My Crush Is Straight + Is it wrong to Fall for A Str8 Guy (Compiled)

[fab]

Some curious guys may not mind gay sex.

 

But likely to be dead fishes.

 

[Firday]

just re think the situation, what if you are gay and he try to turn you straight, you think so easy meh.

 

leave him alone, find other to stop torture yourself.

 

i m sure in bw, there are plenty who dun mind to know you.

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Firday]

7 minutes ago, fab said:

Some curious guys may not mind gay sex.

 

But likely to be dead fishes.

 

dead fish but also treat you as door mat too....unless with good skill may encore.

 

still door mat too

 

 

[marcoc]

If that person is not cute... Then the thread owner will not have such problem... No physical attraction...

 

But is it worth it to destroy a friendship just because you want to own that person... ???

 

Like everyone said... He is str8... respect his preference and be his best friend... if you can give up your idea of physically having him...

 

 

[tomcat]

instead of having a motive subconciously (cute, right criteria etc etc),

why not just be sincere and have him as a friend???

 

esp these days, amongst straight guys, they are more than happy to have a close bro-friend.

i've had some of these obviously straight guys chat in the gym, become friendly and gym together,

sometimes even ask if want to hang out after, take number, chit-chat, messaging.

 

I know that they are straight, just keep it as a sincere friendship.

you will never fall for each other, you will never have drunken kiss.

you will never end up in bed, you will never go further than friends.

 

accept that, and all your inner problems will disappear.

you can still be who you are & still be happy for another person, despite their orientation.

 

this is the biggest test of who you are as a person actually.

being open and happy for others, with no compromise to your dignity and sense of self.

 

the major ingredient for disaster in any kind of relationship/friendship is expectation.

[Guest Clifford]

15 minutes ago, tomcat said:

instead of having a motive subconciously (cute, right criteria etc etc),

why not just be sincere and have him as a friend???

 

esp these days, amongst straight guys, they are more than happy to have a close bro-friend.

i've had some of these obviously straight guys chat in the gym, become friendly and gym together,

sometimes even ask if want to hang out after, take number, chit-chat, messaging.

 

I know that they are straight, just keep it as a sincere friendship.

you will never fall for each other, you will never have drunken kiss.

you will never end up in bed, you will never go further than friends.

 

accept that, and all your inner problems will disappear.

you can still be who you are & still be happy for another person, despite their orientation.

 

this is the biggest test of who you are as a person actually.

being open and happy for others, with no compromise to your dignity and sense of self.

 

the major ingredient for disaster in any kind of relationship/friendship is expectation.

I love this answer. It is indeed a test of your character. But you cant also blame him because he’s really into the guy. Maybe you just want sex or friends with benefits ?

[Guest concern]

4 hours ago, Firday said:

dead fish but also treat you as door mat too....unless with good skill may encore.

 

still door mat too

 

 

How about a depicated octopus tenticles.Still touchy but slow hands and fade off in the matter of time flash.

[marcoc]

2 hours ago, tomcat said:

instead of having a motive subconciously (cute, right criteria etc etc),

why not just be sincere and have him as a friend???

 

esp these days, amongst straight guys, they are more than happy to have a close bro-friend.

i've had some of these obviously straight guys chat in the gym, become friendly and gym together,

sometimes even ask if want to hang out after, take number, chit-chat, messaging.

 

I know that they are straight, just keep it as a sincere friendship.

you will never fall for each other, you will never have drunken kiss.

you will never end up in bed, you will never go further than friends.

 

accept that, and all your inner problems will disappear.

you can still be who you are & still be happy for another person, despite their orientation.

 

this is the biggest test of who you are as a person actually.

being open and happy for others, with no compromise to your dignity and sense of self.

 

the major ingredient for disaster in any kind of relationship/friendship is expectation.

 

That’s what I’m trying to bring across to the thread owner...

 

I too have gym friend who is bf material... I know he’s str8... He is my good friend now...

 

But to forgo a friendship because they can’t be with you... I feel that it should not be the way...

[Guest Bien]

Its never a lost cause cos sometimes it can work out to something satisfying enough.

