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If your partner touches his own infected Penis or have touch an infected person's Penis prior to touching you with his bare hands, you will surely be infected also. Many ways for Different STDs to be spread. Some ways are Low risk but does not mean No Risk.

 

Highly unlikely due to the one year ago partner if you are talking about Gonorrhea. 

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Yes kenz

 

the person at the gym has an infected penis (yet not knowing?) continue to be promiscuous (usu I felt extremely uncomfy and guilty when I got abit of illnesses) , how could he even got the mood to gym and stil cruise, once touched his own penis

he ran to touch the TS

(mouth has the rt temp to keep the bac and germs)

on a much higher temp of steam room , they might not survive

and also, he also need time to slowly plan and cruise to get near to TS before slowly move down to his cock

 

with so much vapour and water and sweat rolling down, the bac would already be gone by his touch

 

 

if not why did the doc/nurse etc gave diff opinions? cos they don't buy it, I supposed
they are the xperts of disease right? Who are we ? more expert than them?
probably u r a frequent patient of gonor thru touch????
1-2 time is enugh to kill me

 

it also lead me to conclude that the whole sauna include some spa/massage place (not just sg , fr jb to Thailand) where they usu will hj or bj u towds the end, isn't that something we need to worry daily????????

Now I know why TS gave that "reason" - it sounded so convincing to some of u

the next BEST reason is I went to a straight massage and the lady hj me off and I got gonno! goodness
my dad came back from prostitution or batam, he touched my hand when passing me the snacks from batam or geylang, and bingo

I got it, I went into my bedrm to masturbate after my dad touched me and I gotten it easily by touch

while there is a 0.00000001% but it s just too unbelievable

 

For the docs and specialists, to cure u: u have to be exact and be HONEST to yourself

It is your body!your heavenly body

in order to luv yourself, u hve to b truthful

and I hve surveyed many blowers/btms who luv blowing (yes much experienced and older than me) -they could be blowing from 1 to another (w or without my knowledge), none of them has contracted gonorrhoea! despite their professional service

I started late and yet I gotten them , started late means I only started such activities close to age 40yo

 

While it could be bad luck, the magical touch gave someone a lesson to rem and allow  us to debate - which is good
 

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1 hour ago, lovehandle said:

Yes kenz

 

the person at the gym has an infected penis (yet not knowing?) continue to be promiscuous (usu I felt extremely uncomfy and guilty when I got abit of illnesses) , how could he even got the mood to gym and stil cruise, once touched his own penis

he ran to touch the TS

(mouth has the rt temp to keep the bac and germs)

on a much higher temp of steam room , they might not survive

 

Lovehandle, from my limited knowledge, not all people infected will display the classic symptoms ( In this case, Pus and painful urination). In fact some will have no symptoms at all and they feel absolutely fine and healthy, they are just carriers of the strain of bacteria or virus but they can still infect the next person. ( only a proper blood test or smear test will reveal their true condition) 

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eeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

I felt unsafe in this world

 

many straight men visit prostitution or go to batam to hve fun or called escorts during biz trip
 

yet a touch is enugh to let me suffer, they hve the fun and I ganna

Just cos I did a business handshake w a person after he went toileting(btw, many males don't wash their hands after peeing)
and then I went to masturbate later, I ganna it

nevertheless, I believed thru touch - it is definitely 0.0000000001%

 

 

most of the time I felt it s thru oral (let s put anal aside) , the frequent blower whose passion is about servicing as many dicks as possible , move from one sauna customers to another + servicing from dry area to wet area ie steamroom

Like I shared previously, none of those passionate blowers have such illnesses

and me as a new-started ganna it ! (not by touch definitely, cos I always wash my hands)

 

 

Now I even wear a diff pair of undies in sauna, when I m out of sauna, it is back to the previous pair before I stepped in

when I m in sauna, if required to wear an underwear, it is a different set, this is to ensure the germs and bac will not be passed around
but all dirtily wear the same undies thruout the day, goodness and worst, uncut dicks, the bedrock for grooming bac

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heres my two cents worth.


the thing with STD is there is no fixed period for symptoms to occur because everyone's immune system is different. the numbers stated on websites and such should be taken as a rough guide. person A might take X days for symptoms to show while person B may take Y days instead.

 

similarly, std transmission is also not as straightforward. generally speaking, stds which causes sores, discharges and wounds (eg syphilis, herpes, gonorrhoea, hpv) can be spread by skin contact. that means if your penis comes into contact with, say, a herpes sore in another person's anus, you will be infected. likewise, if someone with a syphilis sore in his mouth gives u a blowjob, and u are not wearing a condom, u will be infected as well. the risk of infection is much higher if the skin contact involves mucous membranes. these are thinner and more sensitive skin like the inside of our mouth, our penis head and foreskin, and our anus.

 

for hiv, transmission is only possible when an infected person's sperm, blood, breast milk (N.A. to us lol) gets into your blood stream. so if you have an ulcer in your mouth and you bj someone with hiv, and his precum or cum touches your ulcer, thats it.

