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Guest anti-govt
Posted
15 hours ago, Guest 妈的 on mother's day said:

Why should the bad light be unfairly casted on LGBTs in singapore? The bad light should be casted on MALAYSIAN RENEGADES, of which there are plenty around!

The man was caught at least a year later. The govt find it appropriate to bring the news to its full awarness close to pinkdot.  This is not the first time the govt did that. I was aware in previous years pinkdot, the msm will always bring out an on-going gay issues nearer to pinkdot even, for the purpose of painting us in bad light.  Go dig out.

 

 

Posted

It's very likely that this is not how he looks like. Firstly, very few men in their 40s look like that. 

 

Secondly, as Bigdanbeam said, the report mentioned that he uses a fake FB profile picture.

 

 

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Guest DEF
Posted
5 hours ago, bigdanbeam said:

"...The boy said yes, partly due to the money and partly because he found Hiew’s Facebook photo “attractive”, the court heard.

However the photo used by Hiew was not of himself...."

 

The article claims

This bigdanbeam is also a typical malaysian gay face?

Guest Gay face malaysian
Posted
4 hours ago, CKW said:

It's very likely that this is not how he looks like. Firstly, very few men in their 40s look like that. 

 

Secondly, as Bigdanbeam said, the report mentioned that he uses a fake FB profile picture.

 

 

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He definitely looks 40s, with plastic surgery. The face very plastic.

Guest Ugly but good hearted 40s
Posted

However he looks like, he is an ugly person now.  I feel sad that he dragged down his family members.  Imagine you have a son who did such kind of things and the world knows about it.

Guest Gay face malaysian
Posted
16 minutes ago, Guest Gay face malaysian said:

He definitely looks 40s, with plastic surgery. The face very plastic.

The mother looks like this 

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Guest Malaysian-face gay
Posted
1 hour ago, Nightingale said:

Do Malaysian low class gay or Singaporean low class gay have typical looks?  This case is not a matter of nationality but individual's character.

 

You are right and have a point there.

Posted
On 5/9/2017 at 1:24 PM, CKW said:

It's very likely that this is not how he looks like. Firstly, very few men in their 40s look like that. 

 

Secondly, as Bigdanbeam said, the report mentioned that he uses a fake FB profile picture.

 

 

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so its him. no wonder i find his name familiar..

Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall..

Posted

While we are condemning this guy, here's food for thought. Five, ten years down the road, one of these 4 would post here, maybe in the "my first time" areas about this. And the same people here would say "hot! Give me more details".

 

 

Guest Guest
Posted

While the offender is very  wrong , the boys are no angels too ! 

These young boys or rather teenagers surely can find sex among their peers too !

Posted

I wish to highlight that the offender and his rather-willing victims are to be blamed.  It should remind us NOT to fiddle with the law.  Having sex with a minor, regardless with consensus or not, is still an offence punishable by law. 

 

So please use the head above below indulging in any form of sexual activities with the other head.  All of us enjoy sex.  Some with FRESH meat while others go for the more matured.  Have all the sex by all means but do it SAFELY!

  • G_M changed the title to Masseur jailed for underage sex with boys, sex trafficking
Posted

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** Comments are my opinions, same as yours. It's not a 'Be-All-and-End-All' view. Intent's to thought-provoke, validate, reiterate and yes, even correct. Opinion to consider but agree to disagree. I don't enjoy conflicted exchanges, empty bravado or egoistical chest pounding. It's never personal, tribalistic or with malice. Frank by nature, means, I never bend the truth. Views are to broaden understanding - Updated: Nov 2021.

Guest Fangirl
Posted
6 hours ago, upshot said:

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He's a hebephilia, Mr nose it all.

Posted

It's one thing to be gay but another to prey on young impressionable minds with the lure of quick easy cash, whether consensual or not. See his low ball offers and you can tell he was out to cheat. He can never even get 15 minutes with gays for pay at Chinatown at that kinda rate

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Dignity is a facade we wear to hide our ignorance.

Posted
On 08/05/2017 at 8:49 PM, jackster21 said:

Fuckin gross to see these young guys getting fked by those old man zz

He is only 42 years old. Why call him old man? He also not in mature gay category. 

