My Crush Is Straight + Is it wrong to Fall for A Str8 Guy (Compiled)

[Guest Guest]

I've met this guy at an event, he seems cool and fun to hang out w so naturally we remained close even after the event ended. We whatsapped each other quite frequently, topics ranging from girls (yes girls) to anything out of the sky. We met occasionally to chill and stuff, just like normal friends. We talked about sexual orientation, and i'm sure he's straight although he's comfortable talking about other orientation. I do treat him like my best bud, but sometimes I think i've gone deeper. Like not talking to him makes my day feels empty. I don't know.

I enjoy the company of both boys and girls, having girlfriends before. But somehow i kinda got attracted to the male body as well and it became a secret fantasy when i'm horny/bored (i watch straight porn too) I had no interest and plans to start a relationship w a guy but my friend above was the first.

WHATS HAPPENING.

I think first thing first, fuck him to see if you enjoy Him. If not, no point thinking abt starting anything with Hin.

[Guest Guest]

My married man fuck buddy asked me if I would fuck his Wife last night.... He said my fat cock will fill his wife's hole more fully and because I can control when I cum, I would make her more shiok and happy. He said he wld ask his Wife only if I agree first.

What shld I do? I am a bit scare because I have never entered a pussy before....

Been there done that. The feeling of two cocks rubbing against each other inside her is unbelievably nice. I tried it with my sex buddy on a Thai prostitue and she said it was the best fuck she has had!

[Guest Ener]

Have you ever thought of how shiok your Wife wld feel to have double penetration by you in her pussy and your bf's dick in her ass? Not to mention how nice it is for the two cocks to slide against each other separated y the thin wall between ass n pussy....

Have you ever thought of giving your Wife more pleasure than what touchable been giving her.... May be yours is not thick or Ling enough, may be you cum too quickly for her or just may be yours no longer hard enough for her!

So don't be selfish to not give your Wife all these pleasurable moments, if you truly love her.

Ermz... I am not married... If I was, I wouldn't be hanging out here... With thoughts like yours, no comments bro.. u happy can liaoz... But do note... Inhumane acts like this usually comes with karma. Animal. I do on the other hand would like to see how you look like. Glassy nerd behind the computer with all the weird shit fantasies that you have? Might be.

[96miniboy]

anyone got in relationship with str8 guys before sex?

[Guest Guest]

This happened to me many years ago , 

 i was doing my in-camp reservise with the police force , 

and i saw this new malay guy ...

wow totally my type , young strong tall dark and very handsome face , 

and i was very happy that we will be staying together for the next 2 weeks or so ,

and i really can't tell you how happy i was when he was assign to my room ( 6 in one room ) ,

i'm straight acting , so there's no way anyone know i was gay ,and i used the  opportunity  to get to know him better ,( very easy going person , but was attached with his long time girlfriend)

and when i saw him shirtless at night , i just can't keep my eye away from him 

6 packs ...really really fit ...

anyway ..after the reservise we still keep in contact , and some time i'll meet with him for drinks , 

it was really causal meeting . as i knew he was straight so wasn't expect anything from him , 

but one night i had too much drink ,and was really high , i touch him and told him i like him alot , 

i was surprised that he took it very well , just told me he is straight and we can only be friend and nothing else ,

i was so embarrassed by what i did that night that i stop calling him after , 

so you can tell how surprised i was when he called me months later , 

asking to meet up , 

we met in a pub in duxton . 

and after few drink he told me that he has been jobless for a while and his girlfriend was pregnant with his child , 

and money was running out ,and he needed a loan from him . 

i know i should not do what i did , but with few drinks down , and my sex god sitting in front of me ,

i told him that ya ,

i can loan him the money but with condition ,

he need to spend the night with me , and to assure him i told him there will be no sex involved ,

just smell him  , touch him , and i will cum on his bod ,

and he can take his time to return the money to me . ...

to my surprised he agreed , guess he was running out of option , 

we finished our drink , and went back to my place , 

i started undress him , and kissing his body all over , 

he smell soooo good ,

i cum like 3 times that night ,

he was just lying on my bed like a dead body and let me do my thing to him .....

really my best night ever ...

