Cock Goes Soft After / When Putting On Condom & Performance Anxiety (Compiled)

[Guest Guest]

Since you cannot fuck as a top, be a bottom then.

[TYRtan]

Anxiety problem.

[Guest Cock Master]

Change the condom, change the bottom.

Or change TO bottom..

[onlylonely]

Anxiety problem.

Second that. Practice makes perfect

[SeannyShortcake]

Try wanking with the condom on.

 

It's not natural to have a piece of stretchable rubber over your dong so practice makes perfect.

 

It helps when you're turned on by the person.

[benedict5856]

i got this problem too when i wear condom in the past.

 

good thing is i do raw with my bf, then no problem. heheheeee

[teentitans]

It's a common problem.

You need someone that really...really turns you on, to eradicate the problem coz the Jr. you has a very determined mind of his own.

Going raw is one way, but not the safest.

Recognize that sex isn't just about the intercourse. The bro wouldn't stand without the right type of attraction.

And the more you fear...or try to get an erection...the softer it gets, hahaha!

So bottoms...don't pressure the tops. Cannot...then cannot loh, it's ok, xoxo lol.

Edited May 12, 2014 by teentitans

[Beefycub]

agree with titan. i think it depends on whether u are/were turned on by dat partner.

may also depend on when u recover from your last sex, some pple r fuck machines while some may take a while to recover and get back in the mood.

also not sure, since u didn't mention if this is a regular partner or someone new everytime, if its a regular partner, u can try different patterns to keep it going - mayb coz u hv been doing the same things and u got bored too.

many reasons, but hey, not afraid to admit it myself, happens to me sometimes too.

[Guest Guest]

i got this problem too when i wear condom in the past.

 

good thing is i do raw with my bf, then no problem. heheheeee

that's something you should not brag about.

[Guest Guest]

i got this problem too when i wear condom in the past.

good thing is i do raw with my bf, then no problem. heheheeee

The problem will come later when you get STD OR HIV from your bf. good luck.

[Mareshka]

The problem will come later when you get STD OR HIV from your bf. good luck.

Wah! Don't be so mean la...if both are tested negative and are STRICTLY faithful to one another then that should be alright right?

[Guest Guest]

Strictly? Hahah.  Anyway...

 

@depressed:  You need a lot more slow foreplay to make it even harder. Then practice putting on the condom while keeping your mind focused on the horny stuff so the distraction minimized.

[Guest Guest]

Wah! Don't be so mean la...if both are tested negative and are STRICTLY faithful to one another then that should be alright right?

SAFE SEX always, whether you are with stranger or someone you know for 20 yrs.

Tested Negative and being faithful are not GOOD ENOUGH EXCUSES to do raw.

This is to protect ALL PARTIES!

 

[Mareshka]

SAFE SEX always, whether you are with stranger or someone you know for 20 yrs.

Tested Negative and being faithful are not GOOD ENOUGH EXCUSES to do raw.

This is to protect ALL PARTIES!

You sound like a lawyer or a pastor, dude. Pardon if I have offended you. I'm not being ignorant here. It's a matter of choice. With every decision made, be it for good or bad, one must always be aware of its consequences and ready for the aftermath. To do it raw or protected, it's again one's personal choice and preference. I think there is ample education done on raising awareness on STDs and HIV. At the end of the day, one is still responsible of his/her own actions.

In this case, they are a couple and if mutual agreement is reached, it's a done deal. Nothing can stop them.

Peace....

[Guest Guest]

You sound like a lawyer or a pastor, dude. Pardon if I have offended you. I'm not being ignorant here. It's a matter of choice. With every decision made, be it for good or bad, one must always be aware of its consequences and ready for the aftermath. To do it raw or protected, it's again one's personal choice and preference. I think there is ample education done on raising awareness on STDs and HIV. At the end of the day, one is still responsible of his/her own actions.

In this case, they are a couple and if mutual agreement is reached, it's a done deal. Nothing can stop them.

Peace....

No, you have not. I am so worried about that the responsibility of one becomes an irresponsibility to many others.

30 yrs later, I thought we are wiser and more careful and yet others are advocating raw sex to get it hard and up.

Cheers

[Guest Guest]

I have the same problems Unless I get enough foreplay if not drop dead when trying to penetrate.

[Guest JL1975]

Try wearing cock Ring. I love the Stainless Steel ones. They looks good, plus the weight around your cock make it feels so good. For beginners, try the rubber/stretchable ones...

