Long Term Relationship (Compiled)

[blueduck]

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Edited August 3, 2025 by blueduck

[ToughGuy]

3 hours ago, blueduck said:

Hi, Duck here. 36/164/54kg Indo

 

Status                     : never in relationship

Location                 : Jakarta

Role                         : never have sex, so I don't know. but fantasizing doing both.

skin and features   : brown with facial hair and smooth body, cut. 

Body shape             : lean muscle Bod

smoke and alcohol : No

hobby                      : animating, gardening and cooking

Interest                    : animation, tech, gaming, movie

Fav movie                : BB mountain, Wall-E, anything Ghibli

Fav food                   : fruits, pizza, sea food, rendang, and durian (I have durian tree)

Fav activity              : hiking, camping and snorkeling

Sports                       : Calisthenics. I was doing run, but stopped due to risk of joint ache. 

Skills                         : animating, acting and massage (I think this is family inherit skill)

Languages                : Bahasa, English, Korean and Chinese (basic, can't read and write)

Occupation.              : Durian grower

 

It might costly for LDR, so I looking for financially stable partner. I would love to stay with you anytime you want, and I can control my durian trees regularly.

 

The world is getting old resources are limited but creativity unlimited. hoping to make relationship and sustainable living. 

 

like      : nerds, introvert, skinny, muscle, bushy, facial hair, glasses, Bald.

dislike : fat, sissy, drama queen, bad breath, smoke.

Nice.. But ldr is tough... Very difficult to keep relationship healthy.... Humans generally akan curang  esp ldr

Edited July 7, 2025 by ToughGuy

[Singroc]

22 hours ago, Malabird said:

Depending on the key motive of this LTR. 
 

sex or bromance ? 
or both. 
 

lack of private place for intimacy and time constraints are two main obstacles .

 

If time constraint is a consideration, then it wouldn’t be a committed relationship. 

[Malabird]

1 hour ago, Singroc said:

If time constraint is a consideration, then it wouldn’t be a committed relationship. 

If serious about commitment and think it is paramount then the two can go to buy a flat 😉

 

Edited July 8, 2025 by Malabird

[Singroc]

55 minutes ago, Malabird said:

If serious about commitment and think it is paramount then the two can go to buy a flat 😉

 

Commitment is not about legal recognition or co-owning assets but whether you are willing to sacrifice your time for your partner because you love him/her.

[jcboy18]

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Edited July 2 by jcboy18

[Malabird]

2 hours ago, Singroc said:

Commitment is not about legal recognition or co-owning assets but whether you are willing to sacrifice your time for your partner because you love him/her.

To each it means differently 

 

Let’s not to debate endlessly here 😎

 

Edited July 8, 2025 by Malabird

[Kotomine]

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Edited July 26, 2025 by Kotomine

[jcboy18]

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Edited July 2 by jcboy18

[lotus_mb]

Hi

 

Me: 42yo, chn, 180cm, 80kg, top

Looking for: chn, below 40yo, btm, body shape doesnt matter as long as not over

 

I'm looking for a partner or friends under 40, Chinese, who sharing some same interests with me, comfortable with and have chemistry.

Must loyal to each other and willing to not open our relationship too fast and off social media until suitable time. Straightly no fun. Thanks.

 

If any keen, please contact me via wechat, line or telegram: @kokfoo83

Edited July 20, 2025 by lotus_mb

[Kaki74]

Me: 174/70/51yo chinese

Interests: Gym, swim, tan, massages and youtube watching (anything funny or news worthy)

 

You: late 30s, 40s and early 50s.

Interests: Chinese who is into similar interests. 

 

[leglenn23]

Hi there!

Giving this another go — hoping to meet someone genuine.

 

About me:

33 | Chinese | 170cm | 78kg | Vers/Top

 

Looking to connect with someone around my age (early 30s), ideally also Chinese, who shares similar interests and values mutual respect and clear boundaries in a relationship.

 

Interests:

• Gym, swimming, cycling — I enjoy staying active

• Netflix, movies, and anime (One Piece, Pokémon, and more!)

• Travel — especially to Japan, my favorite destination

 

If you’re looking for something real and meaningful, let’s chat! Feel free to PM me for contact details

[ritzkl]

Hey all I'll give it a go here.

 

Just turned 33 today ✨

PH, 166 65,

 

Pure side only (Frot cuddle Jo and such)

Any national who shares same interest as above amidst the usual top bottom.

 

FWB? That can turn to LTR? Lezgo.

