Seeing friends naked

[ziwei]

I was at yunomori onsen last week with 2 other straight friends. And I realise it seems like the gay guys are the ones who tend to cover up their jewels and appear to be shy being naked, whereas the straight ones were confident enough to bare it all without covering with the towel, whether in the pool or inside the sauna. 

[Balestier]

9 minutes ago, ziwei said:

I was at yunomori onsen last week with 2 other straight friends. And I realise it seems like the gay guys are the ones who tend to cover up their jewels and appear to be shy being naked, whereas the straight ones were confident enough to bare it all without covering with the towel, whether in the pool or inside the sauna. 

Won't be shy if the gays found one they like

[bluerunner]

2 hours ago, Kev Ng said:

East Coast Park shower areas are open with 2-3 showers and maybe 1 cubicle w doors only

East Coast Park still does not have lockers, have they? 
If yes, please let me know which stretch of it. When I was running there, there wasn’t a single locker along the whole stretch. (I did not check inside the toilet…haha)

[QinWei]

56 minutes ago, Veloster said:

when in the army and even dragon boaters and other situations it's all Abt ones confidence...and not all ppl including me bothers to look at others...then again I respect your comments...

Erm Veloster, erm Army officers and dragon boaters are confident in boating and what they are gd @ 
other aspects they r NOT confident at all i felt 
eg ask the boaters to dish out meditarrean cuisine or Hunan dishes  , they might not 

in army there are shy ones too
straights all married  and with at least 2 kids 
they are all onsen-shy 
I have to give them counselling 1st  in my tour group before they dare to Strip and join the onsen, pay so MUCH yet not doing it
just like paying for a fuji tour and not seeing fuji thruout the tour .....
1 even asked did i shave my armpit before 
Somehow my upper body seemed to have lesser hair when at younger Age,not sure why 
but from waist and below damned bushy for a Chinese 
i wil not believe Yunomori's Straights didnt feel they are eyes roving


not really: ZW ( u Zi, i Qin Wei)
 

we all here are gays , we are NOT shy too esp Tops!!!

49 minutes ago, ziwei said:

it seems like the gay guys are the ones who tend to cover up their jewels and appear to be shy being naked, whereas the straight ones were confident enough to bare it all without covering with the towel

the straights the MORE must cover cos they knew Gays are watching them
It was in the news too 

many gays even in toilet and in some forums, they mentioned this Gay forums too

 

[Veloster]

3 minutes ago, QinWei said:

Erm Veloster, erm Army officers and dragon boaters are confident in boating and what they are gd @ 
other aspects they r NOT confident at all i felt 
eg ask the boaters to dish out meditarrean cuisine or Hunan dishes  , they might not 

in army there are shy ones too
straights all married  and with at least 2 kids 
they are all onsen-shy 
I have to give them counselling 1st  in my tour group before they dare to Strip and join the onsen, pay so MUCH yet not doing it
just like paying for a fuji tour and not seeing fuji thruout the tour .....
1 even asked did i shave my armpit before 
Somehow my upper body seemed to have lesser hair when at younger Age,not sure why 
but from waist and below damned bushy for a Chinese 
i wil not believe Yunomori's Straights didnt feel they are eyes roving


not really: ZW ( u Zi, i Qin Wei)
 

we all here are gays , we are NOT shy too esp Tops!!!

the straights the MORE must cover cos they knew Gays are watching them
It was in the news too 

many gays even in toilet and in some forums, they mentioned this Gay forums too

 

That's the issue with gay folks there are places for them to have their fun but as my str friends would say when they are being admired for their bods etc by gays they appreciate it but up to a point meaning it becomes rude if you get my point...so for me sure I look at both guys and girls and if I noticed that they realised it I would smile becos I then realised it's a tad too long ..for me I enjoy when I know ppl at looking and feel good Abt it and as far as walking ard naked or in my undies I am easy ...I can't control their minds 😂 

[hermit]

2 hours ago, ziwei said:

I was at yunomori onsen last week with 2 other straight friends. And I realise it seems like the gay guys are the ones who tend to cover up their jewels and appear to be shy being naked, whereas the straight ones were confident enough to bare it all without covering with the towel, whether in the pool or inside the sauna. 

