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How will you guy react if you see a someone with small dick changing. I was changing today and strip off my underwear. My dick is small when it isn't erect, like about 1 inch. This guy took a look at it and gave me a smirk and then proceeded to take off his underwear too. It's bigger than mine, but not really big, probably average. He seems to purposely take his time to wear his swimming trunks, just to rub it my face. Felt quite bad after that.

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On 12/28/2021 at 2:09 AM, surreal91 said:

How will you guy react if you see a someone with small dick changing. I was changing today and strip off my underwear. My dick is small when it isn't erect, like about 1 inch. This guy took a look at it and gave me a smirk and then proceeded to take off his underwear too. It's bigger than mine, but not really big, probably average. He seems to purposely take his time to wear his swimming trunks, just to rub it my face. Felt quite bad after that.

Please do not feel inferior because of your flaccid dick size. 
The moment we remove our swimwear, it’s natural for it to be at its smallest. Nothing wrong w a 1inch soft dick size. Many Asian men have that size when it’s soft. 
To be honest, most (straight) men will not be bother or even take notice of another man’s dick. Only gay men will look and give you funny look. 
As long as your dick is functional, that’s counts. Be proud of what you have. 

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On 12/28/2021 at 2:09 AM, surreal91 said:

How will you guy react if you see a someone with small dick changing. I was changing today and strip off my underwear. My dick is small when it isn't erect, like about 1 inch. This guy took a look at it and gave me a smirk and then proceeded to take off his underwear too. It's bigger than mine, but not really big, probably average. He seems to purposely take his time to wear his swimming trunks, just to rub it my face. Felt quite bad after that.

The proof is in the pudding… when it puffs up! Not when it’s flaccid, even though still a sight for salaciously sore eyes if it’s of a bulging size… 😉😆

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On 12/28/2021 at 2:09 AM, surreal91 said:

How will you guy react if you see a someone with small dick changing. I was changing today and strip off my underwear. My dick is small when it isn't erect, like about 1 inch. This guy took a look at it and gave me a smirk and then proceeded to take off his underwear too. It's bigger than mine, but not really big, probably average. He seems to purposely take his time to wear his swimming trunks, just to rub it my face. Felt quite bad after that.

Idk bout others but I kinda dig the small and cold look. Guess there always is an audience for different shapes and sizes so don't feel bad about it. 

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On 12/28/2021 at 2:09 AM, surreal91 said:

How will you guy react if you see a someone with small dick changing. I was changing today and strip off my underwear. My dick is small when it isn't erect, like about 1 inch. This guy took a look at it and gave me a smirk and then proceeded to take off his underwear too. It's bigger than mine, but not really big, probably average. He seems to purposely take his time to wear his swimming trunks, just to rub it my face. Felt quite bad after that.

Just ignore such idiots. 

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On 12/28/2021 at 9:13 AM, bluerunner said:

Please do not feel inferior because of your flaccid dick size. 
The moment we remove our swimwear, it’s natural for it to be at its smallest. Nothing wrong w a 1inch soft dick size. Many Asian men have that size when it’s soft. 
To be honest, most (straight) men will not be bother or even take notice of another man’s dick. Only gay men will look and give you funny look. 
As long as your dick is functional, that’s counts. Be proud of what you have. 

Well said

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On 12/28/2021 at 2:09 AM, surreal91 said:

How will you guy react if you see a someone with small dick changing. I was changing today and strip off my underwear. My dick is small when it isn't erect, like about 1 inch. This guy took a look at it and gave me a smirk and then proceeded to take off his underwear too. It's bigger than mine, but not really big, probably average. He seems to purposely take his time to wear his swimming trunks, just to rub it my face. Felt quite bad after that.

I wanna try even though my soft cock is really small and im kinda chubby/hairy... i feel like its important to show that we can be confident despite not being part of the “norm”

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On 12/28/2021 at 2:09 AM, surreal91 said:

How will you guy react if you see a someone with small dick changing. I was changing today and strip off my underwear. My dick is small when it isn't erect, like about 1 inch. This guy took a look at it and gave me a smirk and then proceeded to take off his underwear too. It's bigger than mine, but not really big, probably average. He seems to purposely take his time to wear his swimming trunks, just to rub it my face. Felt quite bad after that.

