gymbod74

Let me first state that I have been massaged by Robin on a few occasions and have written a field report earlier on my massage session with him. Considering his adept massage skills, the good quality scented oils he uses and the proper massage bed in his house, I feel that $70 per hour and $100 for 90min is reasonable. As someone mentioned earlier in this thread, Robin has been charging the same rate for close to 4 years now...but from my experience, he has been charging the same rate for far longer than 4 years. A quick browse through the newspapers today will reveal that inflation is rising and with it the costs of sundry items. Robin could be justified in increasing costs just so to cover the increased expenditure on his consumables. The person who asked for a discounted "austerity package" during the economic downturn deserves the snarky retort! After all, during a depression, EVERYONE is affected, including the service providers. As for whether Robin's attitude sucks, well, everyone has a day when they got off the wrong side of the bed. Even worse if a cheapskate client tries to fleece you without a valid reason. The sad reality is that the customer is still king in today's world so you are fully entitled to take your business elsewhere should you feel slighted. Just bear in mind that masseurs, just like the rest of us, are trying to make a living as well. Be well, Gymbod74 24 Feb 2011

Hi Shearer, Saw that you have started quite a few threads on BW - most prolific. And thanks for the link to the Asia Stocky Men website. I think a hairless bear is quite sexy, as they are rather rare. For myself, I have hair around my nipples and a "treasure trail" leading down from my navel...but no hair on my pecs. To each his own. However, if you have paucity of axilla hair (armpit hair) and pubic hair, you may be in the early stages of andropause. Hair growth around these sensitive areas are linked to our hormonal profile. You may wish to consult your friendly andrologist to do a blood hormone assay. Be well, Gymbod74

Nice thread! I do agree with GachiMuchi's description on how it feels like there's an "internal ring" when your cock is deeply impaled inside your bottom. Scientifically, I agree that you are probably hitting your partner's G-spot so that the direct prostatic stimulation causes the auto-cum. Some of my bottoms have reported a "pee-ing" sensation just before they auto-came, and I do recall that whenever I had wet dreams in my youth, I also had the same peeing sensation. Nonetheless, it is true that the emotional connection is just as important as exemplified in GKS's case. If I am screwing a bottom with no emotional attachment, it is rare for the bottom to auto-cum. However, when true passion is brought into play, my lover auto-cums virtually everytime we have sex. My tool is not that big, so you do not really need a big dick for your bottom to auto-cum. In fact, having too much length may actually be detrimental, as you may miss the G-spot. Whatever it is, auto-cum can be a most beautiful shared moment between 2 lovers. I am constantly fascinated by the look of sheer bliss and contentment on my darling's countenance whenever he auto-cums as I am drilling into him. Be well, Gymbod74

Ha ha...I really enjoyed reading this thread. I do agree that sometimes the bottom gets a kick if you refer to his love-hole as a "chee bye". Something guttural about it...heightens the eroticism. I have tried using other terms during the coital act (e.g. mangina, ass-pussy, rosebud) but NOTHING beats "you like my cock in your cheebye"? That really gets them moaning. Be well, gymbod74

Ah...the perennial steroid debate. What GachiMuchi said is very true! Being adults with a certain level of maturity and autonomy, one should be able to make the proper judgement call...as long as one has full insight as to the risks/benefits of anabolic steroids. Personally, I don't take it and don't advocate taking roids. I am mindful of the side effects, both acute and chronic, and some of the more serious ones are potentially fatal and irreversible. Roids do allow those without a genetic advantage to bulk up rapidly and the change can be most startling. I do know of a few gym buddies who looked rather wimpy, but after starting on their roid cycles, became overnight muscle gods. Then again, they grew FAT when they stopped their roids (due to side effects - one of them almost died from an idiosyncratic reaction) & exercise. So I guess the roid effect only lasts as long as you are taking them? However, if you wish to be FREAKY big like those Greek/Roman heroes of yore, there is only so much that good genes and mental discipline can do. In this scenario, the lure of steroids again rear its ugly head, and again one must be cognizant of the consequences. Whatever you decide Windanseaguy, just be certain that this is REALLY WHAT YOU WANT and be prepared to deal with the after-effects. Be well, Gymbod74

Hi Torrent, I empathize with your situation, having been born with a congenital defect. From what you have written, the only solace is that you do not suffer from the other associated syndromes (e.g. Marfan's, SMA, and congenital heart disease) and that your defect appears to be cosmetic. However, if it starts to disturb your breathing, then you should consult a doctor/surgeon to see if surgery is warranted. Another plus side is that your defect is not directly noticeable unless you go about topless. But it is not a good feeling to know what you are harboring inside. I can identify with the fear that when you meet someone you truly like, will he be able to accept you with your imperfection? That I am unable to answer for you. The cliche goes that if someone truly loves you, then he will be able to look beyond your physical disability and see the "true" you. But that is easier said than done in this superficial world that we live in. So what can YOU do in your present situation? If you feel strongly that correcting the Pectus Excavatum will bring you happiness, then by all means, schedule a consult with a cardiothoracic or plastic surgeon and hear what they have to say. You will want to note the potential complications of the surgical procedure/anaesthesia as well as the finances involved. You also need to find out if FULL CORRECTION of the deformity is possible in your case. Of course, there may be non-surgical treatment options, but I am not the expert here. I wish you all the best in whatever you decide. Be well, Gymbod74