 

since you have been infected with gonorrhea, you want to make sure that you have not caught anything else. i would suggest stop having sex for at least 30 days from your last sexual encounter and monitor your body. then go do a comprehensive std check which will check for herpes, syphilis, hiv etc. a few clinics provide such a package. google for it. also, the reason to wait for 30 days is to clear the hiv window. usually, if u are tested negative after 30 days, u are safe. if u wan to confirm, check one more time 30 days after ur first hiv check. that result will be final. meanwhile, monitor your body and if you find any other symptoms while waiting to clear the 30 days window period, see a doctor immediately.

 

on the bright side of things, gonorrhea is treatable so make sure you finish your course of medicine. return for follow up if you have to. this is to make sure you are fully cured.

 

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I had a gonorrhea attack in October 2014.

It first started as painful urination before the penis started to have a greenish discharge with a rather foul smell.

On a Thursday, I decided I had to see the doctor before it was too late.

 

I went to the hospital twice.

The first time round, he gave me some strong medication.

And on the second time, he put me on the drip.

I was fine after that.

 

I was surprised that I had the infection as I had always had protected sex.

Probably one Japanese top passed it to me when he was teasing his cock against my hole.

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4 minutes ago, darkflame said:

I had a gonorrhea attack in October 2014.

It first started as painful urination before the penis started to have a greenish discharge with a rather foul smell.

On a Thursday, I decided I had to see the doctor before it was too late.

 

I went to the hospital twice.

The first time round, he gave me some strong medication.

And on the second time, he put me on the drip.

I was fine after that.

 

I was surprised that I had the infection as I had always had protected sex.

Probably one Japanese top passed it to me when he was teasing his cock against my hole.

 

Touch the back, front will get? Sounds frightening.

 

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42 minutes ago, fab said:

Yes, it will!

I find it Extremely Amusing when TS told the doc that a person touched his dick w his  hands and the bacteria climbed fast!
the eye part is very scary , Fab

the lips/mouth, dick pics I hve seen it before, so mentally prepared

I was surprised Darkflame need serious medication and a drip
It s quite terrifying

usu an injection or those latest medication should suffice

Not sure @darkflame took too long to approach a doc and he went straight to an A&E , hospital?
disappointed to hear it is from a Japanese

 

51 minutes ago, darkflame said:

I had a gonorrhea attack in October 2014.

It first started as painful urination before the penis started to have a greenish discharge with a rather foul smell.

On a Thursday, I decided I had to see the doctor before it was too late.

 

I went to the hospital twice.

The first time round, he gave me some strong medication.

And on the second time, he put me on the drip.

I was fine after that.

 

I was surprised that I had the infection as I had always had protected sex.

Probably one Japanese top passed it to me when he was teasing his cock against my hole.

 

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On 05/06/2016 at 8:19 PM, Guest HopeThisHelps said:

Signs and symptoms can show up 1–14 days after coming into contact with gonorrhoea, many months later, or not until the infection spreads to other parts of your body.

 

Read more at http://www.fpa.org.uk/sexually-transmitted-infections-stis-help/gonorrhoea#bDLqrIGjm0amuDJC.99

 

Is it true that there is no blood test for Gonorrhoea ... only swap test ... ?

For anorectal gonorrhoea ...what if there are no symptoms or symptoms that are masked by bleeding piles ... then it heals but the bacteria went on to infect the inner parts of the body e.g. joints, nerves etc?

 

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Why outbreak of super gonorrhoea is proving difficult to contain

Gonorrhoea was relatively benign in years gone by, going by the name “the clap” and was easily treated with penicillin.

Now it’s a monster. A super-resistant form is cutting a swath through straight and gay communities.

When it emerged in Leeds last year, the new superbug prompted a national alert when one of the main treatments became useless against it.

Cases of super gonorrhoea have now been detected in the West Midlands, London and southern England.

Even Public Health England ­acknowledges it’s proving difficult to contain the outbreak.

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Doctors fear the super STI could become resistant to anti-biotics

The Neisseria ­gonorrhoeae infection is spread through unprotected vaginal, oral and anal sex.

But about one in 10 heterosexual men and more than three-quarters of women and gay men have no symptoms. These can be a green or yellow discharge from sexual organs, pain urinating and bleeding between periods.

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Practice safe sex to avoid gonorrhoea

Left untreated, gonorrhoea can lead to pelvic inflammatory disease. Inflammation of the ­fallopian tubes can cause a blockage which can result in infertility. Gonorrhoea can also be passed on to an unborn baby during pregnancy.

Doctors are afraid the STI could soon become untreatable. While the outbreak started in straight couples, it soon moved on to gay men.

“We’ve been worried it would spread to men who have sex with men,” said Peter Greenhouse, a Bristol-based consultant in sexual health.

“The problem is [they] tend to spread infections a lot faster simply because this group changes partners more quickly.”

Read more: Doctors fear 'super-gonorrhoea' will become untreatable

As the gonorrhoea bacterium can resist our most powerful antibiotics when used alone, two drugs, ­azithromycin and ceftriaxone, are used in combination.

However, resistance to azithromycin has developed and is spreading, and experts fear it’s only a matter of time before ceftriaxone fails too.

Dr Gwenda Hughes, the head of the sexually transmitted infections unit at Public Health England, said: “We cannot afford to be complacent. If strains emerge resistant to both azithromycin and ­ceftriaxone, treatment options would be limited as there is currently no new antibiotic available to treat the infection.”

She’s encouraging people to practise safe sex to minimise the risk of STIs.

