Carpenter Posted October 26, 2015 Posted October 26, 2015 True, I agree. Even though I too with flaws like pimples n etc. Will never Photoshop my pics, by far only editing brightness n sharpen the pics.No one should feel ashamed of their bodies, everyone will get rejection at some point so just get over it. If talking w handsome masculine hot body guys but no chem n can't get the convos going then for what lehhh???If not using somebody else's pictures, most guys in Grindr or Jack'd post their most beautifully-enhanced pictures. Enhancements by photoshop or some photo-editing apps. One time I was chatting with this guy who looks so handsome and skin was so smooth and youthful in his profile picture. It's actually not about his appearance why I kept chatting with him. He's witty and funny and that's what I like about him! Finally we decided to meet in person and have dinner together. While I was waiting inside the restaurant, I was frozen to my seat when suddenly an unfamiliar person sat in front of me. With a severely pimpled face and dark completion as compared to his profile pic, I almost didn't recognize him until he introduced himself. Well, it didn't matter to me actually how he looked like in person but the feeling of being deceived was a little hard to overcome. I feel sorry that he's embarrassed of his true appearance by posting an edited picture. Anyway, we're still very good friends up to now and we still meet from time to time. :-) Here's my personal advocacy: LET'S STOP BEING ASHAMED OF WHO WE TRULY ARE & LET'S NOT TRY TO BE SOMEONE WE ARE NOT! It surely feels good to be accepted and loved by someone without hiding something. Let's appear as we are and if people have trouble accepting that, that's their problem! :-) grocksd and Amir0412 2 Quote
Carpenter Posted October 26, 2015 Posted October 26, 2015 Totally, I always said to the person on jackd that if each of us not comfortable chatting there I won't give them my pin, or line id as I wouldn't want to collect contacts dust.I wouldn't go to the lenght of blocking them though unless if they really piss me off.Please bear with this little rant of mine, just wondering if this is supposed to be a common occurrence in jackd.~ after some basic correspondence and pics exchange with this person on jackd.Him: Hey. Would you like to chat on Whatsapp?Me: Hmm...shall we chat a little bit more over here first? I'm not comfortable will adding strangers onto whatsapp.Him: But I don't use this app very often. Why not take a chance?Me: Hmm....alright then~ chatted abit more on Whatsapp with him.The next day...Me: Hey afternoon. Hows your day been? (on Whatsapp)~ saw him online a few times but no reply even after a whole day.Me: Hi. Do let me know if you are still keen on this conversation? If not I'll be clearing this chat window. No hard feelings. Thanks! (on Whatsapp)~ saw him online a few times again but still no reply. I assumed he is not keen and proceed to clear it and delete his contact from my phone.Maybe its just me but I'm a tad uncomfortable with having remnants of dead chat windows with dubious strangers on Whatsapp. Does anyone else feel that way? grocksd and ahben94 2 Quote
wintersnow Posted November 6, 2015 Posted November 6, 2015 (edited) what i hate most about exchanging pict is that when the other party asked for you pict, he doesnt have the curtosey to unlock or send his first and instead reply AFTER YOU Whoever replies AFTER YOU in such instances are to me insincere and obviously, i wont send a picture before him and neither i will reply him any further well, i do understand there are people who after seen your pict, becomes uninterested will choose to MIA so thats where the after you comes about but more of them are actually "scammers", they want to see and access you first and if you dont meet their standard then you wont get to see their picture then block you. I always make it a point, an exchange is an exchange, even when the other party isnt what im looking for, i will still exchange. always rem that while you choose people, others are choosing you too and seriously, im not cute or muscular looking to begin with so i dont hang myself to sell BW - Bod pic - chats here and there for fun mostlyJack'd - Face pic - no one bothers I think people don't really look for friends online (or I really look hideous).at least i do and i hope more do Please bear with this little rant of mine, just wondering if this is supposed to be a common occurrence in jackd. ~ after some basic