When did the gay in you came out? How Did You Turn Gay? (compiled)

[knittinguy]

I guess the TS wanted to ask how do we know we are gay or what event triggered us to discover that we are gay.

 

For me, I would say that my brain is telling me that I want to be with a guy rather than a woman.

 

I find a hot guy more attractive than a hot woman. To me, the woman is, "wow, she's pretty." On the other hand, when I see a hot guy my mind would go, "holy shit, that is one fine specimen of the male human species. I wonder if he notices me? Omg, did he notice how retarded I look? CRAP!! I have to stop staring!"

 

[yoyo74]

Well whenever i see a woman i will feel uneasy if standing or sitting too close to them. For guys there is no such uneasy feeling. So i guess its a proven fact that i am born gay

[camus]

had a crush on a school prefect when i was in primary school

always imagined him bathing lol

[cutejack]

8 hours ago, yoyo74 said:

Well whenever i see a woman i will feel uneasy if standing or sitting too close to them. For guys there is no such uneasy feeling. So i guess its a proven fact that i am born gay

Exactly..

[7heaven]

My sec sch friend asked me to show him my dick n in turn he showed me his. Guess tt was how it came abt. 

[Guest Heavenly Book of Secret]

15 hours ago, AP1987 said:

Well.. I am always curious on how ppl becoming gay or turn sideways. horny or just attraction.. what's your story?

 

 

In biblical time, when God Created earth, he created a gay man.  HE later presumed a gay man was lonely, HE made a simple figure called woman because God didn't want to have two identity creation.  The gay man didn't like that woman, for reason only gay man will know,  so the woman went to befriend a snake. God was angry at the woman for being a bitch, but outcasted woman blamed it on the gay man instead.  To punish both of them, God turned them into straight creature and banned them from heaven. Ever since, straight world was created as punishment for their sin. 

 

Luckily,  while straight people continue to suffer, God continue to make more gay for heaven and we are lucky to be one of them.

 

I hope the above answer to your question.

[doncoin]

Born gay. Proud of it. 

[iamziz]

Sometimes it is good not to add to the stress/pain in living as who we are by embracing our sexual identity. If we can't do that, get some help from trusted person(s) to help us do that. A Malay saying ''Nasi sudah jadi bubur'' (The rice has become porridge). We are who we are. 

 

“You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks, or even months over-analysing a situation; trying to put the pieces together, justifying what could've, would've happened... or you can just leave the pieces on the floor and move the fuck on.”

― Tupac Shakur

 

Use the remaining time we have (we don't know how long more we have) to be a happier person. 

[Guest CKW]

I don't recall a time when I actually "turned gay".

 

When I was very young watching cartoons, I always get turned out by the male characters, especially the very manly and muscular ones.

 

Likewise with kingfu shows, Hollywood movies, etc.

 

I knew it was weird so I never told anyone about it. I always thought that maybe I would grow out of it sometime later. 

 

But I never did.

 

I have ever mentally tried to force myself to like girls before.

 

But it was so exhausting and so tiring that I told myself: if it requires so much work and effort for me to like girls, then it's definitely not natural, so why go on?

 

So I just stop forcing myself to be straight because I know I will go insane if I force myself any further.

[kinky kyle]

Born bisexual. I can  have options.

[Guest Neh Neh]

On 26/11/2016 at 9:37 PM, Guest Guest said:

All the women in my life are atrocious and ferocious bitches, from my teachers to my very own mother. I grew up thinking I don't want to be associated with women forever. That notion stuck on to me even till today.

Yes my secondary school class teacher was a bitch and many girls in the class are sluts and ah lians.

[Guest Guest]

You mean gay is like tap, can just turn on and off just like that? A person sex orientation is never turn but born. Why don't you ask those straight guys, how did they turn straight?

[Hummel]

Was watching magic mike and got hit by lightning.

[thorzguy]

I did not turn gay.

I discovered it -  when I realized I like men more than women; and the former turns me on than the latter.

[playhardindian]

Mine more like a molestation, turned into curiosity then a complete bi sexual. 

Was molested at age of 15 i guess then got used and started liking it. 

