Guest Guest Posted May 11, 2014 Report Share Posted May 11, 2014 Since you cannot fuck as a top, be a bottom then. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TYRtan Posted May 11, 2014 Report Share Posted May 11, 2014 Anxiety problem. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Cock Master Posted May 11, 2014 Report Share Posted May 11, 2014 Change the condom, change the bottom.Or change TO bottom.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onlylonely Posted May 11, 2014 Report Share Posted May 11, 2014 Anxiety problem.Second that. Practice makes perfect Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeannyShortcake Posted May 11, 2014 Report Share Posted May 11, 2014 Try wanking with the condom on. It's not natural to have a piece of stretchable rubber over your dong so practice makes perfect. It helps when you're turned on by the person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benedict5856 Posted May 11, 2014 Report Share Posted May 11, 2014 i got this problem too when i wear condom in the past. good thing is i do raw with my bf, then no problem. heheheeee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teentitans Posted May 11, 2014 Report Share Posted May 11, 2014 (edited) It's a common problem. You need someone that really...really turns you on, to eradicate the problem coz the Jr. you has a very determined mind of his own. Going raw is one way, but not the safest. Recognize that sex isn't just about the intercourse. The bro wouldn't stand without the right type of attraction. And the more you fear...or try to get an erection...the softer it gets, hahaha! So bottoms...don't pressure the tops. Cannot...then cannot loh, it's ok, xoxo lol. Edited May 12, 2014 by teentitans Beefycub 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beefycub Posted May 12, 2014 Report Share Posted May 12, 2014 agree with titan. i think it depends on whether u are/were turned on by dat partner.may also depend on when u recover from your last sex, some pple r fuck machines while some may take a while to recover and get back in the mood.also not sure, since u didn't mention if this is a regular partner or someone new everytime, if its a regular partner, u can try different patterns to keep it going - mayb coz u hv been doing the same things and u got bored too.many reasons, but hey, not afraid to admit it myself, happens to me sometimes too. teentitans 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 12, 2014 Report Share Posted May 12, 2014 i got this problem too when i wear condom in the past. good thing is i do raw with my bf, then no problem. heheheeeethat's something you should not brag about. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 12, 2014 Report Share Posted May 12, 2014 i got this problem too when i wear condom in the past.good thing is i do raw with my bf, then no problem. heheheeeeThe problem will come later when you get STD OR HIV from your bf. good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mareshka Posted May 12, 2014 Report Share Posted May 12, 2014 The problem will come later when you get STD OR HIV from your bf. good luck.Wah! Don't be so mean la...if both are tested negative and are STRICTLY faithful to one another then that should be alright right? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 12, 2014 Report Share Posted May 12, 2014 Strictly? Hahah. Anyway... @depressed: You need a lot more slow foreplay to make it even harder. Then practice putting on the condom while keeping your mind focused on the horny stuff so the distraction minimized. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 12, 2014 Report Share Posted May 12, 2014 Wah! Don't be so mean la...if both are tested negative and are STRICTLY faithful to one another then that should be alright right?SAFE SEX always, whether you are with stranger or someone you know for 20 yrs.Tested Negative and being faithful are not GOOD ENOUGH EXCUSES to do raw.This is to protect ALL PARTIES! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mareshka Posted May 12, 2014 Report Share Posted May 12, 2014 SAFE SEX always, whether you are with stranger or someone you know for 20 yrs.Tested Negative and being faithful are not GOOD ENOUGH EXCUSES to do raw.This is to protect ALL PARTIES!You sound like a lawyer or a pastor, dude. Pardon if I have offended you. I'm not being ignorant here. It's a matter of choice. With every decision made, be it for good or bad, one must always be aware of its consequences and ready for the aftermath. To do it raw or protected, it's again one's personal choice and preference. I think there is ample education done on raising awareness on STDs and HIV. At the end of the day, one is still responsible of his/her own actions.In this case, they are a couple and if mutual agreement is reached, it's a done deal. Nothing can stop them.Peace.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 12, 2014 Report Share Posted May 12, 2014 You sound like a lawyer or a pastor, dude. Pardon if I have offended you. I'm not being ignorant here. It's a matter of choice. With every decision made, be it for good or bad, one must always be aware of its consequences and ready for the aftermath. To do it raw or protected, it's again one's personal choice and preference. I think there is ample education done on raising awareness on STDs and HIV. At the end of the day, one is still responsible of his/her own actions.In this case, they are a couple and if mutual agreement is reached, it's a done deal. Nothing can stop them.Peace....No, you have not. I am so worried about that the responsibility of one becomes an irresponsibility to many others.30 yrs later, I thought we are wiser and more careful and yet others are advocating raw sex to get it hard and up.Cheers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted May 12, 2014 Report Share Posted May 12, 2014 I have the same problems Unless I get enough foreplay if not drop dead when trying to penetrate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest JL1975 Posted May 15, 2014 Report Share Posted May 15, 2014 Try wearing cock Ring. I love the Stainless Steel ones. They looks good, plus the weight around your cock make it feels so good. For beginners, try the rubber/stretchable ones... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 11, 2017 Report Share Posted June 11, 2017 How to tackle a Penis that goes soft upon putting up a condom Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeMarko Posted June 11, 2017 Report Share Posted June 11, 2017 16 minutes ago, Guest Guest said: How to tackle a Penis that goes soft upon putting up a condom Do NOT put the condom by yourself, let your partner put it up for you... after a few of these sessions, your cock will get used to it and by then u can put by yourself and Hola .. your cock maintains as hard as steel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loves human dick Posted June 11, 2017 Report Share Posted June 11, 2017 22 minutes ago, Guest Guest said: How to tackle a Penis that goes soft upon putting up a condom I saw a vdeo... Partner put on the condom using mouth. I guess this may help... With the warm/heat may help to keep it hard.