Long Term Relationship (Compiled)

[Sens079]

Hi there,

Anyone else discreet str8, curious bi or married seeking to explore bromance with another guy?  

Pm me to know me. 46yo ch. Bi here. 

Edited August 16, 2025 by Sens079

[Xal]

Age: 31

Height: 187

Weight: 124

Role: Top

Interests/hobbies: Singing, Travelling, Cooking, Eating

 

Self-description: 

I am a str8 acting and very straight forward person that can be quite spontaneous if i have the time.

Also, i am a very protective person by nature.

 

My time is mainly spent on work and friends, and hopefully a partner in the equation in the near future.

 

Was previously in a 4 years rls where things was pretty one sided. Always giving the love and concern but not really receiving it.

 

Currently going to gym and hopefully cut down my weight.

 

P.s. i am a planner. I plan for things. And have a calendar filled with things that matters.

 

The kind of guy I envision to be with: 

A kind and self driven person.

 

Body wise, anything except chub

And not really into feminine guys

(Very sorry, just a preference here....)

[dam81]

1. Name: Dyson

2. Age: 44 

3. Height: 1.83

4. Weight: 85kg

5. Role: side or top  (based on reviews and what 

 

6. Interests/hobbies: music, movies, gyms at FF (westgate, fusionopolis mostly), plays nintendo switch, goes to arcade for destress. I like hiking too or just nature walks when time permits and with the right company. I stay in the north west region on the red line. I collect popmart stuff too 😜 I like to go JB for staycations too.

 

7. Self Description: In life we have a lot of responsibilities; work, family and love. All 3 are revolving around you. My dad passed on early when I’m in my 30s, so family would be always be on my mind first but not to worry, we will work on that if we come to that. I wake up early due to job requirements and zzz quite early by 11pm too.

 

8. The kind of guy I hope to be with: someone who knows what he wants, someone who can accept who I am, someone that hopefully we can learn from each other. If possible older or near my age. 

 

I don’t need one to message me 24/7 daily. We don’t need to text or call on and off all times of the day but good that we check in with each other daily. 

 

If you are busy, let me know, so I know I’m not ignored. I’ll trust you until you give me the reason not to. If I did something that upsets you, let me know and I can fix it. Talk it through when we have quarrels or fights.

 

9. Would be nice if he stays in the northwest or west area, +/- 5 of age.

 

Life’s too short for dramas. He should be preferably near my age, non smoker if possible.

Edited September 14, 2025 by dam81

[Leoj]

Finding love as a gay man is challenging…finding love as a gay man who is aging and a btm is even more challenging…

 

Nonetheless…the search goes on…

 

Compatibility and Chemistry are important

if we match…let’s go on a Hiking Date so we can get to know more about each other shall we?

 

1. Name: Joel

 

2. Age: 45

 

3. Height: 185cm

 

4. Weight: 94kg

 

5. Role: Bottom

 

6. Interests/hobbies: Gym, Cooking, Baking, Traveling 

 

7. Self-description: Primarily Looking for potential dates leading to a long-term relationship. My values - family, commitment and honesty. I believe that love can be for life. Are you the one? 

 

8. The kind of guy I hope to be with: A Top Manly Guy who believes in Loyalty, Honesty and Monogamy and is ready to date (with having a Long Term Relationship in mind)

[amanaman]

 

Discreet Chinese bi. Will be checking in at kl Hilton on this coming 15th September for few days. 
 

Anyone fancies to meet up? 
 

I am looking for a long term partner too if clicked. 

[Sens079]

Hi there,

Any discreet str8, curious bi or married seeking to explore discreet bromance with another guy?  

Am seeking for someone's decent &drive.

 

Pm me to know me. 46yo ch. Bi here. Not married. Thank you. 

 

 

[Uncle Bryan]

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Edited August 23, 2025 by Uncle Bryan

[TechDotCom]

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Edited November 13, 2025 by TechDotCom

[boyboy24]

Yooz, am here to try my luck again. Wish to get a companionship:) 

 

Im 35,174,83 local chn. Flex top Boyish looking definitely not feminine. I’m out of closet so I’m not hiding anywhere. Typical aquarius. 