 

well that was the last night i saw him or hear from him ,

he didn't return the money to me , 

and i also didn't call to ask for it ....( not a big amount anyway ) 

 

that's it ...just to share with you guys my encounter with a straight guy ....

but after that i have countless encounter with different straight with the young handsome malay and indian guys from singapore ( MONEY do the trick ) ...

 

 

[cutejack]

Aiyah.wrong title la.should post under money boys or male.pros.lol

[Guest Guest]

good one

[Maple6446]

I am studying my diploma at ite cc. I fell in love with a senior . I started school in April and I remember the 1st time I saw him ,he was in class . He is the 1st senior to look at me and smile ( still have that picture in my head) .We always have eye contact when ever we walk pass each other class .Sadly The only chance we get to talk is when we walk pass each other going for our next class. I will get very nervous when I talk to him and gave him weird answer ( always regret)when he ask me questions. One day I was having a very Long break so I sat on the sofa outside our classroom I saw him so I went and talk to him ,I pull myself together and ask for his number and follow by his Instagram. Hoping that he would be...

I think he is straight...

Edited May 27, 2016 by Maple6446

[lonely57]

i fell for my senior too back in my days.. like way way back in secondary school. but i had no contact on him whatsoever.. hes gone now.. dont know where he went after all these years.. think hes straight too.. =/

 

straight guys huh.. all we can ever do is to fantasize =/

[J0Boo]

Just gotta learn how to move on fast. 

 

Money do the trick? You now treat your "crush" as a MB the moment he didn't return you the money. What kind of mindset is this...

[Guest GUEST]

On 25/09/2015 at 6:19 PM, Guest Guest said:

This happened to me many years ago , 

 i was doing my in-camp reservise with the police force , 

and i saw this new malay guy ...

wow totally my type , young strong tall dark and very handsome face , 

and i was very happy that we will be staying together for the next 2 weeks or so ,

and i really can't tell you how happy i was when he was assign to my room ( 6 in one room ) ,

i'm straight acting , so there's no way anyone know i was gay ,and i used the  opportunity  to get to know him better ,( very easy going person , but was attached with his long time girlfriend)

and when i saw him shirtless at night , i just can't keep my eye away from him 

6 packs ...really really fit ...

anyway ..after the reservise we still keep in contact , and some time i'll meet with him for drinks , 

it was really causal meeting . as i knew he was straight so wasn't expect anything from him , 

but one night i had too much drink ,and was really high , i touch him and told him i like him alot , 

i was surprised that he took it very well , just told me he is straight and we can only be friend and nothing else ,

i was so embarrassed by what i did that night that i stop calling him after , 

so you can tell how surprised i was when he called me months later , 

asking to meet up , 

we met in a pub in duxton . 

and after few drink he told me that he has been jobless for a while and his girlfriend was pregnant with his child , 

and money was running out ,and he needed a loan from him . 

i know i should not do what i did , but with few drinks down , and my sex god sitting in front of me ,

i told him that ya ,

i can loan him the money but with condition ,

he need to spend the night with me , and to assure him i told him there will be no sex involved ,

just smell him  , touch him , and i will cum on his bod ,

and he can take his time to return the money to me . ...

to my surprised he agreed , guess he was running out of option , 

we finished our drink , and went back to my place , 

i started undress him , and kissing his body all over , 

he smell soooo good ,

i cum like 3 times that night ,

he was just lying on my bed like a dead body and let me do my thing to him .....

really my best night ever ...

 

well that was the last night i saw him or hear from him ,

he didn't return the money to me , 

and i also didn't call to ask for it ....( not a big amount anyway ) 

 

that's it ...just to share with you guys my encounter with a straight guy ....

but after that i have countless encounter with different straight with the young handsome malay and indian guys from singapore ( MONEY do the trick ) ...

 

 

 

if this is true then you are very dumb. shld hv asked to fuck him and more!