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abang Posted June 11, 2017 Report Share Posted June 11, 2017 From my many experiences, continue the oral sex for a while before covering it with a condom. When putting a condom on your partner, try to use your fingers and lips at the same time. The sensation will ensure that his erection can stay on and not the other way. You may also need to check out about the size of the condom.. whether it is way too tight or too small for your partner...after all, anal intercourse must be enjoyed by two .. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bishaner78 Posted June 11, 2017 Report Share Posted June 11, 2017 usually i will lick the balls and play with hid nipple when he put on the condom. so far it always work cutejack and slot6971 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted June 11, 2017 Report Share Posted June 11, 2017 1 hour ago, Bishaner78 said: usually i will lick the balls and play with hid nipple when he put on the condom. so far it always work YES!u got it right.wanted to say that. A guy came to my plc for fun did that to me.i went soft after putting on the condom.so he licked n played with my balls till it's hard n i entered him until it exploded.lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest TS Posted June 11, 2017 Report Share Posted June 11, 2017 It went soft after the condom. We tried several times. sometimes the moment I put it on the head even before rolling down, it goes soft. haiz. I took a while to get it hard again by jerking it but the moment I tried to insert, it went soft again. It could be the shape of my penis that is slightly curved down. So I find it hard to insert easily. He kept saying lower a bit. He even tried to help me. Doggy, sitting and missionary. but now even worse, the moment I put the condom, it plays dead on me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted June 11, 2017 Report Share Posted June 11, 2017 If it is useless try feeding it to the big fish. They might thought is a worm. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted June 11, 2017 Report Share Posted June 11, 2017 1 hour ago, Guest Guest said: If it is useless try feeding it to the big fish. They might thought is a worm. Lol.so bad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest TS Posted June 11, 2017 Report Share Posted June 11, 2017 I'm afraid it might scare away the fish as they think there's a cobra under the water Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluefish20008 Posted June 11, 2017 Report Share Posted June 11, 2017 No offence, but it sounds like a trick for tops to lure bottoms into raw sex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest TS Posted June 11, 2017 Report Share Posted June 11, 2017 9 minutes ago, bluefish20008 said: No offence, but it sounds like a trick for tops to lure bottoms into raw sex. Oh my, what makes you think that tops aren't afraid of getting anything from raw sex? I'm just as scared as the bottom of getting anything from raw sex. Although the chances for top is lower than the bottom but the risk is still there. I know how Murphy law works. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GachiMuchi Posted June 11, 2017 Report Share Posted June 11, 2017 8 hours ago, Guest Guest TS said: It went soft after the condom. We tried several times. sometimes the moment I put it on the head even before rolling down, it goes soft. haiz. I took a while to get it hard again by jerking it but the moment I tried to insert, it went soft again. It could be the shape of my penis that is slightly curved down. So I find it hard to insert easily. He kept saying lower a bit. He even tried to help me. Doggy, sitting and missionary. but now even worse, the moment I put the condom, it plays dead on me You are really a lousy top. Little thing like putting on condom to fuck also can fuck up. If you can't even do a simple thing like putting on condom and not go soft and also don't know how to find your bottom hole and fuck properly how to satisfy your bottom? You might as well be a bottom and forget about ever going to fuck or go and find some Master top and close door and practice until you can then come out to play. http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted June 11, 2017 Report Share Posted June 11, 2017 34 minutes ago, GachiMuchi said: You are really a lousy top. Little thing like putting on condom to fuck also can fuck up. If you can't even do a simple thing like putting on condom and not go soft and also don't know how to find your bottom hole and fuck properly how to satisfy your bottom? You might as well be a bottom and forget about ever going to fuck or go and find some Master top and close door and practice until you can then come out to play. U can tell nicely. By saying like this its not gonna change him or encourage him.B polite GM. Forumer 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GachiMuchi Posted June 11, 2017 Report Share Posted June 11, 2017 3 minutes ago, cutejack said: U can tell nicely. By saying like this its not gonna change him or encourage him.B polite GM. Reverse psychology bro http://gachimuchi2008.blogspot.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted June 11, 2017 Report Share Posted June 11, 2017 1 minute ago, GachiMuchi said: Reverse psychology bro Hope it works Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forumer Posted June 11, 2017 Report Share Posted June 11, 2017 2 hours ago, cutejack said: U can tell nicely. By saying like this its not gonna change him or encourage him.B polite GM. What's new, cutejack? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest viagra Posted June 12, 2017 Report Share Posted June 12, 2017 I have problem getting hard too with guys, even with the hottest guys, but no problem masturbating, so I take viagra, just 1/4 of the pill. I see a doctor for it, didn't get it through shoddy sellers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted June 12, 2017 Report Share Posted June 12, 2017 10 hours ago, Guest viagra said: I have problem getting hard too with guys, even with the hottest guys, but no problem masturbating, so I take viagra, just 1/4 of the pill. I see a doctor for it, didn't get it through shoddy sellers. Was it from a doc from east side? A doc advised my fren to take 1/4 for a start.is going soft means ED problem? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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