Ken revealed to his classmate that he wanted him a lot. The classmate rejected him outrightly.  But from there onwards, the classmate intentionally exhibited himself  to Ken quite frequently for fun, playfulness and maintaining their friendship status quo.

[Guest concern]

To be honest The truth heal,so it can be done to turn a straight man to gay.How about turning a gay straight.After all i just want to hug him only.

[Guest Bien]

This is just what i heard from a guy i had sex with.  How far in truth of it remains to be doubted.

 

There are two cousins. One 25+  and the other one a teenager who revealed his love during a sleepover.  The older cousin cannot accept it and told the boy not to harbour that kind of love for him inespecially he already has a fiancee.

The boy stood his ground as he knew his cousin would never be unkind towards him.  The elder man stopped all these sleeping over at his place decisively.  But then he got worried more and more for the boy suspecting he might be involved with other male strangers.  Then, out of the blue, he contacted the boy to stay over again.  That night he revealed to the boy his intention.  "I will take this pill to knock myself out.  You can then enjoy my body in whatever way you like but remember its all under camera so treat my body nicely."  The boy cousin was supposed to enjoy sex with his elder cousin  while he remained unconscious.  But truth is the elder cousin didn't appear to be unconscious convincingly. His resonpses were both spontaneous and controlled.  What was meant to be helpful so that the boy might not stray outside of home turned out to be an 'unable to reject' sexual experience for himself.

 

Thus its never a lost cause if it were true.

[HarrizZhafran]

2 minutes ago, Guest Bien said:

This is just what i heard from a guy i had sex with.  How far in truth of it remains to be doubted.

 

There are two cousins. One 25+  and the other one a teenager who revealed his love during a sleepover.  The older cousin cannot accept it and told the boy not to harbour that kind of love for him inespecially he already has a fiancee.

The boy stood his ground as he knew his cousin would never be unkind towards him.  The elder man stopped all these sleeping over at his place decisively.  But then he got worried more and more for the boy suspecting he might be involved with other male strangers.  Then, out of the blue, he contacted the boy to stay over again.  That night he revealed to the boy his intention.  "I will take this pill to knock myself out.  You can then enjoy my body in whatever way you like but remember its all under camera so treat my body nicely."  The boy cousin was supposed to enjoy sex with his elder cousin  while he remained unconscious.  But truth is the elder cousin didn't appear to be unconscious convincingly. His resonpses were both spontaneous and controlled.  What was meant to be helpful so that the boy might not stray outside of home turned out to be an 'unable to reject' sexual experience for himself.

 

Thus its never a lost cause if it were true.

so the older cousin was actually conscious throughout the whole thing?

[Guest No have cousin]

19 minutes ago, Guest Bien said:

This is just what i heard from a guy i had sex with.  How far in truth of it remains to be doubted.

 

There are two cousins. One 25+  and the other one a teenager who revealed his love during a sleepover.  The older cousin cannot accept it and told the boy not to harbour that kind of love for him inespecially he already has a fiancee.

The boy stood his ground as he knew his cousin would never be unkind towards him.  The elder man stopped all these sleeping over at his place decisively.  But then he got worried more and more for the boy suspecting he might be involved with other male strangers.  Then, out of the blue, he contacted the boy to stay over again.  That night he revealed to the boy his intention.  "I will take this pill to knock myself out.  You can then enjoy my body in whatever way you like but remember its all under camera so treat my body nicely."  The boy cousin was supposed to enjoy sex with his elder cousin  while he remained unconscious.  But truth is the elder cousin didn't appear to be unconscious convincingly. His resonpses were both spontaneous and controlled.  What was meant to be helpful so that the boy might not stray outside of home turned out to be an 'unable to reject' sexual experience for himself.

 

Thus its never a lost cause if it were true.

 

A caring cousin whom every gay would love to have. Haha

[HarrizZhafran]

2 minutes ago, Guest No have cousin said:

 

A caring cousin whom every gay would love to have. Haha

that's both sweet and tragic at the same time

[Ben Ben Ben]

Vice versa? 

Can a gal fall for a gay?

can you let a gal suck your big cock? 

[Geralt]

23 minutes ago, Ben Ben Ben said:

Vice versa? 

Can a gal fall for a gay?

can you let a gal suck your big cock? 

