Help! I Cum Too Fast! + Premature Ejaculation & Treatments Discussion (Compiled)

[Guest Tonychen]

16 hours ago, Eoin said:

Do you ever find that sometimes when all you want is a "quickie", or you're under some kind of time pressure (e.g. his bf is coming home soon) that it takes like *forever* to cum?

 

But when you're really enjoying yourself with a hot guy and want it to last forever, you cum in like 3 minutes?

 

FML  

Hate guys who take forever to cum. (After u cum) 

[Waterman]

Do you have this issue? 

 

I know of people who can have orgasm but nothing is ejaculated.

 

Do you know why it is like this? Any cure?

 

Is it ok not to seek treatment if one is experiencing it?

 

Thank you for sharing.

[Guest Ikuiku]

Could it be a fake orgasm?

[btmslut]

I once had a top with a pretty long and thick cock. Way above average, 9 plus inches. And very decent thickness. He was good at rimming, my one weakness.

 

Excluding foreplay, he fucked me for a good 2 hours. First few cums i was in a doggystlye position, and there was a pool of my semen on the bedsheets. He knew how to push my buttons. While still in me, and still with long slow strokes, he scooped up my semen and fed it to me. He then flipped me over and fucked me missionary. I remember each time i came a puddle on my stomach, he would wipe it off and feed it to me. Eventually that puddle became drops. And then one drop. Then completely dry. But believe me... it was no fake orgasm. I could still feel the butterflies in my lower stomach, the churning of the balls, the shuddering.

 

Sidetracking, one thing i experienced with him which i never experienced with any other top, is while i was riding him, he sat up to kiss me, held me tight, and somehow... managed to stand up while his cock was still in me. He fucked me like that for a good minute, i was not touching the ground. It wasnt the best position during the session, but it was the most exciting!

[upshot]

http://neilbaum.com/articles/retrograde-ejaculation-or-shooting-blanks

 

[Leanmeat]

Wish i can take longer time to cum.

[Andrewww]

It's all about control. when you are fucking think of other things while enjoying the guy's hole, that's what I do.

[Leanmeat]

It works this way?

[Andrewww]

1 minute ago, Leanmeat said:

It works this way?

To me it does, also since I am top i vary my pump so I don't have to cum. I think for bottoms it's different.

[Leanmeat]

I mean i cum fast when fucking. Didnt say im btm

[Andrewww]

1 minute ago, Leanmeat said:

I mean i cum fast when fucking. Didnt say im btm

Oh okay. Try not relax a bit.  Feel the hole around your cock and change your pace when thrusting...it will take you long time

[SazNura]

Cum fast doesn't mean the bottom do not enjoy it. some top can still continue to fuck after cum,

As a bottom i would have enjoyed this type of top.

Mixed forplay, kiss and cuddle the bottom if you cum,wait a bit until you are hard again or less senstive and fuck again.It will last longer the second time.

It is all about give and take, two adults enjoying an intimate moment.

Edited February 4, 2017 by SazNura

[Guest Hates]

I cum way too quickly. Sometimes within 20 seconds. What can i do to change this? Or prelong my ejaculation?

[Friendly]

Have lots of sex and u will learn to control your cum Lor 

[G_M]

16 minutes ago, Nelson said:

Me too.. I cum very fast.. Tmr place free from 12-3pm in west, anyone can provide some erotic massage and try help me rectify?

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[p2468]

I tend to cum fast when I have my cock sucked. My partner can't enjoy cos I always have to stop him from sucking in order not to cum. How can I delay my cum?

[LeanMature]

2 hours ago, p2468 said:

I tend to cum fast when I have my cock sucked. My partner can't enjoy cos I always have to stop him from sucking in order not to cum. How can I delay my cum?

 

Go for more cum control session.  

[ZKT279]

Do kegel exercise and edging.... control your breathing.... learn how your body respont n what signal u get right before u cum.....

Practice....

[Guest Kumkum]

When he's sucking you, imagine the one doing is an old and ugly woman. Sure cannot cum. 

[cutejack]

3 hours ago, Guest Kumkum said:

When he's sucking you, imagine the one doing is an old and ugly woman. Sure cannot cum. 

