upshot Posted December 9, 2015 Report Share Posted December 9, 2015 How do you know their wives don't stray? They know and I know since it goes beyond sex and the sex was never about finding new and young meat. Their wives lost any real interest in sex. Remember wife say no to sex is still rape if you try to get some by pressure or force. At any time your money must be given to them when they ask but they have all the rights to not have sex with you if they choose to. My buddies know what they need and we know what this arrangement is about. It's fine for us. Anyway to say this is the norm for all? NO. I know them, our fun is always controlled and built on earned mutual trust, fear of catching something bad or reveal our indulgence for alternative sexual experiences. And as my personality goes, I don't utilize BW for stranger hook-ups like sex is something I need every few days like a drug. I know how safe I am because I never let my libido do my thinking. Am I still a risk? Sure. I still have fun with guys on occasion while I cycle nude and met a nice guy. I have to be careful for the sake of my 2 irregular fuck buddies and myself. So I take as little risk as I can, do checkup and be careful who I fuck. When in doubt, my anal toy fetish kicks in which tend to be my first choice most of the time. heh They last longer then any male has ever claim they can fuck me or as hard. heh What works for me, may not for anyone else. You do have control of the situation you always put yourself in. I think one of the reason AIDS is on the rise again is because, it is NO LONGER A DEATH SENTENCE. But for me, being a sucker paying for the rest of your life for a drug to keep your AIDS at bay is not an option I like. But when you have safety nets around, people start to let their guard down and next thing you know. Bam. You are it. Companies are spending more time and investment making drugs to keep you alive then cure AIDS. Which do you think make them more money on the long run like pocket money? So why put yourself in their pocket? Quote ** Comments are my opinions, same as yours. It's not a 'Be-All-and-End-All' view. Intent's to thought-provoke, validate, reiterate and yes, even correct. Opinion to consider but agree to disagree. I don't enjoy conflicted exchanges, empty bravado or egoistical chest pounding. It's never personal, tribalistic or with malice. Frank by nature, means, I never bend the truth. Views are to broaden understanding - Updated: Nov 2021. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Traveler3032 Posted December 9, 2015 Report Share Posted December 9, 2015 (edited) ^I don't understand here. Their wives are no longer interested in sex, so you are willing to meet their sexual needs. That sounds great, except I don't think that is logical. Why your buddies do not try to find a real woman to have an affair? Perhaps because of their gayness, so their wives are no longer interested In having sex with them or they are not interested in straight sex. Also, the use of plural is interesting . How many buddies do you have? Edited December 9, 2015 by Traveler3032 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upshot Posted December 9, 2015 Report Share Posted December 9, 2015 (edited) ^I don't understand here. Their wives are no longer interested in sex, so you are willing to meet their sexual needs. That sounds great, except I don't think that is logical. Why your buddies do not try to find a real woman to have an affair? Perhaps because of their gayness, so their wives are no longer interested In having sex with them or they are not interested in straight sex.Also, the use of plural is interesting . How many buddies do you have?You are trying to template my unique arrangement to something you logically can only think but I am not speaking for everyone. There is a clear separation for love and sexual urges. There is no morale issue here while you are trying to throw that logic in as well, along with your gay logic...etc You are over thinking the situation and I am too tired to write a long story as to how we started this way before they married, I almost married, where the rest has gone off and stop doing this with me.. and yes we were all part of a orgry group of gay,les and str8.. total party animals. It is very scary if you can not think out of the box and use other magnifying lens to see a situation then what you can only bring yourself to experience or have that chance to do so heheh.. You are over thinking this. I have two fuck buddies now and we all done it together.. this was formerly a group at anythign as large as 15 people if I recall right. Been years.. almost 20. We are the 3 musketeers now but not like we do it every month even. Tsk. And that is just my life ..it is not a template for others. But simply put, we all are still alive, no one died of AIDS as we were all careful and only part take in the fun as long as we are comfortable with it. Women stop having sex much after marriage? you think that is rare? hahahah.... It partly a power play just as much a reason how they get you to put a ring on their finger. Females can do that because they can. to again say all females are like that? No but it is more then you think there are. People stay together for many reasons over time. You think gay relationship don't have that too? heh.... Same brain we use to have sex, to wear a condom or not...heh Edited December 9, 2015 by upshot Quote ** Comments are my opinions, same as yours. It's not a 'Be-All-and-End-All' view. Intent's to thought-provoke, validate, reiterate and yes, even correct. Opinion to consider but agree to disagree. I don't enjoy conflicted exchanges, empty bravado or egoistical chest pounding. It's never personal, tribalistic or with malice. Frank by nature, means, I never bend the truth. Views are to broaden understanding - Updated: Nov 2021. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xboyhunk Posted December 10, 2015 Report Share Posted December 10, 2015 The focus doesn't have to be on HIV. It's just as bad getting all other STDs except HIV. Best to practise abstinence to be 100% safe. Virtual sex like cam and phone sex are still quite popular! Quote FASTR ANONYMOUS GROUP CHAT Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exynos Posted December 10, 2015 Report Share Posted December 10, 2015 I wouldn't mind, if it were me and my partner and we're both clean. but. I'm not sure if it's worth the risk overall. it's okay if I die but do I wanna put my bb at risk? lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted December 10, 2015 Report Share Posted December 10, 2015 5 yrs back when I m still in Uni, did the most craziest thing in life. Having raw sex with 3 guys, I m the btm & the other 3 TOP. Feel fxxking shiok when the 1st guy shot his huge load of cum inside me. After he done the 2nd guy continue to insert his tool in me using the 1st guy's cum as lubricant to fxxk me. 2nd guy done & 3rd guy continue. 3 different guy's sperm were inside my ass that time. Feeling really shiok & enjoy like a porn star. But now thinking back was like insane! Wouldn't want to do that again. Very risky. bluemoonbird 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheMalayGuy Posted December 10, 2015 Report Share Posted December 10, 2015 As a top. On PrEP. Fxxk yes! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gstringuy26 Posted December 14, 2015 Report Share Posted December 14, 2015 I think I only enjoy fucking raw or nothing! haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutejack Posted December 14, 2015 Report Share Posted December 14, 2015 Get married soon.lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted December 15, 2015 Report Share Posted December 15, 2015 Yes, most tops I know would try to. Even after I said no, some will still try later.It's about real skin contact 肌膚之親 being more than simply 2 naked bodies touching， it had to be his cock skin touching my insides that counts as the original meaning. Just having his bare cock inside me feeling the sexual coupling of my inner warmth surrounding his cock makes it feels like true sexual mating instead of just plain sex.No matter how much sex we had, it will never be as intimate as bare anal. Many of us would use that as the line between lover and fb. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
biandhorny Posted December 15, 2015 Report Share Posted December 15, 2015 The question isn't 'is fucking bareback a good idea or not' its 'do most tops like to fuck bareback'. And as mainly a top, the answer is FUCK YES, sliding in and out raw and emptying hot man cream in your bottoms arse? What a stupid question LOL. As a top I've done it more than I'd like to admit. As an occasional bottom I love it too, who wouldn't love a nice raw cock sliding in and out of them, but BAD IDEA and very very rare for me and never til cum in my arse (only when I was a virgin with school friend, then we creamed in each others arse heaps, how hot!). Pull out or not, still a silly thing to do. If STD's were a thing of the past, oh my lord, Id be filling guys with cream and be filled with cream every day hahahaha mydontay 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HydroNaut Posted December 15, 2015 Report Share Posted December 15, 2015 (edited) Finally, bareback comes true:https://youtu.be/IFLraEUxLgY Edited December 15, 2015 by HydroNaut Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted December 16, 2015 Report Share Posted December 16, 2015 (while I agreed with those who commented abv, not cos of std or hiv, which top doesn't like to do it raw?)to be even precise, this applied to nearly all the btms, most would prefer me not to use a condom or halfway thru' the act they will secretly remove the condom, (they think I m blind that I wont notice) a penis with or without a condom is of much difference even if u r using a sagami or okamoto - 0.01 or 0.02 when it s off, I can feel it instantly.... In some orgies , some tops tried to conceal they have removed the condom, I think they are naïve that why will the btms didn't realise that ?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post acidtongue Posted December 16, 2015 Popular Post Report Share Posted December 16, 2015 Yes, most tops I know would try to. Even after I said no, some will still try later.It's about real skin contact 肌膚之親 being more than simply 2 naked bodies touching， it had to be his cock skin touching my insides that counts as the original meaning. Just having his bare cock inside me feeling the sexual coupling of my inner warmth surrounding his cock makes it feels like true sexual mating instead of just plain sex.No matter how much sex we had, it will never be as intimate as bare anal. Many of us would use that as the line between lover and fb. as a top, i have this primal desire for my cock to be totally wrapped inside a warm, wet and tight arse whenever i'm horny. my fave way of raw penetration is when i'm re-penetrating my btm boy after taking a suck-break from the initial penetration and fucking. by now, the ass would be well fucked but have regained some tightness during the break. but my cock would be raging for re-penetrating my btm's ass. such is the perfect moment for the most natural penile-anal coupling. i would position the tip of my rock hard cock right at his wet boy hole and smother the btm with kisses while i slowly penetrate him without the need for hands to guide my cock in. natural, sensual and totally exhilarating raw anal sex. top82, Hornybtm, Saggiboy and 3 others 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted December 17, 2015 Report Share Posted December 17, 2015 condom is a must la....u dun want chocolate sauce dripping from ur dick Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted December 17, 2015 Report Share Posted December 17, 2015 condom is a must la....u dun want chocolate sauce dripping from ur dick Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Group Pound Posted December 18, 