Lol heck i dont mind lah haha

[Geralt]

2 hours ago, Guest concern said:

To be honest The truth heal,so it can be done to turn a straight man to gay.How about turning a gay straight.After all i just want to hug him only.

Yeah actually I just want to hug and kiss him just to know how it feels. 

[Guest inlovewithboss]

fallen into straight guy vs fallen into straight boss which is worst?

my heart keeps pounding faster everytime i see him. difficult to work for him now.

my boss is not very handsome at all but it's his caring and gentleman character that makes me admire him

[Guest Never Long lasting]

True story.

I worked for a local bank. My bosses boss, the SEVP,  was a 50 plus good looking guy. Even though he was so senior, he had no air about it and would often walked around to chat with staff. I fell for him from my day 1 at work when he walked around to say hi to staff. It was our first meeting with him and that fateful day sealed our lives together until today. You see I was a handsome and smart looking guy that women ogled over me but I was secretly gay inside me  although I acted like a playboy and would go out for show with different women. That day when we met I immediately felt a connection with him and felt like he shook my hand longer than he did w other male staff. I also saw that he turned to look at me before he exited. I couldn’t sleep that whole night. Fanta sizing abt doing all sorts of things to me. That night I had fast and furious sex with my pick-up girl from the bar 3 times, while all the time I was imagining fucking him. 

The next day onwards I tried to bump into him whenever I could Everyday, a few  times a day. Within a week we were together. I knew he was married with two grown up children my age but I didn’t care. I won’t go into details on how I hooked him but since we were together life changed... he put me up at one of his condos and we traveled together business class to Europe and US. Whenever we met we fucked like teenagers. He was a powerful guy in sex and didn’t need viagra. He just needed my cock to get his up and hard. Life was good for me, and I knew for him. At the back of my mind though I was always fearful of the end day... the reality was we were seen often together by people who knew him, even when we were overseas. One day, his Wife had a call from a PI to say that her Husband was gay! My Father also had a call from a PI to say that your Son was gay and a gold digger! 

For the sake of his family, he left me after 5 years together. He was kind enough to let me stay at his condo with a minimal rent of $100 a month. I was hoping that he would visit me whenever he could but he never did. My career however went up and up... even though we were no longer together. In the 10 years at the bank I got promoted so many times that I became the youngest MD making a tidy high 5 figure salary. It has been 5 years and I am still waiting for him to suddenly knock on my door at night... such is the life of a guy falling for a married man. Enjoy it while it lasts because there is always an expiry date in every case! I don’t regret it.

[HarrizZhafran]

38 minutes ago, Guest Never Long lasting said:

True story.

I worked for a local bank. My bosses boss, the SEVP,  was a 50 plus good looking guy. Even though he was so senior, he had no air about it and would often walked around to chat with staff. I fell for him from my day 1 at work when he walked around to say hi to staff. It was our first meeting with him and that fateful day sealed our lives together until today. You see I was a handsome and smart looking guy that women ogled over me but I was secretly gay inside me  although I acted like a playboy and would go out for show with different women. That day when we met I immediately felt a connection with him and felt like he shook my hand longer than he did w other male staff. I also saw that he turned to look at me before he exited. I couldn’t sleep that whole night. Fanta sizing abt doing all sorts of things to me. That night I had fast and furious sex with my pick-up girl from the bar 3 times, while all the time I was imagining fucking him. 

The next day onwards I tried to bump into him whenever I could Everyday, a few  times a day. Within a week we were together. I knew he was married with two grown up children my age but I didn’t care. I won’t go into details on how I hooked him but since we were together life changed... he put me up at one of his condos and we traveled together business class to Europe and US. Whenever we met we fucked like teenagers. He was a powerful guy in sex and didn’t need viagra. He just needed my cock to get his up and hard. Life was good for me, and I knew for him. At the back of my mind though I was always fearful of the end day... the reality was we were seen often together by people who knew him, even when we were overseas. One day, his Wife had a call from a PI to say that her Husband was gay! My Father also had a call from a PI to say that your Son was gay and a gold digger! 