[Dave Konaka]

Hey there,

 

I’m a 32-year-old local chi, standing at 182 cm, 103kg with a bear build (think big chest and biceps, with belly). Handsome-boyish look. People often tell me I look younger than my age, so that’s a plus, right? 😄 I’m looking for a long-term relationship with someone around my age, ideally a bit smaller in build than me. I'm a side, please take note !

 

Some things about me:

 

Foodie alert! I love exploring all kinds of food, from hawker stalls (nothing beats a good Char Kuey Tiao or Kai Tao Kueh!) to fine dining. I’m also a big fan of cooking and baking—always experimenting with new recipes!

 

Gaming & Travel: I play video games to unwind, but I’m also all about traveling and exploring new places whenever I get the chance.

 

Texting and Affection: I’m a huge texter and love staying connected with my partner, showering them with affection (and I hope to receive the same in return). I believe that a healthy relationship is about both people putting in effort.

 

Getting into shape: I hit the gym about three times a week, focusing on building muscle and getting into great shape. Love swimming as well.

 

If you’re into great food, fun conversations, and maybe even some cuddle time, hit me up! Let’s grab a meal, have some dessert, or just chat and relax. Looking forward to meeting someone who’s also looking for something real.

 

Please feel free to DM me and drop your tele ID, I'll get back to you as soon as I can. Thank you !

Edited July 23, 2025 by Dave Konaka

[sgind]

On 7/7/2025 at 10:11 PM, sgind said:

Brimming with wit, humour, confidence, and a sense of adventure & romance - a grounded chap with the heart of a dreamer and an eye for life’s finer things is what I seek. Local professional here into socials, travel and deep & meaningful engagement.

 

PM to spark a convo. 

 

Darling, hold my hand
Oh, won't you hold my hand?
'Cause I don't wanna walk on my own anymore won't you understand?
Cause I don't wanna walk alone
I'm ready for this, there's no denying
I'm ready for this, you stop me falling
I'm ready for this, I need you all in
I'm ready for this, so darling, hold my hand

Bump

[kevin]

Harlow, wish to know more people. Ultimately LTR?  
About me:
32 yrs old, 176cm, 87kg, local mly, vers b

Daily activity: working, gym, running. 

Likes to watch movies, nua, ML. Can DM me if wanna connect!  

[Singroc]

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Edited July 24, 2025 by Singroc

[Relationship]

Hi there

 

looking for ltr with local Chinese btm guys. Hit me up. I'm local Chinese pure top 171 61 age 38

Looking at one whom likes to swim jog and of cos bonus travel around the world. 

White collar straight acting guys preferred.

 

 

Regards

[Kaki74]

Hi.

 

Any guys in yours 30s and 40s who into gym and swim? Can hang out together, makan or catch a movie together at home on weekends. 

[milodinosaur91]

34 chn 174 78

Line: jurboy91

[seldan]

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Edited October 22, 2025 by seldan

[Uncle Bryan]

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Edited August 11, 2025 by Uncle Bryan

[dam81]

 

1. Name: Damster

2. Age: 44 

3. Height: 1.83

4. Weight: 85kg

 

5. Role: side or top  (based on reviews and what I have seen so far, I’m quite ok in size 🤣 )

 

6. Interests/hobbies: music, movies, gyms at FF (westgate, fusionopolis mostly), plays nintendo switch, goes to arcade for destress. I like hiking too or just nature walks when time permits and with the right company. I stay in the north west region on the red line. I collect popmart stuff too 😜 I like to go JB for staycations too.

 

7. Self Description: Been also told that I’m a sweet and caring guy by the precious date but I guess it takes two hands to clap. 

 

In life we have a lot of responsibilities; work, family and love. All 3 are revolving around you. My dad passed on early when I’m in my 30s, so family would be always be on my mind first but not to worry, we will work on that if we come to that. I wake up early due to job requirements and zzz quite early by 11pm too.

 

8. The kind of guy I hope to be with: someone who knows what he wants, someone who can accept who I am, someone that hopefully we can learn from each other. If possible older or near my age. 

 

I don’t need one to message me 24/7 daily. We don’t need to text or call on and off all times of the day but good that we check in with each other once a while. 

 

If you are busy, let me know, so I know I’m not ignored. I’ll trust you until you give me the reason not to. If I did something that upsets you, let me know and I can fix it. Talk it through when we have quarrels or fights.

 

9. Would be nice if he stays in the northwest or west area, +/- 5 of age.

 

Life’s too short for dramas. He should be preferably near my age, non smoker if possible.