2015 Report Share Posted December 18, 2015 If you are in a committed relationship, you might not mind having your didi coated by your partner's chocolate sauce, and for some people it can even be an extra turn on (Note: I am not advocating barebacking but just pointing out something several tops have told me). Saggiboy 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted December 18, 2015 Report Share Posted December 18, 2015 Eh...vagina juice is a unique smell str guys like but no one likes shit smell Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest State Race From Start Posted December 20, 2015 Report Share Posted December 20, 2015 Some tops like to fuck bareback, regardless of possible shit smell, because they have strong desires to cum deep into their bottom's ass. It makes them hornier knowing they will seed their partner, and causes their load to become bigger and hotter, and they get almost animalistic at the moment they erupt. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted December 27, 2015 Report Share Posted December 27, 2015 A few months ago I tried barebacking and I got addicted to it. The feeling of getting creamed is emotionally satisfying. Whenever I hook up with someone and ask for raw sex, they didn't insist on safe sex. Up to today, I've been bred by more than 30 different guys and I'm starting to feel worried. Anyone has similar experiences? donkeykong11 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted December 27, 2015 Report Share Posted December 27, 2015 you are gambling with your life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted December 27, 2015 Report Share Posted December 27, 2015 A few months ago I tried barebacking and I got addicted to it. The feeling of getting creamed is emotionally satisfying. Whenever I hook up with someone and ask for raw sex, they didn't insist on safe sex. Up to today, I've been bred by more than 30 different guys and I'm starting to feel worried. Anyone has similar experiences? I know what you mean. I've been bred before and the feeling of the warm cumload shooting up the inside of my ass is simply OUT OF THIS WORLD. All tops secretly want bareback, they want to pump their seed into you and mark their territory. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest2 Posted December 27, 2015 Report Share Posted December 27, 2015 when was the last time u had ur std checkup? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HendryTan Posted December 27, 2015 Report Share Posted December 27, 2015 OUT OF YOUR MIND you mean . Look for a BF or Regular-buddy to do what you describe. Bareback is high stake gambling with strangers, can you afford to lose ? When we gamble financially, the odds may be against us but the Upside is worth it (TOTO, BigSweep, 4D). In this bareback scenario, fleeting moment of fun with potential lifetime on HIV medication . I will lock this topic of IRRESPONSIBLE talk. fab and Phil 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nitecrawler Posted December 27, 2015 Report Share Posted December 27, 2015 Some tops like to fuck bareback, regardless of possible shit smell, because they have strong desires to cum deep into their bottom's ass. It makes them hornier knowing they will seed their partner, and causes their load to become bigger and hotter, and they get almost animalistic at the moment they erupt.Someone must teach the bottoms how to clean their asses. upshot 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 13, 2016 Report Share Posted February 13, 2016 If i know the person very well, i do fuck him bareback otherwise need to use condom Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onlylonely Posted February 13, 2016 Report Share Posted February 13, 2016 Bareback fucking is out of the world experience that if u can try, u should try once. #yolo Best to try with your bf Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Neil29 Posted October 16, 2016 Report Share Posted October 16, 2016 It feels good actually but do it to soneone you trusts Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goodtimeth Posted October 16, 2016 Report Share Posted October 16, 2016 Bareback is much nice feeling for both. I much prefer a boy to fuck me with no condom. In Bangkok gay scene some boys will insist to wear a condom. But the straight boys who sometimes fuck men prefer to fuck bareback. The best are the hill tribe boys of the north. They also prefer to fuck bareback and they are very hot. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bottom24 Posted October 16, 2016 Report Share Posted October 16, 2016 To get fucked bareback would be awesome..but safety fisrt..but yeah the feeling of raw dick in your ass and the hot cum inside your ass does have a nice ring to it lovehandle 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tamp1992 Posted October 17, 2016 Report Share Posted October 17, 2016 (edited) The other day I found this cute guy on Grindr (I swear, he was a STUNNER). We chatted for a while, shared pics (which affirmed his hotness). Everything went well until he whipped out the phrase, "Can fuck you raw?" I was taken aback, but told him nicely that I always did it with protection. After that, nothing. He straight-up ghosted me. To me, wanting to do it raw is an absolute no-no in my book, no matter your level of hotness. But what irks me more is the mentality that if you find someone whom you're attracted to but isn't on the same page about doing what you want them to do (read: doing it raw and risking all the diseases), you don't want to talk further. I seriously feel like I'm being in the minority considering the alarming rise of bareback sex in the world today, both on-screen and in real life. Edited October 18, 2016 by Tamp1992 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovehandle Posted October 17, 2016 Report Share Posted October 17, 2016 2 minutes ago, Tamp1992 said: I seriously feel like I'm being in the minority considering the alarming rise of bareback sex