Bottoming 101 - How To Prepare Your Ass For Fun + How To Give Yourself An Enema / Douche / Clean Inside Your Butt (Compiled)

[Copper2b]

On 5/4/2024 at 12:00 PM, StockBottom said:

Anyone use this kind of douche before? Supposedly much faster and easier than bulb douche.

 

How to use?

So is it possible to get this in Singapore? Please pm me. Thanks

[StockBottom]

5 hours ago, Copper2b said:

So is it possible to get this in Singapore? Please pm me. Thanks

 

From shopee. https://shopee.sg/search?keyword=anal douche

[Winnie]

Recently tried another lube after the previous one let me have diarrhea the next day.

 

Normal aloe Vera gel if put on face etc will feel a burning sensation. The new lube does not have glycerin but contain aloe Vera which leads to a burning sensation after insertion although the burning feeling does not make me feel unsafe but any idea if we should not feel burning feeling from aloe Vera even if applied on face?

[GachiMuchi]

1 hour ago, Winnie said:

Recently tried another lube after the previous one let me have diarrhea the next day.

 

Normal aloe Vera gel if put on face etc will feel a burning sensation. The new lube does not have glycerin but contain aloe Vera which leads to a burning sensation after insertion although the burning feeling does not make me feel unsafe but any idea if we should not feel burning feeling from aloe Vera even if applied on face?

 

Did you read the labels properly? 

Did you bought chili or pepper sauce instead of Aloe Vera?

Are you sure it is lube? 

I only heard of silicon or water based lube.

Then there are the Strawberry flavoured ones, never heard of Aloe Vera lube.

Usually those Aloe Vera lotions are for after sun burned skin meant to moisturise the skin.

[Winnie]

6 hours ago, GachiMuchi said:

 

Did you read the labels properly? 

Did you bought chili or pepper sauce instead of Aloe Vera?

Are you sure it is lube? 

I only heard of silicon or water based lube.

Then there are the Strawberry flavoured ones, never heard of Aloe Vera lube.

Usually those Aloe Vera lotions are for after sun burned skin meant to moisturise the skin.

It's called wicked jelle water based anal lub

[Winnie]

been researching on what food to eat for dinner so that will be able to have clean anal sex for the next 6 hours after dinner but so far, unless eat fishball soup or dumpling soup without noodle, cannot seem to find proper food to not feel hungry for the next 6 hours while at the same time have the water douched hole stay clean

[Jace27]

Psyllium fiber capsule pills helps for me. Stool seems to be grouped together. But you need to drink more water and don’t have a shitty diet lol. I got mine from iHerb.

[tinkero]

Agree,with the previous post, 

On the day of action I might do a earlier intermittent fasting, drink  lots of water...

 

And water fiber pill brands u got to carry the excess bits inside.

So it's actually possible to be 100% clean... but I takes a lot of effort

[StanChi]

Just curious how you all prep your ass for anal sex? Recently trying to be bottom for twice, both times also get some fissures 😿 

[Winnie]

not easy to have more vegetables for meals these days, unless eating cai png but their vegetables quite oily and can get sick of it easily. mala store their veggie so expensive.. wonder where everyone get your daily intake of vegetables that is not too expensive and not easily get tired or sick of it.

[GayNomad]

 

On 4/4/2025 at 7:56 AM, StanChi said:

Just curious how you all prep your ass for anal sex? Recently trying to be bottom for twice, both times also get some fissures 😿 

Fissures means u had anal tear and bled? Hope the other guy wore a condom! 

[cbm]

On 4/4/2025 at 7:56 AM, StanChi said:

Just curious how you all prep your ass for anal sex? Recently trying to be bottom for twice, both times also get some fissures 😿 

 

Ouch. Hope you are ok. Maybe practise on your own with dildo and determine which angle/position works best for you.

 

[btmslut]

On 5/4/2024 at 12:00 PM, StockBottom said:

Anyone use this kind of douche before? Supposedly much faster and easier than bulb douche.

 

How to use?

 

Even though i've stopped having sex recently, I still use this daily. The exact same nozzle head. Don't be a slut and buy the biggest one though, the small one works fine. The biggest one you need to lube it up as soap alone it not going to be easy to insert.

 

I heard its not good as it removes some healthy bacteria or something, but I just like the mental feeling of being clean inside. And also since I leave the home completely empty inside so I never ever ever ever have to use the public toilet to poop hehe. Btw it is also really convienent when travelling, long bus/plane journies. Imagine on the bus to KL and you need to go... nightmare haha ok i'm beiung a drama queen

[Dondondon1986]

On 4/4/2025 at 7:56 AM, StanChi said:

Just curious how you all prep your ass for anal sex? Recently trying to be bottom for twice, both times also get some fissures 😿 

I used the metal nozzle thingy that someone posted earlier.. so once the water seems clean, I will use a dildo to double check. Usually if it’s clean then nothing happened during the real sex 😅🤣

[Raveology]

On 4/4/2025 at 7:56 AM, StanChi said:

Just curious how you all prep your ass for anal sex? Recently trying to be bottom for twice, both times also get some fissures 😿 

hmm ride the d. take charge by slowly going in yourself first. 

[Slowmo]

On 8/9/2025 at 7:19 AM, Raveology said:

hmm ride the d. take charge by slowly going in yourself first. 

Question - how and what to do when you have anal fissures?

[StockBottom]

On 6/2/2025 at 11:43 AM, btmslut said:

 

Even though i've stopped having sex recently, I still use this daily. The exact same nozzle head. Don't be a slut and buy the biggest one though, the small one works fine. The biggest one you need to lube it up as soap alone it not going to be easy to insert.