correspondence and pics exchange with this person on jackd.Him: Hey. Would you like to chat on Whatsapp?Me: Hmm...shall we chat a little bit more over here first? I'm not comfortable will adding strangers onto whatsapp.Him: But I don't use this app very often. Why not take a chance?Me: Hmm....alright then~ chatted abit more on Whatsapp with him. thats y i always keep the chat in the app until i think its time for exchange contacts or something. as you know what happens after exchanging no most of the time is like what happens in your case -- no more contact Lol! Won't reply or will block if not up to his standard.You got to laugh at such immaturity! What does he think he is? The next King of England?That kind of attitude will not get him far in life! For his sake, I hope he learns his lesson soon. This is the "I am a big fish in a small pond" attitude. But unfortunately, what he doesn't realise is that its NEVER a small pond but a huge ocean. And he is only a small fry!he is not the only one. many are like that just that he explicitly say it out Edited November 6, 2015 by wintersnow Topdownunder and jeeves 2 Quote
iamziz Posted November 15, 2015 Posted November 15, 2015 A 21-year old got angry with me last night saying he has been on Grindr for 5 years and I have never been interested in him. That was the 1st time we chatted when he initiated the chat. Told him if he started Grindr 5 years ago he must be underage then and that's a dangerous period. Conversation ended. Topdownunder 1 Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee
Butterscotch Posted November 18, 2015 Posted November 18, 2015 Is it just me or are there less people on Jack'd nowadays? Quote
epicus Posted November 18, 2015 Posted November 18, 2015 Deleted both apps already lol lovehandle 1 Quote
FirsTimer Posted November 18, 2015 Posted November 18, 2015 (edited) i like chatting had a bit of fun (2months later) i only like chatting with some. the rest with good boys and face(?) also ugly. can't be bothered to find someone who is ideal in these social media grounds. just get on with new media. new media which speaks about other focuses that i wish will pass by soon Edited January 3, 2016 by FirsTimer Quote
Dashy_Boy Posted November 20, 2015 Posted November 20, 2015 Yeah i do love chatting too. But sometimes things can get a bit mean when the person stops talking to you based on physical attributes Quote
Guest Ener Posted November 22, 2015 Posted November 22, 2015 Some guys seem like be online 24hr on grindr Σ( ° △ °|||) Quote
Guest Guest Posted November 27, 2015 Posted November 27, 2015 It's all about sex.Everybody is a predator.Everybody can be a victim.Everybody plays the sex game for the very simple gain, sex with someone desirable.If he gets your pic and ignores you, then it's so obvious.What's the point of complaining he's being rude?It's the laws of the sex jungle, fuck or be fucked.Even if he continues, it's still obvious what he wants.It's usually the tops who patiently give chase.But now you're going to be the fish that he wants to land onto his bed.It may be flattering and you toy with his sexual come-ons.When the time is finally ripe and you landed on his bed.He exacted his sexual needs into your body.Usually he really likes you to be so patient for so long .He still keep going for you and again you call the shots of when he can screw you.Then you let him screw a few more times and you feel you are the one calling the shots.But men are still animals. When he finally gets bored with you then the real ignoring starts.Spend months patiently being wooed and gets screwed many times, the final outcome still the same....Gets Ignored.Who ignores who first feels like the winner.Yeah, it's bloody immature. Sex games don't play nice. grocksd 1 Quote
water Posted December 3, 2015 Posted December 3, 2015 well, once i was supposed to meet up from someone in grindr. his real life face is totally different from the pic he shown me. it's not like he sent me a picture of another guy, it's just that his face was flawless in the pic, but when i met up, his face was full of pimples. i got cheated Quote
dandan21 Posted December 3, 2015 Posted December 3, 2015 Just came across this thread, and it's sad how people seem to choose friendship over physical attributes. It's not looks that makes a good man anyways Anyways, i'm still happy that the circle around me is pretty much happy-go-lucky people.Thanks for the birthday wishes xxo Now about that birthday fuck xD Quote Freelance Reviewer Of AnythingMariah Carey Gif SpammerProbably the person you can talk to about anything x