[lonely57]

On 25/09/2015 at 6:19 PM, Guest Guest said:

This happened to me many years ago , 

 i was doing my in-camp reservise with the police force , 

and i saw this new malay guy ...

wow totally my type , young strong tall dark and very handsome face , 

and i was very happy that we will be staying together for the next 2 weeks or so ,

and i really can't tell you how happy i was when he was assign to my room ( 6 in one room ) ,

i'm straight acting , so there's no way anyone know i was gay ,and i used the  opportunity  to get to know him better ,( very easy going person , but was attached with his long time girlfriend)

and when i saw him shirtless at night , i just can't keep my eye away from him 

6 packs ...really really fit ...

anyway ..after the reservise we still keep in contact , and some time i'll meet with him for drinks , 

it was really causal meeting . as i knew he was straight so wasn't expect anything from him , 

but one night i had too much drink ,and was really high , i touch him and told him i like him alot , 

i was surprised that he took it very well , just told me he is straight and we can only be friend and nothing else ,

i was so embarrassed by what i did that night that i stop calling him after , 

so you can tell how surprised i was when he called me months later , 

asking to meet up , 

we met in a pub in duxton . 

and after few drink he told me that he has been jobless for a while and his girlfriend was pregnant with his child , 

and money was running out ,and he needed a loan from him . 

i know i should not do what i did , but with few drinks down , and my sex god sitting in front of me ,

i told him that ya ,

i can loan him the money but with condition ,

he need to spend the night with me , and to assure him i told him there will be no sex involved ,

just smell him  , touch him , and i will cum on his bod ,

and he can take his time to return the money to me . ...

to my surprised he agreed , guess he was running out of option , 

we finished our drink , and went back to my place , 

i started undress him , and kissing his body all over , 

he smell soooo good ,

i cum like 3 times that night ,

he was just lying on my bed like a dead body and let me do my thing to him .....

really my best night ever ...

 

well that was the last night i saw him or hear from him ,

he didn't return the money to me , 

and i also didn't call to ask for it ....( not a big amount anyway ) 

 

that's it ...just to share with you guys my encounter with a straight guy ....

but after that i have countless encounter with different straight with the young handsome malay and indian guys from singapore ( MONEY do the trick ) ...

 

 

 

easily satisfied arent u? i wouldnt wana carry on touching what I cant have. 

[Carpenter]

 

On 9/25/2015 at 5:19 PM, Guest Guest said:

 We met in a pub in duxton . 

and after few drink he told me that he has been jobless for a while and his girlfriend was pregnant with his child , 

and money was running out ,and he needed a loan from him . 

i know i should not do what i did                                          

well that was the last night i saw him or hear from him ,

he didn't return the money to me , 

and i also didn't call to ask for it ....( not a big amount anyway ) 

 

that's it ...just to share with you guys my encounter with a straight guy ....

but after that i have countless encounter with different straight with the young handsome malay and indian guys from singapore ( MONEY do the trick ) ...

 

 

Well, yeah thats stupid on your part. He knows you like him, he knows you'll do anything for him. It doesnt matter how small the amount of money requested.

I could only suggests u to stop drinking as u should have learn from your stupid mistake when u confessed to him.

[Loves human dick]

On 25/09/2015 at 6:19 PM, Guest Guest said:

This happened to me many years ago , 

 i was doing my in-camp reservise with the police force , 

and i saw this new malay guy ...

wow totally my type , young strong tall dark and very handsome face , 

and i was very happy that we will be staying together for the next 2 weeks or so ,

and i really can't tell you how happy i was when he was assign to my room ( 6 in one room ) ,

i'm straight acting , so there's no way anyone know i was gay ,and i used the  opportunity  to get to know him better ,( very easy going person , but was attached with his long time girlfriend)

and when i saw him shirtless at night , i just can't keep my eye away from him 

6 packs ...really really fit ...

