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Posted

It might be piles. Anyway, we are not doctors, so please go get help early from a real professional before something really serious happens. Click the link for gay friendly doc. 

 

Now the million dollar question here is; did he use protection?

 

And the 2nd million dollar question here is; did you enjoy yourself after offering your virgin ass to the hunk of your dream?

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Guest JellyLegs
Posted

Had my first time just now, my legs are like jelly for an hour now and i feel like my butthole is torn. Is it normal?

 

Guest advisor
Posted

you are deflowered.... no longer valuable.......

 

Posted

Kena paik piak piak by 2 different wee wee...felt the urge to take a dump after that....butthole felt sore....after one nights rest...recovered....and i still feel water base lub is better than silicon...just water base a little messier....i feel it is all in the lub u use to help ease pains....

Guest The Experienced
Posted

just a little sore afterwards

Will not be able to shit well when the wound heals, because everytime the shit come out, the wound is re-opened and the pain will not go away so fast. Take times to heal. Unless the ass is a seasoned fucked ass, probably won't be so painful.

Guest JellyLegs
Posted

legs are fine now but pain on butthole felt even worse after using the toilet.

the guy's penis was very thick and the condom creates too much friction.

Posted

it depends on how rough the top is. if the top is the gentle type, the pain, though would be there, is bearable. yes, 1st time shitting after the sex may be painful, but shld be ok aft that.

to prevent painful, use lube to ease the painful effect after sex.

Posted

to prevent painful, use lube to ease the painful effect after sex.

I have a question. How to use lube correctly? For the top, he can apply lube on the condom. But how to apply lube into the hole of the bottom?

Posted

I have a question. How to use lube correctly? For the top, he can apply lube on the condom. But how to apply lube into the hole of the bottom?

insert the opening on the tube of lube into your ass and squeeeeeeeze.
Posted

normally i just use an icing pipe and squeeze it directly into the hole, that way i can decorate leave patterns around the asshole too...

 

just kidding...

 

plse don't try this wo my supervision..

 

 

I have a question. How to use lube correctly? For the top, he can apply lube on the condom. But how to apply lube into the hole of the bottom?

Guest masculine bottom
Posted

Kena piak piak piak is song right?

Not all bottoms are built the same.

Some not much feelings.

Some are like me, slut bottom with very sensitive hole, kena piak piak piak and squeeze nene song until can die.

Now my hole so seasoned until can piak for hours. Don't think got no pain because seasoned, my hole still made of flesh but the pain mixed with pleasures lagi song.

After mating the sore is quite nice feeling like after long exercise the muscles feeling sore but make you feel good. I think the simulations from the soreness produce dopamine.

But in gay circle, there's strong despise of masculine bottoms.

So we are very discreet.

When I sex with my FBs, I don't mind letting them use dirty words like mating, ccb, knnbccb, slut, bitch because that's the truth. My cb is already black and opened. Any top will know immediately I'm very well used.

Posted

Kena piak piak piak is song right?

Not all bottoms are built the same.

Some not much feelings.

Wow. That's kinky

Some are like me, slut bottom with very sensitive hole, kena piak piak piak and squeeze nene song until can die.

Now my hole so seasoned until can piak for hours. Don't think got no pain because seasoned, my hole still made of flesh but the pain mixed with pleasures lagi song.

After mating the sore is quite nice feeling like after long exercise the muscles feeling sore but make you feel good. I think the simulations from the soreness produce dopamine.

But in gay circle, there's strong despise of masculine bottoms.

So we are very discreet.

When I sex with my FBs, I don't mind letting them use dirty words like mating, ccb, knnbccb, slut, bitch because that's the truth. My cb is already black and opened. Any top will know immediately I'm very well used.

Posted

Eeww..yucks....open n black?omg.go for maintenance pls.lolx

I want u to look like virgin forever.lolx

Kena piak piak piak is song right?

Not all bottoms are built the same.

Some not much feelings.

Some are like me, slut bottom with very sensitive hole, kena piak piak piak and squeeze nene song until can die.