There’s also a concerted campaign to find the sexual partners of people who have the superbug.

Public Health England warn the emergence of a dangerous superbug is creating a “perfect storm scenario”.

 
 
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On 6/5/2016 at 8:07 PM, Guest worriedboy said:

I recently got infected with Gonorrhoea. Am taking antibiotics now after seeing the doc at DSC. 

 

I told the doc my most recent partner was someone I met in the steam room of a gym. We did nothing except letting him touch my penis head with his bare hands and I returned the favor by rubbing his dick but without direct contact. He wrapped himself with a towel. 

 

I'm quite sure I got it from him because the symptoms started surfacing 3 days after the incident. But the nurse, doc, counselor all gave me different answers. One of them said it's impossible to get inflected with touching while another claimed that it's still possible if there is discharge on his hands at that time. Or I could have gotten it from someone else whom I had exposure with going as far back as one year ago. I'm totally confused! :frustrated:

 

I would like to seek advice from those who got infected before. 
 

  1. How long does it take for the symptoms to appear in your previous case? 
  2. How do we protect ourselves in future if Gonorrhoea can really spread by touching from an irresponsible inflected person?
  3. Will this lead to other STDs? I want to test for the rest of STDs but I have to wait for the window period to lapse. :(
  4. Any other advice

 

Sorry, I would rather hear from those who had been there done that than those with baseless assumptions. I have seen too many such comments on other threads.

Thanks in advance.


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Anyone who is sexually active can get gonorrhea. Gonorrhea can cause very serious complications when not treated, but can be cured with the right medication.

You can get gonorrhea by having vaginal, anal, / oral sex with someone who has gonorrhea. A pregnant woman with gonorrhea can give the infection to her baby during childbirth.
 

The only way to avoid STDs is to not have vaginal, anal, / oral sex.

If you are sexually active, you can do the following things to lower your chances of getting gonorrhea:

Being in a long-term mutually monogamous relationship with a partner who has been tested & has negative STD test results;
Using latex condoms the right way every time you have sex.
 

Some men with gonorrhea may have no symptoms at all. However, men who do have symptoms, may have:

A burning sensation when urinating;
A white, yellow, / green discharge from the penis;
Painful or swollen testicles (although this is less common).

 

Rectal infections may either cause no symptoms / cause symptoms in both men & women that may include:

Discharge;
Anal itching;
Soreness;
Bleeding;
Painful bowel movements.

You should be examined by your doctor if you notice any of these symptoms / if your partner has an STD / symptoms of an STD, such as an unusual sore, a smelly discharge, burning when urinating, / bleeding between periods.
 

Yes, gonorrhea can be cured with the right treatment. It is important that you take all of the medication your doctor prescribes to cure your infection. Medication for gonorrhea should not be shared with anyone. Although medication will stop the infection, it will not undo any permanent damage caused by the disease.

It is becoming harder to treat some gonorrhea, as drug-resistant strains of gonorrhea are increasing. If your symptoms continue for more than a few days after receiving treatment, you should return to a health care provider to be checked again.
 

You should wait seven (7) days after finishing all medications before having sex. To avoid getting infected with gonorrhea again / spreading gonorrhea to your partner(s), you & your sex partner(s) should avoid having sex until you have each completed treatment. If you’ve had gonorrhea & took medicine in the past, you can still get infected again if you have unprotected sex with a person who has gonorrhea.

Source: https://www.cdc.gov/std/gonorrhea/stdfact-gonorrhea.htm

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1 hour ago, Guest Power Tongue said:

I got rashes in my groin part when I woke up a while ago. I'm also not feeling well and feverish. I'm wondering if I already got STD.

 

You just need to see a doctor. It is pointless to do a self-diagnosis over here on this forum because you will not get better. :) 

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On 4 September 2016 at 2:22 AM, Guest Guest said:

Oh Power Tongue would probably dead. He has been banned here in BW. LOL

Yes, he was banned because some bitchy losers began making fakes post under that name... He is a friend of mine and I encourage him to sign up in proper terms so he will not be troll affected. 

 

And hiw how dare you say die? You need to remember karma...

 

What is wrong with some of you queens? Seriously. Get a life, already. 

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But don’t even think about using it down there.

 
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23 DEC 2016 Nearly 140 years after Listerine first made the claim that its product can kill the bacteria that cause gonorrhoea, new research has finally backed that up with independent tests.

That might not sound too surprising, seeing as mouthwash is supposed to kill bacteria, but according to the study’s authors, no one had ever bothered to scientifically test Listerine’s gonorrhoea claims from 1879 until now. With gonorrhoea on the rise, both in the USand elsewhere in the world, and antibiotic resistance becoming a huge problem, now seemed like as good a time as any to check.  

Gonorrhoea is caused by the bacterium Neisseria gonorrhoeae

Ten percent of males and 80 percent of females who are infected show no symptoms, but men with gonorrhoea have an increased risk of prostate cancer, and women can develop pelvic inflammatory disease if left untreated. 

Researchers from Monash University in Australia decided to specifically investigate men who have sex with men (MSM), as about 70 percent of male cases of gonorrhoea in Australia are occurring in that demographic. 

"If Listerine has an inhibitory effect against N. gonorrhoeae in the [throat], it could be a cheap, easy to use and potentially effective intervention for gonorrhoeae prevention and control in MSM," they report.

