EQUINOXx Posted August 8, 2017 Report Share Posted August 8, 2017 6 minutes ago, Guest Lumpar said: Fake picture la Eh hello? I'm not that kind of person ok? That is really me in my pic so don't anyhow accuse people of using fake picture ok? Thank you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EQUINOXx Posted August 8, 2017 Report Share Posted August 8, 2017 (edited) 1 hour ago, cutejack said: Actually the fela is an idiot.sorry to say that.u look so cute with thick eyebrow n he doesn't like u.if i wasin his shoe.first time meet will initiate a long n passionate sex. Hahah sadly even if I'm the hottest man on earth, i think he will still reject.. he's still straight Just like how I will never have sex with the hottest girl in the world for no reason haha Anyway thanks alot for your compliment.. thick eye brows are really a blessing or a curse hahaha Edited August 8, 2017 by EQUINOXx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted August 8, 2017 Report Share Posted August 8, 2017 43 minutes ago, EQUINOXx said: Hahah sadly even if I'm the hottest man on earth, i think he will still reject.. he's still straight Just like how I will never have sex with the hottest girl in the world for no reason haha Anyway thanks alot for your compliment.. thick eye brows are really a blessing or a curse hahaha Thick eyebrow is nice for a chn.hehe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EQUINOXx Posted August 8, 2017 Report Share Posted August 8, 2017 51 minutes ago, cutejack said: Thick eyebrow is nice for a chn.hehe Aww if only everyone felt this way.. Alot of people dont think I look chinese enough even though I'm pure chinese hahaha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted August 8, 2017 Report Share Posted August 8, 2017 7 hours ago, EQUINOXx said: Aww if only everyone felt this way.. Alot of people dont think I look chinese enough even though I'm pure chinese hahaha Take the one who likes u la.ahem.lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Geralt Posted October 9, 2017 Report Share Posted October 9, 2017 The first time I talked to him, he was new in the office. I’m not the approachable type but I really got interested in him the first time I saw him. It was on my smoke break and I found him sitting alone. So I introduced myself, and did small talk. Then as we talked, it turns out we have the same interests: food, movies, games. We talked about a lot of stuff about our work, our passion, and mostly a lot about our common interests. And then he asked for my number so he can chat me up whenever he wants to smoke (or hangout). After then we have smoke break and lunch together, even sometimes dinner when we both get off work the same time. Then one smoke break, we were talking about good places to eat here in the city, and then he casually talked about this good place that he went to w/ his girlfriend. I was like “ooohkay, dude is straight and has a gf”. But then what was I thinking, dude is cute and obviously he has a girlfriend. I didn’t mind at first, but would have been awesome if he was single (and better if he turns out to be bicurious). So we hangout a lot, and can say we are very close now. But it’s also hard for me because he’s like the perfect guy, but the one guy I can never have. It wasnt even easy to ignore him because we see each other everyday, and I to talk to him every night (yeah we call/chat each other every night). I kinda distanced myself, just try lah to just not hang anymore and just to forget these feelings that wont ever reciprocated. I stopped going on smoke breaks when he invites me, and just ignore his chats and calls. But he somehow notices it and tries really hard to get my attention and wants ro know whats wrong. And I always end up saying “sorry was busy”. But I felt guilty about it so I tried to make it up to him by going for a dinner. He then asked me what was wrong, but I didn’t tell him of course, instead I just reassured him nothing to worry about. I cannot confidently say I cant fall for a straight guy but every time I see and talk to him, these feelings cannot easily be ignored. I sometimes even want to tell him that I’m bisexual but I don’t know how he will react. I guess it doesnt matter if he knows or not, but I don’t know how to stop feeling this way. He’s genuinely a great guy, and I sincerely believe also he wants to be good friends. I mean, is this even worth thinking about it? Actually falling for this great guy? How do I control this feeling? When will I be able to stop feeling this way about him and still be friends with him? Is it a lost cause to fall for a straight guy? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blowmenow Posted October 9, 2017 Report Share Posted October 9, 2017 he has a gf doesn't mean that he cant be a bi I dun think u should avoid him just go along, and see wat happen good thing u have expectation that it could be a lost cause to fall for straight guy (supposedly, which u cant tell actually) just bear that in mind and go along its a safe game Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest concern Posted October 9, 2017 Report Share Posted October 9, 2017 14 minutes ago, Geralt said: The first time I talked to him, he was new in the office. I’m not the approachable type but I really got interested in him the first time I saw him. It was on my smoke break and I found him sitting alone. So I introduced myself, and did small talk. Then as we talked, it turns out we have the same interests: food, movies, games. We talked about a lot of stuff about our work, our passion, and mostly a lot about our common interests. And then he asked for my number so he can chat me up whenever he wants to smoke (or hangout). After then we have smoke break and lunch