Masturbation / Jacking Off Discussion - Learn From Who? When? Where? [Home, Work, Public?] How Often & What Techniques? How Many Times is too much? (Compiled)

[quanjishou]

day and night is a possibility but the question here is more like what is your default habit?

unless u wank both day and night daily.

so if u only do once usually is it day or night?

 

[fab]

Is the physician gay?

[sam8899]

  On 12/15/2019 at 4:51 PM, fab said:

Is the physician gay?

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Seems rather gay to me, but obviously not "out".

One thing I do not like about him, is that his videos are very non-inclusive ... as if everyone is straight.

If it is about a man, then it's always "your girlfriend/ wife", I find that very irritating when I am quite sure he has a big gay fan base, and he is probably 99% gay, yet die die won't admit.

[fab]

  On 12/16/2019 at 2:20 AM, sam8899 said:

 

Seems rather gay to me, but obviously not "out".

One thing I do not like about him, is that his videos are very non-inclusive ... as if everyone is straight.

If it is about a man, then it's always "your girlfriend/ wife", I find that very irritating when I am quite sure he has a big gay fan base, and he is probably 99% gay, yet die die won't admit.

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Personally I find him too vain, attention seeking to be straight. 

[thickpec]

night

[bradlee]

  On 12/16/2019 at 9:45 AM, thickpec said:

night

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Vote at survey. :-)

[Pureordinary]

Both, and almost daily.

[Guest guest]

  On 12/16/2019 at 7:31 AM, fab said:

 

Personally I find him too vain, attention seeking to be straight. 

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What do you mean attention seeking to be straight?

[Kimochi]

  On 12/15/2019 at 4:51 PM, fab said:

Is the physician gay?

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I think he's out. And he knew people liked him and he did these educational videos too! Its like killing many stones in one. Kudos to him. Subscribed his videos too! He has other videos beside his doctor videos. His travelling videos, his friends designer clothes videos .

[fab]

  On 12/16/2019 at 3:07 PM, Guest guest said:

What do you mean attention seeking to be straight?

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Straight guys r less likely to be attention seeking.

[Guest guest]

How come the female host never ask the physician how often he jerk off? The other guy not cute, they should have get some cute guys to talk on this topic.

[thickpec]

  On 12/16/2019 at 10:32 AM, bradlee said:

Vote at survey. :-)

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Voted

[Guest Guest]

If you watch the video carefully, the doctor is telling, masturbation is the cause of ED (阳痿/不举), cannot sustain long 早泄 & etc. 

[Guest guest]

  On 12/18/2019 at 4:53 AM, Guest Guest said:

If you watch the video carefully, the doctor is telling, masturbation is the cause of ED (阳痿/不举), cannot sustain long 早泄 & etc. 

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No need doctor say also can guess that masturbation indirectly can cause 早泄, cause when a guy masturbate, he will make himself shoot very fast and this would become a habit.

[quanjishou]

i dun think that is the cause if not all guys masturbate, should all guys ED?

even it is should be excessive masturbate not just normal masturbate

[DeMarko]

  On 12/18/2019 at 4:53 AM, Guest Guest said:

If you watch the video carefully, the doctor is telling, masturbation is the cause of ED (阳痿/不举), cannot sustain long 早泄 & etc. 

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True to certain extent.

 

U can masturbate with edging .. this will prevent ED n 早泄

 

When young, i masturbate and let it shoot fast so i can clear up the mess.

 

But when i was at the age of 22, i started to do edging ... for more than an hour and my record breaking was edged for 4 hours before letting my lava erupt... Now my cock still as strong as steel and always very horny and the cock can just erect anytime of the day...

[gucici]

Any buddies use legs n thighs to help each other? 

[Tylor]

  On 1/9/2020 at 5:48 AM, gucici said:

Any buddies use legs n thighs to help each other? 

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I used to do that. Damn shiok 

[gucici]

  On 1/9/2020 at 7:33 AM, Tylor said:

I used to do that. Damn shiok 

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Wow. Can describe it how? Position etc? 

[Tylor]

  On 1/9/2020 at 7:45 AM, gucici said:

Wow. Can describe it how? Position etc? 