in the world today, both on-screen and in real life. u r right!! finally someone can prove my point that in reality , most would wish it raw too even for such "solicited"sex situation nevermind that u r a minority, continue to have your own stand but I disrespect all who just press delete and stop replying , this is so damned rude...before I told anyone that I m going to delete(I will tell them the actual situation eg mailbox is full), by deleting that doesn't mean the person cant email me anymore... one should hve basic etiquette in replying, worst some treated me like an info counter and then run off after my "info services" have been used Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post dumby Posted October 17, 2016 Popular Post Report Share Posted October 17, 2016 Always with condom, but there was once this btm just pushed his hole in without warning. Felt shiok for a few strokes, but thankfully I came to my senses, withdrew and walked away. If you ask me, yeah the sensation is so much better without condom, but I guess I choose safety than for that moment of pleasure. hairy40'sgindian, Hornybtm, lovehandle and 2 others 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Kuchikane Posted March 19, 2017 Report Share Posted March 19, 2017 I guess that this is true. It feels better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
btmslut Posted March 19, 2017 Report Share Posted March 19, 2017 I think bareback feels much better for the top. For the bottom, you cant really tell the diference, especially if you are quite lubed up. For the btm its more emotional, except for the part of the cum shooting inside you and dripping out of the hole. I love it, and i can honestly say that if there were no stds id go bareback all the time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smallperson Posted March 19, 2017 Report Share Posted March 19, 2017 top priority, safety. always safe. for pleasure, if you not concern of your health and willing to take the risk, yes. the sensation of being raw is absolutely fantastic. Quote Small. 5" top twink. Interest: Hunky daddies and fit buffy, beefcake bear. Abs is overated. So I prefer big round chest over refined abs. 😋 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bonfire Posted March 20, 2017 Report Share Posted March 20, 2017 My first bareback was with my bf. It was also our first sex after a few years of relationship. It wasn't planned. I was caught pleasantly surprised that he wanted it this way. I gave my first bareback to him with gratitude, knowing that he has been faithful to me alone throughout these years. It was also my first anal sex. I could not have gotten a more physically and emotionally satisfying first sex. As for the sensation itself, I definitely felt his dick head as he tried to enter. Also, my bf pounded me at a fast pace from the start, probably because he likes bareback and it felt great from the first push. For me, it was pretty painful, being my first time, but love our first sex together as a couple. All in all, for sex with strangers or future sex with my bf, it is best to use condoms. After all, our past might come to haunt us. It is best to get tested regularly for bareback sex players too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cumminginme Posted March 20, 2017 Report Share Posted March 20, 2017 i love to be bareback by tops and filled by them it's like a job for me as a btm Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigdanbeam Posted March 20, 2017 Report Share Posted March 20, 2017 13 minutes ago, cumminginme said: i love to be bareback by tops and filled by them it's like a job for me as a btm That sounds like ur vision and mission Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cumminginme Posted March 20, 2017 Report Share Posted March 20, 2017 3 minutes ago, bigdanbeam said: That sounds like ur vision and mission nope it isn't it's it's my job to let the top wnjoy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Guest Posted April 28, 2017 Report Share Posted April 28, 2017 If he's good-looking, sexy and fit, and fucks well, will you let him shoot inside you? I will... Hornybtm 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowball Posted April 28, 2017 Author Report Share Posted April 28, 2017 On 28/04/2017 at 11:57 PM, Guest Guest said: If he's good-looking, sexy and fit, and fucks well, will you let him shoot inside you? I will... unless he is clean, else a few mins or hours worth for the life time suffering ? LFM 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LFM Posted April 28, 2017 Report Share Posted April 28, 2017 however, mouth/throat cancer or other kinds of transmitted diseases from HPV virus etc Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LFM Posted April 28, 2017 Report Share Posted April 28, 2017 On 5/24/2015 at 1:55 PM, Guest Guest said: Risk of contacting hiv if ur mouth has got no wounds at all is pretty low for blowjob cos of the linings on ur lips and saliva as protection Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Bonfire Posted April 30, 2017 Report Share Posted April 30, 2017 Omg Bareback = Trust??? If your sex partner is your bf in a long-term monogamous/ open relationship, I think there can possibly be a sufficient level of trust in his character or "safeguards" to believe that he is truthful about his HIV status or his sex life. But, if you are having sex with a (or the same) stranger for the very first (or first few times), sex without condom is extremely risky. There is literally ZERO basis or information to conclude that you will not get infected with STD. Your life, career, finances and relations can be ruined because of one single uninformed and irrational decision. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheAverage Posted May 8, 2017 Report Share Posted May 8, 2017 Is raw fucking a good feeling? Is it worth the risk? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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