They first looked at Listerine’s effect on N. gonorrhoeae in a petri dish (also called in vitro) – and the results were promising. 

"Listerine Total Care and Cool Mint were found to significantly inhibit the growth of the tested strain of N. gonorrhoeae at dilutions of 1:2 and 1:4," the team reports. 

They also looked at mouthwash’s capabilities to kill N. gonorrhoeae in human mouths. 

Gonorrhoea is a sexually transmitted infection, so it usually affects a person’s genitals, but the bacteria can still end up in the mouth and throat  - sometimes causing oral gonorrhoea. We’ll let you guess how. 

The day of the experiment, 58 of the 196 men tested positive to N. gonorrhoeae at one of two sites in the mouth. 

After the men with gonorrhoea gargled either a salt solution or Listerine for 1 minute, the team found that that 84 percent of the men tested positive for the bacteria 5 minutes after gargling salty water, but only 52 percent of the men tested positive after gargling Listerine. 

The Listerine wasn’t perfect - it was less effective in the back of the throat than towards the mouth, and it also didn’t remove N. gonorrhoeae in all mouths –  but a 1-minute gargle removed it in just under half the participants. 

"It may be that more mouthwash reaches the [tonsils] than the [back of the throat] during use and highlight the need to gargle and not just rinse," the researchers wrote.

It’s important to note that the researchers aren’t looking to make a Listerine derivative to treat your junk – seeing as N. gonorrhoeae can be spread through oral contact, they’re looking at Listerine’s properties to help them find a quick, cheap, and easy way to treat to limit oral infections. 

Some researchers suspect that preventing the spread of N. gonorrhoeae with a condom is impossible, due to the bacteria’s ability to colonise the throat - which why it’s so important that we find an effective way to minimise the spread through oral contact. 

The researchers note that their study only included a small, and not very diverse, sample, and only tracked the participants over a short period of time. 

They’re now investigating whether mouthwash will be more effective when used daily over a longer period. 

"If daily use of mouthwash was shown to reduce the duration of untreated infection and/or reduce the probability of acquisition of N. gonorrhoeae then this readily available, condomless and low-cost intervention may have very significant public health implications in the control of gonorrhoeae," the researchers conclude.  

Until then, it’s still a good idea to go to your doctor if you think you might have an infection, but gargling mouthwash on the side probably won’t hurt. 

Just don't try to use it elsewhere, because that would be painful.

The research was published in Sexually Transmitted Infections

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Seeing the number of threads about panicking on the sight of suspected Std cases... it might be good to have this compilation of symptoms.

Make no mistake, there are obviously std infected people who visit saunas and still frequebt ut to pass it on.

 

. Not saying you cant visit saunas, but play safe.

 

We handle everyone with love, but most importantly, treat youself with care,..and medicine,

 

While other might be a scoundrel and irresponsible, you must learn to protect yourself.

 

More common STD symptoms in men:

  • No signs at all
  • Itching at the tip of the penis
  • Rash on the penis, testicles, or groin
  • Discharge (a milky white, yellow, thick or thin substance coming from the tip of the penis)
  • Pain with urination
  • Pain with ejaculation
  • Painful blisters on the genitals (penile spots/penile bumps)

Less common STD symptoms in men:

  • Painless ulcer on the penis or testicles
  • Testicular pain and swelling
  • Epididymitis (painful swelling of the tube that carries urine and ejaculate)
  • Fever
  • Painful swelling of a joint (like a knee or elbow)
  • Sore throat (if engaging in oral sex)
  • Rectal pain, discharge, or bleeding (if engaging in receptive anal sex)
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I was on holiday recently and engaged the services of a massuer who also gave me a blow job. A couple of days later, I felt a slight on/off itchiness in my groin area. It was not really bothersome unless I pay attention to it. I thought it is just jock itch and applied some anti-fungal cream on it. Lately, I noticed some whitish discharge from my penis, with a small sore at the tip of the head. I am not sure if it is the cream that caused it because I applied it quite liberally, but I am worried that I may have contracted Chlamydia or Gonorrhea. I read up on some of the symptoms, I don't have fever or sore throat, peeing is fine although it hurt a little when I ejaculate after masturbation. Also no pain in my testicles. 

 

I know there were discussions in this forum before, but they were quite a few years ago and many of those threads are closed for me to comment.

 

I have a few questions:

 

  • Is going to one of those sexual health clinics (like drtanpartners, kensington, tanjongpangar, etc) really anonymous as advertised?
  • What are the estimated costs of treatment?
  • Can fellow forumers share their experience and advice please?

 

TIA.

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14 hours ago, Guest Jackpot said:

I was on holiday recently and engaged the services of a massuer who also gave me a blow job. A couple of days later, I felt a slight on/off itchiness in my groin area. It was not really bothersome unless I pay attention to it. I thought it is just jock itch and applied some anti-fungal cream on it. Lately, I noticed some whitish discharge from my penis, with a small sore at the tip of the head. I am not sure if it is the cream that caused it because I applied it quite liberally, but I am worried that I may have contracted Chlamydia or Gonorrhea. I read up on some of the symptoms, I don't have fever or sore throat, peeing is fine although it hurt a little when I ejaculate after masturbation. Also no pain in my testicles. 