Now my hole so seasoned until can piak for hours. Don't think got no pain because seasoned, my hole still made of flesh but the pain mixed with pleasures lagi song.

After mating the sore is quite nice feeling like after long exercise the muscles feeling sore but make you feel good. I think the simulations from the soreness produce dopamine.

But in gay circle, there's strong despise of masculine bottoms.

So we are very discreet.

When I sex with my FBs, I don't mind letting them use dirty words like mating, ccb, knnbccb, slut, bitch because that's the truth. My cb is already black and opened. Any top will know immediately I'm very well used.

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Posted

It has been a month since my friend and me did anal sex and my ass still herts. How long will it herts? When fo you think we can do it again?

Posted

herts?????????? or hurts

it s a movement of my brain cell' frequency in hertz in when I was reading how hurting this is

Posted

Hurts or not, remember to play safe. Always use condom for anal sex.

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Posted

Start with a dildo that is slimmer than the average penis. It is not so much the length, but girth. Relax yourself and once you are comfortable, move up to something thicker until you are able to handle an actual penis. Trust me, my bf and I used this method for me to handle his AMDK. Some alcohol before hand too helps to relax. 

Love. 

Posted

If it means anything, despite having more sex than i deserve, i still feel pain on first penetration. Most tops seem to like that. I need much fingering to loosen up. Either that or take it, and let the top hold still for a minute or 2. The pain goes away.

 

I regularly masturbate by fingering myself and i can still squeeze 1 finger till theres no circulation in the finger on the initial part. 

Guest 男人不壞我不愛
Posted
2 hours ago, btmslut said:

If it means anything, despite having more sex than i deserve, i still feel pain on first penetration. Most tops seem to like that. I need much fingering to loosen up. Either that or take it, and let the top hold still for a minute or 2. The pain goes away.

 

I regularly masturbate by fingering myself and i can still squeeze 1 finger till theres no circulation in the finger on the initial part. 

Haha, unless your hole cannot close, habis 了, if not sure got pain when penetrated until hole can open up.

The top want to watch my face painful when he penetrated me. Those kuailan ones will purposely poke one time, ask one time, aimai,aimai,song boh, when you crying aiya aiya. But he's right after awhile sure pain become song until cannot say then sure die in his hands.

 

Waaa your肛夫so powerful ah. Only some tops like it. Most tops don't like it because they scared you make them shoot you control his fucking. They want to control the bottom to use how he like to play.

Guest Power Tongue
Posted

Just ask your partner to more lube like saliva to make it more slippery especially if you are cruising in public toilets which I do more often.

Posted (edited)
6 hours ago, Carpenter said:

AMDK @doncoin? 

 

Anal always hurt for me, doesnt matter if its the 500th dicks trying to loosen me up, it still hurts at every start.

 

AMDK= Ang Mo Tua Kee, or big cock. 

 

You need to be relaxed. Trust me, I was once in your position. For the longest time, I couldn't handle any thing thicker than an index finger. With my bf, he was very patient, and it became something fun for us both to do. We went shopping for dildos/toys together, try different stuff etc. it took a while before I can comfortably handle his dick. Key is to be relaxed, and lots of foreplay helps. 

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Love. 

Guest Stripesxy
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Posted
On 28 August 2016 at 6:32 PM, Guest Adam said:

It has been a month since my friend and me did anal sex and my ass still herts. How long will it herts? When fo you think we can do it again?

Your ass still hurts after one month? You have injured your ass during anal?

Posted

It's the pain of the initial penetration slowly becoming siok like someone massage my hole very hard.

 

What is best is after he fuck me, the hole massage makes my hole feel so soothing and nice. Then the whole night I feel my hole is a bit sore but nice.

 

Actually being fucked is like getting a hard painful massage for your hole. First the starting penetration is painful but later you feel relaxed and siok. Only that people very shamed to be called fucked. If we call it detox massage, many people will enjoy it better. My fb used that to trick me that time to try his detox massage. End up he pokpokpok me until I cry father cry mother. But siok.

Posted

Painful when anal it is due to the hole too tight? If hole becomes loose, should not be painful.