For the sake of his family, he left me after 5 years together. He was kind enough to let me stay at his condo with a minimal rent of $100 a month. I was hoping that he would visit me whenever he could but he never did. My career however went up and up... even though we were no longer together. In the 10 years at the bank I got promoted so many times that I became the youngest MD making a tidy high 5 figure salary. It has been 5 years and I am still waiting for him to suddenly knock on my door at night... such is the life of a guy falling for a married man. Enjoy it while it lasts because there is always an expiry date in every case! I don’t regret it.

it sounds like a doomed love story

[Ben Ben Ben]

7 hours ago, Geralt said:

Lol heck i dont mind lah haha

Cool

[Guest guest]

It will be disastrous doom to fall for a straight guy. See what happened in this case :

 

https://foongcheekoonsekwahlee.wordpress.com/about/

 

[InBishan]

17 hours ago, Guest Never Long lasting said:

True story.

I worked for a local bank. My bosses boss, the SEVP,  was a 50 plus good looking guy. Even though he was so senior, he had no air about it and would often walked around to chat with staff. I fell for him from my day 1 at work when he walked around to say hi to staff. It was our first meeting with him and that fateful day sealed our lives together until today. You see I was a handsome and smart looking guy that women ogled over me but I was secretly gay inside me  although I acted like a playboy and would go out for show with different women. That day when we met I immediately felt a connection with him and felt like he shook my hand longer than he did w other male staff. I also saw that he turned to look at me before he exited. I couldn’t sleep that whole night. Fanta sizing abt doing all sorts of things to me. That night I had fast and furious sex with my pick-up girl from the bar 3 times, while all the time I was imagining fucking him. 

The next day onwards I tried to bump into him whenever I could Everyday, a few  times a day. Within a week we were together. I knew he was married with two grown up children my age but I didn’t care. I won’t go into details on how I hooked him but since we were together life changed... he put me up at one of his condos and we traveled together business class to Europe and US. Whenever we met we fucked like teenagers. He was a powerful guy in sex and didn’t need viagra. He just needed my cock to get his up and hard. Life was good for me, and I knew for him. At the back of my mind though I was always fearful of the end day... the reality was we were seen often together by people who knew him, even when we were overseas. One day, his Wife had a call from a PI to say that her Husband was gay! My Father also had a call from a PI to say that your Son was gay and a gold digger! 

For the sake of his family, he left me after 5 years together. He was kind enough to let me stay at his condo with a minimal rent of $100 a month. I was hoping that he would visit me whenever he could but he never did. My career however went up and up... even though we were no longer together. In the 10 years at the bank I got promoted so many times that I became the youngest MD making a tidy high 5 figure salary. It has been 5 years and I am still waiting for him to suddenly knock on my door at night... such is the life of a guy falling for a married man. Enjoy it while it lasts because there is always an expiry date in every case! I don’t regret it.

Such a nice boss.....

[darrenpanfried]

Hey Geralt, I would tell my colleagues about my gf but I actually meant bf. ICYDN

[Guest Cuzz]

Cousins should not have sex together. Them are family members. It is incestuous.

 

As for falling for straight guys, don't fall for straight guys, it will probably end badly.

[blowmenow]

15 hours ago, darrenpanfried said:

Hey Geralt, I would tell my colleagues about my gf but I actually meant bf. ICYDN

wats ICYDN??

[Guest lus]

I always love straight men ....

and have over 20plus straight men as my toy ..

but I don't fall for any of them ,

don't be stupid , they are doing this just because of money ...

and if you lust after the straight men body , its really easy even in Singapore ..

there are lots and lots of sexy , handsome , fit malay and Indians straight young man between the ages of 18 to 25 , who are willing to be your toy ..FOR MONEY ofcouse .

I even have 3 regular straight toy in Bangkok , everytime I go over , all I need to do is to call them ,

and they will end up in my room ..FOR MY ENJOYMENT ...

but ..you need to pay ...

 

[Ben Ben Ben]

On 24/10/2017 at 4:12 PM, Guest lus said:

I always love straight men ....

and have over 20plus straight men as my toy ..

but I don't fall for any of them ,

don't be stupid , they are doing this just because of money ...

and if you lust after the straight men body , its really easy even in Singapore ..

there are lots and lots of sexy , handsome , fit malay and Indians straight young man between the ages of 18 to 25 , who are willing to be your toy ..FOR MONEY ofcouse .