Guest Fanboi
Posted
On 09/05/2017 at 6:12 PM, Guest Gay face malaysian said:

The mother looks like this 

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Dear gay face Malaysian guest, please be respectful and not post any of @upshot facepic in this public forum, thank you.

Posted

 

On 5/9/2017 at 1:24 PM, CKW said:

It's very likely that this is not how he looks like. Firstly, very few men in their 40s look like that. 

 

Secondly, as Bigdanbeam said, the report mentioned that he uses a fake FB profile picture.

 

 

545961_1378638352372000_1889315167_n.jpg

 

On 5/10/2017 at 9:42 PM, Lonelyboy90 said:

so its him. no wonder i find his name familiar..

 

No No No .... Is not him.

 

That guy picture was published in Xin Ming paper on Mon, Tue or Wed. Look like a rough manly guy.

 

 

Guest 蛇精男
Posted
1 hour ago, Guest Fanboi said:

 

 

Dear gay face Malaysian guest, please be respectful and not post any of @upshot facepic in this public forum, thank you.

Laughing my facking face off

 

Posted

2 wrongs dont make 1 right. while the accused is a devil, these underage prostitues r no angels themselves.

 

Much as we love money, it doesnt mean we have the right to go rob banks.

鍾意就好,理佢男定女

 

never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want.

 

结缘不结

不解缘

 

After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say.

 

看穿不说穿

Posted (edited)
15 hours ago, Guest Fangirl said:

He's a hebephilia, Mr nose it all.

You touch a kid too young.. YOU DIE. YES I AM A KNOW IT ALL and MORE SENSE TO LEAVE A KID ALONE TO GROW UP A CHILD AND NOT A SEX OBJECT FOR SICK FUCKS LIKE YOU.

Edited by upshot

** Comments are my opinions, same as yours. It's not a 'Be-All-and-End-All' view. Intent's to thought-provoke, validate, reiterate and yes, even correct. Opinion to consider but agree to disagree. I don't enjoy conflicted exchanges, empty bravado or egoistical chest pounding. It's never personal, tribalistic or with malice. Frank by nature, means, I never bend the truth. Views are to broaden understanding - Updated: Nov 2021.

Posted

What is the legal age for sex in Singapore? What are some common sexual offences in Singapore?

Pursuant to section 376A of the Penal Code, sexual penetration of a minor under 16 is an offence even if the minor has given consent. Both male and female minors are covered by this provision. In addition, according to the definitions of the aforementioned section, sex consists of sexual penetration, and includes vaginal, oral or anal sex.

In addition, commercial sex with minors under 18 is also a punishable offence pursuant to section 376B of the Penal Code. Furthermore, under section 376C of the Penal Code, Singapore citizens or Permanent Residents who engage in commercial sex with a minor under 18 will still be liable even if the acts were done in a location outside of Singapore.

With regards to the common protest: “I did not know she was below 16”, section 377D of the Penal Code clearly states that:

  1. If the offender is above the age of 21, he cannot claim that he mistakenly believed the minor was not underage as a defence.
  2. If the offender is below the age of 21, he may claim that he mistakenly believed the minor was not underage as a defence, but only if the minor was of the opposite sex, and if the offender has not previously committed any similar sexual offences before.

In Singapore, pursuant to section 375 of the Penal Code, rape is committed when a man has sexual intercourse with a woman without her consent. Sex is also rape when the victim is a girl under the age of 14, regardless of whether she had given her consent.

Sending sexually suggestive messages (see sexting laws in Singapore) to a person under 16 year old may result in a prosecution under section 7 of the Children and Young Persons Act (CYPA) or section s76E of the Penal Code.

Molest is prosecuted as the offence of outrage of modesty in Singapore when it involves criminal force, pursuant to section 354 of the Penal Code.

Incest, sex with animals or corpses, child prostitution, and child pornography are also punishable offences in Singapore (refer to the section on sexual offences in the Penal Code for more information). Intercourse between two men is prohibited under section 377A of the Penal Code. This controversial section has received much attention from the public, with some calling for its repeal due to its alleged discrimination against the gay community.

The quantum of punishment for each respective sexual offence, such as the length of imprisonment or sum of fine, can be found in the Penal Code under the relevant sections for each offence. The exact punishment that will be handed down by the judge depends on the nature of the offence committed.