[ltr]

Anyone ok with long distance relationship? Any Malaysian guy here looking for stable permanent relationship? 

[tanwla]

Hello… trying this again…

 

Me:

- 35 yrs old

- 170cm

- 60kg

- chn

- swims, plays games, listens to music, watch drama shows

- vers

 

Look for:

- below 60yrs

- chn

- above 165cm

- vers/top

 

Pls add me @algin2 on tele

 

thanks and cheers!

[jcboy18]

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Edited July 2 by jcboy18

[parkwayst]

Hi all,

 

I’m 32 this year, 163cm & 58kg, local Chinese, office worker. I think I’m decent looking, am non-smoker, and occasionally drinks alcohol. 
Interests are in movies, music, general reading and current affairs etc. 

 

Looking for someone who is:

- like-minded to build a friendship into LTR

- non-smoker

- able to communicate properly and maturely

- 30yo+
- respectful of each other

- monogamous 

 

please DM me and let’s arrange our first meet up

 

 

[jcboy18]

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Edited July 2 by jcboy18

[Can_berry80]

Local Chinese 45yrs Standing at 170cm long. Slight heavy 75kg. Old but children at heart, still like doraemon n cute stuffs. So... Japan is my Fav place to go during Jan winter period.

 

Looking for same age or younger that str8 acting & discreet. Staying West Singapore to spend time together, go gym at AF and travel to any part in asia. And Sometime Cruise.. 

( I mean 🛳️cruise.... not cruising at toilet or park ). . 

Hope Get to know more about each other b4 jump into LTR.

 

Lastly..... my Position is Side. 

Strictly🙅‍♂️ Btm me. 😝

Pass If you go for looks. No Photo to send. Too much photo collectors nowadays 😂

Normal looking guy. meetup to see face......

[moonchild]

About myself

Age: ；40/166/75/Chinese

 

Role :

-Flex Btm,

-Fine without anal as well

 

Interest

-Culture , traveling, experimental cooking, photography, arts.

 

 Looking for

-Plus /Minus 5 yrs of my age (preferably but who knows)

- ideally top/ flex top

-preferably chi, others are fine too as long as we can click.

-old fashion dating (movies/ meal)

-Preferably a non-smoker,

-Non-chub( no offence please)

-str8 acting, non loud, non scene

-Stable job, good sense of humour.

-Someone who is looking to doing simple things as a couple together. 

- Someone with initiative 

 

If we reach the stage when we exchange our contact :

- telegram only, not using "line"

- don't send me any of your pic with mask/shades etc.

[Levis]

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Edited August 2, 2025 by Levis

[Kaki74]

Me:

174/70/51yo chinese

Gym, swim, tan and massages

Comedies and anything funny

 

You:

Easygoing guys into workout

Similar interests

 

[HermiticusH]

4 hours ago, Awduyu said:

Slim feminine chinese cd 30 163 47 looking for bf

whats ur requirement

[JoeTanJoeTan]

Hello All, 

 

Trying my luck again.
Allow me to introduce myself hor. 

I am 38ch , 163cm,57kg,local, gymfit, top, fair and straight acting. I like to gym a lot, travel, jog, eat, movies  and laze around with my close ones. 

 

I am looking for a long-term BF do text me if you are align with what I am looking for. 😊

 

1- I am looking for straight acting, non-chub (just a preference), likes to gym and travel or similar hobbies. 
2- Someone younger than me wld be nice but similar age group is ok too. 
3- boyish sporty guy if possible but it depends mostly on chemistry.

 

Thanks much for reading.😊

[ctrl]

Hello, trying again. Would second time be the last? 

 

30chn, 175cm, 67kg. Local, toned, bottom. 

 

Like any encounter, I am looking for that one 😅 

 

I’m looking for a genuine, down-to-earth guy who is confident in himself and comfortable with how he looks. I believe it’s okay to have personal preferences, so I hope you’ll understand if the chemistry just isn’t there. 

 

Thanks! 

[Sens079]

Chn, 45 . 181. 87kg. 

I'm attracted to very straight looking and discreet bi guys who drive.

 

If click, we can be bromance buddies. Pm me to explore 

[bbmkt]

Trying my luck again for 2025! Hopefully I can find "the one"!

Age: 39
Height: 180 cm
Weight: 78kg (used to be almost 100kg) - I honestly still consider myself chub 😅
Role: Pure Side
Stay: Selangor, Malaysia (with family)

My interests: Eating good food, travelling, casual gamer (Switch 2, PS5), I love PS1/PS2 era games, collecting cute Pokémon stuff & figures but I transitioned much more to eating/travelling the older I get. 

