Gay Friendly Doctor + Gay Friendly Sti Testing Clinic Recommendation (Compiled)

[youngdoctor]

Low risk but good to test

[passby]

Today got free HIV test Haha

Where??

[MarriedTop]

First of all, it is/was low risk, so you are 95% safe.

2nd, no harm to test. Some even test it after 6 months of window period.

3rd, there will be free HIV test in saunas, just go ahead. No sure abt where to get the schedule, Maybe someone can help.

[Guest oral guy]

Do u think u may be hit by asteroid dropping somewhere from universe while walking in east coast park? Even an unprotected oral sex, I think it will not transmit HIV, but not STD. So your chance of getting HIV is zero

[Azorius]

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Edited January 14, 2018 by Azorius

[slut]

Do u think u may be hit by asteroid dropping somewhere from universe while walking in east coast park? Even an unprotected oral sex, I think it will not transmit HIV, but not STD. So your chance of getting HIV is zero

The chances of getting hit (directly) by an asteroid at any point in time is astronomically lower than contracting HIV from oral sex alone. Nevertheless, the sex act carries a very low risk still (about 1 in 10000 exposures). In other words, your odds of contracting HIV from an oral session would roughly be around that of an average golfer making a hole-in-one (or 1 in 12500 shots).

[Guest Guest]

but saying that...u could be that 1 in 10 000 exposures. lalalalalalalololol

[MarriedTop]

If you can afford it, do it =)

I went for the free HIV test yesterday, too, all clear!

Gentle reminder of 6x months window period.

[Guest Guest]

I just want to say that it is not true that unprotected oral sex has no risk, it is low risk but not "no risk". It used to be the thinking a long time ago that oral sex (without cuts/ulcers/cold sores) is safe but no longer. There have already been a few documented cases where HIV was transmitted via oral sex (with no cuts/ulcers/cold sores). The virus could enter the blood stream via the mucous membrane towards the back of the throat, especially in the event of deepthroating. That's also the similar way how HIV could potentially enter the bloodstream via frottage. Granted, the risk is low (especially for oral because saliva contains enzymes which could kill the virus) but there is still a risk.

[tyan]

where to get free HIV test? any specific date or time?

[Guest guest]

I just want to say that it is not true that unprotected oral sex has no risk, it is low risk but not "no risk". It used to be the thinking a long time ago that oral sex (without cuts/ulcers/cold sores) is safe but no longer. There have already been a few documented cases where HIV was transmitted via oral sex (with no cuts/ulcers/cold sores). The virus could enter the blood stream via the mucous membrane towards the back of the throat, especially in the event of deepthroating. That's also the similar way how HIV could potentially enter the bloodstream via frottage. Granted, the risk is low (especially for oral because saliva contains enzymes which could kill the virus) but there is still a risk.

I got a reference from a Singapore doctor as below.

http://www.drtanandpartners.com/getting-hiv-from-oral-sex/

So at the end of the day, these scientific studies are still not able to make the statement ‘HIV cannot be transmitted via oral sex’. Again they come to the same conclusion which is ‘There is a risk of HIV transmission via oral sex but this risk is low to miniscule’. This also means you are never going to come across a doctor who would advise you NOT to have a HIV test because your exposure was ‘only oral sex’.

[Guest zzzz]

Yesterday, a guy I met to give a blowjob about 10 days ago contacted me to say that he has gone to the doctor to test for gonorrhea as he has discharge on his dick and burning sensation when he pees.

As I was the giver of the act, I have not been exposed to these tell-tale signs. Neither do I have ulcers or sore throat/throat infection. I have booked an appointment for next week. Does anyone know what kinda swap tests will be conducted? From the throat?

[Calientè]

THE AFA is an organisation that provides Annomymous testing for HIV and syphilis

Clinic time is tue and wed at 630pm to 8

And Saturday's from 130 to 330pm

It's anonymous and ur results come out within 20mins

[jigossg13]

hello iphone! DSC is indeed gay friendly! you can tell them anything you want without worrying that somebody might know. pm me for more info.

[oralb]

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[martyr]

where to get free HIV test? any specific date or time?

I believe the free tests mentioned by you guys are conducted by Action for Aids. You can call the office at 6254 0212 and find out where such free anonymous HIV test will be conducted again.

[Guest Worry]

I have just got a job offer recently. New staff of that company are required to go for pre-employment check up. The check up includes HIV test.

The report has been ready for collection since Monday. Anyway, the HR lady asked me not to collect it as she is still waiting for my S Pass approval.