[Guest Guest]

How to tackle a Penis that goes soft upon putting up a condom

[DeMarko]

16 minutes ago, Guest Guest said:

How to tackle a Penis that goes soft upon putting up a condom

 

Do NOT put the condom by yourself, let your partner put it up for you... after a few of these sessions, your cock will get used to it and by then u can put by yourself and Hola .. your cock maintains as hard as steel

[Loves human dick]

22 minutes ago, Guest Guest said:

How to tackle a Penis that goes soft upon putting up a condom

I saw a vdeo...

Partner put on the condom using mouth.

I guess this may help...

With the warm/heat may help to keep it hard..

[abang]

From my many experiences, continue the oral sex for a while before covering it with a condom.  When putting a condom on your partner, try to use your fingers and lips at the same time.  The sensation will ensure that his erection can stay on and not the other way.  You may also need to check out about the size of the condom.. whether it is way too tight or too small for your partner...after all, anal intercourse must be enjoyed by two .. 

[Bishaner78]

usually i will lick the balls and play with hid nipple when he put on the condom.

so far it always work

[cutejack]

1 hour ago, Bishaner78 said:

usually i will lick the balls and play with hid nipple when he put on the condom.

so far it always work

YES!u got it right.wanted to say that. A guy came to my plc for fun did that to me.i went soft after putting on the condom.so he licked n played with my balls till it's hard n i entered him until it exploded.lol

[Guest Guest TS]

It went soft after the condom. We tried several times. sometimes the moment I put it on the head even before rolling down, it goes soft. haiz. I took a while to get it hard again by jerking it but the moment I tried to insert, it went soft again. It could be the shape of my penis that is slightly curved down. So I find it hard to insert easily. He kept saying lower a bit. He even tried to help me. Doggy, sitting and missionary. but now even worse, the moment I put the condom, it plays dead on me

 

 

[Guest Guest]

If it is useless try feeding it to the big fish. They might thought is a worm. 

[cutejack]

1 hour ago, Guest Guest said:

If it is useless try feeding it to the big fish. They might thought is a worm. 

Lol.so bad.

[Guest Guest TS]

I'm afraid it might scare away the fish as they think there's a cobra under the water

[bluefish20008]

No offence, but it sounds like a trick for tops to lure bottoms into raw sex. 

[Guest Guest TS]

9 minutes ago, bluefish20008 said:

No offence, but it sounds like a trick for tops to lure bottoms into raw sex. 

Oh my, what makes you think that tops aren't afraid of getting anything from raw sex? I'm just as scared as the bottom of getting anything from raw sex. Although the chances for top is lower than the bottom but the risk is still there. I know how Murphy law works.

[GachiMuchi]

8 hours ago, Guest Guest TS said:

It went soft after the condom. We tried several times. sometimes the moment I put it on the head even before rolling down, it goes soft. haiz. I took a while to get it hard again by jerking it but the moment I tried to insert, it went soft again. It could be the shape of my penis that is slightly curved down. So I find it hard to insert easily. He kept saying lower a bit. He even tried to help me. Doggy, sitting and missionary. but now even worse, the moment I put the condom, it plays dead on me

 

You are really a lousy top. Little thing like putting on condom to fuck also can fuck up.

If you can't even do a simple thing like putting on condom and not go soft and also don't know how to find your bottom hole and fuck properly how to satisfy your bottom? You might as well be a bottom and forget about ever going to fuck or go and find some Master top and close door and practice until you can then come out to play.

[cutejack]

34 minutes ago, GachiMuchi said:

 

You are really a lousy top. Little thing like putting on condom to fuck also can fuck up.

If you can't even do a simple thing like putting on condom and not go soft and also don't know how to find your bottom hole and fuck properly how to satisfy your bottom? You might as well be a bottom and forget about ever going to fuck or go and find some Master top and close door and practice until you can then come out to play.

U can tell nicely. By saying like this its not gonna change him or encourage him.B polite GM.

[GachiMuchi]

3 minutes ago, cutejack said:

U can tell nicely. By saying like this its not gonna change him or encourage him.B polite GM.

 

Reverse psychology bro

[cutejack]

1 minute ago, GachiMuchi said:

 

Reverse psychology bro

Hope it works

[Forumer]

2 hours ago, cutejack said:

U can tell nicely. By saying like this its not gonna change him or encourage him.B polite GM.

What's new, cutejack?

[Guest viagra]

I have problem getting hard too with guys, even with the hottest guys, but no problem masturbating, so I take viagra, just 1/4 of the pill. I see a doctor for it, didn't get it through shoddy sellers.

[cutejack]

10 hours ago, Guest viagra said:

I have problem getting hard too with guys, even with the hottest guys, but no problem masturbating, so I take viagra, just 1/4 of the pill. I see a doctor for it, didn't get it through shoddy sellers.

Was it from a doc from east side? A doc advised my fren to take 1/4 for a start.is going soft means ED problem?