 

I heard its not good as it removes some healthy bacteria or something, but I just like the mental feeling of being clean inside. And also since I leave the home completely empty inside so I never ever ever ever have to use the public toilet to poop hehe. Btw it is also really convienent when travelling, long bus/plane journies. Imagine on the bus to KL and you need to go... nightmare haha ok i'm beiung a drama queen

 

Like you said, it's not good to douche too often, or too deep.

 

Once you are done defecating (properly), the rectum should be mostly cleared of faeces.

 

The aim of douching is to just clean the rectum and anal canal. If you go too deep or push too much water in, the water will go beyond the rectosigmoid junction into the sigmoid colon; the water that come out will be difficult to get clear, plus it's quite uncomfortable.

 

So please don't over do it. These days I'll just do one squeeze of water using a bulb douche, 3-5 times. 

Also, a top that can't take a bit of heat, maybe shouldn't come into the kitchen 🙃 

 

 

Edited August 15, 2025 by StockBottom

[FeastUponMe]

Do I douche much deeper with bigger dick or lesser water is still good not beyond the colon but within rectum? 

[cbm]

On 10/30/2025 at 1:03 PM, FeastUponMe said:

Do I douche much deeper with bigger dick or lesser water is still good not beyond the colon but within rectum? 

 

The depth or amount of water used when douching isn’t about the top’s size. It’s about cleaning the rectum effectively without overdoing it.

 

The area that needs to be clean for anal play is the rectum, which is the last part of the digestive tract, roughly 10–15 cm deep.

 

You don’t need and shouldn’t try to go beyond that into the colon, because that can cause discomfort or draw in more debris.

 

The goal is to flush out any stool from that short section. If you douche a few times and the water runs clear, that’s a good sign you’re ready.

 

The top’s size doesn’t really change how deep you need to clean; the rectum stretches to accommodate penetration, but it’s still the same area that holds residue.

So focus on gentle, shallow cleaning, stop once the water is coming out clear, and don’t use too much water or go too deep.

[FeastUponMe]

1 hour ago, cbm said:

 

The depth or amount of water used when douching isn’t about the top’s size. It’s about cleaning the rectum effectively without overdoing it.

 

The area that needs to be clean for anal play is the rectum, which is the last part of the digestive tract, roughly 10–15 cm deep.

 

You don’t need and shouldn’t try to go beyond that into the colon, because that can cause discomfort or draw in more debris.

 

The goal is to flush out any stool from that short section. If you douche a few times and the water runs clear, that’s a good sign you’re ready.

 

The top’s size doesn’t really change how deep you need to clean; the rectum stretches to accommodate penetration, but it’s still the same area that holds residue.

So focus on gentle, shallow cleaning, stop once the water is coming out clear, and don’t use too much water or go too deep.

Thank you so much. I'll heed your advice. Just had a terrible sex experience for my top cuz I overdid it and the water came out clear but then it leaked out poo water at the end

[cbm]

30 minutes ago, FeastUponMe said:

Thank you so much. I'll heed your advice. Just had a terrible sex experience for my top cuz I overdid it and the water came out clear but then it leaked out poo water at the end

 

That's ok. It's functioning as what it was designed for. Just wash up and go for round two. Any top who gets bothered and very particular about this can just jerk himself off. If he wants warm, moist, tight boyhole, he must understand what the primary function of that body part is. 

Edited November 1, 2025 by cbm

[StockBottom]

On 11/1/2025 at 11:25 AM, cbm said:

Any top who gets bothered and very particular about this can just jerk himself off. If he wants warm, moist, tight boyhole, he must understand what the primary function of that body part is. 

 

I also say!

We bottoms have done as much as we can. If the tops can't stand a little heat, then don't play in the kitchen!

[cbm]

@StockBottom oh so the process is,

1) come into the kitchen

2) play in the kitchen

3) cum in the kitchen

 

Hehehehe

[QinWei]

I cant be the expert

but top has to note when u r entering too

 

doc advised how bottoming to be done:

https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1BeXSyeYB1/?mibextid=wwXIfr

[MS87]

Porn does not teach us real sex encounter, anal is always displayed clean and shiny. In our own experiences:
 

1) What’s the best approach or practices to prep for anal sex? Cleaning techniques, tips and how long? What products or tools you use and involved; or do you just use plain water.

 

2) In meet up, cruising, do you have time for it? If not, does your partner/ encounters be bother by it? They like it filthy most of the time as they use condom, etc..

 

#realdiscussion #realexperience #sexeducation

Edited January 4 by MS87

[cbm]

@MS87 how do you do it?

 

I'm not sure if there's a single best for way for everyone. But I do know that different people like to do it different ways, based on their preference. 

 

Like how people have a certain way that they like to eat prata. Some drown it in curry, some eat it with sugar, etc.

 

Different variations that I know about based on how I do it and how my friends do it:

 

Water: tap water, bottled water

douche bulb: medium, extra large

For bidet spray: water pressure is important. Higher pressure is better

For shower head: adjust the shower head to the mode that shoots out a few thick water streams

How long to clean: usually until it's clear and no more brown bits. The timing isn't fixed. Can take a short while or maybe a long while. Because douching may induce a bowel movement and then you have to douche again.

 

About meetups, bottoms need time to prepare. And there may be some days, just not suitable to bottom, like if he ate spicy meal the day before.

 

For bottoms, most of the 'work' is before the sex. For tops, most of it is during sex.

[JL7]

preparing with a toy can also help if you are too tight and need loosening up 

[SensualMassage_T]

On 5/15/2024 at 4:16 PM, Copper2b said:

So is it possible to get this in Singapore? Please pm me. Thanks

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