Wondering how the report is. Can I assume that my report is good because the company has already applied the pass for me (which means I am fit to work then they apply the pass)? Coz I checked they just applied the pass for me yesterday. Kinda worry

[avalux200]

I have just got a job offer recently. New staff of that company are required to go for pre-employment check up. The check up includes HIV test.

The report has been ready for collection since Monday. Anyway, the HR lady asked me not to collect it as she is still waiting for my S Pass approval.

Wondering how the report is. Can I assume that my report is good because the company has already applied the pass for me (which means I am fit to work then they apply the pass)? Coz I checked they just applied the pass for me yesterday. Kinda worry

Is this applicable to all staff? And you are a foreigner right? The test is mandatory for foreigners because Singapore doesnt allow HIV positive foreigners to dwell here. (you know la, fear of spreading and stuff like that)

[Guest -Worry-]

Is this applicable to all staff? And you are a foreigner right? The test is mandatory for foreigners because Singapore doesnt allow HIV positive foreigners to dwell here. (you know la, fear of spreading and stuff like that)

Is this applicable to all staff? And you are a foreigner right? The test is mandatory for foreigners because Singapore doesnt allow HIV positive foreigners to dwell here. (you know la, fear of spreading and stuff like that)

Yea, I am a foreigner.

Yes, it applies to all staff. There was another new local staff who went for the check up too.

[charvo87]

go get check. Recently read a newspaper that there is this family went on a vacation. Came back whole family kena STDs and they were all puzzled.

Docs suspected that it may because of the family soak themselves in the bathtub having bath and the bedsheets and they all kena the disease. Docs says although the hotel uses hot water and anti bacteria detergent, it does not kills the std effectively. Somemore the hotels are a famous place for those sex industry.

[bludragon]

Though it mention oral sex has the lowest percentage to get infection. There is still a possibility to get any form of STD or STI if you have a bleeding gum or ulcers. So I guess, wait for at least six months (the most accurate since there is a window period) and book a HIV blood test.

[Guest Deka]

Hello,

Sad to say I suspect I may have been infected with STI. I have some white substance regularly being discharged from my penis and I suspect it may be gonorrhea.

I have looked at DSC & Shim clinics' websites. DSC seems to a cheaper and more affordable alternative for a just ORD'ed personnel and still jobless like me.

Any advise on what kind of treatment I'll be getting there? I see that there are blood tests, or urine sample etc. So many diff kinds and I don't wanna just anyhow take them unnecessarily.

It's obvious that I'm having a white substance discharge from my penis so will further testing still be conducted or will I be given medication straight?

It's my first time getting this penile discharge. I'm really worried/confused. Sucks that I got this just after ORD, can't even use 11B...

My sexual history is that I've only been with 1 guy for the past 6 months. We're no longer seeing each other as he moved to another country and the last time we met, he performed oral on me 2 weeks ago.

So should I even book an appt now or wait 3 months even though I am experiencing discharge alrdy.

[lct]

Just walk in. As long as it is not HIV, the cost is not really a big issue. No one will be subjected unnecessarily to investigations.

[Alexandre]

Please do get a checkup IMMEDIATELY, it may be quite serious judging from your post, does that guy have the same problem as well?

[Guest Deka]

So there's no need to book appt if Im going to DSC clinic? Can just walk in? And even then, is it only on Wednesdays for the Men's Clinic sessions or can I go this Monday for the 'Public Clinic'?

I'm not sure if my partner has it. He's no longer in Singapore.

[pocketsizebf]

You should go to dsc asap. I would advice that:

1) make a call of appointment with your ic number before you go. It cuts waiting time. It doesn't open all time time either.

2) do note only afa is anonymous. Shing and dsc isn't truly.

3) you should go now, the 3 month wait is to test for HIV symptoms. By your description, it's unlikely to be hiv. HIV doesn't usually show symptoms- until years later. The only sign is usually a mild onset fever.

4) after u go there, by describing your symptoms, they will recommend you a specific test. And you will have to pay for that test and an offset of $15 admin fee (it will offset your payment). However they will strongly recommend you a full sti check up which usually cost about $165-200. As other sti may not have shown symptoms. They will of cos also ask to to wait for the 3 month window for HIV test. Apparently your last sexual contact was 6months back, so it's fine.

5) if u have anything, responsibly contact all people u had sexual contact with, handjobs aside.

Gosh I sound like I work there....