[keyboard]

Sorry, can't help it.

[Blacque]

4 minutes ago, keyboard said:

Sorry, can't help it.

 

Got confused by Tinky Winky? 

[melvinlam90]

I used to cut newspaper pictures of hot guys and keep them when i was very young, and always secretly looking at them. I mean I didn't realize that i might have feelings for guys until like age 12, where friendster starts popping up 

[Guest Tsts]

12 hours ago, playhardindian said:

Mine more like a molestation, turned into curiosity then a complete bi sexual. 

Was molested at age of 15 i guess then got used and started liking it. 

Me too, at 14. I was seduced by my tutor neighbour thru porn and erotic massage. Became addicted to the fun till now after 20 years and married with kids, though not really interested in men, enjoy the sucking. I guess I turned bi.

[cutejack]

2 minutes ago, Guest Tsts said:

Me too, at 14. I was seduced by my tutor neighbour thru porn and erotic massage. Became addicted to the fun till now after 20 years and married with kids, though not really interested in men, enjoy the sucking. I guess I turned bi.

U mean u suck.or getting sucked?

[emojess]

Around age...10, 11? After watched a guys basketball competition, went back home keep thinking of those sweaty hot guys. I was like..."oh shit, am i gay?" Then I realized ok, I am indeed gay.

[Guest Tsts]

52 minutes ago, cutejack said:

U mean u suck.or getting sucked?

Being sucked

[Guest Was]

Born this way.

[Guest guest guest]

when i was 13+, a friend of mine introduced an middle age ah beng to me, he asked me out for midnight movie. After movie, he took me to geylang and we had an beer, he asked me to accompany him to sleep over in hotel. Been naive and didnt know that guy and guy could have sex, i accompanied him. After taking a shower, he asked me to sleep in my underwear. After closing my eye, i felt his hand roaming my body, tried to stop him but couldnt as he overpowered me.

 

Slowly he took off my underwear and begin to suck me, my eye was closed at all time but the feeling was good. After which he started to finger my ass and using saliva as lube, it was painful. Shortly, he position himself to fuck me but his cock could not get in as i was squeezing my ass very tightly. But i wasn't able to hold on too long and soon he was in me.

 

I was in pain but didnt dare to scream or reject. All i did was to close my eye and hope everything end quickly. Soon i felt something sticky, he cum inside me. After that he asked me to washed up, i washed up and poo. Blood was coming out and i was in pain.

 

After that, i came out and i requested to go home but he asked me to stayed, he promised not to touch me again. I obliged. After i felt asleep for awhile, i felt his mouth was on my cock sucking me, i got hard quickly and he positioned my cock in his anus. He rocked himself on my cock sideway till i cum.

 

I went to sleep again till morning. I was awaken by him when he start sucking me again and after which he fucked me and cum in me again.

 

I was time to check out and he give me 20 dollar to take cab home and ask me to contact him again. I didnt do so but i learned about gay sex from him. I wasnt gay as i dont have emotion for guy.

 

After that, when i played chatline, there were guys approached me and offered to pay me, i took up the offer but i was always me getting sucked. After that, i became his money boy. Depend on my mood, i sucked the guy as well but i will reject getting fucked again as the first experience was very painful and traumatizing.

 

 

 

 

[biLanjiao]

My first so called bf forced me to ssuck when I was 18 n he was 30 . he grabbed my arms n almost twisted off when I struggled. after that I nvr had a bit n I meet new guy on line who is a str8 n we became good friends we watchEd str8 porn a lot. But till now I dunno what I am.   

[Leanmeat]

after watching str8 porn in my teens.. Every pleasant looking guy that I saw on the street, on the tv, I will imagine how his face look and how he will sound if he is in orgasm..

so many years i felt i was so pervert..

[Guest SailorMoon]

How I turned gay?

 

One fine day after school and there was no one else at home. I turned on the TV and watched this Japanese cartoon.  Out of curiosity, I tried what they did and ........ I turned gay!  It's true, try it yourself.  If you're already gay, it will turn you gayer.  