anyway ..after the reservise we still keep in contact , and some time i'll meet with him for drinks , 

it was really causal meeting . as i knew he was straight so wasn't expect anything from him , 

but one night i had too much drink ,and was really high , i touch him and told him i like him alot , 

i was surprised that he took it very well , just told me he is straight and we can only be friend and nothing else ,

i was so embarrassed by what i did that night that i stop calling him after , 

so you can tell how surprised i was when he called me months later , 

asking to meet up , 

we met in a pub in duxton . 

and after few drink he told me that he has been jobless for a while and his girlfriend was pregnant with his child , 

and money was running out ,and he needed a loan from him . 

i know i should not do what i did , but with few drinks down , and my sex god sitting in front of me ,

i told him that ya ,

i can loan him the money but with condition ,

he need to spend the night with me , and to assure him i told him there will be no sex involved ,

just smell him  , touch him , and i will cum on his bod ,

and he can take his time to return the money to me . ...

to my surprised he agreed , guess he was running out of option , 

we finished our drink , and went back to my place , 

i started undress him , and kissing his body all over , 

he smell soooo good ,

i cum like 3 times that night ,

he was just lying on my bed like a dead body and let me do my thing to him .....

really my best night ever ...

 

well that was the last night i saw him or hear from him ,

he didn't return the money to me , 

and i also didn't call to ask for it ....( not a big amount anyway ) 

 

that's it ...just to share with you guys my encounter with a straight guy ....

but after that i have countlewss encounter with different straight with the young handsome malay and indian guys from singapore ( MONEY do the trick ) ...

 

 

Wow.....nice experience...

Based on ur experience...

Malay,chinese or indian guy body smells better / turn you on quicker?

 

[Loves human dick]

On 18/09/2015 at 7:45 PM, Guest Guest said:

I met him 11 months ago through BW. Since then we have been seeing each other a few times a week and text each other a few times a day. We have been on holiday together 5 times. I have sucked and drank his cum 77 times as of today and he has fucked me Raw and cummed inside me 4 times. He doesn't like to suck but wld let me cum between his thighs. Before I met him, I was with another guy for 10 years on a one sided relatiinship where he sucked me for last 10 years and I didn't reciprocate. He is married with two kids and I am the single one. I dont know how this is going to end between us but for now, I am just going to enjoy sucking and drying him each time I see him....

Wow....tatz nice

[Guest Mona]

I know that we will not be forever so I'm just making the most of my time with him.

[ahb0yy91]

On 9/18/2015 at 1:45 PM, molal said:

I flirt with str8s all the time. It can be quite fun especially when they play along however don't expect any actual action or actual reciprocation. Expect nothing and just enjoy the flirts.

This way, when some do reciprocate with hugs or maybe a tease along your thighs, you can properly savour and appreciate.

But never forget the cardinal rule: expect nothing, and all you get shall be gold.

How do you tell if some straight guys are homophobic ? 

 

[cutejack]

4 hours ago, ahb0yy91 said:

How do you tell if some straight guys are homophobic ? 

 

Through homoparty.

[sman.sg]

Sigh, the guy i had a crush on for the last one year, finally getting married this weekend too his gal. Sigh.....

[Bily]

I have a crush on my classmate..but we never spoken .. even tho I tried I think. 

He reminded me of the first guy.. I have you know.. whenever I'm near him or he appear I start acting weird/fangirl MY friend told me he knows but I doubt so.

[Guest CRUSHED]

I had a crush on an ex-colleague. We got close, we got comfortable. He was easy going but he was after girls. The more we spend time together, the deeper I felt my feelings went for him. I knew it was impossible. And I knew it will hurt if I stayed too close. One day just decided to cook up some reasons saying we need to be apart. Knowing him, he would never make an effort to maintain a friendship. Since I called this friendship off for whatever reasons, he would just go along with it. Yes we chatted once in a blue moon, but at one point we just stopped talking at all... and we didn't talk till the day he left the co. Lately, I started missing him (I don't know why). And I've been silently checking out his IG and FB - though I am no longer friends with him on those (his account is public for all to see). *sigh* On one hand I regretted ending the friendship. On the other, I guess it was for the better...