[Guest Deka]

Thanks for the advise guys. Will make a call on Monday morning...

[am9]

Hello,

Sad to say I suspect I may have been infected with STI. I have some white substance regularly being discharged from my penis and I suspect it may be gonorrhea.

I have looked at DSC & Shim clinics' websites. DSC seems to a cheaper and more affordable alternative for a just ORD'ed personnel and still jobless like me.

Any advise on what kind of treatment I'll be getting there? I see that there are blood tests, or urine sample etc. So many diff kinds and I don't wanna just anyhow take them unnecessarily.

It's obvious that I'm having a white substance discharge from my penis so will further testing still be conducted or will I be given medication straight?

It's my first time getting this penile discharge. I'm really worried/confused. Sucks that I got this just after ORD, can't even use 11B...

My sexual history is that I've only been with 1 guy for the past 6 months. We're no longer seeing each other as he moved to another country and the last time we met, he performed oral on me 2 weeks ago.

So should I even book an appt now or wait 3 months even though I am experiencing discharge alrdy.

Other than oral, did u engage in any anal job with him?

My experience tells me that oral job carries lesser STD risk than anal job.

[Bane]

Can someone PM a list of gay friendly doctors in Singapore

[Bane]

I went to Jay Medical, really nice doctor there but apparently there is 2. One of them is the friendly one I got, the other one I dunno. Had a good long chat exchanging medical knowledge and talking on different aspects of medicine. The clinic is easily accessible via Somerset MRT station

[Guest Worried abt std]

Hi,

Recently I fked a guy anal ...... We did frotting and rubbing of our penises closely.... And after that I gave him a blowjob and I fked him anally with condom on..... I tried to apply lube many times as the condom became dry and I jerked off to the condom to maintain my hardness...

WILL I GET STD OR AIDS?????

[blueb]

dude, if you had the condom on, I don't see what's your concern here, unless it was broken when you take it out.

And the chances of catching any STD through a blowjob is way higher if you had any open wounds or cuts in your mouth.

[GachiMuchi]

I am afraid I have bad news, because whatever it is, it is too late to REGRET because you had already HAD sex.

Please go and READ UP about STDs or HIVs, and armed yourself with the necessary info BEFORE you start having sex.

Anyway for STDs you will know in 1 week's time and as for HIV, you will know when you go for your test.

Here are other discussions links on the topics :-

1. Stds - Sexually Transmitted Diseases Discussion http://www.blowingwi...se

2. All About Hiv / Aids Discussion http://www.blowingwi...se

Edited December 9, 2012 by GachiMuchi

[youngdoctor]

Any sexual contact.. With or without condoms has risk. Using condoms reducing the risk, but if you're so panicky, and esp if you have reasons to suspect your partner might not be clean... Go get checked.

[Guest Freaked Out]

I'm so messed up.

I married my college sweetheart, and have been in a monogamous faithful relationship for almost 5 years.

When my beautiful little angel came along, things just became a little different.

Her life revolved around our precious daughter now, and I was no longer the center of attention.

Work and other things also got so hectic that we didn't have time to be intimate much.

I didn't mind and resorted to porn and DIY. I still love my family and never sought outside company the entire time.

Then, one night she found out about the porn and reacted very badly. Thank goodness she didn't know specifically what sort of porn or that would have been the end of our marriage.

After that incident, I felt very unfair. I'm still young and increasingly became sexually very frustrated.

Then I came across this site. After reading some of the tantalising reviews on this forum, I decided to go for a massage in Pagoda St.

Guess I was hoping for release in the form of a HJ or something. Or maybe nothing would happen. I don't know.

I was greeted by a young Chinese man, and he guided me through the process. Gave me a nice welcome drink, showed me where to take a shower and were to lock my clothes and wallet safely.

Then I proceeded for the massage, which all seemed very legit. I was set to be disappointed sexually, but it was nice to have some discreet human contact.

Then, in the final 20 minutes of the session, he started making whispered conversation and asked me if it was my first time here.

I nodded in reply. I said it was my first time and that I had never been massaged by a man other than Chinese physicians.

He then stopped massaging me, took off all his clothes and began messing around with me.

All professionalism gone, he started playing with my nipples, fingering my ass, stroking my dick, and even french kissing me.

I almost called it off when I felt his stubble against my chin. It was so weird to be kissed by a man.

While I was very aroused, it was too much sensation for me all at once. My heart was beating so fast and I was so anxious that I could not sustain a full complete erection.