 

I know there were discussions in this forum before, but they were quite a few years ago and many of those threads are closed for me to comment.

 

I have a few questions:

 

  • Is going to one of those sexual health clinics (like drtanpartners, kensington, tanjongpangar, etc) really anonymous as advertised?
  • What are the estimated costs of treatment?
  • Can fellow forumers share their experience and advice please?

 

TIA.

Even if you're allergic to the topical cream, it doesn't account for the discharge from the penis, assuming you dead certain about what you saw. Just get treated. Doesn't matter whether you head to anonymous clinics or not; if you do have an STI, it's reportable under the infectious disease act except you won't be named (with the exception of hiv). The anonymous clinics merely deidentifies you during the screening process - won't call your name la, keep records of your name la etc. If you're talking about gonorrhoea and chlymadia - a once off course of antibtiocs would suffice. Wouldn't cost you an arm and a leg. Even treatment for syphilis aren't markedly expensive if you do it at the restructured institutes; just a few injections of penicillin. What's considerably costlier are the professional consultation fees and biochemical tests. If it's a concern, just head to DSC. 

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14 hours ago, Guest Jackpot said:

I was on holiday recently and engaged the services of a massuer who also gave me a blow job. A couple of days later, I felt a slight on/off itchiness in my groin area. It was not really bothersome unless I pay attention to it. I thought it is just jock itch and applied some anti-fungal cream on it. Lately, I noticed some whitish discharge from my penis, with a small sore at the tip of the head. I am not sure if it is the cream that caused it because I applied it quite liberally, but I am worried that I may have contracted Chlamydia or Gonorrhea. I read up on some of the symptoms, I don't have fever or sore throat, peeing is fine although it hurt a little when I ejaculate after masturbation. Also no pain in my testicles. 

 

I know there were discussions in this forum before, but they were quite a few years ago and many of those threads are closed for me to comment.

 

I have a few questions:

 

  • Is going to one of those sexual health clinics (like drtanpartners, kensington, tanjongpangar, etc) really anonymous as advertised?
  • What are the estimated costs of treatment?
  • Can fellow forumers share their experience and advice please?

 

TIA.

 

It sounds like you've got a UTI.

You are not my only plan.

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On 5/12/2017 at 9:41 AM, Guest Jackpot said:

I was on holiday recently and engaged the services of a massuer who also gave me a blow job. A couple of days later, I felt a slight on/off itchiness in my groin area. It was not really bothersome unless I pay attention to it. I thought it is just jock itch and applied some anti-fungal cream on it. Lately, I noticed some whitish discharge from my penis, with a small sore at the tip of the head. I am not sure if it is the cream that caused it because I applied it quite liberally, but I am worried that I may have contracted Chlamydia or Gonorrhea. I read up on some of the symptoms, I don't have fever or sore throat, peeing is fine although it hurt a little when I ejaculate after masturbation. Also no pain in my testicles. 

 

I know there were discussions in this forum before, but they were quite a few years ago and many of those threads are closed for me to comment.

 

I have a few questions:

 

  • Is going to one of those sexual health clinics (like drtanpartners, kensington, tanjongpangar, etc) really anonymous as advertised?
  • What are the estimated costs of treatment?
  • Can fellow forumers share their experience and advice please?

 

TIA.

 

Don't expect too much from hearsay here.

See a doctor, that is how you can be properly assessed.

 

 

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On ‎12‎/‎5‎/‎2017 at 9:41 AM, Guest Jackpot said:

I was on holiday recently and engaged the services of a massuer who also gave me a blow job. A couple of days later, I felt a slight on/off itchiness in my groin area. It was not really bothersome unless I pay attention to it. I thought it is just jock itch and applied some anti-fungal cream on it. Lately, I noticed some whitish discharge from my penis, with a small sore at the tip of the head. I am not sure if it is the cream that caused it because I applied it quite liberally, but I am worried that I may have contracted Chlamydia or Gonorrhea. I read up on some of the symptoms, I don't have fever or sore throat, peeing is fine although it hurt a little when I ejaculate after masturbation. Also no pain in my testicles. 

 

I know there were discussions in this forum before, but they were quite a few years ago and many of those threads are closed for me to comment.

 

I have a few questions:

 

  • Is going to one of those sexual health clinics (like drtanpartners, kensington, tanjongpangar, etc) really anonymous as advertised?
  • What are the estimated costs of treatment?
  • Can fellow forumers share their experience and advice please?

 

TIA.

likely to be gonorrhoea but how could it be? cos all u did was having a massage

 

unless the masseurs was serving some other customers right before u and he didn't rinse his mouth thorougly

 

but for what I know, some will insist of doing a bj w a condom

 

n u shouldn't be waiting if it is a gono, today is ending, tmr is 15th esp if there is discharge today

 

all such anti fungal cream should be quite mild esp one that is to cure jock itch

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1 hour ago, Guest Guest Ano said:

Hi I'm really just not too sure about that. Really confused and paranoid. I have no idea what undetectable means and if condom really helps.

 

The confusion and paranoia are quite justifiable, seeing that various myths surround HIV infection. To begin with, I believe that antiviral drugs significantly decrease the quantity of virus, making it undetectable, thereby reducing its transmission by 93% (Coffey, 2017). Besides, you wore condoms, thereby further reducing the chance of transmission. However, regardless of how minimal the chances are, they are not eliminated. If you are worried, take a blood test. Finally, I would like to advise you to think things through, in the future, before leaping into them.