[Guest Guest]

I would like fo experience the same with a straight guy. How to find one?

[KINKYMALAY]

1 hour ago, Guest Guest said:

I would like fo experience the same with a straight guy. How to find one?

Experience what? Guess you would have to find one who is open to being touched and such. But just be prepared to feel hurt when he finds a girl or other things that interests him. You maybe ignored after that.

[fab]

如果你要的是曾经永远而不在乎天长地久，哪就敢敢去呗。

 

[Guest Ruben]

I believed many of you here have been there and done that. I just need a good advice that can help me to get out of this funk.

 

So im 28 and very straight acting. I have very little gay friends so far. Never had a bf before. To me I get physical with guys one-off and I would never imagine being in a relationship with one. Perhaps Im in denial Im not sure.

I got to know this guy from my drinking friends. He is 36. Basically we clicked well and started hanging out together more. Gradually we formed our own drinking clique and we meet up and chill about 2 times every week. This has been on going for a year. I like it a lot, he could pick me up, we would text on and off, its a good buddy thing going on. I love it. 

Somewhere along the way he was suspecting Im bi , I would guess its probably because I showed him a lot of care thats different from how straight guys would show bro love. And a few times when we were very drunk I would express how much I enjoy time w him etc. I never said it out openly but Im sure he knows I have a thing for him. Despite that, things continue as usual, he could pick me up from my place to meet up w our friends for drinks, the text continues, he would tease a little sometimes. I dont expect anything out of it because i know better this leads to nth. I'll be happy just having him as a good friend and that I can see him every week. 

 

Throughout the year, he went from single to having a gf and recently turned single again. A few side chicks in between which I went through all of that w him. He would confide his issues etc and we became real close genuine friends. I was grateful. I was of course also devastated when he first got attached and got jealous but I put up a front. What more can i do right. Theres a few times I was teasing him that I wanted him and thats when he hinted that he's not into that. I do it jokingly but I get the hint. I tried to distant away, pushing his invites to drinks for a while, but i really do miss him. I cant believe i fell for a straight guy. We continue hanging out as best buds until recently after his breakup, one of the side chicks which is my drinking friend too got close w him. We were in the car home 5am ish, drunk, they thought I was asleep in the back seat and they fondled a little. 

 

That strikes me really hard. It just really bites. What truly kills me is seeing him with another person so intimately and knowing that i could NEVER have him. That truly hits me hard. That night i made some excuses and jumped out of the car, took a cab despite him stopping me and all. I think he knew I saw what happened and knew im not okay. Texted me the next morning and I just brush it off pretending im ok, as usual.

 

NOW, that was a horrible night. i was devastated and I think it has became too much for me to handle. I feel like the best thing to do is to distant myself but then again I could not end this friendship, at least my heart wants him to be in my life. We had a good thing going on but to what extent can I take it? I think I got deeper into the attachment with him, everytime when we hang out and when we are got a litte drunk, my guard would be down and I would get emotional and really really sad and all. I do not like that side of myself. Its killin me inside and there is nothing i can do.

 

Make it short, I fell in love with a straight guy which I shouldnt. But the heart wants what it wants. What can i do? Pleaseee help me. Please tell me if you had experience this before and what did you do. Why does it has to be so harsh and difficult. I cant put up a front anymore, I feel really down. I need to put it aside but that would mean letting him go and that would be heartbreaking. Is this the only way out?

 

I hate this life.  Help.

 

 

[doncoin]

Well, you cannot change your sexuality just as he cannot change his. You like guys, and he likes girls. The only way really is for either him to be gay (which is not really possible) or you find someone else and move on. 

 

This is only painful simply because you cannot accept the reality of the matter. If you can accept what is, you may be sad about it, but you will get over it. However, since you are unable to accept the reality of the situation, life is going to suck. The choice is yours. 

 

You can choose to tell him how you feel about him in a respectful manner, and that you value the friendship, and that you need sometime to accept that he is straight. 