Guest Fangurling
Posted
33 minutes ago, upshot said:

You touch a kid too young.. YOU DIE. YES I AM A KNOW IT ALL and MORE SENSE TO LEAVE A KID ALONE TO GROW UP A CHILD AND NOT A SEX OBJECT FOR SICK FUCKS LIKE YOU.

Ooh... getting touchy Feely eh? Launching ballistic missiles in all directions ah? Remember to drink your Chinese herbal tea to cool yourself down hor? Getting heaty cos weather a bit hot these days! Can you sleep at night ? LOL 

Posted (edited)
29 minutes ago, Guest Fangurling said:

Ooh... getting touchy Feely eh? Launching ballistic missiles in all directions ah? Remember to drink your Chinese herbal tea to cool yourself down hor? Getting heaty cos weather a bit hot these days! Can you sleep at night ? LOL 

Yes.. even if all your love ones die for some karmic reason in the worst ways. I can still sleep well. People like you who have no issue with adults fucking children,, you and your family need to be taken out of the equation. Bad genes. Parents are cousins?

Edited by upshot

** Comments are my opinions, same as yours. It's not a 'Be-All-and-End-All' view. Intent's to thought-provoke, validate, reiterate and yes, even correct. Opinion to consider but agree to disagree. I don't enjoy conflicted exchanges, empty bravado or egoistical chest pounding. It's never personal, tribalistic or with malice. Frank by nature, means, I never bend the truth. Views are to broaden understanding - Updated: Nov 2021.

Posted
18 hours ago, snowball said:

What is the legal age for sex in Singapore? What are some common sexual offences in Singapore?

Pursuant to section 376A of the Penal Code, sexual penetration of a minor under 16 is an offence even if the minor has given consent. Both male and female minors are covered by this provision. In addition, according to the definitions of the aforementioned section, sex consists of sexual penetration, and includes vaginal, oral or anal sex.

In addition, commercial sex with minors under 18 is also a punishable offence pursuant to section 376B of the Penal Code. Furthermore, under section 376C of the Penal Code, Singapore citizens or Permanent Residents who engage in commercial sex with a minor under 18 will still be liable even if the acts were done in a location outside of Singapore.

With regards to the common protest: “I did not know she was below 16”, section 377D of the Penal Code clearly states that:

  1. If the offender is above the age of 21, he cannot claim that he mistakenly believed the minor was not underage as a defence.
  2. If the offender is below the age of 21, he may claim that he mistakenly believed the minor was not underage as a defence, but only if the minor was of the opposite sex, and if the offender has not previously committed any similar sexual offences before.

In Singapore, pursuant to section 375 of the Penal Code, rape is committed when a man has sexual intercourse with a woman without her consent. Sex is also rape when the victim is a girl under the age of 14, regardless of whether she had given her consent.

Sending sexually suggestive messages (see sexting laws in Singapore) to a person under 16 year old may result in a prosecution under section 7 of the Children and Young Persons Act (CYPA) or section s76E of the Penal Code.

Molest is prosecuted as the offence of outrage of modesty in Singapore when it involves criminal force, pursuant to section 354 of the Penal Code.

Incest, sex with animals or corpses, child prostitution, and child pornography are also punishable offences in Singapore (refer to the section on sexual offences in the Penal Code for more information). Intercourse between two men is prohibited under section 377A of the Penal Code. This controversial section has received much attention from the public, with some calling for its repeal due to its alleged discrimination against the gay community.

The quantum of punishment for each respective sexual offence, such as the length of imprisonment or sum of fine, can be found in the Penal Code under the relevant sections for each offence. The exact punishment that will be handed down by the judge depends on the nature of the offence committed.

weird thing is we can find ppl here into jc and secondary school boys. aren't they scared of the cane ??

Posted
On 2017-5-13 at 4:52 PM, Balestier said:

weird thing is we can find ppl here into jc and secondary school boys. aren't they scared of the cane ??

most people thought that they are the lucky one and never get caught till one day ...  perhaps ... :)

Posted
10 minutes ago, snowball said:

most people thought that they are the lucky one and never get caught till one day ...  perhaps ... :)

history will catch up with them. read many cases in papers that happened many years ago

Posted

Man jailed 9 months for stalking ex-boyfriend again

This is Tan Boon Wah's second jail sentence for stalking the same victim.