About me: I'm by all means not an attractive guy and I have my own flaws/quirks. However, I believe on becoming a better person with experiences learned. I'm by all means not rich. I consider myself an introvert and I'm horrible in initiating conversations. Though I can be in social settings with people as a normal person, I'd very much prefer to be alone or to be with my partner.

A little more about me and LTRs: I only had one LTR and it did not work out. I poured my heart into a guy I really liked. He eventually married a girl as he was more straight. Took me a very long time to recover.

I had another guy who liked me at first sight and was willing to turn from pure top to pure side but I didn't give him the honest love he deserved even after many advances as I still missed my first partner after many years. We eventually lost contact with each other, and I could not reach him again - even after trying to look up for him online. It's regretful that I only realized that his love was sincere only after I lost contact with him. Hey, we make mistakes in life sometimes. And sometimes, the person who truly cherishes you might just be closer to you than you think.

-An update to the story of the guy above in 2025: We managed to be reconnected after 5 years but he has changed and became purely money-minded. But still, learning from the past, I tried to do what I can to keep him happy. Long story short, unfortunately, I'm not into one-sided relationships, so in the end; he just called it off-

What I seek: I don't need someone who's fit even though I'm taking better care of my weight. I'm looking for a guy who can be with me with true, sincere love. Someone who can love me for who I am and is willing to accept my love in return. I want to find a caring and nice manly guy who I can share my life with through a monogamous relationship; through good and bad times. I don't expect a relationship to always be dreamlike and fun (though that'll be nice), there will be times me or my partner may not agree with each other. I want to talk things through with heart and understand one another. That's what being a couple is, right?

I really love cuddling, kissing and being intimate with physical contact. I can just do this for a long time on bed and it makes me really happy. I know many guys just aren't into this but being asked to do a regular top/bottom role traumatizes me. Thus, I'm looking for another pure side (I know, it's very tough to find). 

I don't need someone who has the exact same interests as me (there should be some common ground) but would be a nice bonus. Would be great if he stays alone since I stay with parents and would want to spend intimate moments.

If you live near me and find yourself a good fit, feel free to message me here or send me a message on Telegram. I hope we can be a great fit for each other! 🙂

My Telegram User ID is Wilson47695

Edited July 29, 2025 by bbmkt

[parkwayst]

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Edited August 1, 2025 by parkwayst
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[ToughGuy]

On 7/29/2025 at 10:38 AM, ctrl said:

Hello, trying again. Would second time be the last? 

 

30chn, 175cm, 67kg. Local, toned, bottom. 

 

Like any encounter, I am looking for that one 😅 

 

I’m looking for a genuine, down-to-earth guy who is confident in himself and comfortable with how he looks. I believe it’s okay to have personal preferences, so I hope you’ll understand if the chemistry just isn’t there. 

 

Thanks! 

Sweeeeeet 

 

No harm trying till you get who/what you want....many stopped just before they succeed.(Just like many inventions)

 

Hope you find someone soon

Edited August 1, 2025 by ToughGuy

[Dave Konaka]

On 7/19/2025 at 3:43 PM, Dave Konaka said:

Hey there,

 

I’m a 32-year-old local chi, standing at 182 cm, 103kg with a bear build (think big chest and biceps, with belly). Handsome-boyish look. People often tell me I look younger than my age, so that’s a plus, right? 😄 I’m looking for a long-term relationship with someone around my age, ideally a bit smaller in build than me. I'm a side, please take note !

 

Some things about me:

 

Foodie alert! I love exploring all kinds of food, from hawker stalls (nothing beats a good Char Kuey Tiao or Kai Tao Kueh!) to fine dining. I’m also a big fan of cooking and baking—always experimenting with new recipes!

 

Gaming & Travel: I play video games to unwind, but I’m also all about traveling and exploring new places whenever I get the chance.

 

Texting and Affection: I’m a huge texter and love staying connected with my partner, showering them with affection (and I hope to receive the same in return). I believe that a healthy relationship is about both people putting in effort.

 

Getting into shape: I hit the gym about three times a week, focusing on building muscle and getting into great shape. Love swimming as well.

 

If you’re into great food, fun conversations, and maybe even some cuddle time, hit me up! Let’s grab a meal, have some dessert, or just chat and relax. Looking forward to meeting someone who’s also looking for something real.

 

Please feel free to DM me and drop your tele ID, I'll get back to you as soon as I can. Thank you !

 

Bump ! 

[Levis]

Seeking a life companion. Hopefully that special someone has most of the below qualities.