 

Look for guys that are:

- preferably be chinese, not that im racist more of mindset and language spoken. (Tried other races failed due to mindset and culture)

- boyish too not really feminine kind. Hopefully smaller in size but not restricted to it. 
- comfortable feeling kind of guy. Not too fat or slim. Doesn’t have to be fit cos I’m not. 

 

Like to work out and swim. Love language is "touch and hugs"
 

Above are just abit of my criteria. But not compulsory lah. The MOST IMPORTANT is chemistry and communication. 
add me in telegram and you can know me more. @ahboy0902 (please text me with a clear face pic)

*PS: face pic on tele:) *

Edited August 20, 2025 by boyboy24

[tanwla]

On 7/22/2025 at 6:49 PM, tanwla said:

Hello… trying this again…

 

Me:

- 35 yrs old

- 170cm

- 60kg

- chn

- swims, plays games, listens to music, watch drama shows

- vers

 

Look for:

- below 60yrs

- chn

- above 165cm

- vers/top

 

Pls add me @algin2 on tele

 

thanks and cheers!

Hello

[Relationship]

Hi there

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 61 age 39.

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards

[moonchild]

About myself

Age: ；40/166/75/Chinese 

 

Role :

-Flex Btm/ Side

-Fine without anal as well

 

Interest

-Culture , traveling, experimental cooking, photography, arts.

 

 

 Looking for

-Someone with initiative 

-Plus /Minus 5 yrs of my age (preferably but who knows)

- ideally top/ flex top/side

-preferably chi, others are fine too as long as we can click.

-old fashion dating (movies/ meal)

-Preferably a non-smoker,

-Non-chub( no offence please)

-str8 acting, non loud, non scene

-Stable job, good sense of humour.

-Someone who is looking to doing simple things as a couple together. 

 

 

If we reach the stage when we exchange our contact :

- telegram only, not using "line"

- don't send me any of your pic with mask/shades etc.

[Leoj]

*Reposting*

 

Finding love as a gay man is challenging…finding love as a gay man who is aging and a btm is even more challenging…

 

Nonetheless…the search goes on…

 

Compatibility and Chemistry are important

if we match…let’s go on a Hiking Date so we can get to know more about each other shall we?

 

1. Name: Joel

 

2. Age: 45

 

3. Height: 185cm

 

4. Weight: 94kg

 

5. Role: Bottom

 

6. Interests/hobbies: Gym, Cooking, Baking, Traveling 

 

7. Self-description: Primarily Looking for potential dates leading to a long-term relationship. My values - family, commitment and honesty. I believe that love can be for life. Are you the one? 

 

8. The kind of guy I hope to be with: A Top Manly Guy who believes in Loyalty, Honesty and Monogamy and is ready to date (with having a Long Term Relationship in mind)  

[True079]

Hi discreet brothers. 

I'm 46yoChi, 181, 87kg. Discreet bi here. 

 

I'm attracted to respectful discreet manly bi men for brotherhood. 

 

For casual hangouts (dinner, chats, companionship etc.). DM me if interested

 

Edited August 31, 2025 by True079

[EastSgDad]

Me:

Local SG chinese 56 180 70

Top position 

Slim smooth bod with slight daddy belly

Enjoy (freeballing) walking-exercise

Decent looking / straight acting / very discreet 

Non-smoker / not a good drinker

Always topless in boxers while at home 

Residing in East SG

 

Into:

Netflix (mystery, thriller, horror, korean), travelling, cooking, nature, bowling 

A day in at home over weekends is perfectly fine to me

NOT into ONS Fun; but monogamous LTR

 

My preference:

Local SG chinese below 32

shorter / similar height 

Weight average BUT NO CHUB

NO SISSY / CD 

Average to fit so we can go for exercise together

Decent looking / discreet 

 

(For working Boy: Be financially comfortable as we can travel at least once annually)

 

Have a sense of humour but can be serious if need be

Btm / vers / top / curious / straight 

Caring and not emotionally unavailable

Filial and respectful - respectable 

Knows what he wants and not afraid to call the shots in the relationship

 

If interested, please DM me with some brief introductions why you think we match. We can exchange telegram and take it from there!