 

 

[fab]

6 hours ago, Guest Ruben said:

I believed many of you here have been there and done that. I just need a good advice that can help me to get out of this funk.

 

So im 28 and very straight acting. I have very little gay friends so far. Never had a bf before. To me I get physical with guys one-off and I would never imagine being in a relationship with one. Perhaps Im in denial Im not sure.

I got to know this guy from my drinking friends. He is 36. Basically we clicked well and started hanging out together more. Gradually we formed our own drinking clique and we meet up and chill about 2 times every week. This has been on going for a year. I like it a lot, he could pick me up, we would text on and off, its a good buddy thing going on. I love it. 

Somewhere along the way he was suspecting Im bi , I would guess its probably because I showed him a lot of care thats different from how straight guys would show bro love. And a few times when we were very drunk I would express how much I enjoy time w him etc. I never said it out openly but Im sure he knows I have a thing for him. Despite that, things continue as usual, he could pick me up from my place to meet up w our friends for drinks, the text continues, he would tease a little sometimes. I dont expect anything out of it because i know better this leads to nth. I'll be happy just having him as a good friend and that I can see him every week. 

 

Throughout the year, he went from single to having a gf and recently turned single again. A few side chicks in between which I went through all of that w him. He would confide his issues etc and we became real close genuine friends. I was grateful. I was of course also devastated when he first got attached and got jealous but I put up a front. What more can i do right. Theres a few times I was teasing him that I wanted him and thats when he hinted that he's not into that. I do it jokingly but I get the hint. I tried to distant away, pushing his invites to drinks for a while, but i really do miss him. I cant believe i fell for a straight guy. We continue hanging out as best buds until recently after his breakup, one of the side chicks which is my drinking friend too got close w him. We were in the car home 5am ish, drunk, they thought I was asleep in the back seat and they fondled a little. 

 

That strikes me really hard. It just really bites. What truly kills me is seeing him with another person so intimately and knowing that i could NEVER have him. That truly hits me hard. That night i made some excuses and jumped out of the car, took a cab despite him stopping me and all. I think he knew I saw what happened and knew im not okay. Texted me the next morning and I just brush it off pretending im ok, as usual.

 

NOW, that was a horrible night. i was devastated and I think it has became too much for me to handle. I feel like the best thing to do is to distant myself but then again I could not end this friendship, at least my heart wants him to be in my life. We had a good thing going on but to what extent can I take it? I think I got deeper into the attachment with him, everytime when we hang out and when we are got a litte drunk, my guard would be down and I would get emotional and really really sad and all. I do not like that side of myself. Its killin me inside and there is nothing i can do.

 

Make it short, I fell in love with a straight guy which I shouldnt. But the heart wants what it wants. What can i do? Pleaseee help me. Please tell me if you had experience this before and what did you do. Why does it has to be so harsh and difficult. I cant put up a front anymore, I feel really down. I need to put it aside but that would mean letting him go and that would be heartbreaking. Is this the only way out?

 

I hate this life.  Help.

 

 

 

Let go.

 

5 hours ago, doncoin said:

Well, you cannot change your sexuality just as he cannot change his. You like guys, and he likes girls. The only way really is for either him to be gay (which is not really possible) or you find someone else and move on. 

 

This is only painful simply because you cannot accept the reality of the matter. If you can accept what is, you may be sad about it, but you will get over it. However, since you are unable to accept the reality of the situation, life is going to suck. The choice is yours. 

 

You can choose to tell him how you feel about him in a respectful manner, and that you value the friendship, and that you need sometime to accept that he is straight. 

 

 

 

Come to him as a twin sister.

 

[Bennn]

7 hours ago, Guest Ruben said:

I believed many of you here have been there and done that. I just need a good advice that can help me to get out of this funk.

 

So im 28 and very straight acting. I have very little gay friends so far. Never had a bf before. To me I get physical with guys one-off and I would never imagine being in a relationship with one. Perhaps Im in denial Im not sure.