Guest guest Posted December 9, 2015 Posted December 9, 2015 Came across too many fake pics...an easy way to check.Google Reverse Image Searchhttps://images.google.com/click the camera icon on the right.Either u upload the pic link or use phone screen capture. Crop off borders and parts is optional. Found the above clever enough to analyse pic.So u might find...like the pic belongs to some overseas model...or a guy whose instagram or twitter said he now in canada...thus can't be living in spore.Even faceless or cropped pics can check...one in business wear...i found belong to an online clothing website.Guess alot of disappointment... Quote
sphere Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 My Jack'd app just got updated a few days ago (the one where the navigation tool on the top left corner), which I feel it is not as good as the old version. However, I noticed my phone battery started to drain rather quickly if I use this app (if I don't, it was clear the battery bar didn't drop that fast at all), wonder if anyone else have the same "predicament"? Maybe it is an indication for me to drop this app altogether, haha. Quote Happy - is what we should be, always. Notice: I DO NOT use the Chat Function in this Forum - this has always been written in my profile (and I don't read it too). {it is unfortunate that this new Chat Function does not allow users to turn/switch off in mobile phone}
Guest Will Lu Posted December 18, 2015 Posted December 18, 2015 My BF ... always on line but claimed that it wasn't him that login ... Is it possible that Jack D auto login when he changes location ? I really doubt that ...Any body has this experiences ? Quote
Fishie91 Posted December 21, 2015 Posted December 21, 2015 Anyone keep receiving messages from profiles on Grindr where when you respond he will say "wow that was quick" and the say he wanna show off his cock ? Quote
bigdanbeam Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 Anyone keep receiving messages from profiles on Grindr where when you respond he will say "wow that was quick" and the say he wanna show off his cock ?Yes. Just report and block. Spammers Quote
Fishie91 Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 Ha anyone had similar experience ? The person you like message but no response, but people that not your type keep spamming you messages Quote
Gray32 Posted December 23, 2015 Posted December 23, 2015 - not much experience because no one talks to me. - and also no one replies to me when i initiate. even to picture-less . >.> But the common experiences here are indeed common. Quote Holy mama.
Amir0412 Posted December 25, 2015 Posted December 25, 2015 Anyone keep receiving messages from profiles on Grindr where when you respond he will say "wow that was quick" and the say he wanna show off his cock ?Almost every day, view their profile and the distance seem far, just click block hahaha Quote
Fishie91 Posted December 25, 2015 Posted December 25, 2015 Sigh i hope people would reply to my msg more often lol Quote
boyishfit22 Posted December 25, 2015 Posted December 25, 2015 Getting annoy at impersonator msging... didn't know Jackd has a lot since i didn't use it for a year... =.= Quote
CamperBoy Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 (edited) Jackd is currently using 2.2GB of space on my iPhone! That's crazy. I don't have any more space In contrast, my photo roll is only using 444 Mb!Gotta delete jackd I guess lol Edited December 26, 2015 by CamperBoy Quote
angel_dust Posted December 27, 2015 Posted December 27, 2015 Jackd is currently using 2.2GB of space on my iPhone! That's crazy. I don't have any more space In contrast, my photo roll is only using 444 Mb!Gotta delete jackd I guess lol I'm having the same problem as you. I've deleted quite a lot of old chats yet it didn't really help. I wonder what can be done to free up more space apart from deleting the app. Quote
CamperBoy Posted December 27, 2015 Posted December 27, 2015 I'm having the same problem as you. I've deleted quite a lot of old chats yet it didn't really help. I wonder what can be done to free up more space apart from deleting the app.Envy you. I only bought the16gb iphone lol Quote
Wafflecorn Posted December 27, 2015 Posted December 27, 2015 Ps, off topic a bit. BUT THIS IS TOO FUNNY. luvhandle 1 Quote
Guest Blacque Posted December 27, 2015 Posted December 27, 2015 Ps, off topic a bit. BUT THIS IS TOO FUNNY.hahaha Quote