 

Have not been to Yuno but been to Taipei onsen many times. In those places men don't cover their dicks. The only time one need to cover it's when he has a hardon😄

[EastSgDad]

1 minute ago, hermit said:

 

Have not been to Yuno but been to Taipei onsen many times. In those places men don't cover their dicks. The only time one need to cover it's when he has a hardon😄

Cover with both palms?

[Veloster]

26 minutes ago, hermit said:

 

Have not been to Yuno but been to Taipei onsen many times. In those places men don't cover their dicks. The only time one need to cover it's when he has a hardon😄

Same with Korean and Japan no one bothers to ..like the idea of an onsen is to relax and be liberated...so WTF is covering your jewel for ..I just don't get it...frankly speaking I don't even bother to look ...I don't fancy onsen tbh but when I do go I don't go to look at folks dicks!

[CKBE-Fanz88]

7 hours ago, Veloster said:

Fully agree onsen is meant to be naked and most men don't give a bother Abt it if not why even go there! These days most men either wax or trim their bush...me and my brother we always trim and sometimes even wax ..it's so common today and frankly more hygienic and it shows your tool in a better light!

Yunomori is a straight onsen ya, for friends who are thinking of hanky panky, please be cautious and discreet.

[Veloster]

13 minutes ago, CKBE-Fanz88 said:

Yunomori is a straight onsen ya, for friends who are thinking of hanky panky, please be cautious and discreet.

Exactly 💯 my point 

[radiusulnar]

For shy but want to onsen, just get a room with private bath

[Veloster]

1 minute ago, radiusulnar said:

For shy but want to onsen, just get a room with private bath

Exactly 💯 

[bluerunner]

Here’s what I noticed in Singapore: 

Men, in general, are more conservative when it comes to nudity. He could be more ‘adventurous’ oversea, he is overly ahy in Singapore. 
Perhaps, it’s the environment he is in, the news he has been reading about gay cruising, the behaviour of other men, …. and the list goes one. 
I cannot understand at times. 
What you have, the other man has it too. 
You are not going to lose some meat or lose a few centimeters if other guys see it. 🤷‍♂️ 

[shyc]

@bluerunner need to practise more than can overcome the fear 🤭 

[bluerunner]

8 minutes ago, shyc said:

@bluerunner need to practise more than can overcome the fear 🤭 

That I agree. 
Remember a log. Time ago where shower at public swimming pools was an open shower, I was soooooo shy to shower naked with other uncles and kor kor around. Surely will get an erection. 
As time goes by and w more practice to shower at an open shower, I can manage way better now. 

[shyc]

1 hour ago, bluerunner said:

That I agree. 
Remember a log. Time ago where shower at public swimming pools was an open shower, I was soooooo shy to shower naked with other uncles and kor kor around. Surely will get an erection. 
As time goes by and w more practice to shower at an open shower, I can manage way better now. 

Yes those were the days, standing side by side to grown man. shy like sit and quickly shower and leave. slowly got used to it as i grow up. but than they changed the system and now back to being shy and modest 😜

[Pubico1]

On 8/13/2026 at 12:57 PM, ziwei said:

I was at yunomori onsen last week with 2 other straight friends. And I realise it seems like the gay guys are the ones who tend to cover up their jewels and appear to be shy being naked, whereas the straight ones were confident enough to bare it all without covering with the towel, whether in the pool or inside the sauna. 