together, even sometimes dinner when we both get off work the same time. Then one smoke break, we were talking about good places to eat here in the city, and then he casually talked about this good place that he went to w/ his girlfriend. I was like “ooohkay, dude is straight and has a gf”. But then what was I thinking, dude is cute and obviously he has a girlfriend. I didn’t mind at first, but would have been awesome if he was single (and better if he turns out to be bicurious). So we hangout a lot, and can say we are very close now. But it’s also hard for me because he’s like the perfect guy, but the one guy I can never have. It wasnt even easy to ignore him because we see each other everyday, and I to talk to him every night (yeah we call/chat each other every night). I kinda distanced myself, just try lah to just not hang anymore and just to forget these feelings that wont ever reciprocated. I stopped going on smoke breaks when he invites me, and just ignore his chats and calls. But he somehow notices it and tries really hard to get my attention and wants ro know whats wrong. And I always end up saying “sorry was busy”. But I felt guilty about it so I tried to make it up to him by going for a dinner. He then asked me what was wrong, but I didn’t tell him of course, instead I just reassured him nothing to worry about. I cannot confidently say I cant fall for a straight guy but every time I see and talk to him, these feelings cannot easily be ignored. I sometimes even want to tell him that I’m bisexual but I don’t know how he will react. I guess it doesnt matter if he knows or not, but I don’t know how to stop feeling this way. He’s genuinely a great guy, and I sincerely believe also he wants to be good friends. I mean, is this even worth thinking about it? Actually falling for this great guy? How do I control this feeling? When will I be able to stop feeling this way about him and still be friends with him? Is it a lost cause to fall for a straight guy? My idea behind these intentions is just imaginary fascinations of unreciprocate,not mutual sexual orientation motive situations.You have the right to have liking on him but that does not mean he can understand you from whom and what angle you are.He is a man just like us,there is no certainty of what from appeal,and approached of direct interactions to have specific answer to it.He may at the same time like you as a person too.As from what you mention going for smoke break and having to go for meal companionships.Most likely,he had found out that you may have liking on him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest concern Posted October 9, 2017 Report Share Posted October 9, 2017 I have a situation on falling for this guy whom i saw too.It was a kind of chemistry that i least expect it would turn out to be an admiration through a period of time.May it called love at fitst sight,or if it was a long battle fight for this love whatsoever.I have nothing to say that i just like him.I have from the first month;imaginary of he is my bf,the second month;i want to have a chat that will kiss,the third,forth and fifth months;i picture there is a body contacts of mutual hugging,the sixth,seventh and eight months;i thought i will be able to saw him outside through this long battle fight.Lastly,the ninth and remaining months summoning for the year;i masturbated so frequently about all the fantasies with him,and my tougue sticks out so often leaving my pillow with so much saliva.I just like him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
destinationx Posted October 9, 2017 Report Share Posted October 9, 2017 (edited) He's straight/bi, highly possible it aint gonna end well for you man... Edited October 9, 2017 by destinationx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest brokenbefore Posted October 9, 2017 Report Share Posted October 9, 2017 1 hour ago, destinationx said: He's straight/bi, highly possible it aint gonna end well for you man... true. I also fell for a straight guy before. ended heartbroken for two years. now I stopped thinking of love and resigned to the fact love is just not for closet gays like me. sometimes I wonder why must I be gay?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fab Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 Based on what u 've said, it's totally One sided. Life's complicated, don't complicate it further. blowmenow, Ironrod and Matt Han 3 Quote 鍾意就好,理佢男定女 never argue with the guests. let them bark all they want. 结缘不结怨 解怨不解缘 After I have said what I wanna say, I don't care what you say. 看穿不说穿 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Ben Ben Ben Posted October 10, 2017 Popular Post Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 Don’t waste time on a straight guy! it is like waiting for a ship in changi airport! it is like waiting for a plane at harbor front! never and ever happen! give up ba! blowmenow, kingbitch, Arthur and 2 others 2 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingbitch Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 7 minutes ago, Ben Ben Ben said: it is like waiting for a ship in changi airport! it is like waiting for a plane at harbor front! I'm afraid I'm going to regularly quote you from now on. Arthur 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Geralt Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 Yeah I know that. It’s just that hanging out with him more often doesn’t really help. And he always knows if something’s up with me if suddenly I change my actions towards him. It’s very confusing for me as well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HarrizZhafran Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 7 hours ago, Geralt said: The first time I talked to