jiriki Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 My Jack'd app just got updated a few days ago (the one where the navigation tool on the top left corner), which I feel it is not as good as the old version. However, I noticed my phone battery started to drain rather quickly if I use this app (if I don't, it was clear the battery bar didn't drop that fast at all), wonder if anyone else have the same "predicament"? Maybe it is an indication for me to drop this app altogether, haha.I notice this too. Think the app also uses quite a bit of data... Quote
wintermage Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 Had a pretty strange and unbelievable experience a few days ago. Spoke to this guy on Grindr who turned out to be a BDSM dom guy. He had a pretty specific and weird fetish. He owns a sub boy and gets turned on by letting other guys use his boy. When we chatted, he said his boy was naked somewhere in public and asked me if I wanted to go over and meet him. Of course I didn't believe him since the bod pic of his boy that he showed me was too nice to be true, but then he asked me to add his boy on LINE and got the boy to do a video call with me which confirmed a) his body was fucking nice and b) he was really naked somewhere in public. Since the spot was nearby my place, I thought no harm going to take a look. So I followed the guy's directions and wound up at the spot where his sub was actually there, butt naked, with a rock hard dick. It was really the sort of porno scenario. So I used the boy, fucked his mouth good, came on his face like his master asked me to, and then left. When I left the boy was still there, naked, with my load on his face. Super strange encounter but super hot. horny boy, grocksd, melvinix and 1 other 4 Quote
azimuth Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 I tend to take things that happen in the app with a pinch of salt. Too many fake profiles and a bit fair of nonsense. Lol. Quote
Guest Posted January 2, 2016 Posted January 2, 2016 Grindr Xtra/Premium is almost worth it for the unlimited blocks. Quote
FirsTimer Posted January 3, 2016 Posted January 3, 2016 On 10/26/2015 at 4:31 PM, Carpenter said: True, I agree. Even though I too with flaws like pimples n etc. Will never Photoshop my pics, by far only editing brightness n sharpen the pics. No one should feel ashamed of their bodies, everyone will get rejection at some point so just get over it. If talking w handsome masculine hot body guys but no chem n can't get the convos going then for what lehhh??? If not using somebody else's pictures, most guys in Grindr or Jack'd post their most beautifully-enhanced pictures. Enhancements by photoshop or some photo-editing apps. One time I was chatting with this guy who looks so handsome and skin was so smooth and youthful in his profile picture. It's actually not about his appearance why I kept chatting with him. He's witty and funny and that's what I like about him! Finally we decided to meet in person and have dinner together. While I was waiting inside the restaurant, I was frozen to my seat when suddenly an unfamiliar person sat in front of me. With a severely pimpled face and dark completion as compared to his profile pic, I almost didn't recognize him until he introduced himself. Well, it didn't matter to me actually how he looked like in person but the feeling of being deceived was a little hard to overcome. I feel sorry that he's embarrassed of his true appearance by posting an edited picture. Anyway, we're still very good friends up to now and we still meet from time to time. :-) Here's my personal advocacy: LET'S STOP BEING ASHAMED OF WHO WE TRULY ARE & LET'S NOT TRY TO BE SOMEONE WE ARE NOT! It surely feels good to be accepted and loved by someone without hiding something. Let's appear as we are and if people have trouble accepting that, that's their problem! :-) Are we hearing this everyday? "LET'S STOP BEING ASHAMED OF WHO WE TRULY ARE & LET'S NOT TRY TO BE SOMEONE WE ARE NOT!" It's not easy to stage these letters out.. C'mon i think we can talk more routing to these wordings and live it out as passe Quote
FirsTimer Posted January 3, 2016 Posted January 3, 2016 On 12/27/2015 at 3:52 PM, angel_dust said: Jackd is currently using 2.2GB of space on my iPhone! That's crazy. I don't have any more space In contrast, my photo roll is only using 444 Mb! Gotta delete jackd I guess lol I'm having the same problem as you. I've deleted quite a lot of old chats yet it didn't really help. I wonder what can be done to free up more space apart from deleting the app. I really am curious can you tell me what you do inside? Quote