 

Thank you for reading!

Edited September 2, 2025 by EastSgDad

[Kaki74]

Looking for guys into gym, swim and massages? Easygoing guys who enjoy comedies and have a sense of humour. 

[single42]

I'm 47 158 95 local chn. Boyish looking definitely not feminine. I’m closeted. Typical Leo 

 

Look for guys that are:

 

- preferably chinese, not that im racist. 

 

- mature. Hopefully taller than me in height but not restricted to it. 

 

- comfortable feeling kind of guy. Not too fat or slim. Doesn’t have to be fit cos I’m not. 

 

Like to swim, cook and bake. Love language is "more than a just a touch or cuddle, the more the better"

 

 

Above are just abit of my criteria. But not compulsory lah. The MOST IMPORTANT is chemistry and communication. 

 

Pm me first and let's get to be friends first. 

Edited September 4, 2025 by single42

[Fatboy haw]

Hi, I am Malaysia chi(kl) 🙂. I am 30/169/69/0. A little bit chub, went to gym sometimes. My interests are travel, food, and laid back at home watching anime or spend time study the recipe for cooking. Would like to find a top that can spend time together, gym mate, and having similar interests. 
 

Hmu if u would like to know more about me🙂through the mail

[Undieboy]

39/172/75/chn

VT

works in IT

gyms at FF

eats everything (just not too spicy)

plays tennis and scuba dives 

likes dogs 

likes coffee/tea and eating out 

 

looking for a younger B or VB bf. 
prefer lean/fit

[True079]

Hello, I'm a 46-year-old Chinese single discreet bi, 1.81m and 87kg here. 

 

I seek to know more discreet married/curious straight matured and respectful brothers over coffee/meals and possible bromance if we click. 

 

If interested to know me, please connect with me via dm/chat. Thanks. 

[Uncle Bryan]

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Edited September 19, 2025 by Uncle Bryan
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[DonT]

It would be nice to have a long term relationship or bromance. 

 

Still waiting for the one who can accept me as I am. 

[GymGeekSlut]

Hello gonna try my luck. 26 mly 178 77 muscular btm. Into LTR, prefer tops that are romantic and caring tops, financially stable, am okay with any bod type, age or race. But have a thing for manly dom guys esp if they are caring. Hmu on tele if you wanna chat or go for dates. @barneyis_swole

[k.lo]

On 8/3/2025 at 10:51 AM, Sens079 said:

Chn, 46 . 181. 87kg here.

 

I'm attracted to manly and discreet brothers around my age. For friendship and brotherhood if click.

 

Pm me to explore more. 

hihi how r u

[k.lo]

I am looking. new to this forum

43 local chi

182cm

83kg

 

wish to know guys from 38-45 height above 1.73m to settle down or LTR

[blueduck]

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Edited March 29 by blueduck

[Officefun42]

Hi i am 45 / 1.79m tall, 85kg flexible looking for flexible mature 48years old mature executive and above.

i like to be top and bottom at the same time. Fetish for man in uniform or executive suit.

I have a belly which attribute to my daily beer drinking but trying to lose weight if you mind.

And i am smooth. 

My hobbies : Pokemon go / PC games / gardening / fishes / singing KTV

My character : Introvert ( do not have any friends or in gay circle, been to gay sauna but never like it)

                         Loving and devoted - Love to swallow my long term partner

 

Stay in Marsiling, of course if you are nearby, we can take care of each others and meet more often. 

No rushing into any commitment but let chills and see if we can click first. 

[zcheng]

hi, I am 40 166 60 Chn seeking for a sincere frend or soul mate who enjoys both quiet moments and adventures which I can spend quality time together with. 