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I kena Chlamydia or Gonorrhea before. Thanks to the the symptoms that surfaced within 1-2 weeks after getting infected, I went to DSC to get myself cured without much delay.

 

I recall the doc told me for some people, the symptoms will not show even if the person is already infected. Can I presume my body system will always show symptoms whenever I get infected in future? Does anyone have such experience before?

 

*No flaming please. I'm just trying to learn about the diseases.

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Just wanna share my experience that happened to me. My english is not good so pardon me if u hve trouble reading or understanding

 

I met a guy through grindr. we chatted for quite some time and decided to hve fun at my place. Frm the pict that he sent me,he look avrge. Since i dnt hve high expectation on people,i just give it a shot. He also said he is a flex b,same with me bt since he dnt wanna top,i will top him.

 

On our meeting day,i opened the door wide while looking for him. I saw him from far. He is tall,fair and quite well build body with clean cut hair. Walking towards my house with a bike helmet on his arm . Gosh! He looks so freaking hot! I thought our session would last long bt it didnt. We watched porn while doing our foreplay. He started sucking me so good that my hand started gg to his bubbly bottom automatically. I got up n put on a cndom n  lubricate his manhole. As i was playing his hole,i felt like there is something weird. I stopped him frm sucking me n turn him

Over. I took a closer look at his ass. Holyshit! There is a huge anal warts! I stop playing with it n wipe my hand. Straight away i asked him.

 

Me:Do you knw what is on yr anus?

Him: IDK. Why?

Me: its warts,u dnt knw? When do U start having this? Is it after u had fun with someone?

Him: 2 weeks ago. I hvnt had fun for quite some time

( i saw his eyes. He was scared n unsure of his ans. He is trying to lie)

Me: i think u should get yrself check.

 

Despite having said that,i go ahead and fuck him with cndom. I prevent going deeper so that i would not get in contact with his skin. He then tried to ejaculate soon after. Same with me. After that i quickly went to the toilet and washup. I scrub and wash with soap many times. Aft he washup,he gets ready and leave. We didnt spoke alot. I just texted him asking him to seek treatment from Dr n ask him to take care.

 

Im nt sure if what i did 

(To continue fucking him) was right. Bt hopefully i am clean frm anything. Such a waste. Such physically gifted person has this. This incident has nw made me realised n be more aware on who am i hvg fun with. Bt i really pity that fellow.

 
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I got a huge STD scare a few months ago after hooking up with an old fuck buddy for the first time in two years. He had changed in that time, and smoked ice while he was cleaning his ass in the shower, which I did not know. We were at his place by the way. In his bed, I started fucking him with a condom, but he wasn't relaxed enough and went to get his bong. I started freaking out in anger as I hate all forms of drugs. But he said he only does it when he gets fucked by a top with a huge cock. I was uncomfortable with the situation, but have always found it difficult to stay angry with him, and soon resumed fucking him. Later in the night while I was asleep, he stroked me to get me hard, and pulled me into his ass without a condom. I was half-awake by then and pulled out and used wet wipes to clean my cock and scolded him. Then to apologize he started sucking me but that was right after taking another hit from his bong. I shot down his throat, and he swallowed the entire load, but I was still angry and left without saying goodbye in the morning. But the worst was yet to come.

 

A few days later I noticed a bump on my cock that looked like a pimple. I hadn't had a pimple on my cock in more than 10 years so I became extremely worried. This is stupid but my first instinct was to wash and wet-wipe it down multiple times per day to see if it went away. It did go away but then I came across an article describing such pimple looking outbreaks as a potential sign of syphilis. I was actually more worried about HIV at the time and went to get tested after two weeks, but it came back negative, thank goodness. After another two months, I got tested for HIV and every other major STD, and everything was negative. I was confused and described my foolish behavior to the doctor and asked him what could have caused the pimple looking outbreak. His best professional guesses were irritation from the tightness of the condom, since it was in the region near the base of my shaft where the unrolled condom got intertwined with my pubic hair, or an allergic reaction to the ice on my old fuck buddy's breath when he sucked me immediately after taking a bong hit. Scary.

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Hi everyone, 

 

so what happened to me was - i went to cruise club one day and i gave a bj to someone. There was already two people in the room, one blowing another. Initially i only wanted to watch but they signalled me to go in the room and so i did, and one thing led to another i started blowing one guy. It was my second time giving a bj. Immediately the next day i had a sore throat and im coughing with phlegm and a running nose.

 

now im really afraid that i might catch a disease (cause im scared that one of the two is already infected and might pass it on to me) i only sucked him for less than 5 mins and he didn't cum and i didn't had any ulcers.

 

can anyone please tell me what are the chances of catching a disease

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How fast did u recover from the sore throat / cough / runny nose?  Or u still having them?