I'll also "rub it in" by rubbing rubbing rubbing my cock until it grows to 1 ft long (ok la, less than 6inch LOL) and use it to whack the stupiad smirk off his face.

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On 1/23/2022 at 11:53 PM, surreal91 said:

Haha, i wish i could, but erected mine is still small.

Big or small, long or short, thick or thin, good skills will make up for it. Must not let that dumb dumb put you down bro. 

 

Had real good passionate regular sex with a FB for few years until he was posted overseas.

 

His was barely 2inch when erect but he could stay rock hard for 2 hours of foreplay and shoot far. ;)

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On 1/24/2022 at 12:02 AM, yuquidam said:

Big or small, long or short, thick or thin, good skills will make up for it. Must not let that dumb dumb put you down bro. 

 

Had real good passionate regular sex with a FB for few years until he was posted to China.

 

His was barely 2inch when erect but he could stay rock hard for 2 hours of foreplay and shoot far. ;)

Yes big or small doesn't matters arr.. The matters are how they enjoy and gentle to you while fucking

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Just want to see what you guys think, but is there any way to overcome the fear of walking around naked in the pool changing room?

 

I'm a chubby guy and cold pool water really shrinks me down, like it can get bad enough to it just being my foreskin visible. It makes me quite self conscious, especially being around other fitter or bigger guys in the locker room. Even the uncles may have bigger meats than I do.

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12 hours ago, XanderS said:

Just want to see what you guys think, but is there any way to overcome the fear of walking around naked in the pool changing room?

 

I'm a chubby guy and cold pool water really shrinks me down, like it can get bad enough to it just being my foreskin visible. It makes me quite self conscious, especially being around other fitter or bigger guys in the locker room. Even the uncles may have bigger meats than I do.

 

I don't think most people care. When I started doing that, no one really looks unless they are gay themselves.

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14 hours ago, XanderS said:

Just want to see what you guys think, but is there any way to overcome the fear of walking around naked in the pool changing room?

 

I'm a chubby guy and cold pool water really shrinks me down, like it can get bad enough to it just being my foreskin visible. It makes me quite self conscious, especially being around other fitter or bigger guys in the locker room. Even the uncles may have bigger meats than I do.

 

I think the first step to overcoming your fear of walking around naked in the changing room is to accept that whatever body parts we have is due to genetics.  However it looks like, it is important that it can give you an orgasm.  


Once you accept that your penis size, like your facial features, is the hand that you have been dealt with, you can then work on your self consciousness.  In Japan, the men in the onsen are totally naked, and walk around naked too.  And their penises come in all shapes and size.  They do not feel self conscious because they are used to being naked, and have accepted that it is what it is.  Perhaps you can take this as a starting point.

 

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I walk around naked in the onsen, because that is the culture there.

 

I walk naked in changing rooms in Asia if it is in the course of my activity in that changing room - for example, from the shower to the sauna (if there is one) or from the shower area to the drying area.  I do not flaunt my nudity because this is Asia.  But I would walk around naked in the onsen in Japan or the hot springs in Taiwan, because that is the accepted culture there.  I do that in the Europe because again, that is quite the accepted practice in the West.

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59 minutes ago, yhtang said:

I walk around naked in the onsen, because that is the culture there.

 

I walk naked in changing rooms in Asia if it is in the course of my activity in that changing room - for example, from the shower to the sauna (if there is one) or from the shower area to the drying area.  I do not flaunt my nudity because this is Asia.  But I would walk around naked in the onsen in Japan or the hot springs in Taiwan, because that is the accepted culture there.  I do that in the Europe because again, that is quite the accepted practice in the West.

Felt a bit awkward when I went naked in an Onsen at first.

But after awhile seeing everybody was walking around naked naturally, the awkwardness was gone.

