GachiMuchi Posted December 2, 2006 Report Share Posted December 2, 2006 Haha..I can't imagine a very manly man on the surface but an effeminate on bed. Have not met anyone like that yet.Usually, most manly guy when they btm will just moan, and I can tell, they looks hungry but they are still manly in a way, definitely not effeminate on bed.Anyway, although there is nothing wrong with a guy behaving effeminately on bed, there are limits to an extend on how effeminate someone can be and the level of effeminate actions another can accept. As long as both of u are happy, by all means, f**k on. Quote http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mature40s Posted December 2, 2006 Report Share Posted December 2, 2006 Some of my friends have encountered gays who are "totally manly outside and totally effeminate in bed". When my friends were fxxking them, they kept asking my friends "do you like my CB, do you like my CB". Their moans and cries could put those girls in the p--n video to shame. But once after the session, they magically transformed into 100% man again .......like the cinderalla story when the clock strike 12 midnight ..... ding dong ding dong ........ darkflame 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest btm_slut Posted December 2, 2006 Report Share Posted December 2, 2006 Some of my friends have encountered gays who are "totally manly outside and totally effeminate in bed". When my friends were fxxking them, they kept asking my friends "do you like my CB, do you like my CB". Their moans and cries could put those girls in the p--n video to shame. But once after the session, they magically transformed into 100% man again .......like the cinderalla story when the clock strike 12 midnight ..... ding dong ding dong ........ I am a btm. I agree with what mature40s had posted.I am manly, but when I get fxxked, I will say things like "do you like my CB, do you like my CB". So slutty, right? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GachiMuchi Posted December 2, 2006 Report Share Posted December 2, 2006 Hahaha..so far I have not encounter such guys. The most they asked me if I enjoyed myself..and they say they like what I do. Never.." Do u like my CB". I will correct them that that is not a "CB" ; it is an ASShole. asphalt2014 1 Quote http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest_2bsucked Posted December 2, 2006 Report Share Posted December 2, 2006 Some of my friends have encountered gays who are "totally manly outside and totally effeminate in bed". When my friends were fxxking them, they kept asking my friends "do you like my CB, do you like my CB". Their moans and cries could put those girls in the p--n video to shame. But once after the session, they magically transformed into 100% man again .......like the cinderalla story when the clock strike 12 midnight ..... ding dong ding dong ........ I always ask my bottom, do you like my C&B? Cock and balls. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chubaholic Posted December 3, 2006 Report Share Posted December 3, 2006 I would encourage all of us to have a more open mind.I would encourage all of us to get fxxked. You don't know what you are missing. "Pain", "Don't feel shiok", "Because I am manly"? Nonsense. Just bad technique and mind hurdle. Quote 我有煙但係邊個有火。。。 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted December 3, 2006 Report Share Posted December 3, 2006 I would encourage all of us to have a more open mind.I would encourage all of us to get fxxked. You don't know what you are missing. "Pain", "Don't feel shiok", "Because I am manly"? Nonsense. Just bad technique and mind hurdle. I disagree, you don't have to try to take drug b4 you know its bad & can kill right? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted December 3, 2006 Report Share Posted December 3, 2006 you like & enjoy does not mean the rest are, not all people ass like to be fill & feel shiok. Don't try to assume, just like most people keep " thinking " that they are good top & good btm & know alot but actually they are toally not.Ass not pain if their technique good? Haha, unless their cock small or the btm like any size of cocks in their ass.Top just like ass don't care the rest? Not even look, cock size etc? I believe then this type of super top better fxxk gals cos gals more holes than guys. oopss i " assume " again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest_guest Posted December 4, 2006 Report Share Posted December 4, 2006 I would encourage all of us to have a more open mind.I would encourage all of us to get fxxked. You don't know what you are missing. "Pain", "Don't feel shiok", "Because I am manly"? Nonsense. Just bad technique and mind hurdle. This is the most absurd thing I have ever heard. Some are tops by nature or nurture, some are btms by nature or nurture. Asking a top to get fxxked can be compared to asking a heterosexual man to try gay sex. Why dun we go to a str8 man and say to him "Try gay sex man, you don't know what you are missing..."I know its not exactly the same thing, but you know what I mean...Just because you like something doesn't mean others will... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TopChinese Posted December 4, 2006 Report Share Posted December 4, 2006 Not true. Don't knock it till you try it? A lot of us are naturally nervous about letting something up our ass. I was also very against the idea until I met the right guy who was gentle and patient enough to play with me and make me enjoy it. He fxxked me a couple of times and it was wonderful. I don't really think I'll be bottoming for a while but the experience made me a better top. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest01 Posted December 4, 2006 Report Share Posted December 4, 2006 i ever get fxxk by afew guys that most people say they are super good top etc, problem is i don't like mean i don't like, i know some of my friends used to be top but now like to get fxxk by only big cock guys, i don't know how about the rest, i don't believe in mentally etc, cos i ever tried & get top by some called gd top which i can agree that they are not bad too just sad to be say i hate it & maybe i not a flexi or real btm, cos i don't like something inside my ass Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Hmm Posted December 5, 2006 Report Share Posted December 5, 2006 Not true. Don't knock it till you try it? A lot of us are naturally nervous about letting something up our ass. I was also very against the idea until I met the right guy who was gentle and patient enough to play with me and make me enjoy it. He fxxked me a couple of times and it was wonderful. I don't really think I'll be bottoming for a while but the experience made me a better top. I guess you are either a Flex or a btm trying to be top... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest simpleman Posted December 5, 2006 Report Share Posted December 5, 2006 Hmm.... sounds like you are an ANALyst Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest liar Posted December 5, 2006 Report Share Posted December 5, 2006 if a top tells me that he dont touch cock & play with my nips.... that;s a greatest turnoff :yuk: :yuk: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Undies69 Posted September 3, 2015 Report Share Posted September 3, 2015 From experience, I have found out that most of the Pure TOP (including me) do NOT like to suck guys' cock. But instead, quite a number of them (including me) love to get RIMMED by guys' tongues ... Is that the correct understanding ? Please share your view. TwoChnBTMs 1 Quote I Love staring at guys' bulges & ass cracks in their undies or nylon shorts or biz pants or jeans... Will start to fantasise I am caressing them with my hardon rite inside my undies... Do you ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted September 3, 2015 Report Share Posted September 3, 2015 Im pure top.neva suck b4 n juz last week a guy wanted to rim me n i said no.so what u wanna know?whether u r changing to btm?hehe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 3, 2015 Report Share Posted September 3, 2015 From experience, I have found out that most of the Pure TOP (including me) do NOT like to suck guys' cock.But instead, quite a number of them (including me) love to get RIMMED by guys' tongues ...Is that the correct understanding ?Please share your view.Slowly you'll love to get penetrated by tongue, finger, then fingers, followed by fist and finally, a Dick. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 3, 2015 Report Share Posted September 3, 2015 I think he is just being selfish if he don't suck. If he likes to get rimmed, he is actually a benign bottom. He will be transformed into a bottom if he meet a more powerful top. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 3, 2015 Report Share Posted September 3, 2015 Only the selfish top who don't suck if reciprocated by the bottom. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted September 3, 2015 Report Share Posted September 3, 2015 It is so easy for anyone to put labels to anything especially things they don't favour or when they don't get what they want - like getting their dick sucked. If you and your fuck buddy are happy with the arrangement with whatever you guys do, then it is none of anyone's business. However, if you are not doing anything not because of any good reasons but pride such as ''Oh! I am top, I don't suck!'', then you can be an asshole. lanquint, mate69 and Vince 3 Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Pure Bottom Posted September 3, 2015 Report Share Posted September 3, 2015 From experience, I have found out that most of the Pure TOP (including me) do NOT like to suck guys' cock. But instead, quite a number of them (including me) love to get RIMMED by guys' tongues ... Is that the correct understanding ? Please share your view.I am Bottom, I don't like my TOP to suck me. I want him to rim and screw me only!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest pure bottom 2 Posted September 3, 2015 Report Share Posted September 3, 2015 I am Bottom, I don't like my TOP to suck me. I want him to rim and screw me only!!! on top of these, i want him to screw both my mouth and ass! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hairy springroll Posted September 3, 2015 Report Share Posted September 3, 2015 (edited) Selfish top only want to pleasure and self satisfaction Many dont care how btm feel or wantDont even bother to ask Edited September 3, 2015 by hairy springroll Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted September 3, 2015 Report Share Posted September 3, 2015 Wat to.do?if a top like me care n keep asking how is btm receiving it .later btm said this top is not macho la.soft soft la.most btm prefer top who is so called abusive n dominant type.ok lo. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wantonmee Posted September 3, 2015 Report Share Posted September 3, 2015 don't think there is any correct generalization.too many permutations and it does not matter anyways, as long as both are mutually satisfied. iamziz 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 3, 2015 Report Share Posted September 3, 2015 Some selfish pure tops will suck the Btms cocks and kiss them provided the btms are cute hunky and handsome .Otherwise they will just expect the btms to suck them and rim their holes and then fuck them. No kissing etc. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Pure Bottom Posted September 3, 2015 Report Share Posted September 3, 2015 Selfish top only want to pleasure and self satisfactionMany dont care how btm feel or wantDont even bother to askNot true, not true. I love to please my Top, if my love for him is deep. I rather he screw me than to screw someone's else. I make sure he is happy and see his expression when he cum on me. I have no complaint. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 3, 2015 Report Share Posted September 3, 2015 I even encountered one who don't allow me to touch him and just force my head down to suck him. After shooting his cums in my mouth, he walked away. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Undies69 Posted September 3, 2015 Report Share Posted September 3, 2015 I even encountered one who don't allow me to touch him and just force my head down to suck him. After shooting his cums in my mouth, he walked away.He is just a Bastard !! iamziz 1 Quote I Love staring at guys' bulges & ass cracks in their undies or nylon shorts or biz pants or jeans... Will start to fantasise I am caressing them with my hardon rite inside my undies... Do you ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
supermann Posted September 3, 2015 Report Share Posted September 3, 2015 i think it's very individual. there are pure tops who love sucking too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZealousZeno Posted September 3, 2015 Report Share Posted September 3, 2015 When I was watching porn when I was younger.... tops differ from person to person, some like to rim and there are some who like to be rimmed... there are some who luv to be sucked and some who just lick/suck/kiss their bottom everywhere XD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted September 3, 2015 Report Share Posted September 3, 2015 Its normal. Straight men dont like sucking and love to be rimmed too. But the question is, other than getting serviced, do u provide services to your btms eg. rimmiing them etc or do u just lie there like a dead fish? Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 3, 2015 Report Share Posted September 3, 2015 I'm pure top, love sucking, swallowing and rimming, not to keen on being rimmed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted September 3, 2015 Report Share Posted September 3, 2015 (edited) Pure top do not mean anything beside do not getting fuck by others, top can suck kiss, rim, 69 etc too, if you do not like to suck, that does not mean you are super top, if you can't fuck well, it prove that you are just lousy top that do not really know how to foreplay beside just " fucking " hole, same apply to btm, no right or wrong, just go for the right party and everything will work fine. Edited September 3, 2015 by snowball Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted September 3, 2015 Report Share Posted September 3, 2015 I always believe that guys who claimed that they are "pure top"s have insecurities with their masculinity. They have fears about being submissive, and being in the bottom position validates that fear. They refuse to compromise themselves in anyway which would, in their minds, be perceived as weak and feminine. Hence, they typically tend to be as assertive as they can, controlling, and is driven by their own insecurities. They seem to forget that this is a homosexual situation, and they apply a heterosexual behavioral model- i.e. where one is the "top" (masculine) and the other bottom (feminine). Top or bottom, it is just semantics. As long as both of you are getting off, is what matters. mate69 1 Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted September 3, 2015 Report Share Posted September 3, 2015 doncoin and Phil 2 Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkflame Posted September 4, 2015 Report Share Posted September 4, 2015 Sucking and rimming are a matter of personal preference.From my chatting with 'pure' tops, most of them don't like something stuck up their ass but a number of them don't mind pleasuring their bottoms with sucking and/or rimming. Quote I'm always running after you. You are my ideal. You are me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 4, 2015 Report Share Posted September 4, 2015 It is so easy for anyone to put labels to anything especially things they don't favour or when they don't get what they want - like getting their dick sucked. If you and your fuck buddy are happy with the arrangement with whatever you guys do, then it is none of anyone's business. However, if you are not doing anything not because of any good reasons but pride such as ''Oh! I am top, I don't suck!'', then you can be an asshole. He is just a Bastard !! Very well said....! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
analogous Posted September 5, 2015 Report Share Posted September 5, 2015 If the top knows how to fuck well, I'm already happy. You don't have to suck if you don't want to. But I would never rim him because it's filthy. They don't clean properly down there because...well...why would he? He's not the one getting fucked. Quote That awkward moment when you say goodbye and then walk in the same direction... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Compatibles Posted September 5, 2015 Report Share Posted September 5, 2015 as long as each gets what he wants and experiences fulfilling sexual pleasure, both partners will be compatible, nothing matters. the problem comes if only one gets what he wants, and the other feels deprived, unfulfilled desires linger on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Auntie Lucy Posted September 5, 2015 Report Share Posted September 5, 2015 If the top knows how to fuck well, I'm already happy. You don't have to suck if you don't want to. But I would never rim him because it's filthy. They don't clean properly down there because...well...why would he? He's not the one getting fucked.Me thinking the same. If TOP fucked well with lots of fondling and kissing, it is sufficient for me. It is love that matter, not about being short-changed during sex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iceman76 Posted September 5, 2015 Report Share Posted September 5, 2015 I am top and I like sucking for my btm.