I even have 3 regular straight toy in Bangkok , everytime I go over , all I need to do is to call them ,

and they will end up in my room ..FOR MY ENJOYMENT ...

but ..you need to pay ...

 

Money money money

straight guys are some bucks away 

[Geralt]

On 22/10/2017 at 7:10 PM, darrenpanfried said:

Hey Geralt, I would tell my colleagues about my gf but I actually meant bf. ICYDN

I wish it was that way but I actually met his gf so it’s confirmed. Oy vay

[Ben Ben Ben]

Some straight guys are cuter! 

[lonely57]

On 10/24/2017 at 4:12 PM, Guest lus said:

I always love straight men ....

and have over 20plus straight men as my toy ..

but I don't fall for any of them ,

don't be stupid , they are doing this just because of money ...

and if you lust after the straight men body , its really easy even in Singapore ..

there are lots and lots of sexy , handsome , fit malay and Indians straight young man between the ages of 18 to 25 , who are willing to be your toy ..FOR MONEY ofcouse .

I even have 3 regular straight toy in Bangkok , everytime I go over , all I need to do is to call them ,

and they will end up in my room ..FOR MY ENJOYMENT ...

but ..you need to pay ...

 

 

even though i find chinese more attractive. i read that comment as only malay and indian guys will resort to such means cuz u know.. we are all poor af resorting to selling our bodies to survive in this chinese populated country.. 

 

anyways, enough racism from me.. i always fell for straight guys all the way from young till around 23? i fell for my first gay guy but well. there was no mutual feeling. its for straight guys they play 4d but we play 8d or something.. =x

[Geralt]

Okay, so this thing has been going on for quite some time now and we still hangout a lot. I cannot take this keeping my feelings to myself, but I’m too scared to tell him how I feel. I maybe okay with being rejected, but I’m scared he don’t want to be friends anymore after it. Any insights guys?

[fallmerees]

43 minutes ago, Geralt said:

Okay, so this thing has been going on for quite some time now and we still hangout a lot. I cannot take this keeping my feelings to myself, but I’m too scared to tell him how I feel. I maybe okay with being rejected, but I’m scared he don’t want to be friends anymore after it. Any insights guys?

 

If you really cherish your friendship with him, is it worth it to hurt it by telling him how you feel about him or hoping to let him change after telling how you feel about him? 

I don't know the answer but it's something to think about because the outcome could go either way: being rejected and still be friends or being rejected and losing a good friend

He sounds like he's in a great place in his life right now, and he has a gf. I know you can't help how you feel about him but we can't always get what we want.

Be a good friend and be happy for him. You'll find someone who's better suited for you and who is emotionally and romantically available.

 

Good luck!

 

PS: Some of the replies in the thread are just... 

[fab]

More often than not, gays will end up being just toys to those horny straights. 

 

 

[Ben Ben Ben]

7 hours ago, fab said:

More often than not, gays will end up being just toys to those horny straights. 

 

 

Straights played gals and played gays! Just like toys 

[Guest Am I stupid]

I fell for a married guy three years ago. He wld go out w me only when his family is on holiday or away so rather infrequently. He had asked

me many times to find other buddies but I only like him even though the age gap is 20 plus years.... I am younger than him. I don’t know what the future is but I know I am happy when I am w him. I only wish he can spend more time w me but I won’t demand it from him as I know he is a family man. I promised him at the outset that I won’t disturb his family so I will keep that promise. I know he knows that I feel lonely and horny when not w him but I am refusing to fuck around... bec I want to keep myself clean for

him. Am I stupid?

[cutejack]

3 minutes ago, Guest Am I stupid said:

I fell for a married guy three years ago. He wld go out w me only when his family is on holiday or away so rather infrequently. He had asked

me many times to find other buddies but I only like him even though the age gap is 20 plus years.... I am younger than him. I don’t know what the future is but I know I am happy when I am w him. I only wish he can spend more time w me but I won’t demand it from him as I know he is a family man. I promised him at the outset that I won’t disturb his family so I will keep that promise. I know he knows that I feel lonely and horny when not w him but I am refusing to fuck around... bec I want to keep myself clean for

him. Am I stupid?