I got to know this guy from my drinking friends. He is 36. Basically we clicked well and started hanging out together more. Gradually we formed our own drinking clique and we meet up and chill about 2 times every week. This has been on going for a year. I like it a lot, he could pick me up, we would text on and off, its a good buddy thing going on. I love it. 

Somewhere along the way he was suspecting Im bi , I would guess its probably because I showed him a lot of care thats different from how straight guys would show bro love. And a few times when we were very drunk I would express how much I enjoy time w him etc. I never said it out openly but Im sure he knows I have a thing for him. Despite that, things continue as usual, he could pick me up from my place to meet up w our friends for drinks, the text continues, he would tease a little sometimes. I dont expect anything out of it because i know better this leads to nth. I'll be happy just having him as a good friend and that I can see him every week. 

 

Throughout the year, he went from single to having a gf and recently turned single again. A few side chicks in between which I went through all of that w him. He would confide his issues etc and we became real close genuine friends. I was grateful. I was of course also devastated when he first got attached and got jealous but I put up a front. What more can i do right. Theres a few times I was teasing him that I wanted him and thats when he hinted that he's not into that. I do it jokingly but I get the hint. I tried to distant away, pushing his invites to drinks for a while, but i really do miss him. I cant believe i fell for a straight guy. We continue hanging out as best buds until recently after his breakup, one of the side chicks which is my drinking friend too got close w him. We were in the car home 5am ish, drunk, they thought I was asleep in the back seat and they fondled a little. 

 

That strikes me really hard. It just really bites. What truly kills me is seeing him with another person so intimately and knowing that i could NEVER have him. That truly hits me hard. That night i made some excuses and jumped out of the car, took a cab despite him stopping me and all. I think he knew I saw what happened and knew im not okay. Texted me the next morning and I just brush it off pretending im ok, as usual.

 

NOW, that was a horrible night. i was devastated and I think it has became too much for me to handle. I feel like the best thing to do is to distant myself but then again I could not end this friendship, at least my heart wants him to be in my life. We had a good thing going on but to what extent can I take it? I think I got deeper into the attachment with him, everytime when we hang out and when we are got a litte drunk, my guard would be down and I would get emotional and really really sad and all. I do not like that side of myself. Its killin me inside and there is nothing i can do.

 

Make it short, I fell in love with a straight guy which I shouldnt. But the heart wants what it wants. What can i do? Pleaseee help me. Please tell me if you had experience this before and what did you do. Why does it has to be so harsh and difficult. I cant put up a front anymore, I feel really down. I need to put it aside but that would mean letting him go and that would be heartbreaking. Is this the only way out?

 

I hate this life.  Help.

 

 

 

Am in the same situation. There is nothing to change the fact that he is straight and nothing romantic is going to happen. I guess you have to adjust your feelings and thoughts and ask yourself are you contended to have him as your close buddy/confidant? You have to tune yourself to the fact that you can expect nothing in return other than a friendship. 

 

Otherwise, the final resort will be to distance yourself from him. It's tough i know but we all have to move on with life!

 

All the best.

[Guest Guess]

On 9/25/2015 at 6:19 PM, Guest Guest said:

This happened to me many years ago , 

 i was doing my in-camp reservise with the police force , 

and i saw this new malay guy ...

wow totally my type , young strong tall dark and very handsome face , 

and i was very happy that we will be staying together for the next 2 weeks or so ,

and i really can't tell you how happy i was when he was assign to my room ( 6 in one room ) ,

i'm straight acting , so there's no way anyone know i was gay ,and i used the  opportunity  to get to know him better ,( very easy going person , but was attached with his long time girlfriend)

and when i saw him shirtless at night , i just can't keep my eye away from him 

6 packs ...really really fit ...

anyway ..after the reservise we still keep in contact , and some time i'll meet with him for drinks , 

it was really causal meeting . as i knew he was straight so wasn't expect anything from him , 

but one night i had too much drink ,and was really high , i touch him and told him i like him alot , 

i was surprised that he took it very well , just told me he is straight and we can only be friend and nothing else ,

i was so embarrassed by what i did that night that i stop calling him after , 

so you can tell how surprised i was when he called me months later , 

asking to meet up , 

we met in a pub in duxton . 