Straight guys have hardly any reaction to fellow males’ nakedness. But gay guys do get aroused by the steamy sights surrounding them and can be shy and may start erecting anytime from the sight stimulation. So the towels come to hide the front for courtesy. I do personally find straight men’s nonchalant showing off of their manhoods very arousing. Like peacocks spreading apart their long tails to subtly compare, compete and assert passive dominance. It’s all about that discreet showing off of their manhood visually to other males. Hyper masculine environment. 

Edited August 14 by Pubico1

[cutejack]

Aiyah, easy la. Usually men are shy n don't show their nudity or erections to another men unless they are an exhibitionist. 

When u r young ,u get erections easily n cover up, but when u get old n hardly get hard down there, of course one would walk naked bravely la. No erections mah..see men like no reaction down there. How to say men who cover up are wrong. To each of its own la. This one also must comment n condemn meh! Hmmm....

Just like the men who come for massage, some showing me like nothing and some cover up when they are laying down there for me to massage them before i cover them up with a towel. Some gradually remove their hands as time passes along the way. No comments. Yr sweet tool yr wish.  Huhuhu....

Edited August 14 by cutejack

[GachiMuchi]

I remember back in 2010s when I visited my friend in Taiwan, he brought me to 阳明山. And for those who don't know what Taiwan‘s 阳明山 is famous for, it is for their hot spring. There were a few popular hot spring namely, 川汤 (no pics) & 皇池 (picture). There are public pools of various temperatures and even a cold pool (not shown, right of picture) and a chill bed where one can lie naked (right of picture). Room at the back is the steam room.

That's was the first time, I had to stripped down to nothing and walked around naked in the hot spring amongst other strangers. And it was also the first time, I met my Taiwanese friend's partner. We all were naked and in the public pool enyoying the hot spring. So, to me it was awkard to meet his partner and then the next moment we are all naked in the pool among other people. Eventually, I got the hang of it and if one is shy, one can cover with our hands or with the towel we bring along. (need to bring your own towel and bottel drink. Coin lockers provided)

The hot spring is opened to all people but most family men will leave by 8pm and those who staied back are People like us.

Good to visit during October to Feb when the weather is cold.

 

Edited August 16 by GachiMuchi

[Balestier]

On 8/14/2026 at 12:16 PM, Pubico1 said:

Straight guys have hardly any reaction to fellow males’ nakedness. But gay guys do get aroused by the steamy sights surrounding them and can be shy and may start erecting anytime from the sight stimulation. So the towels come to hide the front for courtesy. I do personally find straight men’s nonchalant showing off of their manhoods very arousing. Like peacocks spreading apart their long tails to subtly compare, compete and assert passive dominance. It’s all about that discreet showing off of their manhood visually to other males. Hyper masculine environment. 

Thats reason why we are gays. Just like straights get horny when they see busty nehneh or  hot cb. Its just in mind control and getting used to it. Will be hard to go the pool in low waist trunks.

[Kev Ng]

On 8/13/2026 at 1:36 PM, bluerunner said:

East Coast Park still does not have lockers, have they? 
If yes, please let me know which stretch of it. When I was running there, there wasn’t a single locker along the whole stretch. (I did not check inside the toilet…haha)

the open showers area have no lockers but a bench outside the area. Area F.  next to it is an open space Car park too.

[Pubico1]

10 hours ago, Balestier said:

Thats reason why we are gays. Just like straights get horny when they see busty nehneh or  hot cb. Its just in mind control and getting used to it. Will be hard to go the pool in low waist trunks.

Ya. It’s not like gays don’t want to join in the cock showing . It is just that gay cocks are more prone to marikita in such a visually arousing space and can be awkward 😐 so in comes the towel to the front to buffer awkwardness. If a fully naked straight tall lean built nerdy fit boy is to walk up nonchalantly, LJ semi hard dangling and all, I know for sure I’m dead 😵 

[Balestier]

5 hours ago, Pubico1 said:

Ya. It’s not like gays don’t want to join in the cock showing . It is just that gay cocks are more prone to marikita in such a visually arousing space and can be awkward 😐 so in comes the towel to the front to buffer awkwardness. If a fully naked straight tall lean built nerdy fit boy is to walk up nonchalantly, LJ semi hard dangling and all, I know for sure I’m dead 😵 

Some have long dick ... so shy and gotta cover w towel. A happy problem for them

[bluerunner]

Man w black g penis, shy to show. 
Man w small penis also shy to show. 
So, it’s not one’s penis size. This is one’s confidence issue. 