Will go soft la.more worse.lol

[kaze]

 

13 hours ago, p2468 said:

I tend to cum fast when I have my cock sucked. My partner can't enjoy cos I always have to stop him from sucking in order not to cum. How can I delay my cum?

 

you're top or bottom?
if u're top, try fucking him first and shoot your load.. wait 5 to 10mins and start to engage in some "heated" foreplays.. your dick should have rest enough to get hard but not enough to cum.

if u're btm, cum first before you have him suck your dick?

[p2468]

10 hours ago, kaze said:

if u're btm, cum first before you have him suck your dick?

U mean diy b4 sex? So that hard enough to suck but not to cum?

[kaze]

i mean leave blowjobs to round 2. lol..

[Guest cam]

Just had cam sex with this guy... Super cute, young and lean with specs. We cammed for about just two minutes, then he suddenly started squirting unannounced, with lots of moaning. Pretty hot. He continued playing with his cum until I finished.

 

We're gonna meet next week so I'll see if he has the same problem in real life.

[Guest Justlovethongs]

I precum on my thongs very often as they're sensitively hard when I'm wearing them.  When cumming I don't last long too maybe in 2 to 3 mins.  

[Mr. D]

Do you have any tips for those who cum faster 

[ArtyGuy21SA]

spray a numbing spray...chinese calls it 印度神油, indian magic oil

Edited August 19, 2017 by ArtyGuy21SA

[Mr. D]

@ArtyGuy21SA any natural method? 

[ArtyGuy21SA]

or if you want a permanent solution...

 

https://verylowcirc.tumblr.com

 

cut low and tight, remove the frenulum - and you can a fuck stick that can go on and on

[ArtyGuy21SA]

Just now, Mr. D said:

@ArtyGuy21SA any natural method? 

er....pre-jo first, fire the 1st ranging shot...then wont be so horny

 

then during action, wont be as likely to misfire

[Guest Miao]

On 19/08/2017 at 9:55 PM, ArtyGuy21SA said:

er....pre-jo first, fire the 1st ranging shot...then wont be so horny

 

then during action, wont be as likely to misfire

 

Tried this method once but couldn't get hard during the real action... And the other guy got disappointed

[Clive]

Anyone saw a doctor /urologist and useful/effective was it? 

[Kimochi]

On 9/18/2017 at 5:02 PM, Guest Miao said:

 

Tried this method once but couldn't get hard during the real action... And the other guy got disappointed

Whats your usual refractory period?  Jo and cum before your refractory period you should be fine. 

[Sian boy]

It is not advisable to take drugs unless it is a doctor prescription. PM me if u need advice 

[heliumduck]

17 hours ago, Clive said:

Anyone saw a doctor /urologist and useful/effective was it? 

 

regarding ?

 

39 minutes ago, Sian boy said:

It is not advisable to take drugs unless it is a doctor prescription. PM me if u need advice 

 

drugs as in those delay spray/ viagra ?

[Sian boy]

6 minutes ago, heliumduck said:

 

regarding ?

 

 

drugs as in those delay spray/ viagra ?

Yes any medication 

[Guest Sochi]

On 27/10/2017 at 6:02 AM, Clive said:

Anyone saw a doctor /urologist and useful/effective was it? 

I tried seeing the urologist at CGH for consultation. Nothing much they can do. Was just given some numbing cream. Disappointed and didn't go for any follow up appointment.

[lovehandle]

On ‎12‎/‎3‎/‎2017 at 1:52 AM, fly360 said:

any young guy has a PE issue? PM me pls

Dear all

how early is  your pre ejac ? serious?

Ejaculation shdnt take too long like a porn

On ‎27‎/‎10‎/‎2017 at 11:42 PM, Sian boy said:

Yes any medication 

8 hours ago, Guest Sochi said:

I tried seeing the urologist at CGH for consultation. Nothing much they can do. Was just given some numbing cream. Disappointed and didn't go for any follow up appointment.

 

[Guest Guest PE]

I am in my mid 40s now. I find that I can’t control myself from cumming. When jerking, I tend to feel like I m cumming in less than 3 mins and if someone blowing me, I can cum in 1 min. I think this is premature ejaculation. This makes me feel very inferior and I don’t dare to find someone to have fun. Anyone having the same problem? How to control from cumming? Feeling sad as I can’t have sex with someone or want to hav a bf. 