 

 

[Guest Tsts]

4 hours ago, Guest Tsts said:

Me too, at 14. I was seduced by my tutor neighbour thru porn and erotic massage. Became addicted to the fun till now after 20 years and married with kids, though not really interested in men, enjoy the sucking. I guess I turned bi.

It was a very fun time for me. My neighbour work on shift in a factory. He live alone, is medium built. Middle age but he play soccer on weekend. Not sissy, no one can guess he is gay. When I secondary school he offer to teach me math for free so I start going his house for tuition. At first things normal, till he ask me about my private life, got hit friend etc. Then to dirty talk and about masturbation. Got me very horny. He pass me porn also. One time after eca I went to his place and he make me shower first. He cheekily peeped at me, say no big deal, all guys have also. I wear his shorts with no shirt for the tuition. As I  sore from track & field in school, he offer to massage me. Ask  me lie on his bed and he massage me. He more  interest in making me horny. Rubbing my thigh and bum. Soon I have big erection. He make me turn over, tickle my nipple and offer to massage my dick. It is so good I closed my eyes and cum. After resting a while he offer to do again. I cum three times that afternoon. So good, I keep going back again and again. After I got girlfriend, got married and got two children. Not enough some more, now I look for massage from here with happy ending. Many times got free happy ending. Also try fucking ass. So fun. But I never interest in man like I love woman, just lust I think.

[Guest Unfortunately 真人版]

4 minutes ago, Guest SailorMoon said:

How I turned gay?

 

One fine day after school and there was no one else at home. I turned on the TV and watched this Japanese cartoon.  Out of curiosity, I tried what they did and ........ I turned gay!  It's true, try it yourself.  If you're already gay, it will turn you gayer.  

 

 

 

[Guest Omg]

2 hours ago, Guest guest guest said:

when i was 13+, a friend of mine introduced an middle age ah beng to me, he asked me out for midnight movie. After movie, he took me to geylang and we had an beer, he asked me to accompany him to sleep over in hotel. Been naive and didnt know that guy and guy could have sex, i accompanied him. After taking a shower, he asked me to sleep in my underwear. After closing my eye, i felt his hand roaming my body, tried to stop him but couldnt as he overpowered me.

 

Slowly he took off my underwear and begin to suck me, my eye was closed at all time but the feeling was good. After which he started to finger my ass and using saliva as lube, it was painful. Shortly, he position himself to fuck me but his cock could not get in as i was squeezing my ass very tightly. But i wasn't able to hold on too long and soon he was in me.

 

I was in pain but didnt dare to scream or reject. All i did was to close my eye and hope everything end quickly. Soon i felt something sticky, he cum inside me. After that he asked me to washed up, i washed up and poo. Blood was coming out and i was in pain.

 

After that, i came out and i requested to go home but he asked me to stayed, he promised not to touch me again. I obliged. After i felt asleep for awhile, i felt his mouth was on my cock sucking me, i got hard quickly and he positioned my cock in his anus. He rocked himself on my cock sideway till i cum.

 

I went to sleep again till morning. I was awaken by him when he start sucking me again and after which he fucked me and cum in me again.

 

I was time to check out and he give me 20 dollar to take cab home and ask me to contact him again. I didnt do so but i learned about gay sex from him. I wasnt gay as i dont have emotion for guy.

 

After that, when i played chatline, there were guys approached me and offered to pay me, i took up the offer but i was always me getting sucked. After that, i became his money boy. Depend on my mood, i sucked the guy as well but i will reject getting fucked again as the first experience was very painful and traumatizing.

 

 

 

 

Blood out?? Will Lena hiv not

[Hands]

First thing is the title is wrong, We don't just turn gay by experiencing something its more of when we knew we were gay and when we accepted we were gay so please note this

[tom88s]

I'm a oldman now, married, when I was 58, I lost my erection, so, since can not fuck, just let other to fuck u lah.

[cutejack]

54 minutes ago, tom88s said:

I'm a oldman now, married, when I was 58, I lost my erection, so, since can not fuck, just let other to fuck u lah.

Yeah.many mature whom i met

say this.for me right.girls keep rejecting me n guys keep approaching me.so i turn gay

[mandala]

I ate too much strawberry ice-cream... 

