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Keybox thread will be opened for the New Year for a limited season. If I catch anyone posting ads or bitching in here, they will be suspended and thread locked for good.

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Time for gym slow jog in late evening ~~

nonsense la. I've been freeballing for years and even when i travel to winter cities i still freeball. freeball in all kinds of weather in fact. one thin layer of cotton wouldn't make it much warmer.

Some bottoms can be very obvious while some are much harder to spot. The easier to spot bottoms are those whom had accepted themselves as bottom and don't mind other gays knows they are bottom. Then, there are those who don't like people to know they are bottom or whom are not so obvious to spot as bottom. In the sauna, if you want to know who is bottom, there are few signs to look out for. From outer appearance 1. some bottom will try to snare you by wearing their towel very low, showing their butt crack 2. some will walk in a feminine way or will try to act sexy 3. for those not so obvious, see if they carry condom or lube or little bottles in their hands. Lube & small bottles means they are bottom. condoms, likely top. most bottom prefers the top to carry condoms. From touching 1. bottoms will touch your cock to see if you have a big or small cock. some will want to suck you and see how big your cock will grow, if it passed their size test, they will offer themselves to be fucked. 2. when you stroke/touch the butt of a bottom, they will know that you want to fuck them. A top will move your hand away from their butt. 3. Flex will be harder to spot because some will depends of how much they like you before they let you fuck them, or when they enjoys the foreplay with you, Maybe then, they will let you top them. 4. In some rare cases, some top who feels that you are a better top then them and they want to try it for themselves to be bottom, they might let you top them. The universe must be in the right alignment of the Heaven, Earth and human before a top lets you fuck them. They are called the closet bottom because they will tell you that they are top and don't get fucked, and they will also tell you that no one knows they bottom to the right person and will ask you not to tell others that they bottom for you. The above explanation may sound complicated, it is, because humans are very complex and gays are even more complicated when it comes to sex.

So 36 is a bit too early to be midlife, but noticing a lot of shifts/observations in the last 2 years or so, many of which caught me by surprise. In no particular order: 1) straight friends/acquaintances disappear/vapourise/shapeshift into marriage, career, family, other countries .... and you see/hear less from them (if anything) 2) body suddenly discovers gravity 3) food... nothing quite seems "right" all of a sudden (what you could eat before, you suddenly have trouble with; what you never thought you would eat, you find yourself seeking out) 4) somehow various supplements, creams, oils and such make it into regular usage when you never needed much of any of that before 5) would so happily trade something valuable for a good night sleep, or better still, a week of being comfortably comatose 6) patience for most things frivolous dwindles 7) patience for really stupid, banal, shallow, miserable, complaining, vain, vapid people dwindles even more 8) somehow all manner of life hacks, discounts, lifestyle tweaks, tips, cleverness seems amazingly appealing 9) you could cry yourself to sleep at night waiting to have just one good conversation that day that ACTUALLY stimulates you mentally 10) somehow you feel like you need a new grind/path/trajectory/interests --- but somehow the exact details as to WHAT that new direction is seem elusive 11) travelling becomes somewhat of a chore, but you somehow find you really want to do it just for escapism 12) the mobile phone in your hand is a poor substitute for real human interaction 13) the mobile phone in the hand of the person you are trying to have real human interaction with frustrates you still more 14) what once were the batshit crazy undertakings your superhuman 20-something self could conquer have now become this "OMG i am doing *WHAT*?!" sort of affair 15) just when you think you have seen the worst of humanity, well... donald trump.... 16) you realise you know enough to know that the world is going to hell in a hand-basket, that you're stuck in it still, and still not entirely clever enough to know what to do about it in terms of self-preservation in the long term 17).... and wishing you know someone that was clever enough to tell you what to do 18) all those things you thought you would like/want to do/have done either somehow dont matter anymore, or you did them and you kinda think WTF was i thinking 19) ... yet you can't seem to think of anything better to do to replace them with? 20) sex becomes somehow intellectualised 21) the smell of a 20-something is intoxicating 22) you have absolutely zero. filter. on. your. thoughts. and. verbalise. AND others take notice and give you looks 23) the joke in your head didn't sound so amusing to everyone else in the room when you vocalised it 24) you kind of just want to sit back and watch social experiments play out rather than intervene, when you might have otherwise done so 25) dealing with poor management as either a noun or a verb leaves you with this slightly sickened feeling, and the dreadful sense that humanity is indeed devolving rapidly 26) your physique is neither here nor there 27) ...and life got so busy you kind of don't have time to make it more there if you wanted to 28) you would like to reconceptualise someone's selfie stick as the perfect weapon to affront their vanity 29) you would kind of like the idea of having a room full of people watch you perform some kind of sexual activity 30).... okay, not kind of like. very much like. 31) anything that has been in your life and remained there for a reasonable amount of time you start to see all sides of, and increasingly rapidly 32) ...which makes you see why many people get divorced, have meltdowns, run off to iceland, or otherwise lose their cookies 33) ...... and kind of makes you hope that's not in the cards for yourself 34) anything having to do with an onsen or a massage sounds pretty bloody good right now, and again tomorrow 35) you have this craving to prune the unnecessary from life 36) .... and then you realise you are a stalk of bamboo already 37) dealing with family feels akin to a cross of cat herding, peacemaking, self-sacrifice, and at times an out-of-body experience 38) for god sake they made ghost in the shell into a movie with real actors. didnt the anime come out like 2 years ago only... oh wait.... 39) you roll your eyes so much they hurt, yet you still keep doing it 40) you appreciate that aircon is in many ways a double-edged sword, yet you somehow can live without it less and less 41) baking. yes. baking. 42) tumblr replaced xtube... and you cant quite figure out if that's a good thing, or a bad thing What does your experience look like so far?