Outside of work, I like spending time on exploring new places, travelling, visiting a cafe, heading to gym, singing k, shopping and etc. Friends describe me as a caring and easy going guy, and I value family, honesty and kindness.

I am hoping to meet someone with whom I can share my laughter, growth, and build a meaningful future together. 🙂

[tanwla]

On 7/22/2025 at 6:49 PM, tanwla said:

Hello… trying this again…

 

Me:

- 35 yrs old

- 170cm

- 60kg

- chn

- swims, plays games, listens to music, watch drama shows

- vers

 

Look for:

- below 60yrs

- chn

- above 165cm

- vers/top

 

Pls add me @algin2 on tele

 

thanks and cheers!

Bump

[milodinosaur91]

Ready to be in a discreet ltr
34 chn 174 78  

[True079]

Hello, I'm a 46-year-old Chinese single discreet bi, 1.81m and 87kg. Lives in Bt batok. 

 

I seek to know more discreet manly married/curious straight matured and respectful brothers over coffee/meals and possible bromance if we click. 

 

If interested buddies, please connect with me via dm/chat. Thanks. 

 

[marinacove]

Hi, I am 33 this year local chinese. I m 33 173 70.

 

I am looking for local chinese around age 33 or less for friends/ ltr. No chubb.

 

I like to watch movies, shopping and cafe hopping. Pm me for chat please.

Edited September 15, 2025 by marinacove

[dam81]

1. Name: Dyson

2. Age: 44 

3. Height: 1.83

4. Weight: 85kg

5. Role: side / top (anal is optional for me as I value intimacy more)

 

6. Interests/hobbies: music, movies, gyms at FF (westgate, fusionopolis mostly), plays nintendo switch, goes to arcade for destress. I like hiking too or just nature walks when time permits and with the right company. I stay in the north west region on the red line. I collect popmart stuff too 😜 I like to go JB for staycations too.

 

7. Self Description: In life we have a lot of responsibilities; work, family and love. All 3 are revolving around you. My dad passed on early when I’m in my 30s, so family would be always be on my mind first but not to worry, we will work on that if we come to that. I wake up early due to job requirements and zzz quite early by 11pm too.

 

8. The kind of guy I hope to be with: someone who knows what he wants, someone who can accept who I am, someone that hopefully we can learn from each other. If possible older or near my age. 

 

I don’t need one to message me 24/7 daily. We don’t need to text or call on and off all times of the day but good that we check in with each other daily. 

 

If you are busy, let me know, so I know I’m not ignored. I’ll trust you until you give me the reason not to. If I did something that upsets you, let me know and I can fix it. Talk it through when we have quarrels or fights.

 

9. Would be nice if he stays in the northwest or west area, +/- 5 of age.

 

Life’s too short for dramas. He should be preferably near my age, non smoker if possible.

[EastSgDad]

On 9/2/2025 at 4:35 PM, EastSgDad said:

Me:

Local SG chinese 56 180 70

Top position 

Slim smooth bod with slight daddy belly

Enjoy (freeballing) walking-exercise

Decent looking / straight acting / very discreet 

Non-smoker / not a good drinker

Always topless in boxers while at home 

Residing in East SG

 

Into:

Netflix (mystery, thriller, horror, korean), travelling, cooking, nature, bowling 

A day in at home over weekends is perfectly fine to me

NOT into ONS Fun; but monogamous LTR

 

My preference:

Local SG chinese below 32

shorter / similar height 

Weight average BUT NO CHUB

NO SISSY / CD 

Average to fit so we can go for exercise together

Decent looking / discreet 

 

(For working Boy: Be financially comfortable as we can travel at least once annually)

 

Have a sense of humour but can be serious if need be

Btm / vers / top / curious / straight 

Caring and not emotionally unavailable

Filial and respectful - respectable 

Knows what he wants and not afraid to call the shots in the relationship

 

If interested, please DM me with some brief introductions why you think we match. We can exchange telegram and take it from there!