It is their culture, and you will see family members, friends or colleagues going Onsen together.

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2 hours ago, golf said:

Felt a bit awkward when I went naked in an Onsen at first.

But after awhile seeing everybody was walking around naked naturally, the awkwardness was gone.

It is their culture, and you will see family members, friends or colleagues going Onsen together.

 

I agree with you.  My experience was very similar, except that it was not an onsen, it was an open shower in a foreign country.

 

I think our hang-ups is due to our parent's conservative style of upbringing. 

 

I feel the fathers in Singapore has much to answer to.  They went through NS, they were probably initially embarrassed by having to shower openly with other men, and when they have sons, did they prepare their sons for this eventuality?  quite apparently, very few did - or at least. 

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Being in an onsen does feel less awkward cause everyone is supposed to be in the nude. So, there's no way around not showing off your meat among fellow men.

 

But for the locker room, there's no expectation that guys have to be naked in the locker room. So maybe that contributes to the awkwardness, since you don't know if other people will join you and be nude too. Takes a bit of courage to get naked together willingly in public.

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3 hours ago, XanderS said:

Being in an onsen does feel less awkward cause everyone is supposed to be in the nude. So, there's no way around not showing off your meat among fellow men.

 

But for the locker room, there's no expectation that guys have to be naked in the locker room. So maybe that contributes to the awkwardness, since you don't know if other people will join you and be nude too. Takes a bit of courage to get naked together willingly in public.

 

I think herein lies the misconception, and hence the awkwardness that follows.

Nudity is expected in the locker room.  Men change in the locker room.  If they need to change their underwear, they will have to strip naked to do so.

 

A locker room is not an onsen, so people walking around naked is not expected.  However, walking out of the shower area to dry oneself - and doing so naked - is not a rarity.  Having towel dried, it is not unknown for men to air their balls dry before putting on their briefs or whichever is their underwear of choice. 

 

However, what that is not quite done is to blatantly swing one's penis around for the hell of it, be it for self entertainment or public amusement.  

 

The topic of this thread is whether one walks around naked in the swimming pool changing room - and by extension, a locker room.  I do walk around naked in the changing room/locker room if it is, so the speak, in the course of business.  Exhibitionism is not part of the course of business. 

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38 minutes ago, yhtang said:

 

I think herein lies the misconception, and hence the awkwardness that follows.

Nudity is expected in the locker room.  Men change in the locker room.  If they need to change their underwear, they will have to strip naked to do so.

 

A locker room is not an onsen, so people walking around naked is not expected.  However, walking out of the shower area to dry oneself - and doing so naked - is not a rarity.  Having towel dried, it is not unknown for men to air their balls dry before putting on their briefs or whichever is their underwear of choice. 

 

However, what that is not quite done is to blatantly swing one's penis around for the hell of it, be it for self entertainment or public amusement.  

 

The topic of this thread is whether one walks around naked in the swimming pool changing room - and by extension, a locker room.  I do walk around naked in the changing room/locker room if it is, so the speak, in the course of business.  Exhibitionism is not part of the course of business. 

Ahh okay, now I understand. But aside from the style of upbringing, could it possible that the awkwardness can also come from our shame culture?

 

Things like onsens and public baths aren't common place, and combine the fact that we grow up being shamed for showing our genitals or being naked around others. So, it cultivates a more conservative stand around body exposure. So, that could be why most guys don't walk around completely nude, more than they need to at least.

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19 hours ago, XanderS said:

Ahh okay, now I understand. But aside from the style of upbringing, could it possible that the awkwardness can also come from our shame culture?

 

Things like onsens and public baths aren't common place, and combine the fact that we grow up being shamed for showing our genitals or being naked around others. So, it cultivates a more conservative stand around body exposure. So, that could be why most guys don't walk around completely nude, more than they need to at least.

 

Yes, shame culture is definitely a contributory factor to being embarrassed for being naked. 