My PT tortured me with his training but yet gave me a quick shoulder massage at the end. I am a lucky trainee.

hosting tonight till tmr morning

So cold... I need my warmth! A body beside me will be nice!

still in shock with how daring i was jerking off in the sort of empty bus while going home today.

I at ccp. Wanna suck

Nice weather now. Its good to hv a good cuddling wit another guy

Toilet Tesco Extra Cheras now

Cheras Center : 0107754015 Tmn Desa Center: 0172608861

Where can I fuck in Clem mall

CUDDLE ON THIS COLD RAINY NIGHT

Anyone wanna suck cock this cold day? Horny cock here with no place. Seek who can host wanna blow me

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Looks like there are many free ballers around. Good to know. Hahaha i was asking in another thread if there is a free baller chat group on LINE. That would be awesome to have our free ballers network.

Home alone in tamp today. Pm me if u wanna come by...

First of all, I thank myself for being a good person. Secondly, I'll thank the gay gods for rewarding me of my good deeds. And lastly, I'm somewhere in between "Gotta savor this guy's cock before he nuts and realizes a Gremlin is sucking his deek" and "I'm gonna put my years of cocksucking experience into practice and make sure he gets the best blowjob he's ever experienced. Good service means returning customers."

ohhhh ... his cock feels so good sliding in and out of my mouth... love his cock... love his smell ... love the taste of his precum ... can't wait to taste his cum.

1MK now. HJ,BJ,Stroking,Touching.... fun Inbox me please with WeChat ID.

Well said

tomorrow 6pm at civic center anyone? i’ll be in army uniform

body is ready for some molest fun anyone living in the west/drives?

any daddies wanna have non-anal/molest fun w me and who drives pls pm me!!

looking for top at kahtib or yishun area, preferably 6pm-8pm, Monday to Thursday, able to host. Submissive, fullfill your fetish and willing please btm here, 29 chn 170 80