[Veloster]

24 minutes ago, bluerunner said:

Man w black g penis, shy to show. 
Man w small penis also shy to show. 
So, it’s not one’s penis size. This is one’s confidence issue. 

Def it's the confidence 💪 & I just don't understand the shyness what shyness? Actually most guys & gals would love to be liberated even for a short few mins ..nothing sexual about it! And if you aren't proud of yourself then how do you expect ppl to look up to you? I say again if your conscience is clear you have nothing to fear! I only fear God! What ppl think Abt me is their right and they issue..I don't give an F about it! Enough said! Have a great week ahead 💞 🩵 💚 🧸

Edited August 17 by Veloster

[Balestier]

2 hours ago, bluerunner said:

Man w black g penis, shy to show. 
Man w small penis also shy to show. 
So, it’s not one’s penis size. This is one’s confidence issue. 

Chop off their kkj and they will also cover w towel. 

[Balestier]

11 hours ago, Veloster said:

Def it's the confidence 💪 & I just don't understand the shyness what shyness? Actually most guys & gals would love to be liberated even for a short few mins ..nothing sexual about it! And if you aren't proud of yourself then how do you expect ppl to look up to you? I say again if your conscience is clear you have nothing to fear! I only fear God! What ppl think Abt me is their right and they issue..I don't give an F about it! Enough said! Have a great week ahead 💞 🩵 💚 🧸

They will need to go back to Adam eve days to cover their privates  w maple leaves

Edited August 17 by Balestier

[bluerunner]

3 hours ago, Veloster said:

Def it's the confidence 💪 & I just don't understand the shyness what shyness? Actually most guys & gals would love to be liberated even for a short few mins ..nothing sexual about it! And if you aren't proud of yourself then how do you expect ppl to look up to you? I say again if your conscience is clear you have nothing to fear! I only fear God! What ppl think Abt me is their right and they issue..I don't give an F about it! Enough said! Have a great week ahead 💞 🩵 💚 🧸

If my friend has the body of your profile, I definitely have no issue seeing him naked or be seen naked. 😝😂🙊😅😈

[radiusulnar]

15 minutes ago, bluerunner said:

If my friend has the body of your profile

 

if i might add, when @Veloster says to fkkk care and do what is right, it's hard to adopt such an attitude if you do not look like him

[bluerunner]

17 minutes ago, radiusulnar said:

 

if i might add, when @Veloster says to fkkk care and do what is right, it's hard to adopt such an attitude if you do not look like him

At the most, kena reject lor.  😝😝

[Veloster]

1 minute ago, bluerunner said:

At the most, kena reject lor.  😝😝

Exactly becos one man's meat is another man's poison 

[Guest Maybe]

On 8/16/2026 at 3:47 PM, GachiMuchi said:

I remember back in 2010s when I visited my friend in Taiwan, he brought me to 阳明山. And for those who don't know what Taiwan‘s 阳明山 is famous for, it is for their hot spring. There were a few popular hot spring namely, 川汤 (no pics) & 皇池 (picture). There are public pools of various temperatures and even a cold pool (not shown, right of picture) and a chill bed where one can lie naked (right of picture). Room at the back is the steam room.

That's was the first time, I had to stripped down to nothing and walked around naked in the hot spring amongst other strangers. And it was also the first time, I met my Taiwanese friend's partner. We all were naked and in the public pool enyoying the hot spring. So, to me it was awkard to meet his partner and then the next moment we are all naked in the pool among other people. Eventually, I got the hang of it and if one is shy, one can cover with our hands or with the towel we bring along. (need to bring your own towel and bottel drink. Coin lockers provided)

The hot spring is opened to all people but most family men will leave by 8pm and those who staied back are People like us.