 

Thank you for reading!

LTR Dad-Son Monogamous... exclusive...

Possible?

[Kaki74]

174/68/51yo chinese.

Into gym, swim and massages.

 

Looking for buddy into gym and swim too.

Straight-acting and easygoing.

[Bighands00]

181/87/46yo chinese.

 

Looking for a manly discreet married top for regular bromance buddy & companionship. 

 

Pm to know me .

[jcboy18]

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Edited July 2 by jcboy18

[Levis]

Seeking a life companion. Hopefully that special someone has most of the below qualities.

 

- Between 33 - 48YO

- Has a decent lifestyle

- Has a white collar job / financially independent

- Knows what you want in life

- SG / MY (But happy to explore other nationalities if we vibe)

- Side or not Top

- Is working towards an early retirement

- Committed to working out a relationship and working towards setting up our home

 

I'm :

- 46YO

- Chinese

- 175cm / 89kg

- In IT line

- Side & Dominant

- INTP

- Interests include : Geo-politics, Spiritual Stuffs, Light Travelling, Nature, Piano Music, Mac-Econs, Investment Topics, etc.

 

Happy to discuss over emails / LINE app if you have and take it slow. No exchange of WA / pic until I feel more at ease. Appreciate your understanding.

[Levis]

Seeking a life companion. Hopefully that special someone has most of the below qualities.

 

- Between 33 - 48YO

- Has a decent lifestyle

- Has a white collar job / financially independent

- Knows what you want in life

- SG / MY (But happy to explore other nationalities if we vibe)

- Side or not Top

- Is working towards an early retirement

- Committed to working out a relationship and working towards setting up our home

 

I'm :

- 46YO

- Chinese

- 175cm / 89kg

- In IT line

- Side & Dominant

- INTP

- Interests include : Geo-politics, Spiritual Stuffs, Light Travelling, Nature, Piano Music, Mac-Econs, Investment Topics, etc.

 

Happy to discuss over emails / LINE app if you have and take it slow. No exchange of WA / pic until I feel more at ease. Appreciate your understanding.

[True079]

Hello all. Bi-single 46, 87kg, 1.81. Enjoys brisk walk, coffees for chat, Open to bro hugs etc

 

I seek respectful, discreet, and manly married/straight brothers to connect.

 

I spend my weekends at Le Quest Mall. If you're interested, feel free to DM or chat with me. Thanks!

Edited September 20, 2025 by True079

[True079]

Hello, I’m a 46-year-old bi  discreet, 1.81m, and 87kg.

 

I’m looking for respectful, discreet, and manly married/straight brothers to connect over coffee, meals, etc.

 

I spend my weekends at Le Quest Mall. If you're interested, feel free to DM or chat with me. Thanks!

Edited October 22, 2025 by True079

[Relationship]

Hi there

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 61 age 39.

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards

[Flexiguy]

Discreet 47/165/50kg slim/skinny local SG Chinese - Flex/Versatile - SG West

Likes: Pc gaming, Shopping, Movies, activities and staying indoors and more.
It's alright if you have different hobbies from me.

 

DIslike:
X People who like to Dominate others
X No Open Relationship
X No Fetish
X No Sugar boy

X No Fwb
X No CD
X Not interested in abit femboy, a bit sissy, a bit cd, a bit ladyboy

Looking for:  Fem Boy, Sissy(Not Crossdresser type), Ladyboy for LTR

Discreet
Singapore Local Chinese
Slim, Skinny, Average - Flex,Versatile, Top, Btm

46 years old and below 

 

Hit me up if we have lost contact before.

If I did not reply, it means I am not interested. Thank You!

[sgind]

Looking for a man with wit, humour, confidence and a sense of occasion & adventure. A grounded chap with the heart of a dreamer and an eye for life’s finer things. Am a local professional here.

 

PM to spark a convo. 