Instead of visiting massage centre, have been exploring massage services offered by individual masseur on part time basis which they posted on fb All the session experienced are professional massage services with no hanky panky / light fun. 1. Urut Utara - Body massage + Batin Outcall only, the massuer body figure is towards bear type. If you dont have place, he will arrange for a budget hotel room in Seberang Perai, at our own cost. The massage is body massage and urut batin. Can't really recall how long is the massage though but its rather average for me for the entire session. He work during office hour and will only be available after 5 or 6pm I think. Massage: 5/10 2. Pusat Rawatan Darul Ikhthiar, Bayan Baru - Body Massage + Batin Found this via a website call majalah.com. Maybe i am quite last minutes as it is really difficult to arrange a time, somehow need to make appointment a week earlier. The treatment centre is located at bayan baru, a double storey terraced house, and charges was pretty hefty, 150 for body + batin. The environment is all right for me and no issue on cleanliness. Masseur is a aged 40-sth malay guy and he emphasize the massage provided is a treatment for any health issue. So, upon arrival, was informed to write in some personal details such as age, health condition, and also wat are the current health issue, then he will discuss with you. When request for body massage + batin, he also ask me what is the issue on my manhood that need the treatment. Overall massage was good, body massage was right on the node but a nth to anticipate on urut batin as he is rushing though. Once the massage end, he will bring over a glass of herb tea. Massage: 7/10 3. Urut Tradtional Penang, Bayan Baru This was posted by one of the foumer earlier on. The massage centre is located in Bukit Gedung, Bayan Baru. The centre is in a small shop lot at the ground floor of a low cost apartment / flat. the centre is pretty small and its partition with only curtain, allow up to 4 ppl at a same time. Been there twice. my first time is a 90mins massage, focus on my sprain right leg, and it was done professionally. Massage was done by married uncle who is at his late 40 and it was really loosen the soreness after that. However, there is something bothering me cause there are panting sounds from customers at the partition next to me. Did asked about it but was being i may not able to take it. Second time was only me myself so nth particular happen. Probably i may be overthinking thus so far i conclude it as a legit massage centre. Massage: 7/10 4. Urutan tradisional Penang, Georgetown Google up this and land you to a facebook page with cover photo show "zamata". The massage centre offer male and female massage, run by siblings whom family have been inheriting massage since grandfather generation. As Arie is the only guy in the centre providing massage to guy, he is only available for 4 slots per day. He is a late-20s guy that very dedicated to his job. Been there twice and must say his massage was good. The masssage was conducted in a double-storey shop along Jalan Perak (now relocated to Lebuh Melaka). Ambience and clealiness is all right for me and he will be using Minyak Raja Kayu for the massage. Was informed the oil is home made but the smell a bit too strong for me. Opt for body massage first time and body + batin the second time. Its very relaxing and relieve soreness. He will also offer capsule with the raja kayu powder after massage, i took it the first time and decline second time, haha, still a bit hesitate on the substance though. Overall is a nice and worth massage experience, will revisit again in future. Massage: 8/10 5. Ryzal Urut, Bagan Ajam Fb lead me to this when search of male massage in penang. Just have this on thursday. The massage was done in his rented room in Bagan Ajam, A little bit uncomfortable for me as he is renting together with few ppl. Opt for body massage at RM50 for one hour. Its pretty average for me though and nothing much special that worth to highlight. haha. Massage: 6/10 There are suggestion on kerala ayurverdic medical centre in Seberang Jaya, but the male massuer wasnt around and there is no definite date on when will he be returing to Malaysia so wasnt able to try out. Guess there are still a few locals offering part time massage services here in Penang, will share it out if happen to try out.

Maybe it's the bottoms only you have encountered. It doesn't represent a majority, but thank you for that unsubstantiated correlation. Another one. These type of stereotypes are some of the indirect reasons for subconscious discrimination and assumption that is not needed within the LGBTQ community. Half the time, we put our best foot forward to gain acceptance from people. The other half? Internal fighting with preconceived notions on a person's preferred role in bed by behaviour >_>

Heya ..... I'm new too!