Good chance is that u just caught the common cold.  Next time  smell the cock first then massage it to feel for odd lumps / STD scars / etc .  If ok proceed to one first gulp.  Any funny  taste like bitter ( = got medication) / raw flesh ( = got secretion somewhere under the skin) / acidic (= heaty) / etc better to avoid.   Don't share sucking same cock with someone which defeats the purpose of checking.  Always armed yourself with at least a bottle of water to gargle immediately if in contact with highly suspicious case.  Best result with a small plastic bottle of mouth wash.  If its your own cock that has been suck then rinse it with water / anti-bacteria wash / or wipe with a small piece of alcohol swipe which costs 10 to 20 cents.  Say if we are too late to prevent an infection,  this coursevof action will at least be able to  mitigate the extent of the infection.

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How fast did u recover from the sore throat / cough / runny nose?  Or u still having them?

Good chance is that u just caught the common cold.  Next time  smell the cock first then massage it to feel for odd lumps / STD scars / etc .  If ok proceed to one first gulp.  Any funny  taste like bitter ( = got medication) / raw flesh ( = got secretion somewhere under the skin) / acidic (= heaty) / etc better to avoid.   Don't share sucking same cock with someone which defeats the purpose of checking.  Always armed yourself with at least a bottle of water to gargle immediately if in contact with highly suspicious case.  Best result with a small plastic bottle of mouth wash.  If its your own cock that has been suck then rinse it with water / anti-bacteria wash / or wipe with a small piece of alcohol swipe which costs 10 to 20 cents.  Say if we are too late to prevent an infection,  this coursevof action will at least be able to  mitigate the extent of the infection.

 

Quite a number of things mentioned are ways to enhance self-assurance, but in medical point of view, serve no purpose.

Taste, gargling with water, mouthwash, alcohol swap the penis. 

 

In fact, the use of alcohol swap on your penis might cause unwanted irritation.

 

If you wished to perform oral sex, look out for lesions, growths or unusual discharge. If there are, do not proceed. However, many carriers often do NOT present any symptoms.

Do take note that even if the person receiving oral sex does not ejaculate into your mouth, there is still risk of catching STDs.

 

To TS, showing symptoms of sorethroat within a day is rather fast. I would think that it is due to common cold bug than stds. 

Do not be paranoid. If you notice discharge or ulcers in the mouth that doesn't go away after weeks, visit a doctor to be sure.

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If you are worried about HIV, I think the symptoms of the primary infection will only occur after a few weeks from initial exposure. Other STDs I am not so sure. However, we are all not doctors and it is still best to get a check. Maybe you can head down to the AFA clinic for an anonymous test

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Thats why I say massage.  FEEL it.  Smelling helps. I stop joining guys at public urinals after I noticed many cocks having shafts that are dry and flaking.  So far I haven't heard anyone reporting about this condition.

To that  Justanotherme guy my recommendations aren't doing good enough.  My strategy is more like don't just suck it, check it too.  This analogy is quite the same as when we pick a fruit.  Enemy in front, no matter how weak I am,  I do something to fight it even with lame tools.

My experiences with alcohol swap never had any occurance of irritation.  I agree that they are quite like the lame tools I have for wars.  I always suspect their effectiveness.  But the smarting pain kind of give me the impression that these swaps are killers to whatever hanging around the cock after sex.  I hate using them for the pain it can inflict.  So much courage is needed to tap the cock with them.  Usually I have sex in the evening, by morning when i wake up,  my cock is all fine.

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Cruise Club is not the only place somebody can be infected with HIV or another STD. There could be disease carriers at all of the saunas at any given time, as well as bars and clubs, cruisy toilets, gyms, and anywhere else people go to seek out sex. Anyway some good advice has been given above. The important thing is don't lose your head when you get horny, be cautious, and always protect yourself.

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Since the Cruise Club thread is locked while the other sauna threads remain open, and Cruise Club is mentioned in this post, I want to mention that I got a shock at Cruise Club. A skinny young swishy type said he was Vietnamese when I touched him. I replied I like Viet boys. He then said he will do anything I want if I give him money. WTH????? Since when do money boys think it is okay to try to ply their disgusting STD infection spreading trade at Cruise Cub or any other saunas. I told him I am too good looking to need to pay for sex and walked away.

 

The next time I saw him, he was dancing like a girl in front of the mirror in the locker room, probably trying to entice a desperate uncle to pay him for weak sex. Cruise Club needs to crack down on this guy immediately to prevent other money boys from thinking they can set up shop there. People already pay a higher entrance fee than at any other sauna to enter Cruise Club. It would be ridiculous to also pay individuals for fun on top of that. The desperate uncles need to let their cheapness overpower their horniness and tell that skank he is not welcome at all.

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4 hours ago, Guest Intensely Staring At Butt said:

Since the Cruise Club thread is locked while the other sauna threads remain open, and Cruise Club is mentioned in this post, I want to mention that I got a shock at Cruise Club. A skinny young swishy type said he was Vietnamese when I touched him. I replied I like Viet boys. He then said he will do anything I want if I give him money. WTH????? Since when do money boys think it is okay to try to ply their disgusting STD infection spreading trade at Cruise Cub or any other saunas. I told him I am too good looking to need to pay for sex and walked away.

 

The next time I saw him, he was dancing like a girl in front of the mirror in the locker room, probably trying to entice a desperate uncle to pay him for weak sex. Cruise Club needs to crack down on this guy immediately to prevent other money boys from thinking they can set up shop there. People already pay a higher entrance fee than at any other sauna to enter Cruise Club. It would be ridiculous to also pay individuals for fun on top of that. The desperate uncles need to let their cheapness overpower their horniness and tell that skank he is not welcome at all.