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Just lie sideways and use your thighs to squeeze your cock and grind in between your legs. 

[Zealouslogue]

When you have no guys in your life so you gotta learn shit on your own and the Internet. That's what I did. But I don't masturbate. I cum hands-free to porn. 

[gucici]

  On 1/9/2020 at 8:56 AM, Tylor said:

Just lie sideways and use your thighs to squeeze your cock and grind in between your legs. 

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So, the he will lie on bed, i sit on top of him and his cock in between both my inner thighs? Got use lube? 

[Guest Six]

Daily? 

Once every 2 to 3 days? 

Once a week? 

 

Any side effects to body if we masturbate daily or too much? 

[Guest guest]

  On 3/19/2020 at 2:03 PM, Guest Six said:

Daily? 

Once every 2 to 3 days? 

Once a week? 

 

Any side effects to body if we masturbate daily or too much? 

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Depends on individual body, no fixed rules. Some people can masturbate everyday without any problem, and yet some people if they masturbate too often, they would feel tired or body weak. So listen to your body and adjust accordingly.

[fugues]

  On 4/7/2018 at 2:45 PM, lovehandle said:

Chinese medicine dont encourage that

 

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The TCM doc is so nice ....

[Guest guest]

Western doctor says masturbate is healthy as long as don't over do it and can prevent prostate cancer. And now tcm says masturbate is harmful to body. So who should we listen to?

[dexter9898]

  On 3/20/2020 at 3:15 PM, Guest guest said:

Western doctor says masturbate is healthy as long as don't over do it and can prevent prostate cancer. And now tcm says masturbate is harmful to body. So who should we listen to?

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Your dick...lol

Edited March 20, 2020 by dexter9898

[SurpriseMEinHere]

  On 3/30/2020 at 4:29 AM, Since u r here said:

no saunas operating during covid, all i could do is to beat it , beat it!!!!!!!!!

usually i will do it the Most thrice per week, now already 3 times in a row just within 3 days!!! help me out pls

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How to help you out arh???  :  P

[yuquidam]

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Edited April 1, 2020 by yuquidam

[yuquidam]

  On 4/2/2020 at 2:15 PM, Since u r here said:

all the answers u need! 

 

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Woooh...luv the way the cute hot guy on the left touches his bod when he speaks...makes me drool both from mouth and kkj.. LOL

[Guest peppapig]

Is shooting 6 to 8 times every time I cum too much or is it normal?

[Sh3rlock]

  On 5/3/2020 at 9:17 PM, peppapig said:

Is shooting 6 to 8 times every time I cum too much or is it normal?

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Just count yourself lucky! You are clearly a BIG Shooter 😁😋

[Male-HQ]

Shake your love ❤️💦

 

[FattChoy]

Last year, an old friend recommended a sounding toy which he found extremely pleasurable.  He was right.  I feel sounding ratchets up the self play level a few notches.  

 

 

[grizzler]

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Edited December 5, 2020 by grizzler

[chargingbull]

any body tried hollow penis plugs ??

 

or sounding ??

[grizzler]

 

  On 5/22/2020 at 2:32 PM, grizzler said:

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[Kim kimono]

How old are you now ?? sec...school ☺️

[yuquidam]

Mutual jo (masturbation) with a bimarried buddy (ie no anal) in the shower because we're both tops. We start off with lots of nipple tease and bj under the shower. But ends up soaping each other's body and take turns to hump each other between the thighs from behind or front till we cum. It's quite heavenly with the slippery shower gel as I cum between his thighs near his butt or balls. Not sure if this is out of topic for this thread on masturbation. Of course we couldn't meet since CB started...*sigh*

Edited May 23, 2020 by yuquidam

[yuquidam]

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Edited May 23, 2020 by yuquidam

[storming]

Have anyone tried the post orgasm squirt where you play with the dick head after you cum and it squirt out urine? In Chinese it is call “潮吹“. Has anyone tried it? I always wanted to try but I always failed and dunno how to do it. Can someone advise?

[Cernunnos]

  On 5/29/2020 at 4:36 AM, Since u r here said:

Really to retain them and to injaculate??!!!?