 

That culture is not bad, because we would not like hordes of perverted exhibitionist exposing themselves to children.  On the other hand, people need to learn that there are places where nudity is expected.  Children should be taught the limits of nudity.  At the same time, children should also be taught that everybody's body is different, and being different is natural.  
 

 

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12 hours ago, whatareulookinfor said:

I think my problem is more on my boner. Would love to walk around naked, but just don't want to walk when my dick is erected. 

Once you have gotten use to it, you will not get a boner anymore. Don’t think too much when you are naked or changing in the open. The more you think or try to control not having a boner, the faster it gets hard and rises. 😂 

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2 hours ago, bluerunner said:

Once you have gotten use to it, you will not get a boner anymore. Don’t think too much when you are naked or changing in the open. The more you think or try to control not having a boner, the faster it gets hard and rises. 😂 

Yes. I always have a boner when going naked.
But after awhile of getting used to the environment, it will go off, unless I see “something” that wakes it up. Hahaha…

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3 hours ago, bluerunner said:

Once you have gotten use to it, you will not get a boner anymore. Don’t think too much when you are naked or changing in the open. The more you think or try to control not having a boner, the faster it gets hard and rises. 😂 

 

Yes, this was my experience.

To try to mitigate this happening, I watch a lot of porn.  The idea is that if I see a lot of cocks, then the likelihood of my throwing a boner when I see another naked man would be reduced. (Joking 😁 😁)

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7 hours ago, golf said:

Yes. I always have a boner when going naked.
But after awhile of getting used to the environment, it will go off, unless I see “something” that wakes it up. Hahaha…

I teach you a trick to kill off that instant erection: close your eyes and imagine that person standing in front of you is actually your MUM looking at your hard on! 
Chopped and double confirmed your erection dies off immediately. 

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Many ActiveSG pools now have a gym attached to it e.g. Katong and Kallang Basin. Gym and pool users share the same changing room. 

I have witnessed gym users using the mirrors in the changing room to pose and to take selfie, even though using your phone to take photos and to make video recording in the changing room is prohibited. 

Therefore, do pay attention who is inside the changing room. I am sure you don't want your naked body to appear in the backdrop of someone's selfie on Instagram or TikTok.

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On 5/21/2023 at 10:45 AM, bluerunner said:

Many ActiveSG pools now have a gym attached to it e.g. Katong and Kallang Basin. Gym and pool users share the same changing room. 

I have witnessed gym users using the mirrors in the changing room to pose and to take selfie, even though using your phone to take photos and to make video recording in the changing room is prohibited. 

Therefore, do pay attention who is inside the changing room. I am sure you don't want your naked body to appear in the backdrop of someone's selfie on Instagram or TikTok.

true.  i have seen teenagers taking muscle shots with their friends inside the changing room at the mirror

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50 minutes ago, justin1982 said:

How to get rid off erection when naked in changing room while there are others in the vicinity? Cos feel a bit of embarrassing especially when there is other user in the vicinity. 

It will take a few tries and you'll get used to it... Dont think of lustful thoughts in your mind. just mind your own...

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54 minutes ago, top_suck said:

It will take a few tries and you'll get used to it... Dont think of lustful thoughts in your mind. just mind your own...

Personal experience ya... I have tried in few a occasions, “it” is in normal mode when nobody is around. I will get nervous & erected if there’s other users around/ or just stand next to me when I clean & dry after shower. Then hor... I have rush back to the cubicle to continue clean & dry, then “it” will back to normal.😅😂

I don’t know whether or not cos of sexuality issue (Yes, I m gay) but is it normal? 
Or could it be mentality issue?

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4 hours ago, justin1982 said:

Personal experience ya... I have tried in few a occasions, “it” is in normal mode when nobody is around. I will get nervous & erected if there’s other users around/ or just stand next to me when I clean & dry after shower. Then hor... I have rush back to the cubicle to continue clean & dry, then “it” will back to normal.😅😂

I don’t know whether or not cos of sexuality issue (Yes, I m gay) but is it normal? 
Or could it be mentality issue?

I guess you probably get excited unknowingly . It is a body reaction . 

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