to leave, he offered to drive me back as it was along the way (that's true).  But he detoured to a dark place and asked me to help him... vaguely remember, he asked me to put in my mouth. No lah... end of story.

[Da Rius]

I recalled when I was working for a large MNC previously, got once I was working OT, office wasn't totally empty but quiet enough. I went to the toilet to pee, and was a little horny to be honest. Was alone in the whole toilet so decided to jerk myself off.

Was sitting on the toilet bowl and watching some porn off tumblr when someone walked in. I kept my actions minimal and hope that guy would leave shortly, but he was in the cubicle for a long time. His cubicle was 3 cubicles away from mine. It went on for almost 10 minutes and I didn't hear much sound coming from his cubicle so I got curious. I bent down and glanced under the partition towards his side. I could see his leather shoes and he should be sitting on the toilet bowl. Guess he could be taking a dump.

Waited for another 2 - 3 minutes, still no movement. I bent down again to see and this time, I caught him doing the same, looking over my side through the gap below the partitions too. He quickly sat up but I managed to catch a glance of his face, quite cute, wearing a white executive shirt with navy blue executive pants. I didn't recognise his face as our office span across 3 floors, and there were many hundreds of employees - impossible for me to know everyone.

I wasn't hopeful that he would be done anytime soon and I wanted to spare him the agony that I was similarly facing so I zipped up, flushed and wanted to leave him alone to do his thing. I did catch a glance of his ring when I saw his face too so I guess he was married or something, perhaps just a straight guy who is horny lah. Surprisingly, he too, came out of the cubicle and joined me at the wash basin. He smiled at me as he took the basin beside mine and damn, he IS cute.

I shook my hands dry, and decided to try my luck. Instead of heading out, I went to the urinal opposite the basins and pretended to pee. I could see from the corner of my eye that he was looking my direction. To my surprised he joined me at the urinal. By then, I was already semi hard with my dick outside my open zip. I looked at him and smiled at him. He got the signal immediately. After he pull his dick out of his zipper, his hand was on my dick and mine was on his. The warmth from our hands made both our dicks super hard as we stroked each other. While we had no company for the ~10 mins we were there, I guess the fear of getting caught kept our climax at bay, his phone rang after that and he quickly zipped up and left the toilet.

Got to know a while later that he was from the legal department whom I have little dealings with. Managed to snuck another quickie with him before I resigned. lol

[bluerunner]

Never shit where you eat. Period. 

[funky beaver]

3 hours ago, bluerunner said:

Never shit where you eat. Period. 

What kind of bad experience you encounter?

[bluerunner]

13 hours ago, funky beaver said:

What kind of bad experience you encounter?

You do it and tell us la. 

Edited July 17 by bluerunner

[riverrobles]

I don't and won't even try to do it with any of my colleague even if they present themselves in the nude.

 

The crazy part was when I saw one of them in Absolute (if you still remember that place), I didnt even know he was into gay sex. I saw this muscled colleague of mine, fully naked with a hard-on( he wants to join the train) and he saw me being fucked at the rooftop, he didn't fuck me.

 

We know just by looking at each other's eyes that this will be a secret and we still let ourselves continue to have fun after the revelation that both of us have the same hobby.

We don't talk whenever we are at the office unless its work but whenever we meet in the saunas we are so free.

[doncoin]

We have this consultant, who is a relative of one of our clients, who we will hire from time to time depending on the project. Each consulting period typically lasts between 2 to 3 months. The last project he worked with us ended around May this year, and I haven't seen him in about 2 months since. I sort of figured he is gay but never really bother to confirm. He is a nice guy, pretty smart in his field I would say, and overall, we get along professionally. 

 

Last week, I took a couple of days off to be at the beach house to catch up with my friends. For the most parts, it was pretty chill. The focus was more on strengthening our friendship than partying, plus we are all in our 50s. As usual, on the weekends, there is tea dance at the only bar/club in that part of town, so pretty much everyone was there. I was with my friends and we were talking to other people, when I heard someone called out my name. It was the consultant. He came over, gave me an enormous hug, which took me by surprise. I did think he was a little tipsy at that point. 

 

Long story short, we ended up dancing together. The space isn't big, and it was crammed pretty much with shirtless men. My friends and I had fun, and my friend group merged with his friend group, and we were all dancing together. When you are dancing in a tight space, there will be these accidental bumps, but I kept getting this feeling that it was intentional with him, especially when people are moving about, and he would bump himself against me and lingered a bit more than necessary. i admit, i did enjoy the attention from a younger guy in his mid-30s. Plus it was fun as it has been some time since I last went dancing. Anyway, my friends and I left about 5ish and we said our goodbyes, while he and his friends stayed behind and migrated to the after party. 

 

Around 9ish, he sent me a text, asking if I want to meet for a drink. i told him that he is more than welcomed to swing by our house since we have a pretty well-stocked bar. About 10 minutes later, he showed up. We sat outside by the pool, with drinks and was just catching up. We talked about work mostly, office gossip, etc. At one point, he asked if he could take a swim in the pool, and I said go ahead. He strip to his shorts, which weren't really meant for swimming, and then he asked if I mind if he take them off. I shrugged, and he removed them. He jumped into the pool naked, and was enjoying himself and at his urging I stripped and jumped in too.