Guest Wanna-Fuck
Posted

Quite agree with btmm.

Be it slow or rough penetration it depends on both parties.

For some they feel "shiok" once their hole are seasoned.

My bf used to say painful when I try to fuck him though his hole neither tight or loose. But that excuses implying someone has fucked him earlier before I do. Well...WTF!!

Posted
10 hours ago, Guest Guest said:

Need to learn more relaxation technique! 

 

Deep breaths. Also I think nervousness/anxiety usually clamps me up in the past, making anal penetration uncomfortable. I have to admit it took a long time before I arrive this state of relaxation where I am able to relax and enjoy my bf pounding me. That is why during foreplay, use a dildo/vibrator always helps. It preps with the muscles to relax. 

Love. 

Posted
11 hours ago, doncoin said:

 

Deep breaths. Also I think nervousness/anxiety usually clamps me up in the past, making anal penetration uncomfortable. I have to admit it took a long time before I arrive this state of relaxation where I am able to relax and enjoy my bf pounding me. That is why during foreplay, use a dildo/vibrator always helps. It preps with the muscles to relax. 

I think relaxation and correct breathing technique is very important for everything. If not nervous and anxiety will set in and everything will be screw up.

Posted

i think sometimes people put too much blames on the btm when it comes to painful anal sex.

tops also play an important role in figuring out the best position/angle to minimise the pain.

a good top will be able to top an inexperienced btw with ease.

Guest Human science
Posted

Your anal is not meant for inserting penis into it. It is for shitting.

 

Posted

I still remember my first time being anal.  Before that he promise me that he will be gentle. Once he put his dick inside me, seriously i was really high but it was also really painful and when he start pushing in and out, i feel like peeping and in the end i had a auto cum, i really cant control the cum from coming out... He look so pleased that he make me auto cum... Will never forget my 1st time anal.... =)

Posted
9 minutes ago, Guest BtmBtm said:

I still remember my first time being anal.  Before that he promise me that he will be gentle. Once he put his dick inside me, seriously i was really high but it was also really painful and when he start pushing in and out, i feel like peeping and in the end i had a auto cum, i really cant control the cum from coming out... He look so pleased that he make me auto cum... Will never forget my 1st time anal.... =)

some top loves to hear the btm moan while he pounds!

 

 

Posted
19 hours ago, Guest Human science said:

Your anal is not meant for inserting penis into it. It is for shitting.

 

That's why when someone said you like to stir the shit hole, he meant you like to cause trouble. LOL

Posted
3 hours ago, platoniclover said:

some top loves to hear the btm moan while he pounds!

 

Thought bottom confirmed will moan while he get pounds? If not then the bottom is consider a dead fish. While top moan or not then its depends.

Posted
On 09/06/2016 at 10:25 AM, Guest Wanna-Fuck said:

Quite agree with btmm.

Be it slow or rough penetration it depends on both parties.

For some they feel "shiok" once their hole are seasoned.

My bf used to say painful when I try to fuck him though his hole neither tight or loose. But that excuses implying someone has fucked him earlier before I do. Well...WTF!!

Haha, you are one of those tops who must see the bottom suffer pain of initial penetration to prove that they are tight and seldom got penetrated.

 

Luckily I don't have to fake it because it's really painful when something so big want to force it's way into my body. He enjoy watching my face grimacing in pain and breathing hard. That's the reason why scolding someone using the words "fuck" and "screw", it's meant to painful. Yet I'm surrendering my body to him and allow myself to be screwed by him.

Posted
3 hours ago, Guest Btmm said:

Haha, you are one of those tops who must see the bottom suffer pain of initial penetration to prove that they are tight and seldom got penetrated.

 

Luckily I don't have to fake it because it's really painful when something so big want to force it's way into my body. He enjoy watching my face grimacing in pain and breathing hard. That's the reason why scolding someone using the words "fuck" and "screw", it's meant to painful. Yet I'm surrendering my body to him and allow myself to be screwed by him.

Difficult to fake if really feel painful or feel shiok when got penetrated. Unless you are a porn actor then maybe can fake.

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