Get this trash locked up

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On 22/10/2017 at 2:13 PM, Guest scar said:

Hi everyone, 

 

so what happened to me was - i went to cruise club one day and i gave a bj to someone. There was already two people in the room, one blowing another. Initially i only wanted to watch but they signalled me to go in the room and so i did, and one thing led to another i started blowing one guy. It was my second time giving a bj. Immediately the next day i had a sore throat and im coughing with phlegm and a running nose.

 

now im really afraid that i might catch a disease (cause im scared that one of the two is already infected and might pass it on to me) i only sucked him for less than 5 mins and he didn't cum and i didn't had any ulcers.

 

can anyone please tell me what are the chances of catching a disease

I always wonder that Singaporeans can always develop STDs instantly or on the next day already... totally amusing.

Boy read about STD first and the window period... and don't bore us with bullshit.

It looks either that the aircon inside was too chilly for you or you went straight from the steam room to the airconditioned section...

MY SUPER LAST ADVICE: Better jerk off alone at home, but watch out that your tissue with which you clean up your cum doesn't carry any germs....

Anyway, somewhere else I already recommended that full body latex suit n ABC war mask...

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If you have some sore/ulcer at your penile area, do you just go to any family clinic to check it out and get it cured? 

 

Or is there a need to consult a urologist? 

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Be careful to those who are indulging on unprotected sex and to who always cruise and having sex in public toilets. My friend of mine got STD. He only found out after the routine annual medical check of his company. He reckoned the last sex that he had prior to the test was in a public toilet two months back.

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For the information of everyone,

 

When you go for company mandated annual body check for insurance, a VDRL blood test is required right without expilicit consent required from you unlike the HIV test which a doctor will counsel and seek consent before taking your blood and proceeding with a HIV test.

 

HIV test needs patient consent before proceeding.

 

VDRL test need not patients consent when ordered by company medical test or even government medical test.

 

Do not lie when ask if you ever contracted Syphillis or ever got treated for Syphillis in the past, because the Vdrl test will show positive for Syphillis antibodies if you ever gotten Syphillis before and even after treatment completion and being cured of Syphillis  completely,

 

You will still react positive for VDRL test after being cured, its as good as being reactive to VDRL tset for life.

 

So dont lie if asked if you ever got Syphillis, the test will show otherwise.

 

Gonnorhea do not react to VDRL if you are completely cured.

 

Its for those who have cured themselves overseas and do not have a VD  medical record in Singapore, and need to pass a medical test in singapore, you can lie about never getting gonnorhea but impossible to lie about Syphillis.

 

 

 

 

 

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On 6/20/2017 at 12:07 AM, Deel said:

Just wanna share my experience that happened to me. My english is not good so pardon me if u hve trouble reading or understanding

 

I met a guy through grindr. we chatted for quite some time and decided to hve fun at my place. Frm the pict that he sent me,he look avrge. Since i dnt hve high expectation on people,i just give it a shot. He also said he is a flex b,same with me bt since he dnt wanna top,i will top him.

 

On our meeting day,i opened the door wide while looking for him. I saw him from far. He is tall,fair and quite well build body with clean cut hair. Walking towards my house with a bike helmet on his arm . Gosh! He looks so freaking hot! I thought our session would last long bt it didnt. We watched porn while doing our foreplay. He started sucking me so good that my hand started gg to his bubbly bottom automatically. I got up n put on a cndom n  lubricate his manhole. As i was playing his hole,i felt like there is something weird. I stopped him frm sucking me n turn him

Over. I took a closer look at his ass. Holyshit! There is a huge anal warts! I stop playing with it n wipe my hand. Straight away i asked him.

 

Me:Do you knw what is on yr anus?

Him: IDK. Why?

Me: its warts,u dnt knw? When do U start having this? Is it after u had fun with someone?

Him: 2 weeks ago. I hvnt had fun for quite some time

( i saw his eyes. He was scared n unsure of his ans. He is trying to lie)

Me: i think u should get yrself check.

 

Despite having said that,i go ahead and fuck him with cndom. I prevent going deeper so that i would not get in contact with his skin. He then tried to ejaculate soon after. Same with me. After that i quickly went to the toilet and washup. I scrub and wash with soap many times. Aft he washup,he gets ready and leave. We didnt spoke alot. I just texted him asking him to seek treatment from Dr n ask him to take care.

 

Im nt sure if what i did 

(To continue fucking him) was right. Bt hopefully i am clean frm anything. Such a waste. Such physically gifted person has this. This incident has nw made me realised n be more aware on who am i hvg fun with. Bt i really pity that fellow.

 

i thk u did the right thing
i realised many didnt notice they have warts, i told someone before and finally he decided to go for checks, he eventually thks me for telling him

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I went for my regular check for gonorrhea and chlamydia at DSC clinic recently. 

 

In previous years, the nurse asked me to do throat and genital swap. But I was told if I did not have any burning sensation or discharge from my penis, I do not need to do genital swap. Is it true?

 

If yes, how come I need to do genital swap in the past?

 

I thought gonorrhea and chlamydia can be undetectable for some people. That's why we need to do tests for both  throat and genital.

 

Can anyone advise me? THanks.

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