[lovehandle]

4 hours ago, cutejack said:

Yeah.many mature whom i met

say this.for me right.girls keep rejecting me n guys keep approaching me.so i turn gay

lol

[Guest Gogo]

My mama told me when I was young, I gonna be a superstar.

[Guest Sara]

My mama ever said : what will be will be

[Guest Bayne]

But mama just killed the man. She put the gun against his head. Pulled the trigger and now he's dead

[analogous]

Hmm I don't know how I "turned" gay. But maybe my first time experience in watching porn influenced me in some way.

 

I accidentally found my brother's stash of straight VHS porn in between my bed mattress. Maybe he hid it there thinking my parents won't find out haha. Throughout the half hour orgy video, my attention was focused on all the men's buff body, how they were kissing the girls, cupping their breasts and sucking on them. The sound of their manly grunts and moans as they fuck the girls, thrusting their hips as they pump their hard dick into the girls mouth, vagina and ass. Strangely the close up shots of the dick entering the vagina or the guy licking it turned me off. Maybe it was because it was red and I thought the vagina looked like a gaping wound which freaked me out. And all those cumshots! So fascinating... why is my dick hard from watching this? What is the white liquid that shoots out of the dick? Why are the girls swallowing it? Does it taste good? 

 

In my mind I was thinking..wow these guys are making all the girls feel so good. But instead of thinking "I want to make girls feel good like this too", I was like... "I want the men to make me feel good like this". The girls are sexy in the typical mainstream standard but somehow I just didn't find them arousing at all or enjoyable to look at their naked body. 

[cutejack]

Finally my turn..i think we born in this way?i remember when i was very young abt 5-10yo.i always mix with my two sis n for no reason dont like my elder bro.n my dad.FOR NO REASON. I still remember when i waa in primary sch, i would peep at sec sch boys at urinal n i feel very shy talking to guys

Im more comfy with girls.even when i started to work i mix alot with female colleagues n felt uncomfy with male colleagues.But now IM COMFY WITH BOTH GENDER N ALWAYS TRYING MY BEST TO GET CLOSE WITH GUYS TO HAVE LURE N HAVE FUN WITH THEM.hahahaha.i hate women.they r real.bitches thru some experiences.so we r born

gay n not turn gay.lolx

[qedcwc]

Around the time when I was 11 or 12, I have a tendency to touch my balls when they are sagging. And being in an all-boys school where my classmates would sometimes 'catch your bird' made it worse. I then started to ogle at the pictures of the models on underwear packaging and would sometimes put a few fingers across the underwear image, trying to imagine in my head how would the model look like without that piece of cloth. I also have this other friend who was an active badminton shuttler. There was one time when we were 14, and everyone in class was changing clothes to go for P.E., I noticed he already developed abs as a result from his training. Since then, the male body really got me fascinated. But the thing was I struggled to identify myself as being a gay. Even when I was probed and molested by another friend who was trying to simulate fucking with me while I was sleeping. That was in Kuala Lumpur when we were checking out an education fair there. I thought that it was just a phase and eventually I would get married and settle down like other guys out there. It wasn't until I finally completed university and started my first job in Singapore, then I started to be more open about myself and my sexual orientation, given that I was in a place where most people hardly knew me. That was when I was 23. So ya, I only finally identified myself as a gay at 23. Pretty late bloomer.

[abang]

Oops I did not turn gay..

I was just born that way...

I knew I was gay even before I started school..

Older folks here, do you remember those good looking actors from Shaw Brothers?

I liked them but I was more attracted to Robert Redford..yes, blond and beautiful..

 

[Guest On Fire]

I tried to date girls in secondary school, but the ones I liked were not interested, and those who liked me were very unattractive. But besides that I always thought about boys when I wanked and only right before cumming would my fantasy switch to girls. I told myself it was just a phase but eventually experimented with a boy from another school several times. We drifted apart and I tried unsuccessfully to date girls again until graduating university. After starting work, I began hanging out socially with a mixed group that included gay guys and lesbians, and sometimes accompanied them to bars and clubs. This made me feel more comfortable in a gay environment and eventually I began to seek out guys on my own but generally remain closeted.