Good to visit during October to Feb when the weather is cold.

 

These places have drastically changed in the last couple of years.  Can someone update?

[tyan]

On 8/13/2026 at 12:57 PM, ziwei said:

I was at yunomori onsen last week with 2 other straight friends. And I realise it seems like the gay guys are the ones who tend to cover up their jewels and appear to be shy being naked, whereas the straight ones were confident enough to bare it all without covering with the towel, whether in the pool or inside the sauna. 

Isn’t that a very good indicator who is gay & straight?

[STLee]

I live in a uni dorm with shared shower. There’s a gap at the bottom of the door and the tiles is rather dark so when there’s water it forms a reflection. It was 2am and someone was showering. Saw through the reflection that the person had a full hard on with the dick pointing straight. It was quite thick uncut with average length. He was rubbing and jerking his dick slowly while stopping intermittently. Didn’t catch the cumming point but after some time he was fully soft throughout (assumed he cummed). He came out when I was at the sink and I saw that it was my friend. We greeted each other and chatted for a while and he said he usually sleeps late (now i know why)

[Balestier]

4 hours ago, STLee said:

I live in a uni dorm with shared shower. There’s a gap at the bottom of the door and the tiles is rather dark so when there’s water it forms a reflection. It was 2am and someone was showering. Saw through the reflection that the person had a full hard on with the dick pointing straight. It was quite thick uncut with average length. He was rubbing and jerking his dick slowly while stopping intermittently. Didn’t catch the cumming point but after some time he was fully soft throughout (assumed he cummed). He came out when I was at the sink and I saw that it was my friend. We greeted each other and chatted for a while and he said he usually sleeps late (now i know why)

Straight men needs to jerk off too

[Balestier]

8 hours ago, STLee said:

I live in a uni dorm with shared shower. There’s a gap at the bottom of the door and the tiles is rather dark so when there’s water it forms a reflection. It was 2am and someone was showering. Saw through the reflection that the person had a full hard on with the dick pointing straight. It was quite thick uncut with average length. He was rubbing and jerking his dick slowly while stopping intermittently. Didn’t catch the cumming point but after some time he was fully soft throughout (assumed he cummed). He came out when I was at the sink and I saw that it was my friend. We greeted each other and chatted for a while and he said he usually sleeps late (now i know why)

Should have moaned with him. Didn't know can see uncut through shadow reflection. Well done !!

[STLee]

13 hours ago, Balestier said:

Should have moaned with him. Didn't know can see uncut through shadow reflection. Well done !!

Should have asked him what’s he doing so long in the shower. He didn’t moan though haha. It’s quite difficult to see cut or uncut when hard but when he’s soft, there’s skin after the tip of the head and the shape/edge of the head can’t be seen clearly so most likely uncut

[JudActually]

On 8/20/2026 at 8:38 AM, STLee said:

I live in a uni dorm with shared shower. There’s a gap at the bottom of the door and the tiles is rather dark so when there’s water it forms a reflection. It was 2am and someone was showering. Saw through the reflection that the person had a full hard on with the dick pointing straight. It was quite thick uncut with average length. He was rubbing and jerking his dick slowly while stopping intermittently. Didn’t catch the cumming point but after some time he was fully soft throughout (assumed he cummed). He came out when I was at the sink and I saw that it was my friend. We greeted each other and chatted for a while and he said he usually sleeps late (now i know why)

That's so hot! What does your friend look like? Lucky you if he's someone you've always found attractive!

[STLee]

22 hours ago, JudActually said:

That's so hot! What does your friend look like? Lucky you if he's someone you've always found attractive!

He’s ok looking and has a gf haha