Being sincere is stupid?wat a cruel world!

[cmlf]

On 12/1/2017 at 1:38 PM, fallmerees said:

 

If you really cherish your friendship with him, is it worth it to hurt it by telling him how you feel about him or hoping to let him change after telling how you feel about him? 

I don't know the answer but it's something to think about because the outcome could go either way: being rejected and still be friends or being rejected and losing a good friend

He sounds like he's in a great place in his life right now, and he has a gf. I know you can't help how you feel about him but we can't always get what we want.

Be a good friend and be happy for him. You'll find someone who's better suited for you and who is emotionally and romantically available.

 

Good luck!

 

PS: Some of the replies in the thread are just... 

 

Good, reflective advise.

 

In short, to your/our question: Is it as lost cause to fall for a straight (or bi) guy? 

 

Our answer, in the best interest of everyone including ourselves and the other party (i.e. bf/gf) when we're in the same shoes:

 

Yes it is, if we can accept who and how they are, have regard for them and their partner/spouse and what they both have established, and think about what got them to like us as a friend (i.e. no more than a smoke or dinner buddy even when "more interested in us") from the beginning.

 

Now, suppose his telling you his gf likes watching cabaret shows was with a hope to hint you he thinks she's bi and so he can explore being that too and take friendship to the intmate level. Hmmm, but, you're not bi so lost cause too here (agreeably).

 

Keep well you're already getting there, our friend. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Guest Lusty thing]

Why do so many of us fall for married guys even though we know from the start it won’t end well?! Are we stupid or simply blinded by lust? 

[MurphyL]

At the same token, the married one are taking risks to get involve with another guy too. Both ends are equallly are risk from my perspective. There is no winner here.

 

at the end of the day nothing logical can explain your action when it comes to love.

[ThePineapple]

Pretty sad to know it's a "lost case" 
But i still, I will enjoy this moment till it fades - the friendship/relationship.
As when you are no longer seeing him often, be it due to work or school, most likely they won't initiate contact with you at all

Edited December 2, 2017 by ThePineapple

[Ben Ben Ben]

21 hours ago, Guest Lusty thing said:

Why do so many of us fall for married guys even though we know from the start it won’t end well?! Are we stupid or simply blinded by lust? 

Risk taker 

forbidden fruits 

[tomcat]

On 12/2/2017 at 10:09 AM, Guest Am I stupid said:

I fell for a married guy three years ago. He wld go out w me only when his family is on holiday or away so rather infrequently. He had asked

me many times to find other buddies but I only like him even though the age gap is 20 plus years.... I am younger than him. I don’t know what the future is but I know I am happy when I am w him. I only wish he can spend more time w me but I won’t demand it from him as I know he is a family man. I promised him at the outset that I won’t disturb his family so I will keep that promise. I know he knows that I feel lonely and horny when not w him but I am refusing to fuck around... bec I want to keep myself clean for

him. Am I stupid?

we all do what we do until we can't do it anymore.

 

that goes for both you and for him.

[tomcat]

Ok my turn to confess:

lately got this guy in the gym, we shared machines a few times before.

recently when i was spotting my partner at the bench press, he was nearby 

i asked him if he wanted to share, he said "it's okay you guys finish first".

he also commented, "you become bigger already" to which i said thank you,

and complimented him on his physique too, just to be polite. we remain cordial,

just Hi/Hello in passing, thats all.

so yesterday at the gym, i was waiting for my partner to spot me.

he has a bad habit of wandering the gym, and sometimes i need to leave the

machine to find him, which is hella annoying.

 

anyway, i was waiting and the guy popped up and volunteered to spot me.

i agreed, as i always feel like i should not hog the press as it is very popular.

and i don't know where in the gym my partner was.

