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    • Hi guys,
      I took up the task of being a BW Moderator with a very poetic desire to provide help and safe space for the rising population of younger (and highly possibly confused and worried) gay/bi guys coming to Blowing Wind to explore and find themselves and try to navigate life as men who have sex with men. (And of course I would be happy to offer advice to anyone of any ages, provided you want to receive it)
      After careful consideration, I have decided to run a small Confessions/HTHT/Help Corner programme/initiative.
      A safe space for you to ask your questions, share your worries and seek advice to overcome the tough yet rewarding journey of exploring yourself, your sexuality and relationships with surrounding people as men who have sex with men (a.k.a. gay, bi men)
      1) You can send confessions totally anonymously. Your confessions will be checked every Friday.
      2) I will post them on Blowing Wind Member's Lounge so only members can give their own advice and points of view (and you still can read their replies anonymously). I will exercise censorship on troll and judgmental replies as I deem fit, to prevent hurting the "confessants".
      3) I'm currently working on a tracking mechanism so confessants can keep track and read new replies easily. Will update once I figure it out.
      4) Click HERE to confess/ask question/share your worries.
    • Chapter 1 - Mint
      I feel despondent as I take heavy steps towards the company line. Having just finished my POP a couple of days ago, it feels surreal to be back here. I see a few other guys who have already arrived. I quicken my pace and join them. I see Sgt. Lee, one of the specialists in-charge of Platoon 4, exit the company office. He adjusts his Duty Sergeant arm band as he walks towards us. 
      "Okay, I know that you all don't want to come back here, especially after your POP. Unfortunately, all of you screw up somewhere during your BMT and got caught by your Sgt. and now must serve this confinement. But at least just one night. So just suck it up, don't give me any trouble and you can go home happily tomorrow and enjoy the remainder of your weekend. Can?"
      We reply with a resounding "Yes, Sgt!" He ticks off our names. Besides myself from Platoon 2, there are a couple of guys from Platoon 1 and another one from Platoon 4. Sgt. Lee looks up and looks a little confused.
      "Eh, how come there's one guy missing."
      Just then, we see a guy running towards us. 
      "Sorry, Sgt. I got delayed at the gantry. Not my fault."
      Sgt. Lee isn't impressed with his answer.
      "You forever with your excuses, Kelvin. Go join the rest."
      Kelvin is from Platoon 3 and is known to be quite notorious. A bit of a troublesome character, there isn't really anyone who didn't know him in the company. He had been yelled at several times by Seargents and Officers alike. He must also be the one who must have gotten punished the most during our BMT. He cuts quite an intimidating presence especially with his muscular built and...
      • 94 replies
    • Was with a few old friends and was chatting about places we've been and missed.  A few names which pops up and some at the tip of my tongue but failed to recall.
      LGBT Bars
      Pebble Bar at former Forum. very rowdy crowds. not much impression.
      Inner Circle at Tg Pagar.  A place where I ventured alone and later found that it was a place I belong. Had many great and happy times. Always remember the New Year Eve celebrations. Lots of fond memories and met many friends there.
      Vincent's Lounge, Far East Plaza. Hardy been there but it's a place where the Ang Mo and the MB hangs out.
      Xpose - South Bridge Road - Remembered that there were many singing competitions held there and the owner Alan.
      MOX bar - Tg Pagar Rd - remembered this place as it's mostly white. don't hang out there much.
      DYMK - Neil Road, been there a few times for gathering or someone's birthday
      Locker Room - Neil Road. been there only a few times
      Disco / Clubs
      The Hangar - Opposite Bayshore park but the colonial building demolished to make way for condos.  Remember it as a a building up a slope. Sunday is where there will be drag queen shows. Rather happening but due to the location. don't go there much.
      Marmota / Shadows. Kallang Leisure Mall.  Disco dancing only on Sunday
      Niche. Far East Plaza level 5. First official gay disco club in Sg. Owner Bernard who later close Niche and open Inner Circle Karaoke. was one of the most happening gay disco bar of it's time.
      Rascal - Disco at (can't remember the hotel). Only on Sunday
      Studebaker / Venom at Orchard Pacific Plaza (building next to Holiday Inn)
      Why Not? Tras Street The famous twins who owns the dance club and the Babylon KTV
      Taboo at Neil Road which recently closed.
      ...and the rest and in between all forgotten.
      What are the bars and the discos that you remember and the memories you had?
      • 41 replies
    • Hi just wanna rant. 
      So i like my best straight friend. He knows it too and despite of that, we are still friends. I got a boyfriend now, who is really great, and he got a girlfriend too. But at times, i still fraternize about him and we still talked and...
      • 58 replies
    • 1.  We just did our BlowingWind Annual Forum Version upgrade.
      Our Forum Software Provider just released this as a Major Upgrade.
      A brighter UI with more saturation & contrast and simpler overall color scheme Improved typography
      Better, more consistent, spacing around and between elements, especially on mobile Better logical grouping of sections of each page
      Reducing underutilized links/buttons...
      • 50 replies
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      Hi there.." Welcome on board to the Blowing Wind forum"♥♥♥”
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      Hi there.." Welcome on board to the Blowing Wind forum"♥♥♥”
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    • sphere