 

Darling, hold my hand
Oh, won't you hold my hand?
'Cause I don't wanna walk on my own anymore won't you understand?
Cause I don't wanna walk alone
I'm ready for this, there's no denying
I'm ready for this, you stop me falling
I'm ready for this, I need you all in
I'm ready for this, so darling, hold my hand

[Leoj]

Finding love as a gay man is challenging…finding love as a gay man who is aging and a btm is even more challenging…

 

Nonetheless…the search goes on…

 

Compatibility and Chemistry are important

if we match…let’s go on a Hiking Date so we can get to know more about each other shall we?

 

1. Name: Joel

 

2. Age: 45

 

3. Height: 185cm

 

4. Weight: 94kg

 

5. Role: Bottom

 

6. Interests/hobbies: Gym, Cooking, Baking, Traveling 

 

7. Self-description: Primarily Looking for potential dates leading to a long-term relationship. My values - family, commitment and honesty. I believe that love can be for life. Are you the one? 

 

8. The kind of guy I hope to be with: A Top Manly Guy who believes in Loyalty, Honesty and Monogamy and is ready to date (with having a Long Term Relationship in mind)

[Rocket_]

Thanks for your ❤️emojis✌

Edited January 18 by Rocket_
Quick update

[pusheenpika]

Another year, another attempt at this. It's been so long since I dated, that I find starting a conversation to find out more about that person of interest kinda awkward. 

 

But it doesn't need to be. With the right person, a conversation should just...flow...right? So lets be friends first, lovers later. 

 

Looking for:

Stable (money and emotions) & mature (in thoughts)

Loves cats (cat owner here)

Speaks good English (I'm a grammar nazi)

Someone whom I can stare into space with on the bed (or just netflix the weekend away) 

Foodie (then works it all off at the gym with me) 

Decisive (because see below) 

1 (because what comes after 0?) 

Around my age (80s and early 90s kids please!)

 

What am I?

Plus-sized, and still trying hard to be the biggest loser. 

Joker, but everyone knows someone who jokes around a lot hides a dark past.

Foodie, but can't eat much cos control is the in thing now.

Opinionated, I listen and do not judge. I just have opinions.

Indecisive, but I'm the mini boss at work. 

0, although these days I prefer to just hold hands, be on my knees, pray and stay holey.

I prefer indulging in a 10-date no fun experience before indulging on you.

I work out (my eyes) where virgins try to be active.

 

Slide into my DMs for more. kthxbai.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Edited September 27, 2025 by pusheenpika

[LookingforLTR]

 

Hi, I’m a 45-year-old (2025) discreet, local Chinese guy looking for a long-term relationship and soulmate.

 

About Me:

• Height: 178cm

• Weight: 78kg (working towards 72kg—currently hitting the gym!)

• Professional and independent

• Simple and easy-going personality

• Straight-acting and discreet

• Enjoys movies, BLs, and Netflix

• Loves traveling and exploring cafes

• Non-smoker

• Social drinker (occasionally)

 

What I’m Looking For:

• Someone around 30 to 48 years old (+/-)

• Preferably Chinese

• Average, toned, or lean build (and open to hitting the gym together)

• Professional, financially stable, and independent

• Easy-going, fun-loving, and cheerful

• Straight-acting and discreet

• Enjoys spending quality time, whether it’s a simple dinner or wandering aimlessly at the mall

• Open to doing silly activities together once in a while 😂

• Loves traveling

• Non-smoker or occasional/non-drinker

• Most importantly: someone who takes good care of themselves and takes pride in their grooming and appearance

 

If this sounds like you, I’d love to connect! 😊

[Want to try]

If I had seen this profile 20 years ago, it would have been a perfect match for me..... What a pity.. 

[True079]

Hello all. Bi-single 46, 87kg, 1.81. Enjoys brisk walk, coffees for chat, Open to bro hugs etc

 

I seek respectful, discreet, and manly married/straight brothers to connect.

 

I spend my weekends at Le Quest Mall. If you're interested, feel free to DM or chat with me. Thanks!