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Most of the desire for injaculation and retention is just to prevent the sleepy and tired effects that comes as post ejaculation side effects. The believe is that once you retain the semen from travelling out of the body, you do not have the sleepy and tired side effect and it makes one feel like one could go for a couple more rounds.

 

Most of these believes do not stem from proper scientific evidences and they are simply hear-say from others or religious or metaphysical believes that are not proven in any scientific fashion.

 

Tried retaining but there's nothing really special about it in the sense you would have to expel it out as urine later on since it travels to the bladders and the article mentions it being dangerous to reverse the course too.

 

If it's for the mental side effect of not feeling tired and weak after ejaculation, the better way I found is after ejaculation, grab a small piece of food (i.e. chocolate) and eat. You would feel much better afterwards for the mental effects and if needed, take a quick shower to freshen up.

[Cernunnos]

  On 5/29/2020 at 4:57 AM, Since u r here said:

do u do it often?

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Nope. I don't get anything out of it so once, twice and no more. Not doing it anymore these days. It's not healthy anyway.

 

I usually cum pretty quickly  but can be delayed for a short while (instead of doing injaculation). End of the day, that bunch of semen has to go somewhere. It's either going to travel to some parts of your body or outside of it and with or without side effects.

 

To "injaculate" you have to hold the splinster by two ways, mentally contracting it or by physically pressing the perineum region. The article did not mention about any side effects of physical force applied to the perineum just for the sake of injaculation though and you have to contract or apply pressure early on before you reach the point of no return otherwise it just oozes out  and the down side is you don't feel a satisfaction as it's not the result you wanted.

[Guest]

  On 5/29/2020 at 5:36 AM, Since u r here said:

is that what they say u might get "blue balls" due to such actions?
i think bottom can control it better? i m not sure , must intvw some....

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like to check, blue balls can occur even as one is stimulated right? need not be jacking off/ sex and to the point of reaching climax?

[Young gun]

I did it in my office when everyone was home... There was one time that saw by my boss when he suddenly came to my room without knocking and i was  watching the Korea RA with headphone on it. i was shock and after that he always stay late until i leave my office.... 

[cutejack]

  On 6/8/2020 at 2:27 AM, Young gun said:

I did it in my office when everyone was home... There was one time that saw by my boss when he suddenly came to my room without knocking and i was  watching the Korea RA with headphone on it. i was shock and after that he always stay late until i leave my office.... 

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Stay late ? U mean......

[yuquidam]

  On 6/8/2020 at 2:27 AM, Young gun said:

I did it in my office when everyone was home... There was one time that saw by my boss when he suddenly came to my room without knocking and i was  watching the Korea RA with headphone on it. i was shock and after that he always stay late until i leave my office.... 

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  On 6/8/2020 at 2:29 AM, cutejack said:

Stay late ? U mean......

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....to have hj, bj or piak piak piak ? You have a very caring boss I must say.

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[Young gun]

No la...he stay late just to make sure i dont piak piak in his office... $$@$@$@#%%$.... just few years back.. i met a new colleague than realised he is like boys too, and upon knowing that we always eat together and even go toilet together.. he is 29 and have a very beautiful body.. he even wear tongs to G-strings to work and only upon we went toilet together he show it to me... i was in shock... omg... but he is a cute guy.. 

[yuquidam]

  On 6/10/2020 at 3:21 AM, Young gun said:

No la...he stay late just to make sure i dont piak piak in his office... $$@$@$@#%%$.... just few years back.. i met a new colleague than realised he is like boys too, and upon knowing that we always eat together and even go toilet together.. he is 29 and have a very beautiful body.. he even wear tongs to G-strings to work and only upon we went toilet together he show it to me... i was in shock... omg... but he is a cute guy.. 

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NICE. One day if you two piak piak piak together do share here ok?

Edited June 10, 2020 by yuquidam

[Dumain]

I was a late bloomer, and lost it 10 years ago at the ripe old age at 24. For the longest time, I thought I was straight and couldn't quite come to terms with my sexuality. I was a prude when it comes to sex, possibly due to the environment I grew up in.