      Booster Shot
      It was regrettable that I had changed my vaccination centre for this booster shot to Tampines Hub, I shouldn't have change it - because:
      (a) The queue system were somewhat messy, and I was almost told to go back wait for my turn again when that counter lady made an error (I followed what was on the screen to my designated counter).  
      (b) The staff were generally unfriendly, some sounded 'rude' to a certain extent.
      (c) Those big/giant cooler fans were irritating and there were quite a number all around (messing up your hair when walking past with that powerful fan speed).  
      (d) There was no privacy. Although there were curtains for each small vaccination 'room', the nurse with me did not bother drawing the curtain (so were some other nurses around). I did not say anything (anyway there was no stripping), since I was kind of frustrated by those 'conditions' above and I just wanted to get it done quickly.
      (e) Had to spent over 40 minutes of observation period and it was done as a group of about 8 people for 'discharge', rather than one-to-one, this was really, really bad and disorganised (and yet another big cooler fan upon exit ).
      (f) Finally, there was swelling and slight pain on my left arm (injection site) for about 4 days. This did not happen in my previous 2 shots (especially the swelling), though I must say I did not experience other side effects this time round. However, the swelling and pain were worrying enough, thank goodness everything was back to normal from the fifth day onwards.
      .....oh wait, should add one more into list - no cuties to look at, haha.    
      If, that is a big "if", there is a next time, will definitely not go to Tampines Hub for sure!
      Weekend ends so quickly...  *sigh*
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    • igayyy

      anyone keen to give their undies away @ nus utown 😛
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    • sum1outhere_03

      I don't know if I should have asked him when he is leaving Singapore and time of his flight etc. And stupid me that I didn't ask for his means of contact. Fine if he didn't want to at that time, but now I've really missed the chance to. Really hope chance and fate can help us meet again.
      May sound silly to miss someone whom I've only meet him for physical purposes. Hope this feeling will get by soon.
      · 0 replies
    • MNH

      Do players ever wanna settle down?
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    • JYAG-sim

      It's heartening to read about gay couples proudly showcasing their homes in the local paper 🙂🏚️
      · 2 replies
    • iamziz

      “We cannot have, but can lose, everything.”
      ― Mokokoma Mokhonoana
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    • renoma1069

      Time flies... End of year coming, and 2 mths left in BW...
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    • ConfusedWest

      Now listening: Perfume by Mehro.
      I will never forget how you smell ❤
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    • notd

      I've long forgotten how it feels like to be hit on or cruised in public, but found the entire experience to be rather heartwarming for however long it lasted. Yesterday, while out running errands in a mall, I walked past a rather well-built, mildly stubby guy who looks to be in his mid to late 30s. He was casually but decently dressed, had a gym bag slung around him, with a very fair, milky white skin adorned with a few bumps here and there on his face. His hairline had receded substantially, but I thought it complemented his facial profile so much and made him that more attractive.  
      As we passed one another, he gave me a nod, and I nodded back too, surprised by the gesture. When our backs were finally facing each other, I turned back to take a good look at his back, hoping to ingrain the silhouette of his back in my mind for the day. To my surprise, I saw him staring back again, and I quickly averted my gaze out of embarrassment. Then after a few seconds later, I looked back and caught him staring at me once more. He reached out for his phone in the pocket. I already had mine with me as I was fiddling through my Spotify playlist.  
      Unfortunately, neither of us stopped in our tracks. I already have someone at heart and only found the moment to be flattering for me. Meanwhile, he continued walking away with his phone in his hand. I thought to myself, perhaps he was trying to find me on Grindr. But my days of using hookup apps are behind me so this would be a missed connection at best. 
      I walked away with a little smile underneath my double mask. I continued strolling around the mall. Later, I went back to the spot where we had encountered one another, and decided to frequent the toilets on the floor, as I make an effort to not use any public toilets on a level that may be crowded. The place that we bumped into each other was rather isolated away from the mall. I got there, the place was a dead end, and he was nowhere to be found. I guess it could mean he was probably there to cruise or hoped that he could have gotten lucky, OR, he took the lift down to the parking lot. Maybe, it was all but a figment of my imagination. 
      Either way, I hope he's with someone he genuinely loves. 
      · 0 replies
    • yokohamajin

      Life is like a mystery box, 
      You usually have tens of thousands of days to slowly open it, 
      bit by bit. 
      for some people, 
      They know what they are getting by the age of 18 to 20+.
      For some people, 
      it’s 30 to 50…
      For a lot of people, 
      they only know what life they are given, the days before their death, the day of their death or after their death…
      · 0 replies
    • zool1986

      wrestling anyone?
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    • DeMarko

      had a good rubbing session on a guy's butt crack in shorts follow by undies and then bare butt with my hardon precum oozing mushroom headed cock.
      eventually sucked by him and exploded my loads inside his throat
      · 0 replies
    • iamziz

      Good Morning, Guys - “Do something great today.
      Be kind to one person.
      Be loving to another soul.
      Say thank you.
      Little things are not tiny matters.”
      ― Hrishikesh Agnihotri
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