angel_dust Posted January 4, 2016 Posted January 4, 2016 On 1/3/2016 at 9:54 PM, FirsTimer said: I really am curious can you tell me what you do inside? On 1/3/2016 at 9:54 PM, FirsTimer said: I really am curious can you tell me what you do inside? Just chatting haha. My reply rate is 97.6%. samdiggin 1 Quote
Fishie91 Posted January 4, 2016 Posted January 4, 2016 1 hour ago, angel_dust said: Just chatting haha. My reply rate is 97.6%. Cool. Kudos to you angel dust. Sometimes i wonder if i would just run out of ppl to say hi to. Quote
angel_dust Posted January 4, 2016 Posted January 4, 2016 6 hours ago, Fishie91 said: Cool. Kudos to you angel dust. Sometimes i wonder if i would just run out of ppl to say hi to. Thanks. Just basic courtesy to reply. samdiggin and monsterism 2 Quote
Fishie91 Posted January 5, 2016 Posted January 5, 2016 3 hours ago, angel_dust said: Thanks. Just basic courtesy to reply. Ha yea it would be great if there are more people like you. Or maybe im not their type thats why they dont reply :/ Quote
Guest Posted January 5, 2016 Posted January 5, 2016 16 minutes ago, Fishie91 said: Ha yea it would be great if there are more people like you. Or maybe im not their type thats why they dont reply :/ Tell me about it. I get ignored on Grindr *all* the time. Quote
razz669 Posted January 6, 2016 Posted January 6, 2016 Quote I feel freedom after deleting grindr n jackd from my phone I met my SB at grindr and we have been buddies for more than one year now.... thanks grindr Quote
iamziz Posted January 14, 2016 Posted January 14, 2016 With more and more cases of underage sexual encounters, please be vigilant. Just saw a secondary school student on Grindr. In his profile he mentions he is a secondary school student. Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee
Clickclock Posted January 23, 2016 Posted January 23, 2016 damn annoying, lately there are a few guys that would message me with a Hi and with their pics and their pics would be really impressive with muscles, good bod, or good looks. Whenever my hopes get lifted up by this, even after them giving me their numbers to contact them, they never replied when I asked if they would be interested to meet up for a chat. on separate occassions, some guys would be very petty and easily offended by things made tongue in cheek Quote I draw sexy men, visit http://www.toastwire.tumblr.com click on 'My Artworks'. Willing to take on comissions
Guest Posted February 5, 2016 Posted February 5, 2016 On 14 January 2016 at 5:18 PM, iamziz said: With more and more cases of underage sexual encounters, please be vigilant. Just saw a secondary school student on Grindr. In his profile he mentions he is a secondary school student. You can report him - but yes, it pays to be vigilant. Quote
iamziz Posted February 14, 2016 Posted February 14, 2016 Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee
Clickclock Posted February 14, 2016 Posted February 14, 2016 rant: Guy messages me on Jackd, so I asked him to meet up at 2pm to intro in person. He said okay and I asked him to confirm as guys have the tendency to pangseh and go mia in the last minute, he said yes. Lo and behold he DID pangseh meh, sent me a message saying he 'only wanted sex haha'. Unprofessional fucks like him deserve to rot in society for having such poor social ethics. Quote I draw sexy men, visit http://www.toastwire.tumblr.com click on 'My Artworks'. Willing to take on comissions
hsbs Posted February 14, 2016 Posted February 14, 2016 i guess i still got some hope in finding a partner on the apps...especially after finding my exbf of 2years... however, responses have been cold or nil. so i just want to delete the apps and my life. -end- loudness and notsure 2 Quote
Nipoet Posted February 14, 2016 Posted February 14, 2016 (edited) 3 hours ago, hsbs said: i guess i still got some hope in finding a partner on the apps...especially after finding my exbf of 2years... however, responses have been cold or nil. so i just want to delete the apps and my life. -end- I did that last year! Then after 1 year kena bitten by the Relationship Bug again, so installed back. T.T Edited February 14, 2016 by Nipoet Quote
bluerunner Posted February 21, 2016 Posted February 21, 2016 Lots of funny and weird personalities from both apps. Quote
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