[Guest Guest]

Gay is born and not made.

[98boi]

Hahaha i don't really post a lot on forums but I guess the story of how I realized I was bi the whole time is worth sharing. 

So, like throughout my childhood, I had countless crushes on girls and ya know, straight stuff. But on hindsight I remember being excited whenever I saw like a good looking guy taking his shirt off in TV and stuff. So when I was like 13-14 I asked myself, "Am I gay?". But I told myself I wasn't, because I had a crush on a girl at that point in time. And I didn't know that being bisexual was a thing and that you could only choose one. So for like 2-3 years I kept asking myself the same question and each time I said no because I kept crushing on girls, but yet I kept admiring some of my male CCA-mates half naked bodies when we change together. Then when I was 16, I kind of wanted to get to know the gay community better, just to get a better sense of who I was. So I went to a gay dating website, and I had to create a profile. Then there was this one section that told you to state your sexuality, and they told you to choose between "Gay" and "Bisexual". So at the time, I was curious as to what "Bisexual" meant cuz I didnt know what it was. So I searched it up and they said that it meant that you liked both. And then I thought, "Wait, isn't that me? So all this while I was bi the whole time?" And thats how I realized I was bi

[bennyboi]

Growing up I don't wear underwear, like I'd complain that it's too tight (briefs) and I pretty much went on commando everyday until I was 15. I still remember when I was 7 years old, a boy said how come I didn't wear 'spender' (the way they call briefs) and then I asked him what's that, he took off his pants and showed me his cute yellow briefs, I remembered clearly. And another kid also showed me (just unzip) and showed his blue briefs, with some cartoon logo.

 

Then slowly I kinda noticed and very curious about boys and their underwear and realized that I'm the odd one that goes commando. I began noticing, like waistband and peeping through kid's shorts and in the toilet. I wasn't pervy but was very very curious. I have briefs too just that I have never wear it tho my parents would push it. Then one day when I tried when they're not around, and I saw myself in it, still tight, and I keep touching myself until it's hard and excited (I was 9 ish that time), and start rubbing it nonstop until I orgasm (no cum, too young maybe lol). So that time onwards, whenever I wear briefs, I will instantly get hard and wanna touch myself until orgasm. All the more reason make me cannot wear briefs.

 

Then I slowly have briefs fetish and enjoy looking at boys in their underwear. Waistband or sneak peak will turn me on greatly, and I always like the basic design, tighty whities that most kids wear (I still do, hehehe), yet I can never get the habit of wearing underwear because it's like a 'sex object' to me, lol. I still even remember when my cousin showered with me in my hometown (I was 10 I think), he asked how come I didn't bring underwear. I was so shy and didn't answer him, he offered me his fresh pair of dark blue briefs (he was skinny and I was quite a big kid, so it fits me perfectly). I was so damn shy but just wear since he was dressing me, and I got a instant mini erection. Still remember he said 'Ei, naughty ah you, need to spank spank!' (Ei, 坏蛋啊你，打屁股就知道!) and gently spanked my butt a few times then put on my pants. I felt so awkward walking around the mall in undies while he hold my hand. It was very memorable (and homoerotic, to say).

 

Swear I wasn't making any up, but it was these collective event, I know that I like boys and undies.

[Guest Lomi45]

Because of last ugly girlfriend who doesn't know how give a good head and nice in bed

[Guest Neh Neh]

Turn gay after kissed and sucked by an angel looking eye candy guy.

[Tommy vietnam]

I turned into gay within one night with neigborhood guy. He sucked my cock and i had to force suck him again. and after that fate night, i knew i was another guy i had no feeling with girl. How to recover it. ANyone have good idea to help me.

Edited December 16, 2016 by Tommy vietnam

[suckmegood]

10 minutes ago, Tommy vietnam said:

I turned into gay within one night with neigborhood guy. He sucked my cock and i had to force suck him again. and after that fate night, i knew i was another gu i have no feeling with girl. How to recover it. ANyone have good idea to help me.

 

maybe you need to force lick a pussy. ROFL