him, he was new in the office. I’m not the approachable type but I really got interested in him the first time I saw him. It was on my smoke break and I found him sitting alone. So I introduced myself, and did small talk. Then as we talked, it turns out we have the same interests: food, movies, games. We talked about a lot of stuff about our work, our passion, and mostly a lot about our common interests. And then he asked for my number so he can chat me up whenever he wants to smoke (or hangout). After then we have smoke break and lunch together, even sometimes dinner when we both get off work the same time. Then one smoke break, we were talking about good places to eat here in the city, and then he casually talked about this good place that he went to w/ his girlfriend. I was like “ooohkay, dude is straight and has a gf”. But then what was I thinking, dude is cute and obviously he has a girlfriend. I didn’t mind at first, but would have been awesome if he was single (and better if he turns out to be bicurious). So we hangout a lot, and can say we are very close now. But it’s also hard for me because he’s like the perfect guy, but the one guy I can never have. It wasnt even easy to ignore him because we see each other everyday, and I to talk to him every night (yeah we call/chat each other every night). I kinda distanced myself, just try lah to just not hang anymore and just to forget these feelings that wont ever reciprocated. I stopped going on smoke breaks when he invites me, and just ignore his chats and calls. But he somehow notices it and tries really hard to get my attention and wants ro know whats wrong. And I always end up saying “sorry was busy”. But I felt guilty about it so I tried to make it up to him by going for a dinner. He then asked me what was wrong, but I didn’t tell him of course, instead I just reassured him nothing to worry about. I cannot confidently say I cant fall for a straight guy but every time I see and talk to him, these feelings cannot easily be ignored. I sometimes even want to tell him that I’m bisexual but I don’t know how he will react. I guess it doesnt matter if he knows or not, but I don’t know how to stop feeling this way. He’s genuinely a great guy, and I sincerely believe also he wants to be good friends. I mean, is this even worth thinking about it? Actually falling for this great guy? How do I control this feeling? When will I be able to stop feeling this way about him and still be friends with him? Is it a lost cause to fall for a straight guy? i know how you feel.. i got emotionally attached to guys before too and it was hell because i can't confess to them no matter how much i want to. avoiding will be painful, so i just hang out with them and prayed hard the pain will stop. of course, talking about it may help you feel better too. over time, my feelings for the guys faded. hopefully yours will too? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MurphyL Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 It is a well balance act - one hand we want to develop the relationship to the next level, on the other hand revealing our true identity might caused negative disruption to the relationship which is an irreversible act. There is no one rule that can be followed. Each situation, each relationship, each person is different. It really depends on how you value the friendship/relationship or whatever it is, and how much risk you want to take in getting what you wanted. This is all part of life I Guess. We are human after all. Pursue happinenss is a life -time Mission. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Geralt Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 (edited) On 10/10/2017 at 9:37 AM, HarrizZhafran said: i know how you feel.. i got emotionally attached to guys before too and it was hell because i can't confess to them no matter how much i want to. avoiding will be painful, so i just hang out with them and prayed hard the pain will stop. of course, talking about it may help you feel better too. over time, my feelings for the guys faded. hopefully yours will too? Yeah I hope so it will just fade away because I also do enjoy hanging out with him. But damn its very hard sia .. just looking at him makes it very hard to take the pain away. And then I asked him “why don’t you hangout with your other friends?” He said “they’re not very interesting, but I’m interested in you” then he wrapped his arms around my shoulders. I was really shocked and both of us just laughed about it again. But then it stuck with me the whole evening. Why would he say or joke something like that given the conversations that we had. I’m not sure if he’s just the joker kind, or maybe he really do find me interesting. Or maybe I’m just overthinking this. But it’s not helping for me because it makes things confusing. Edited December 2, 2017 by Geralt Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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HarrizZhafran Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 39 minutes ago, Geralt said: Yeah I hope so it will just fade away because I also do enjoy hanging out with him. But damn its very hard sia .. just looking at him makes it very hard to take the pain away. There’s also one time that he kinda joke around that his gf is interested in watching some cabaret shows. It makes him wonder who the straight one is in the relationship. I know it was a joke la so I just laughed at it. And then I asked him “why don’t you hangout with your other friends?” He said “they’re not very interesting, but I’m interested in you” then he wrapped his arms around my shoulders. I was really shocked and both of us just laughed about it again. But then it stuck with me the whole evening. Why would he say or joke something like that given the conversations that we had. I’m not sure if he’s just the joker kind, or maybe he really do find me interesting. Or maybe I’m just overthinking this. But it’s not helping for me because it makes things confusing. i didn't have that sort of experience with the guys i liked before. though some of the guys i liked were pretty touchy so it was harder for me to get over them. maybe he can just be your best friend at most? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeanMature Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 For straight guys, only NSA fun. Once in a blue moon when wife got pregnant or girlfriend on overseas trip, look him up. Quote Don't read and response to guests' post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Geralt Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 3 minutes ago, LeanMature said: For straight guys, only NSA fun. Once in a blue moon when wife got pregnant or girlfriend on overseas trip, look him up. That’s what my friend tell me as well. He said to just hook up with him coz maybe what I’m feeling is just horniness lol. It would be nice tho if he’s ever open for it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HarrizZhafran Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 3 minutes ago, Geralt said: That’s what my friend tell me as well. He said to just hook up with him coz maybe what I’m feeling is just horniness lol. It would be nice tho if he’s ever open for it. truth be told.. a straight guy wouldn't entertain the thoughts of having fun with another guy unless he's secretly bi or gay. so unless he is either, i think your friend sees you as a brother or his best friend. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest sucks Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 The pain will not cease if you never found the right formula for one individual.Love is blind,so are your senses now.There might be still that inch of possibilty to fight for this love.Continue to go smoking since you are a bisexual.Your bisexuality can keep you away from that bad dreams from time Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gstringuy26 Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 No wonder I had this close friend of mine for so many years, he would always asked me out together in his car and drive me around to new places and hangouts. One fine day he asked me to a hotel and I thought what the hell 2 guys going to a hotel for? lol...When we checked in, he was just lying in bed and waiting for something to happen but then he didn't strip naked and I was a dead straight! In less than 30 mins he suggested to checked out and we both checked out and nothing happens. Most likely he didn't want to cross the line or else he would just frighten me away! lol Chubby_1986 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HarrizZhafran Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 2 minutes ago, gstringuy26 said: No wonder I had this close friend of mine for so many years, he would always asked me out together in his car and drive me around to new places and hangouts. One fine day he asked me to a hotel and I thought what the hell 2 guys going to a hotel for? lol...When we checked in, he was just lying in bed and waiting for something to happen but then he didn't strip naked and I was a dead straight! In less than 30 mins he suggested to checked out and we both checked out and nothing happens. Most likely he didn't want to cross the line or else he would just frighten me away! lol if i were you i'll find it very weird.. but i may have guessed what was on his mind. he should have confessed though.. that would have cleared things up. maybe he was afraid of rejection and the possibility of your friendship disintegrating. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ilikeit Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 Same i liked one of my straight close friends, we ws each other and i kept on wanting to tell him that i like him cause i rlly wanna know if he's straight or not. So after a while, i decided to tell him and he was okay with it. He said its normal. But then i distanced myself from him cause i kinda feel sad that his straight and it rlly hurts so our friendship got affected but thankfully now im back close with him but i treat him just as a close friend and nothing more Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guestsober Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 Just be who you are,don't leaked out any of the passionate things you have for him.This may scare him away as i have know of incident of a guy into confronting it to a straight tattoo guy when in army.He talked it out to him after dinner that if he wants to go hotel with him,even of the conversation regarding about asking him about having any gay encounter before.Funny thing is that he did mention yes,moreover he says that he was in a threesome room without participating.Therefore it was a rejection,and nothing happened. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HarrizZhafran Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 43 minutes ago, ilikeit said: Same i liked one of my straight close friends, we ws each other and i kept on wanting to tell him that i like him cause i rlly wanna know if he's straight or not. So after a while, i decided to tell him and he was okay with it. He said its normal. But then i distanced myself from him cause i kinda feel sad that his straight and it rlly hurts so our friendship got affected but thankfully now im back close with him but i treat him just as a close friend and nothing more you're lucky that he was cool about it.. i don't think my friends would be comfortable, had i confessed to them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HarrizZhafran Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 24 minutes ago, Guest guestsober said: Just be who you are,don't leaked out any of the passionate things you have for him.This may scare him away as i have know of incident of a guy into confronting it to a straight tattoo guy when in army.He talked it out to him after dinner that if he wants to go hotel with him,even of the conversation regarding about asking him about having any gay encounter before.Funny thing is that he did mention yes,moreover he says that he was in a threesome room without participating.Therefore it was a rejection,and nothing happened. threesome room without participating? how does that work? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gstringuy26 Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 I already lost 2 closed friends! I think it's all about timing! The first one I, he hinted me but I didn't get the message so he distanced me, the second I made a move and frighten him off! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guestsober Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 No No No Don't get it wrong.As in he was in the room with a threesome group.He says the group of gay,bisexual etc ask him go to the room.But he was not doing it but see. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HarrizZhafran Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 10 minutes ago, gstringuy26 said: I already lost 2 closed friends! I think it's all about timing! The first one I, he hinted me but I didn't get the message so he distanced me, the second I made a move and frighten him off! you didn't try to talk to the first guy after that? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeanMature Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 1 hour ago, HarrizZhafran said: truth be told.. a straight guy wouldn't entertain the thoughts of having fun with another guy unless he's secretly bi or gay. so unless he is either, i think your friend sees you as a brother or his best friend. 1 hour ago, ilikeit said: Same i liked one of my straight close friends, we ws each other and i kept on wanting to tell him that i like him cause i rlly wanna know if he's straight or not. So after a while, i decided to tell him and he was okay with it. He said its normal. But then i distanced myself from him cause i kinda feel sad that his straight and it rlly hurts so our friendship got affected but thankfully now im back close with him but i treat him just as a close friend and nothing more I had said before and say it again, even if he is gay or bisexual, it doesn't mean he will reciprocate your love. Worse still, he may be more sceptical than a straight guy in a normal relationship, if you are not his cup of tea. Quote Don't read and response to guests' post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gstringuy26 Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 6 minutes ago, LeanMature said: I had said before and say it again, even if he is gay or bisexual, it doesn't mean he will reciprocate your love. Worse still, he may be more sceptical than a straight guy in a normal relationship, if you are not his cup of tea. True! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ilikeit Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 10 minutes ago, LeanMature said: I had said before and say it again, even if he is gay or bisexual, it doesn't mean he will reciprocate your love. Worse still, he may be more sceptical than a straight guy in a normal relationship, if you are not his cup of tea. Yeah Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gstringuy26 Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 49 minutes ago, HarrizZhafran said: you didn't try to talk to the first guy after that? I was dead straight then, I would just turn away even if he was a bi! It was like a taboo then! lol.. Until I try a guy masseur one fine day that I begin to discover guy2guy sex..after that then slowly understand and accepted it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest sucks Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 Well i am just curious that a guy and a gay,what does a gay mean to a guy when there is commitment for the guy outside with a gf.After all it is just about sex since you are a bisexual.Are you saying that you want a relationship with him as both agreed to have an extra marital relation in conjuntion of not letting the other party esp his with a gf to know about it.There is still time to hold back and put down your load. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest young_prof Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 I wasted much of my time falling in love with straight guys who cant love me back (4 straight guys). I realised that i should just choose to love someone who is gay or bi that can accept my love at least i spent my time to love that person and loved me back, instead of wasting my time in one way love. Time is Gold. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HarrizZhafran Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 13 minutes ago, gstringuy26 said: I was dead straight then, I would just turn away even if he was a bi! It was like a taboo then! lol.. Until I try a guy masseur one fine day that I begin to discover guy2guy sex..after that then slowly understand and accepted it! i see.. how was the massage Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HarrizZhafran Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 Just now, Guest young_prof said: I wasted much of my time falling in love with straight guys who cant love me back (4 straight guys). I realised that i should just choose to love someone who is gay or bi that can accept my love at least i spent my time to love that person and loved me back, instead of wasting my time in one way love. Time is Gold. true.. i've liked 6 straight guys. one of them got married and i feel bad for envying his wife Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest concern Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 Choosing a bi is like delaying the bisexual to go for the right girl.Unless the bisexual cheat on you,i mean the girl ops i mean you...aiyo so confusing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Dawson Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 5 hours ago, HarrizZhafran said: truth be told.. a straight guy wouldn't entertain the thoughts of having fun with another guy unless he's secretly bi or gay. so unless he is either, i think your friend sees you as a brother or his best friend. More likely the former though. Damn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HarrizZhafran Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 1 hour ago, Guest Dawson said: More likely the former though. Damn one of the guys i liked was really screwing me up mentally. he was very touchy but when i so much as pat his shoulder he'll go bat shit on me. he was horribly homophobic too in my opinion. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
auscent Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 7 hours ago, Guest young_prof said: I wasted much of my time falling in love with straight guys who cant love me back (4 straight guys). So did I (3 straight guys). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 reminds me of my own exp... just trying to be the special one whom he texts back. that must mean something right?? well it didnt for me (3 times) so prepare ur heart for the ache when he gets closer to someone more impt than you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Dawson Posted October 10, 2017 Report Share Posted October 10, 2017 37 minutes ago, Guest Guest said: reminds me of my own exp... just trying to be the special one whom he texts back. that must mean something right?? well it didnt for me (3 times) so prepare ur heart for the ache when he gets closer to someone more impt than you Well he already has a girlfriend, so.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted October 11, 2017 Report Share Posted October 11, 2017 Not a lost but waste of time unless u wanted to pass time . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcoc Posted October 11, 2017 Report Share Posted October 11, 2017 On 10/10/2017 at 2:00 AM, Geralt said: The first time I talked to him, he was new in the office. I’m not the approachable type but I really got interested in him the first time I saw him. It was on my smoke break and I found him sitting alone. So I introduced myself, and did small talk. Then as we talked, it turns out we have the same interests: food, movies, games. We talked about a lot of stuff about our work, our passion, and mostly a lot about our common interests. And then he asked for my number so he can chat me up whenever he wants to smoke (or hangout). After then we have smoke break and lunch together, even sometimes dinner when we both get off work the same time. Then one smoke break, we were talking about good places to eat here in the city, and then he casually talked about this good place that he went to w/ his girlfriend. I was like “ooohkay, dude is straight and has a gf”. But then what was I thinking, dude is cute and obviously he has a girlfriend. I didn’t mind at first, but would have been awesome if he was single (and better if he turns out to be bicurious). So we hangout a lot, and can say we are very close now. But it’s also hard for me because he’s like the perfect guy, but the one guy I can never have. It wasnt even easy to ignore him because we see each other everyday, and I to talk to him every night (yeah we call/chat each other every night). I kinda distanced myself, just try lah to just not hang anymore and just to forget these feelings that wont ever reciprocated. I stopped going on smoke breaks when he invites me, and just ignore his chats and calls. But he somehow notices it and tries really hard to get my attention and wants ro know whats wrong. And I always end up saying “sorry was busy”. But I felt guilty about it so I tried to make it up to him by going for a dinner. He then asked me what was wrong, but I didn’t tell him of course, instead I just reassured him nothing to worry about. I cannot confidently say I cant fall for a straight guy but every time I see and talk to him, these feelings cannot easily be ignored. I sometimes even want to tell him that I’m bisexual but I don’t know how he will react. I guess it doesnt matter if he knows or not, but I don’t know how to stop feeling this way. He’s genuinely a great guy, and I sincerely believe also he wants to be good friends. I mean, is this even worth thinking about it? Actually falling for this great guy? How do I control this feeling? When will I be able to stop feeling this way about him and still be friends with him? Is it a lost cause to fall for a straight guy? I can see that the only reason that trouble you is... You can’t have him... You can’t own him... Ask yourself if he is your bf, what would you want from him that in this current relationship is unable to provide? I believe you already have the answer... Just be true to yourself... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doncoin Posted October 11, 2017 Report Share Posted October 11, 2017 Stop torturing yourself. You cannot turn anyone gay, just as it would not be possible to turn you straight. Quote Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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