 

so we did two sets of chest, he spot me vice versa. but then he said,

"after this i spot your rows and squats ok?", those were my two routine anyways

so i agreed with thanks.

everything was good, rows we did fine. we even shared with another guy
but came to squats is when trouble started.

everytime i squat down and low, i can feel him supporting my hamstrings and inner thigh
a few times, it was full on hands on my glutes/butt.
because my stance is more closed at normal, couple time he grazed my balls
during stabilisation breathing, he even put his hands on my waist and lower back

for extended amounts of time.

i was doing pyramid training so i ended with quick reps with light weight, 

i kept bumping into him or i dont know what, he starting to get hard

and i can feel his package on my butt.

i am really a bit shocked, is he too thristy? or what is happening?

did i give him unintentional green light? i have not told my partner, cos i felt like

i allowed it somehow. 

this is making me dread going to the gym, and maybe seeing him...

 

Edit:
i know for a fact he is straight, cos he came in couple of times with a girl

who is not a fag-hag, and also they were quite lovey-dovey last time.

 

 

Edited December 4, 2017 by tomcat

[Guest Family]

On 13/10/2017 at 3:50 PM, Guest Bien said:

This is just what i heard from a guy i had sex with.  How far in truth of it remains to be doubted.

 

There are two cousins. One 25+  and the other one a teenager who revealed his love during a sleepover.  The older cousin cannot accept it and told the boy not to harbour that kind of love for him inespecially he already has a fiancee.

The boy stood his ground as he knew his cousin would never be unkind towards him.  The elder man stopped all these sleeping over at his place decisively.  But then he got worried more and more for the boy suspecting he might be involved with other male strangers.  Then, out of the blue, he contacted the boy to stay over again.  That night he revealed to the boy his intention.  "I will take this pill to knock myself out.  You can then enjoy my body in whatever way you like but remember its all under camera so treat my body nicely."  The boy cousin was supposed to enjoy sex with his elder cousin  while he remained unconscious.  But truth is the elder cousin didn't appear to be unconscious convincingly. His resonpses were both spontaneous and controlled.  What was meant to be helpful so that the boy might not stray outside of home turned out to be an 'unable to reject' sexual experience for himself.

 

Thus its never a lost cause if it were true.

But thats between cousins. I dont believe there are friends who care so much for each other. Blood is always thicker than water.

[Guest Hotay]

4 hours ago, tomcat said:

Ok my turn to confess:

lately got this guy in the gym, we shared machines a few times before.

recently when i was spotting my partner at the bench press, he was nearby 

i asked him if he wanted to share, he said "it's okay you guys finish first".

he also commented, "you become bigger already" to which i said thank you,

and complimented him on his physique too, just to be polite. we remain cordial,

just Hi/Hello in passing, thats all.

so yesterday at the gym, i was waiting for my partner to spot me.

he has a bad habit of wandering the gym, and sometimes i need to leave the

machine to find him, which is hella annoying.

 

anyway, i was waiting and the guy popped up and volunteered to spot me.

i agreed, as i always feel like i should not hog the press as it is very popular.

and i don't know where in the gym my partner was.

 

so we did two sets of chest, he spot me vice versa. but then he said,

"after this i spot your rows and squats ok?", those were my two routine anyways

so i agreed with thanks.

everything was good, rows we did fine. we even shared with another guy
but came to squats is when trouble started.

everytime i squat down and low, i can feel him supporting my hamstrings and inner thigh
a few times, it was full on hands on my glutes/butt.
because my stance is more closed at normal, couple time he grazed my balls
during stabilisation breathing, he even put his hands on my waist and lower back

for extended amounts of time.

i was doing pyramid training so i ended with quick reps with light weight, 

i kept bumping into him or i dont know what, he starting to get hard

and i can feel his package on my butt.

i am really a bit shocked, is he too thristy? or what is happening?

did i give him unintentional green light? i have not told my partner, cos i felt like

i allowed it somehow. 

this is making me dread going to the gym, and maybe seeing him...

 

Edit:
i know for a fact he is straight, cos he came in couple of times with a girl

who is not a fag-hag, and also they were quite lovey-dovey last time.