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2015 Report Share Posted September 5, 2015 I have met a top Ang Moh in the past when I was about to rim his ass....a smelly and filthy ass he got as in didn't bother to clean how gross. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamziz Posted September 5, 2015 Report Share Posted September 5, 2015 I have met a top Ang Moh in the past when I was about to rim his ass....a smelly and filthy ass he got as in didn't bother to clean how gross. Quite often hygiene is one of the main reasons tops like me don't suck or rim or kiss sometime. Not so much about pride or attitude Quote ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 善待对人。麻烦用英文来表达信息。不是每个人都会看的懂中文 。| “People need to learn the art of making an argument. Often there is no right or wrong. It's just your opinion vs someone else's opinion. How you deliver that opinion could make the difference between opening a mind, changing an opinion or shutting the door. Sometimes folk just don't know when they've "argued" enough. Learn when to shut up." ― J'son M. Lee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted September 5, 2015 Report Share Posted September 5, 2015 True ziz Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2015 Report Share Posted September 5, 2015 I'm pure top and I like to be rimmed. RImming my hole gets me very hard and all ready to screw the btm. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted September 5, 2015 Report Share Posted September 5, 2015 I'm a masculine bottom and I only allow a masculine top to take me.Because we are so close in masculinity, he wants to know for sure that I'm not expecting to flip flop. He will never be the bottom.From the beginning, the negotiating of role play has to be standard rituals easily recognised by all. I stand and wait, he sensed and approached. I cast my eyesight ever slightly to the ground in deference. He gives a cocky smile back. These very subtle body languages are barely seen by others. He stands close and his hand at my butt level. I move ever so slightly away from the wall that allow his hand to slip behind my butt. Bingo, roles confirmed as he caressed my behind.As a bottom, I wrap my towel such that the slit part is behind. Haha, I bet few gays know the meaning. Those looking for keys on left hand or right hand are so 1980s. But I only quickly shift my towel that way only when I sense the right top is around. Otherwise I wrap the standard way with slit on side out front.His hand will slip pass the towel slit into my butt crack. I have to part my legs for him to access. This is the most obvious part to outsiders because of the unnatural wide stance. Even though the roles were well spelt out previously, this finger test is to check my tightness. Too tight, he needs to be gentle but being the bastard, he refuse to be gentle, too loose because I had been used already, he may abort and lose interest, just right when he can slip in and I give him a welcome squeeze and he jammed in to warn me he's a nasty bastard.After that I try to look expressionless and cool while he look straight into my eyes with wicked cockiness. At this stage it is understood that he is pure top and certain things he will not do, like his ass is forbidden zone, do not try to touch, sex is what he wants to do to me not for me to enjoy. Some will not even allow me to sit on top of their cocks because they don't like to be below and controlled.Because what he's going to do to me is not for the shy or the sensitive types with fragile ego, this ritual is important to be clearly understood that he's a nasty bastard, I've given consent so as to not waste everybody's time. Once inside the room and he locked the door, I'm his property to use as he pleased and he can unleash his animal lust into me. We both must enjoy this type of no hold barred sex to make it satisfying for both, though it can be too rough for most. The first ritual inside is the exchange of dirty nastiness. He ripped off my towel and force me on all fours with my butts perked up for his inspection. In return to reward me for complying, he'll rim my hole and not afraid to wriggle his tongue all the way inside. The nastiness of foul "kiss my ass" in exchange for "fuck my ass".But then he'll yank my balls to apply pains with pleasures that he'll use to control me. But that's where good skills come in where the yanks are actually only mildly painful. I don't think I need to elaborate more to gross out those timid ones. Needless to say most of you have ever heard such loud pounding and whacking piak piak piak noises from the rooms before. When he's finished with me, I'm nothing but a pile of slimy sweaty fuck meat writhing on the floor and gasping for breathe. He'll never ever thank me but looked at me in disdain like used tissues to be discarded after being soiled by his sexual discharge. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Briefs25 Posted September 13, 2015 Report Share Posted September 13, 2015 how about tops being fingered? do tops who enjoy being rimmed like to be fingered too? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted September 13, 2015 Report Share Posted September 13, 2015 rimmed yes, fingered no. mostly. Quote 鍾意就好，理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Charlie Posted February 13, 2016 Report Share Posted February 13, 2016 Had several encounters with married men mostly in their 40s. Someone of them are here in BW. They look manly but when fucking them they turned into sissies and begging for more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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