 

I think the moment when he asked to remove his shorts, I had an inkling of what is about to happen. I am so grateful to have friends who probably figured out what is happening when i told them the consultant is stopping by for drinks earlier. Two of them went back out to the bars or the meat rack to cruise, while 3 others stayed in and watched a movie. So we were respectfully undisturbed. We swam a bit, drank a bit, flirted... at some point, we started making out at one end of the pool. There was definitely a lot of teasing. 

 

He definitely knows how to work a cock with his mouth, and yes, we did stupid things like he tried to give me a bj under water, but wasn't really sucessful as the water kept entering his mouth. Still we enjoyed ourselves quite a bit with foreplay. When I suggested we go to my room, where I have lube, he simply picked up a bottle of sun tan lotion we had lying about and squeezed the bottle into his palm and started stroking my cock with it. The tip is, suntan lotion is not the best lube. It works but not as smooth as regular lube, also you can't switch back to sucking after fucking. It tastes horrible. 

 

In the end, we made it to my room, not before walking past my friends watching tv in the living room. They pretend not to notice, but I had to give the details when he left. We met up again the next day and hooked up again before he took the Sunday evening ferry back to the city. 

 

 

 

 

[cutejack]

20 hours ago, doncoin said:

We have this consultant, who is a relative of one of our clients, who we will hire from time to time depending on the project. Each consulting period typically lasts between 2 to 3 months. The last project he worked with us ended around May this year, and I haven't seen him in about 2 months since. I sort of figured he is gay but never really bother to confirm. He is a nice guy, pretty smart in his field I would say, and overall, we get along professionally. 

 

Last week, I took a couple of days off to be at the beach house to catch up with my friends. For the most parts, it was pretty chill. The focus was more on strengthening our friendship than partying, plus we are all in our 50s. As usual, on the weekends, there is tea dance at the only bar/club in that part of town, so pretty much everyone was there. I was with my friends and we were talking to other people, when I heard someone called out my name. It was the consultant. He came over, gave me an enormous hug, which took me by surprise. I did think he was a little tipsy at that point. 

 

Long story short, we ended up dancing together. The space isn't big, and it was crammed pretty much with shirtless men. My friends and I had fun, and my friend group merged with his friend group, and we were all dancing together. When you are dancing in a tight space, there will be these accidental bumps, but I kept getting this feeling that it was intentional with him, especially when people are moving about, and he would bump himself against me and lingered a bit more than necessary. i admit, i did enjoy the attention from a younger guy in his mid-30s. Plus it was fun as it has been some time since I last went dancing. Anyway, my friends and I left about 5ish and we said our goodbyes, while he and his friends stayed behind and migrated to the after party. 

 

Around 9ish, he sent me a text, asking if I want to meet for a drink. i told him that he is more than welcomed to swing by our house since we have a pretty well-stocked bar. About 10 minutes later, he showed up. We sat outside by the pool, with drinks and was just catching up. We talked about work mostly, office gossip, etc. At one point, he asked if he could take a swim in the pool, and I said go ahead. He strip to his shorts, which weren't really meant for swimming, and then he asked if I mind if he take them off. I shrugged, and he removed them. He jumped into the pool naked, and was enjoying himself and at his urging I stripped and jumped in too.

 

I think the moment when he asked to remove his shorts, I had an inkling of what is about to happen. I am so grateful to have friends who probably figured out what is happening when i told them the consultant is stopping by for drinks earlier. Two of them went back out to the bars or the meat rack to cruise, while 3 others stayed in and watched a movie. So we were respectfully undisturbed. We swam a bit, drank a bit, flirted... at some point, we started making out at one end of the pool. There was definitely a lot of teasing. 

 

He definitely knows how to work a cock with his mouth, and yes, we did stupid things like he tried to give me a bj under water, but wasn't really sucessful as the water kept entering his mouth. Still we enjoyed ourselves quite a bit with foreplay. When I suggested we go to my room, where I have lube, he simply picked up a bottle of sun tan lotion we had lying about and squeezed the bottle into his palm and started stroking my cock with it. The tip is, suntan lotion is not the best lube. It works but not as smooth as regular lube, also you can't switch back to sucking after fucking. It tastes horrible. 

 

In the end, we made it to my room, not before walking past my friends watching tv in the living room. They pretend not to notice, but I had to give the details when he left. We met up again the next day and hooked up again before he took the Sunday evening ferry back to the city. 

 

 

 

 

Aiyah more details on the bedroom activity la. Like nothing much ley. How was it? Juicy? What u guys did? He moaned out loud? Cummed alot? Tell la. Hahahaah..hope to get more projects with him. I mean work projects ya.