I’m having flashbacks the whole day when I was still a whore (kidding, still am) so I decided to share one of my encounters to get this off my head. I started using Grindr only after a few months that I started to work in my previous company. During the first few days of using the app, the closest guys would be a few hundred meters away. Then one day, there’s a guy who was only about 25m away from me. I was a bit nervous because I didn’t want someone in the office building know about my existence (one building is too small for 2 gay guys to work in haha). Tryin not to make contact with this guy, he actually messaged me first. He asked if I’m the new guy in the building on the 4th floor. I was nervous and a bit hesitant to answer at first but I just shook it off coz why not? If he’s cute then we might fuck (let’s get real people), if not then we can just be friends. So I answered and turned out he was attached to a girl, “discreet” and just wants to know other gay guys around (yeah right, wait 'til what I'll do to you in our office lol). We’ve been messaging each other for quite a while and found out he was just actually working in the office just in front of ours! I shared that it gets boring in our office especially that my 60-year old boss who plays Christian songs (no offense to any religion) early in the morning and talks to his girlfriend in China over Skype was my only colleague. One day, as I was going to the toilet, some guy passing by me going to the opposite direction along the corridor, just smiled and gave me a nod out of nowhere. I had no idea who he was and just thought he's just a friendly, random stranger. I just gave him this awkward smile and nodded as well. (Nothing happened in the toilet, don’t be too excited). Later that afternoon, I was feeling really frisky and opened Grindr hoping to get laid. The gay guy in the same building sent me a message saying, “So serious ah?” and told me he was the guy who smiled and nodded earlier that day. He was okay looking, neat and on exec wear (I’ll give points to that). His specs also made him look smart and harass-able lol. After a few typical message exchange, he asked if the old geezer is gone. I replied to him something like ”Old guy? You mean my boss? He’s nice just refer to him as my boss” coz I really didn’t find that nice. He just replied, “So you really are a serious person lol. Wanna loosen up?” After a few exchange of naughty messages, I knew where he was going (in my pants lol). So I agreed to meet him in my office after my boss leaves. At around 6:15pm, few minutes after my boss left, I started watching porn in my laptop which made me feel really hot. Having all this built up inner sexual tension the whole day, I opened Grindr again and messaged him to come to the office as my boss was already gone. When he came, I suddenly closed and locked the door. He was trying to start a conversation about “Oh so this how your office looks like I always wondered blah blah yadda yadda” and I couldn’t keep my raging hormones and stood up and dropped my pants and said “So we’re just gonna talk about the place where I stay the whole day or?”. He was a bit surprised. I was really hard and the wet precum on my white underwear was pretty much there. He just gave me this lascivious smile, came near me and started to caress the cum-stained part of my brief where my dick head was. He then pulled out my dick to the right hole of my underwear. I didn't feel comfortable on that position of my dick so instead, I just pulled my pants and underwear down, and adjusted my legs to a more comfortable spread. He pressed his face closer to my crotch and started to lick my balls. At that moment we weren’t saying anything anymore. I was just moaning while his tongue and lips just find its way wherever the Holy Spirit leads it to. It felt sooo fucking good. His lips were really soft and he knows how to salivate enough to let his tongue run smoothly around the head and shaft of my dick and down to the balls. He tried to gorge my balls and it filled his whole mouth. While gorging into my balls, his tongue would play around licking every possible part that it could. He then continued licking into the gap between my thighs and testicles and noticed that I get an uncontrollable twitching when his tongue would pass by that part. After learning that this was one of my most sensitive spots, he took more time and effort to play his tongue around that area. I was moaning so hard and just kept on spouting “Ohhhh fuckkkkk.... shiiiiit ughhhh it's fuckkkking good... fuckkkk”. I was intensely high as the angels above the skies! I grabbed his hair the whole time when he started doing that, and he kept on going for a good few minutes. He would look at me from time to time while he keeps on licking my sensitive spot while my dick covered half of his face. I just looked at him and gave him this “go on, you're doing a great job” look. He asked if I liked it and answered “Can you do more, please?” He then stood and let me sit on one of those office chairs with wheelies. He tried to suck my dick but because those fucking annoying wheelies kept on pushing me away, I had to stand up, moved my laptop on my desk to the side and sat on the desk. It was a bit too high for him to just kneel, so he sat on the office chair instead while I was there sitting on the desk, spreading my legs. He started to engulf the head of my dick with his mouth. It was warm and soft. I let out a deep moan, looked up to the ceiling, closed my eyes and clutched my right hand on his nape knowing that it’s gonna be sooo good. And indeed it was. My dick slid smoothly in and out of his mouth. All I felt was my dick was being succumbed to this warm, tender and wet flesh crevice that just made sounds like “Fuckkkkkk.... ahhhhhhh.....” fly across the room. Every after a few minutes, I would pull my dick out and tell him to stop coz I'm close to cumming. He would just look me straight in the face with his eyes teary from being choked every time he tried to deep throat my dick. I'd wipe his tears and ask if he's okay pretending to feel sorry but deep inside I loved hearing him gag and won't let him take his mouth out of my throbbing cock. After a couple of minutes of being edged by his mouth, I stood up, let him kneel on the floor, put my right thigh over his shoulder with my leg on top of the chair and shove my dick back in with saliva all over his face while he grabbed and fondled my butt. He was trying to guide my hips by doing a push and pull motion so following what he wanted, I started facefucking the shit out of him. His gag reflex struggled every time I gave a deep thrust and almost balls deep. After banging his mouth for a good few minutes, I couldn't hold it anymore and decided to shoot straight out of his throat. He was gagging the whole time but I wouldn't pull out. It took me a good 30 seconds of cum-pumping right down his throat. I didn't even ask him if I could shoot in his mouth lol. He held my cum in his mouth while I was trying to get the tissue box on the other table while my dick was still rock hard wagging from left to right while I walked. He spit all those cum out of his mouth to the tissue and I was surprised I was able to cum that much! Some even spilled on the floor because the handful of tissues couldn't contain them all. We had a small talk while putting on our clothes and I commended him on how good he was. He just answered, "Because that cock is also fucking good" and we just laughed. He decided to leave and cautiously left, making sure that nobody sees him go outside of the office just to have his mouth fucked like that. It was really a good thing that someone who gives a good head was just a message away during those horny days. He wanted to bottom for me during the following encounters but I have to let him suck me first before fucking him because his blowjob skills were far ecstatic than just fucking him. His precum was always oozing every time I fuck him. Even after the first minute my dick was pierced up his ass, his precum would start trickling down from his rock hard dick. After like 4 months, he told me that he already resigned so we won't be able to do the thing anymore. I just continued to look for other guys when he left haha. But I have to say, he has one of the best blowjob skills that I experienced with all my encounters. I even learned how to use my tongue more efficiently from him and apply it to my other encounters. Works every single time. That's all.