 

I discovered masturbation at the age of 13 while imitating what the actor was doing in a porn video I stumbled upon. Unfortunately, I forgot to lock my room while masturbating one day in sec 2 and I was caught. My father raised his voice and I was scolded by my parents that day - I was taught that porn is ungodly, masturbation is against religion, sex is revered only after marriage and I am strictly not to touch myself anymore. Till this day, I don't think my parents understand how badly this incident has screwed up my attitude towards sex. I began to repress my sexuality. Of course, I still had the urge to masturbate (I am only human), but every single day when I feel the urge, I try to convince myself that masturbation is a sin. I limit myself to masturbating no more than one time a month, usually doing it in public toilets so that my parents don't suspect that I still touch myself.

 

Sexuality became nothing but an after thought to me. During NS, when my bunk mates talked about sex, I will feel embarrassed and I will excuse myself out of the room. So for 24 years of my life, I avoided thinking about sex at all cause; the closest action I ever had was possibly 1 - 2 guys asking me for my number in the gym and at my internship. 

 

Out of boredom and out of curiosity one weekday afternoon during my Uni holidays, I downloaded IRC. It was just one of those days where I did not know what came over me. I started talking to one guy, asking him to describe how oral sex feels like. Something just snapped in me that day, possibly also because I hadn't jerked off in a few weeks. The guy I was chatting with asked me to come down to his place to try out getting sucked for the first time. I remember feeling so pent up that I immediately booked and took a cab, still in my singlet and boxers. I couldn't even think straight enough to put on proper clothes. 

 

10 mins later I was taking the lift up to his apartment. I was so nervous but at the same time, it felt like something has taken over my body, and nothing was going to stop me from going over to his house. 

 

He was a pleasant looking man in his early 30s with a gymfit bod. At his place, I just couldn't control myself. I started touching and undressing him and kissing him at the living room before he could even close the gate. It honestly felt like I was possessed. He was possibly possessed too; he undressed me and kissed me in the living room, and to my horror I realised that he was not alone at home when a man (probably his housemate or tenant) came out from one of the bedrooms to go to the toilet. In our naked state of embarrassment, he ushered me to his room, where he fulfilled his promise of giving me my first BJ. 

 

I was foolish enough to think it would have stopped at just a mutual BJ, hugging and heavy petting. Before I knew it, he asked me to sniff a small vial of liquid (I have never heard of poppers back then) and then a new wave of horniness came over me. It was nothing like what I have ever experienced. In our euphoric high, he put some lube on his dick and tried inserting his dick in me. In my mind, I was saying NO but my body just couldn't cooperate. Before I know it, I was getting penetrated for the first time. It hurt like hell, but my body didn't care for it and it still felt so good. The whole encounter was the best 40 minutes of my life.

 

Of course, everything came crashing down once we came and I snapped back to my senses, horrified at what had happened. I quickly put back my singlet and boxers, and asked to leave. I did not even took up the offer to clean myself up first in his toilet. At the void deck, I broke down and cried, feeling dirty and asked God for forgiveness. I wandered around the neighbourhood in a catatonic state for hours. Once I reached home, I spent an hour in the toilet cleansing myself of the guilt and trying to wash out every single drop of him from inside me (everything was such a blur, I only realised we had done it raw after I felt him cumming inside me). 

 

It took me many days later for me to forgive myself and carry on as per normal. Also took a comprehensive STD test 4 weeks later to make sure that I didn't contract anything from that encounter, and promised God that I will never do such a thing again after I was given the all clear. 

 

Of course, 4 months later I felt the urge again, hooked up with another guy and felt guilty again. It took me probably one year later to finally realise that sexuality is healthy and a  normal part of being human. Once I have reconciled my thinking on sex, from my mid 20s to early 30s, I became a compulsive masturbator, masturbating at least once a day on weekdays and 4x a day on weekends. 

 

Today, I think I have adjusted my attitude towards sexuality, and no longer feel guilty if and when I have my occasional hook up encounters at the gym. However, my compulsive masturbation habits from a few years back have now given me a new problem (premature ejaculation).