He had no problems getting hard though, and because I had never touched another man before, I asked to touch his penis.

It was longer than mine, but a lot thinner. He was circumcised, and I didn't know how to masturbate him without hurting his glans. Then something crazy made me ask him if I could even... put it into my mouth.

I still can't stop dreaming how awesome that felt. I tried everything I saw in the porn movies, and even deepthroated him until I could smell fresh soap in his pubes pressed right against my nose.

After a while, he tried to get me hard again. He was a little rough this time, and I guess I didn't react to his expectations.

Suddenly, he grabbed me under both thighs and was somehow positioned under my lower half. He rested my legs on his shoulders and began to enter me.

I was expecting a lot of pain, but it didn't hurt at all!

I know it sounds gross, but the feeling was really satisfying. Like taking a good long shit. That's the closest thing in my experience I can describe it to.

Since it didn't hurt, I began to relax and he started pumping harder and harder. Suddenly, he shifted angle and I felt electric shocks running all over my buttocks and thighs.

It was like I totally lost control of my body. Like when someone hits your funny bone in your elbow, but this was deep in my ass.

Suddenly, I was rock solid hard. He grabbed my dick, but before he could do anything else, I was cumming everywhere in gushes.

He then kissed me tenderly on my forehead and proceeded to wipe me off and massaged me a little more after that.

He then dressed himself up and led me to the showers.

When the time came to pay the bill, I was surprised that he didn't ask for anything more than the original list price. I didn't know what was expected, and gave him an extra $50. It was the only note left in my wallet.

He didn't show any reaction, not delight or disappointment. Just put the money aside, didn't even glance at it and politely asked me to visit again.

These past few days, my ass is sore when I go to the toilet. I also have a very slight irritation at the tip of my penis.

He looked perfectly fine and smelt good, but I am very worried that I have picked up an STD.

What if my wife suddenly gets in the mood? I don't want to pass anything to her as she is still breastfeeding our baby.

Please, please advise me what I need to do?

[Guest Guest]

So fake......hahaha!

If a man really kena STD & is so troubled, he wouldn't be here describing at great length the details of his encounter at Pagoda Street.

Hahaha.......

[krugerboy2002]

What so stupid about this?

You got ur fair share of pleasure. You have used an excuse that ur wife and child has caused you to seek for another althernative to release your tension.

What do you want us to advise you?

[Guest Guest]

Tell her u sprain your back n refrain from sexual activity for a certain period of time. In the meantime go see a doctor for verification n treatment if its needed.

[EasleyLim]

I'm curious why you chose male masaage instead of the typical geylang. What makes a supposedly straight guy think of homosexual stuff instead of the straight sex?

[jtsc]

If worry, please go and have a check up asap.

[Guest stbrianud]

I'm curious why you chose male masaage instead of the typical geylang. What makes a supposedly straight guy think of homosexual stuff instead of the straight sex?

I'm pretty sure he ain't straight.

Maybe just a guy with homosexual tendencies.

Just go get the check up.

FYI, it seems you are giving her all the power in your relationship. That's never a good idea.

[Guest Wife of Freaked Out]

Cool story bro!

[Guest PHD]

if your tigress wife find out you have sex with men, she will feel very sorry for u that she has neglected your needs. If she finds out you have sex with another lady, jelousies will take place and she may ask for divoce. So thank goodness u didn't go geylang.

I wonder why u paid for being fucked???

[Guest Guest]

What if my wife suddenly gets in the mood? I don't want to pass anything to her as she is still breastfeeding our baby.

Please, please advise me what I need to do?

Go see a doctor for a checkup. Most of the times, it just your fear stirring up the imagination. You're not so lucky in striking lottery, right?

[aTallDude]

I m not entirely sure that your story is real but if it is... pls call the Action for Aids helpline immediately.

Pls also do NOT have unprotected sex with your wife... not even a blowjob.

[AceD]

Its probably the price u pay for anal sex. Sores on ur butt is normal? But cock iritation?? I dont think the symptoms of HIV coomes that Fast. Best be safe just go for a checkup.

[dannysuz]

From him, he resorted to porn and DIY. He must have very strong sex drive. He should fxxk the massager instead. He gave his anal so easily. I do not think this is his first time.

[SeannyShortcake]

Boom.

Electric.

Electric shock.

Come back for more ya.

[GachiMuchi]

If you are worried about contracting STD, you might want to go read earlier postings on STDs

You might also want to go for a medical check up.

I've posted the contact for a gay friendly doctor / GP here.