 

- Between 33 - 48YO

- Has a decent lifestyle

- Has a white collar job / financially independent

- Knows what you want in life

- SG / MY (But happy to explore other nationalities if we vibe)

- Side or not Top

- Is working towards an early retirement

- Committed to working out a relationship and working towards setting up our home

 

I'm :

- 46YO

- Chinese

- 175cm / 89kg

- In IT line

- Side-T

- INTP

- Interests include : Geo-politics, Spiritual Stuffs, Light Travelling, Nature, Piano Music, Mac-Econs, Investment Topics, etc.

 

Happy to discuss over emails / LINE app if you have and take it slow. No exchange of WA / pic until I feel more at ease. Appreciate your understanding.

[Sens079]

Chn, 46 . 181. 87kg here.

 

I'm attracted to manly and discreet brothers around my age. For friendship and brotherhood if click.

 

Pm me to explore more. 

Edited August 3, 2025 by Sens079

[Nandesuka]

Chi 40, 170cm, 70kg, 

Got an office job

Speak decent English and cantonese

Okay looking

Like buffet, mlbb, hok, health

Dm me 

[tanwla]

On 7/22/2025 at 6:49 PM, tanwla said:

Hello… trying this again…

 

Me:

- 35 yrs old

- 170cm

- 60kg

- chn

- swims, plays games, listens to music, watch drama shows

- vers

 

Look for:

- below 60yrs

- chn

- above 165cm

- vers/top

 

Pls add me @algin2 on tele

 

thanks and cheers!

Bump

[blueduck]

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Edited September 9, 2025 by blueduck

[EastSgDad]

Me:

Local SG chinese 56 180 70

Top position 

Slim smooth bod with slight daddy belly

Enjoy (freeballing) walking-exercise

Decent looking / straight acting / very discreet 

Non-smoker / not a good drinker

Always topless in boxers while at home 

Residing in East SG

 

 

Into:

Netflix (mystery, thriller, horror, korean), travelling, cooking, nature, bowling 

A day in at home over weekends is perfectly fine to me

NOT into ONS Fun; but monogamous LTR

 

 

My preference:

Local SG chinese below 32

shorter / similar height 

Weight average BUT NO CHUB..

NO SISSY / CD 

Average to fit so we can go for exercise together

Decent looking / discreet 

(For working Boy: Be financially comfortable as we can travel at least once annually)

Have a sense of humour but can be serious if need be

Btm / vers / top / curious / straight 

Caring and not emotionally unavailable

Filial and respectful - respectable 

Knows what he wants and not afraid to call the shots in the relationship

 

 

 

If interested, please DM me with some brief introductions why you think we match. We can exchange telegram and take it from there!

 

Thank you for reading!

[BiKLdecent]

I am 30, chinese, 168, 66

Role: Side/ Top

 

Im from KL and work in Singapore.

Stay near geylang bahru. Gym 4 times per week. Still in progress to become fitter.

I play PS5 and switch. Pokemon and mihoyo hard fans.

People said Im more to the cute side haha.

 

Looking for someone who can meet at least one time during weekday, not only weekend. Eventually become boyfriend.

Sporty.

Around or bigger than my age.

 

Edited August 7, 2025 by BiKLdecent

[Sens079]

Chn, 46 . 181. 87kg here.

I'm seeking very manly and discreet guys for brotherhood.

 

Seeking someone who drives 😉

If click, can be bromance buddies.

 

Dm me if you r seeking discreet companionship. 

Edited August 10, 2025 by Sens079

[sgind]

Looking for a man with wit, humour, confidence and a sense of occasion & adventure. A grounded chap with the heart of a dreamer and an eye for life’s finer things. Am a local professional here.

 

PM to spark a convo. 

 

Darling, hold my hand
Oh, won't you hold my hand?
'Cause I don't wanna walk on my own anymore won't you understand?
Cause I don't wanna walk alone
I'm ready for this, there's no denying
I'm ready for this, you stop me falling
I'm ready for this, I need you all in
I'm ready for this, so darling, hold my hand

[lancestars]

Im a 36-year-old Chinese guy, 177cm tall and 85kg, looking to build a meaningful, long-term relationship with someone genuine. I love shopping, swimming, window shopping, and spending relaxing afternoons in cafes. I value honesty, emotional connection, and shared experiences whether it's exploring the city or just enjoying each other's company. Im grounded, affectionate, and ready to invest in something real. If you are mature, kind, and looking for the same, I’d love to connect.

 

like to seek some one who are around my age or younger.