[YiT]

On 6/19/2026 at 12:37 PM, Guest Co111 said:

Happened to me after I tender my resignation more than 1 occasion. One guy was touchy.  Wasn't obviously gay.  So I didn't stop him.  But I think after a few times, he thought it's ok and left his hands on my thighs.  I still didn't stop him, pretending to be focusing on something and didn't notice.  Then the smile came, etc, etc.  I think nothing much happened.  We just masturbate each other on that day.  No follow up.  I leave him with the thought that it's just one off and don't want him to think that there will be part 2.

 

Another time, the colleague came to me after I tender.  Was early morning and nobody else around.  We spoke.  Then later on, he told me he got a hardon this morning when we spoke. He told me he like me but was shy about it.  I actually didn't believe him cause he's quite a cunning guy.  And he has no baggage, in the sense that he can say/do anything and get away with it.  May be he was testing me and see if I fall for it.  So I thought, well, since leaving, may be good to try out and see if things can happen like in those videos.  I asked him if he was having a hardon at that moment and he say yes.  So I just touch and see if he's really hard.  If he is, then he's telling the truth.  If not, then he's lying.  And he was really hard.  We had 1 or 2 times after that.  But I don't like the guy.  It's just the thrill of doing with office people.

 

Another time was colleague from overseas.  He came to work here for a few months.  Company had gym and we met in the steam room.  He started it.  Just simple stuff in the steam room.  I also went overseas to his office sometime later and he came to my hotel.

 

All these short and one/2 off type.

 

One is longer term cause he's a good friend of mine.  Same company, different dept.  Before we didn't anything, we were close and we know quite a lot of each other already.  Somehow we got into this topic and the conversation lead us to try things.

Nice to find such colleagues...make work fun but hard to focus...haha

[Eventide]

On 6/16/2026 at 12:11 PM, juicyass said:

Have you ever had any sexual encounters with your co-workers before? If you did, what was the post-sex situation between you two? awkward? one time thing ? still keeping strictly professional? still having sex often? I am genuinely curious about the afterwards drama. 😂 

Different company ok, same company is a big nono unless you want to be the next grace/melvin 🙄

[doncoin]

20 hours ago, cutejack said:

Aiyah more details on the bedroom activity la. Like nothing much ley. How was it? Juicy? What u guys did? He moaned out loud? Cummed alot? Tell la. Hahahaah..hope to get more projects with him. I mean work projects ya.

 

Will probably have more gigs for him in the future since his uncle is a big client of ours. 

[GachiMuchi]

My most memorable sex would have to go to my colleague whom I work with offshore. Luckily during my time in the 90s, there wasn't many cameras on the plant floor. My job was to go on the deck floor to check for adnormal noises on the pumps. He was someone I had a fling with many years ago during my army days.  Being in our 20s, with hormones raging, he come over to me to "indicate" to me that he miss the fun we had. I oblidged that if he can get me hard, I will fullfil his wish.  He dropped to his kness and started to blow me. We were on the plant floor and the only way up is the lift and if anyone were to walk up the stairs, we can also hear the movement because everyone of us are issued with safety shoes. 

Not daring to remove all our clothes, we only removed our pants halfway, he got me hot and hard with his mouth, I wet my dick with my spit and slowly inch my dick into him. (sorry ah, back then, I don't carry condom in my wallet, don't curcified me).

I tried to do him missionary but the floor is too hard, so we ended up horse back fucking.

It was not nice as his ass was still rather dry. I was only after a short while that my precum started and it became smooth. 

It was a mixed feelings of excitment doing on the plant floor and the worrying of getting caught and the hormones working all working at the same time. In no time, I pulled out and come outside him.  By then, he had also jerk himself off while I was barebacking him from behind. We proper ourselves and then went about our work. 

That was a once in a life time thing to have it on the plant floor. 

[Why?]

In past employment, my supervisor and coworkers have tempted me. They were attractive, manly, and married, which makes it alluring. I was able to resist the need to have sex with them for some reason, and I subsequently made plans to quit when a new position became available.  My priority in work is to make money, not love.  

[Guest no one]

i used to be a perm temp at a well know MNC at Novena. One day at Cali gym a guy caught my eye and he gave me a good BJ in the showers. I later learned that he is a manager from a different department. We recall we fucked alot in the weeks and months we dated. It was fun. 

[juicyass]

Since I started this topic, I shall share mine too.

 

This happened probably 10 years back when I was newly hired working in a small company as membership consultant. In the small office itself, only me and the malay manager (who was suspiciously gay/bisexual married man). I was always on Grindr to check out the guys nearby. So happened this stocky bear malay guy was very near to me. We chatted for a few days and only to have found out he was a friend of the manager. He frequently came and visit him casually. We both could feel the sexual tension arose in the room whenever he was there hanging out with the manager. Then, we decided to have sex in the office since it has no cctv, and the manager always leave on 7pm and I worked until 10pm. I have all the room by myself most of the time. This was my first time having sex in the office. It was thrilling but we both knew nobody would walk in on us beyond 8pm. We fucked like crazy from the office, to the toilet, and then to the store room that was meant for "solat". 

 

This occasion happened twice before I resigned after working there for a month.

 

Later the bear told me that he did have a few flings with the manager. I sort of knew from the beginning.