[Guest Ejac]

Wow, there is a guy in his 40s complaining abt his erectile dysfunction in another thread and here you are complaining abt pre-ejaculation. Both of you are really extremes. 

 

Why not you jerk off more often to make your dick less sensitive? And during sex, focus on the other party's body and not your dick.

 

Btw, I am kind of attracted to goodlooking guys with pre-ejaculation problem. I think they look sexy when trying hard not to cum too early. 

[Guest Guest]

On 10/1/2018 at 10:41 PM, Guest Guest PE said:

I am in my mid 40s now. I find that I can’t control myself from cumming. When jerking, I tend to feel like I m cumming in less than 3 mins and if someone blowing me, I can cum in 1 min. I think this is premature ejaculation. This makes me feel very inferior and I don’t dare to find someone to have fun. Anyone having the same problem? How to control from cumming? Feeling sad as I can’t have sex with someone or want to hav a bf. 

You still can have sex, just be btm.

[Guest James]

Hi guys, not sure this have been asked before or not but would like some opinion on this .
So I'm a versatile guy around 6inch, I find that when I'm being the Top sometimes, I can't hold it very long, usually a few hard push is very enough to make me cum so I have to pause for awhile and start to push again slowly. Sometimes, even when I try to pause for awhile while I was inside my sexual partner, any slight movement can send me to the beyond point. However, other times I can perform quite well and last quite long and the feeling is not as intense. I am wondering am I having premature ejaculation or something els. Does this mean I am not suitable to be a top? I enjoyed both top & bottom but sometimes cumming to fast (around 5min ) seem to be a downer for both parties, should I just focus on being a bottom?

[Guest Random]

Today while hooking up with a guy from Jack'd I prematurely ejaculated even before I managed to strip. Just making out and grinding on each other. Could only suck him off after that, because I was soft all the way after cumming. Not sure what happened, I've never had this problem before... Feeling quite weird now. Anyone ever experienced this?

[Heahe]

2 hours ago, Guest Random said:

Today while hooking up with a guy from Jack'd I prematurely ejaculated even before I managed to strip. Just making out and grinding on each other. Could only suck him off after that, because I was soft all the way after cumming. Not sure what happened, I've never had this problem before... Feeling quite weird now. Anyone ever experienced this?

Your brain is a powerful thing, it just whether u get to control or being controlled by your adrenaline. 

[Guest Pepsi Max]

Hearing your experiences of premature ejaculation makes me quite envious because I never had this kind of involuntary response from my body. I wish I can actually cum without having to wank so hard. Can;t cum when fucking neither . I actually have a fetish for guys who cannot control their cum.

[Guest guest]

On 4/27/2019 at 5:30 AM, Guest Random said:

Today while hooking up with a guy from Jack'd I prematurely ejaculated even before I managed to strip. Just making out and grinding on each other. Could only suck him off after that, because I was soft all the way after cumming. Not sure what happened, I've never had this problem before... Feeling quite weird now. Anyone ever experienced this?

Maybe you got too excited? That guy must be very hot and cute?!

[Hardnips]

How do I delay cumming? Sometimes I cum too fast. LOL

[Guest #meetoo]

8 hours ago, Hardnips said:

How do I delay cumming? Sometimes I cum too fast. LOL

Me too. Are you uncut? I noticed uncut dick cum very fast. I think the unexposed skin of the head more sensitive to touch than the cut dick. 

 

But in the animal kingdom, this is very important to ensure the continuity of your lines. You wan to complete the copulation as fast as possible before you become the tiger next target. 

[Guest Me3]

2 hours ago, Guest #meetoo said:

Me too. Are you uncut? I noticed uncut dick cum very fast. I think the unexposed skin of the head more sensitive to touch than the cut dick. 

 

I uncut but my head not very sensitive, I find I get more pain than pleasure when someone plays with my head.

[Guest delayed]

11 hours ago, Hardnips said:

How do I delay cumming? Sometimes I cum too fast. LOL

 

sometimes i have the opposite problem! unable to cum!