If we Don’t picky, he’s ok. if we are picky, he’s kanasai understand where we coming from?

I tried out the waxing. It's held at a proper salon, and he's skillful too, with minimal pain. The promo is good value for its price.

Love this thread. I've always thought BW is full of trolls and idiots who respond to trolls, but here we see there are actual posters in BW with brains and personality. My answers are generally similar to the median response here - and based on a quick scan I think the majority of the answers are fairly similar to one another. I agree that the thirties give us a sense of peace and security. Many of us are quite settled/decided with our i) sense of self, ii) finances, and iii) career, so the next thing we want to do is to grow in these aspects. Love is rather difficult to control, but I'm sure our outlook to love and relationships is more mature and sensible than a decade before. We tend to eschew a big group of acquaintances and focus more on our family and our close friends, ie. the people who matter more. The one thing I don't like about my fellow 30s friends, at least amongst my own friends, is how ridiculously social-media dependent they still are with their selfies and wefies all day. On the other hand, since entering my 30s I've also developed traits which I know are unpopular with many other people - I am very ready to sever relationships quickly (friends, dates, employers, staff, colleagues, customers/suppliers at work, telco providers, kopi, retailers...) if I do not see long term value in tolerating their nonsense - I no longer think discrimination is bad - I no longer think helping is an obligation - I no longer have patience for boring and unintelligent people unless I like them already - I no longer think that religion is not dumb (meaning I am ready to admit that it is)

I yearn for you my hubby, but can never relive again It’s been almost a year since you’re gone To a place beyond my reach I was by your side the morning you left Gently patting your chest as your breathing slowly cease The warmth of your body fades, and I tightly held your hand But it doesn’t slow you, from slipping off my grip I was told to remove your necklace, I gently held up your head It was our last moment so close together So close our forehead almost touched A moment I will yearn forever but can never relive again the week before you left me, we know the day is near I search for all the pictures, of our happy days together We toured and dined and travel Enjoying each moment as a couple Hidden behind the oxygen mask, your smile was still so clear As you reach out for your hand phone and showed me a picture folder My name is on the folder, inside with all my pictures All the photos that I’ve showed you, have always been with you I smile at you and we remembered, all the great memories that we share It was a bitter-sweet moment, one which brought me tears A moment I will yearn forever But can never relive again Even though you have left me, but I see you everywhere In malls, at gym, on buses, or the prata shop down the corner It was our last outing together where we shared a prata and tea We craved for some durian and bought a few packs home While we ate the durians heartily, it suddenly dawn on me That six years ago when we first got together We also feasted on durian, bought from the same old place while I looked at you intently, the words escaped my mouth “we shall meet again, I am sure” You smiled reassuringly, agreeing to what I said This moment I yearn forever, But can never relive again I remember that trip to KL When you coughed out blood beside me My heart pains, cried and shattered And I trembled with fear of loss That night you went for massage, something you always love After your massage finish, I went to walk you back It’s a short walk but I’m just happy, to feel your presence beside me This moment I yearn forever, But can never relive again I remember our last kiss together, when I was at your house You were stretching your arms in pain And I ease your pain by massaging it At that moment it just happen I planted a kiss on you A moment I will yearn forever But can never relive again. Two weeks later that morning, I was the first to reach You had already stopped breathing And your pulse was turning weak I know the time has come For me to say my last goodbye I planted my final kiss on your cheek And whispered in your ears Thank you for the six years Of love and care and joy I love you very deeply I really do, my dear hubby