 

SINGAPORE: The day he was released from prison for stalking his ex-boyfriend, Tan Boon Wah turned up at his doorstep, ringing the doorbell and loitering around the area in an attempt to make contact again. The victim called the police, and he was subsequently arrested.

 

Tan was on Wednesday (May 17) jailed nine months for unlawfully stalking the victim on at least two occasions from October to December 2016, after his release from prison on Oct 1. He had already been sentenced to six months’ jail in August last year for unlawfully stalking his ex-boyfriend for a year, in what prosecutors called a “suffocating” intrusion into the victim’s life.

 

Tan harassed his former boyfriend, then a 22-year-old full-time National Serviceman, every day from May 2015 until May 2016:

  • Every morning at 6am, Tan would loiter outside the victim’s flat, waiting for him to leave the house at 7.30am. He would also try to make conversation with him. The victim’s father was forced to escort his son out of the house every morning, and suffered “anger issues” due to daily confrontations with Tan, prosecutors said.
  •  
  • Every evening at about 5pm, Tan would wait outside the victim’s army camp at Jurong to confront him again.
  • Then, every evening, Tan would return to loiter outside the victim’s flat to wait for him to come home. He would confront him again, and remain outside until about 11pm or until the lights in the unit were turned off for the night. The victim’s mother became paranoid and had difficulty sleeping, worried that Tan remained outside her home and could eavesdrop on the family’s conversations. The family installed a CCTV camera outside their flat.
  •  

"I WON'T GIVE UP ... NOT EVEN IF I'M THROWN IN JAIL"

 

When he was not physically stalking the victim, Tan harassed him via email or would call him incessantly. In one day, the victim received up to 1,408 calls from Tan.

 

In an email to the victim on Aug 18, 2015, Tan said: “I’m sure u’ll be tired out by this soon. But I won’t ever give up trying to find u … not in this life. Not even if I get thrown into jail. I’d rather be dead … than to give up trying to look for u or trying to be friends with u. (You’re) gonna be stuck with dealing with me for life.”

 

In a separate email on Feb 29, 2016, Tan sent the victim two nude photographs he had taken of him, without his consent, during their relationship. Tan wanted to blackmail the victim and force him to reply to his emails.

 

The victim lodged a total of 22 police reports in the year he was stalked by Tan.

 

He also changed his phone number repeatedly and subscribed to a second phone line in attempts to shake Tan off, but was unsuccessful. This was because Tan called Singtel to ask for the victim’s new phone number, and got it when he provided the latter’s NRIC number and other personal particulars.

For this, Tan faced a charged under the Personal Data Protection Act.

 

AN "OMINOUS" WARNING

He was finally arrested on Mar 30, 2016. and remanded at the Institute of Mental Health. Psychiatrist Dr Stephen Phang said Tan was fit to plead and not of unsound mind.

 

The psychiatrist’s report also contained a warning: “It is manifestly apparent that (Tan’s) recurrent attempts to contact and communicate with the alleged victim, as well as his self-declared admission that he would seek out the other party (immediately upon his release) … should necessarily be regarded in a somewhat ominous light, as the possibility of future harm to the other party cannot be safely excluded.”

The psychiatrist was proven right.

 

COME TO YOUR SENSES, ACCEPT COUNSELLING: JUDGE

Upon his release from prison on Oct 1, Tan went straight to his ex’s flat. The man called the police, who told Tan to leave. But he refused, and when he was spotted still loitering in the area nearly two hours later, the victim called the police again. Tan was arrested.

 

Out on bail, Tan continued to harass his ex-boyfriend of four years by loitering outside his flat, ringing the doorbell and following him each time he left the house, pestering the victim to unblock him on social media.

 

Tan was arrested again on Dec 8. Denied bail, he spent Christmas in jail. In January 2017, after he had been released on bail, Tan posted links to videos of the victim on an online forum, also commenting publicly about his ongoing case.

 

In court on Wednesday, District Judge Kenneth Yap said it is “clear” Tan is not remorseful. He pointed to a letter Tan submitted to the court, in which he stated his desire to see the victim again. “You are clearly not getting the message,” Judge Yap said. He made Tan promise “never to see the victim or bother him again”.

 

After a moment’s pause, Tan grudgingly replied: “I will undertake that.”

 

Deputy Public Prosecutor Jason Chua called for a nine-month jail term, saying Tan’s previous six-month term did nothing to deter him.  