 

 

There are many pretend-to-be-straight couples at the gym. I believe after looking at their faces and observing their individual behaviour and friendships with others many may be gays/lesbians/bisexuals/pnsexuals/omisexuals looking for thressomes and orgies. They are acting lovey dovey and sexy in gym to attract others attention for sex or “friendship”. Everyone seems to be acting these says. They also all seemed to be the kiss and tell type. Also guys in the gym can be very automatically (or is it instinctively?) sexual when it’s all about the bodies in tight fitting, shrink wrapping, figure hugging, bulge enhancing spandex. I had otherwise gorgeously straight looking and tall, athletically muscled hunks exposing themselves and flaunting their bulges to me inside and outside of the gym changing room without so much initiation from me as much as a discreet, cursory glance. I don’t carry myself as a cruising gay in gym and i think i look straight (and hot too lol). Sometimes i suspect they have eyes at the back of their heads. Maybe it’s the mirrors. 

 

So be warned. Be very very warned. 

[oralb]

short answer - Yes.

 

Let me reverse the question, Is it a lost cause for a girl to fall for you?

[ThePineapple]

7 hours ago, tomcat said:

Ok my turn to confess:

lately got this guy in the gym, we shared machines a few times before.

recently when i was spotting my partner at the bench press, he was nearby 

i asked him if he wanted to share, he said "it's okay you guys finish first".

he also commented, "you become bigger already" to which i said thank you,

and complimented him on his physique too, just to be polite. we remain cordial,

just Hi/Hello in passing, thats all.

so yesterday at the gym, i was waiting for my partner to spot me.

he has a bad habit of wandering the gym, and sometimes i need to leave the

machine to find him, which is hella annoying.

 

anyway, i was waiting and the guy popped up and volunteered to spot me.

i agreed, as i always feel like i should not hog the press as it is very popular.

and i don't know where in the gym my partner was.

 

so we did two sets of chest, he spot me vice versa. but then he said,

"after this i spot your rows and squats ok?", those were my two routine anyways

so i agreed with thanks.

everything was good, rows we did fine. we even shared with another guy
but came to squats is when trouble started.

everytime i squat down and low, i can feel him supporting my hamstrings and inner thigh
a few times, it was full on hands on my glutes/butt.
because my stance is more closed at normal, couple time he grazed my balls
during stabilisation breathing, he even put his hands on my waist and lower back

for extended amounts of time.

i was doing pyramid training so i ended with quick reps with light weight, 

i kept bumping into him or i dont know what, he starting to get hard

and i can feel his package on my butt.

i am really a bit shocked, is he too thristy? or what is happening?

did i give him unintentional green light? i have not told my partner, cos i felt like

i allowed it somehow. 

this is making me dread going to the gym, and maybe seeing him...

 

Edit:
i know for a fact he is straight, cos he came in couple of times with a girl

who is not a fag-hag, and also they were quite lovey-dovey last time.

 

 

Keyword is last time

[Geralt]

4 hours ago, oralb said:

short answer - Yes.

 

Let me reverse the question, Is it a lost cause for a girl to fall for you?

I’m bi so not a total lost cause if I’m also into her. 

[tomcat]

13 hours ago, Guest Hotay said:

There are many pretend-to-be-straight couples at the gym. I believe after looking at their faces and observing their individual behaviour and friendships with others many may be gays/lesbians/bisexuals/pnsexuals/omisexuals looking for thressomes and orgies. They are acting lovey dovey and sexy in gym to attract others attention for sex or “friendship”. Everyone seems to be acting these says. They also all seemed to be the kiss and tell type. Also guys in the gym can be very automatically (or is it instinctively?) sexual when it’s all about the bodies in tight fitting, shrink wrapping, figure hugging, bulge enhancing spandex. I had otherwise gorgeously straight looking and tall, athletically muscled hunks exposing themselves and flaunting their bulges to me inside and outside of the gym changing room without so much initiation from me as much as a discreet, cursory glance. I don’t carry myself as a cruising gay in gym and i think i look straight (and hot too lol). Sometimes i suspect they have eyes at the back of their heads. Maybe it’s the mirrors. 

 

So be warned. Be very very warned. 

what. i didn't know this...
well, makes sense sometimes i see guys

even with their gf openly checking out other guys.

i get very stressed when its cruisy in the gym,

cos i work out until sweaty and messy.

i believe in that saying,

"if you look cute at the end of your workout,

you didn't work out hard enough."

so hooking up is the last thing i want to do.
not sure how to handle this situation now.

maybe give him cold shoulder and be less friendly..

 

Edited December 5, 2017 by tomcat