Judge Yap agreed, but urged DPP Chua to make arrangements with the prison service to provide counselling to Tan. “This is the best way to solve the issue”, the judge said. He told Tan to “come to your senses. Relationships start and relationships end. If you don’t face the truth, you will cause yourself, and the victim, greater damage”.

 

The judge also ordered Tan to serve the remaining 60 days of his previous six-month stint, making a total jail term of nine months and 60 days.

The victim was present in court, and seen leaving in a huff after Tan was sentenced.

 

For each charge of unlawful stalking, Tan could have been jailed up to two years and/or fined up to S$10,000. 

 

Guest Rabbit
Posted

Fatal Attraction is real.  How old is Tan?  So immatured.

Posted

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鍾意就好,理佢男定女

 

never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want.

 

结缘不结

不解缘

 

After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say.

 

看穿不说穿

Posted
5 minutes ago, Guest Rabbit said:

Fatal Attraction is real.  How old is Tan?  So immatured.

Could be too much of love.he is human with feeling too.hmmmm

Posted

...pity him, shouldn't they just settle it by face to face? Seems to me its the ex-bf just simply running away from him.

 

Posted

I won't be surprised if Boon Wah ex bf is a hunk but a chub?

 

seriously? Go to jail because of stalking a chub?

Guest Bonfire
Posted

He has a clear mind and he still chose to harass the other party in several ways. He tramples other's boundary without care nor respect for others. His selfish and unlawful behaviour has no place in a civil society where every human deserves to be treated with respect and dignity. 

Guest 空遗恨
Posted
蝶恋花
【宋】苏轼
  
花褪残红青杏小。
燕子飞时,
绿水人家绕。
枝上柳绵吹又少,
天涯何处无芳草。 

墙里秋千墙外道。
墙外行人,
墙里佳人笑。
笑渐不闻声渐悄,
多情却被无情恼。 
Guest 陽光總在風雨後
Posted

Really Hope Boon Wah can get over this failed relationship and learn to live and love again.

 

You look like a devoted decent guy la. There is always someone out there who loves and treasures you. 

Posted

This is an unfortunate incident for both guys.  If there were friends who reached out to help, this may have been averted. 

 

Both are victims of their own action. 

 

Let us keep this as a reminder to always be mindful of our own actions and never be rash.  

 

I wish both of them the courage to start life afresh and if you know them personally,  give them the encouragement they need.  

 

 

Guest Guest visitor
Posted

Really pity this guy. Move on bro. Life goes on. Wish you good luck for a better relationship in future.

Take care.

Guest Laugh See River Lake
Posted
6 hours ago, Guest 空遗恨 said:

蝶恋花
【宋】苏轼
  
花褪残红青杏小。
燕子飞时,
绿水人家绕。
枝上柳绵吹又少,
天涯何处无芳草。 

墙里秋千墙外道。
墙外行人,
墙里佳人笑。
笑渐不闻声渐悄,
多情却被无情恼。 

Your poem shows the problem with some gays in general, they have this soap opera romance princess syndrome. The more drama the more they like. The more the papers and social media like here report, the more is the audience for his soap opera. So how can he resist when he has no life.

 

This gay circle is very dramatic. There are those very promiscuous ones and those soap opera romantic ones. I can only Laugh See River Lake. Unfortunately, I'm part of this circus whether I like it or not. 人在江湖身不由己。 Sometimes I'm one side then I got fed and become the other side then dingdong dingdong confused. 

I'm sure many here are like that.

Guest Guest
Posted
4 minutes ago, starlioned said:

Love twisted to the point of psychotic obsession like TBW is not something anyone should have to endure or wish for. This is not love. 

I don't think Jeremy is a saint too ..surely also cannot defend Jeremy .

Guest Laugh See River Lake
Posted
5 minutes ago, snowball said:

事情不能单看表面,可怜之人必有可恨之处。

The romantic one here.

Guest Guest
Posted

When I was living in China, it happened to me also. Had a bf for 7 years then the relationship turn boring and sour. I asked for a break up. For 2 years he had been stalking me. We had several confrontations until one day, I said, it was really over for us and I'm trying to move on. Then I moved in KL to start a new life. I received a news from his aunt that he committed suicide and died. It was painful for me to be the cause of death.

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