and after few drink he told me that he has been jobless for a while and his girlfriend was pregnant with his child , 

and money was running out ,and he needed a loan from him . 

i know i should not do what i did , but with few drinks down , and my sex god sitting in front of me ,

i told him that ya ,

i can loan him the money but with condition ,

he need to spend the night with me , and to assure him i told him there will be no sex involved ,

just smell him  , touch him , and i will cum on his bod ,

and he can take his time to return the money to me . ...

to my surprised he agreed , guess he was running out of option , 

we finished our drink , and went back to my place , 

i started undress him , and kissing his body all over , 

he smell soooo good ,

i cum like 3 times that night ,

he was just lying on my bed like a dead body and let me do my thing to him .....

really my best night ever ...

 

well that was the last night i saw him or hear from him ,

he didn't return the money to me , 

and i also didn't call to ask for it ....( not a big amount anyway ) 

 

that's it ...just to share with you guys my encounter with a straight guy ....

but after that i have countless encounter with different straight with the young handsome malay and indian guys from singapore ( MONEY do the trick ) ...

 

 

If you knew how to massage, you could have got him hooked on. Imagine that you massaged him till he shook, then proceed with erotic massage. Make him so high but dun let him cum. He'll be so desperate. He'll come back to borrow money from you every month.

[Guest Let it go]

20 hours ago, Guest Ruben said:

I believed many of you here have been there and done that. I just need a good advice that can help me to get out of this funk.

 

So im 28 and very straight acting. I have very little gay friends so far. Never had a bf before. To me I get physical with guys one-off and I would never imagine being in a relationship with one. Perhaps Im in denial Im not sure.

I got to know this guy from my drinking friends. He is 36. Basically we clicked well and started hanging out together more. Gradually we formed our own drinking clique and we meet up and chill about 2 times every week. This has been on going for a year. I like it a lot, he could pick me up, we would text on and off, its a good buddy thing going on. I love it. 

Somewhere along the way he was suspecting Im bi , I would guess its probably because I showed him a lot of care thats different from how straight guys would show bro love. And a few times when we were very drunk I would express how much I enjoy time w him etc. I never said it out openly but Im sure he knows I have a thing for him. Despite that, things continue as usual, he could pick me up from my place to meet up w our friends for drinks, the text continues, he would tease a little sometimes. I dont expect anything out of it because i know better this leads to nth. I'll be happy just having him as a good friend and that I can see him every week. 

 

Throughout the year, he went from single to having a gf and recently turned single again. A few side chicks in between which I went through all of that w him. He would confide his issues etc and we became real close genuine friends. I was grateful. I was of course also devastated when he first got attached and got jealous but I put up a front. What more can i do right. Theres a few times I was teasing him that I wanted him and thats when he hinted that he's not into that. I do it jokingly but I get the hint. I tried to distant away, pushing his invites to drinks for a while, but i really do miss him. I cant believe i fell for a straight guy. We continue hanging out as best buds until recently after his breakup, one of the side chicks which is my drinking friend too got close w him. We were in the car home 5am ish, drunk, they thought I was asleep in the back seat and they fondled a little. 

 

That strikes me really hard. It just really bites. What truly kills me is seeing him with another person so intimately and knowing that i could NEVER have him. That truly hits me hard. That night i made some excuses and jumped out of the car, took a cab despite him stopping me and all. I think he knew I saw what happened and knew im not okay. Texted me the next morning and I just brush it off pretending im ok, as usual.

 

NOW, that was a horrible night. i was devastated and I think it has became too much for me to handle. I feel like the best thing to do is to distant myself but then again I could not end this friendship, at least my heart wants him to be in my life. We had a good thing going on but to what extent can I take it? I think I got deeper into the attachment with him, everytime when we hang out and when we are got a litte drunk, my guard would be down and I would get emotional and really really sad and all. I do not like that side of myself. Its killin me inside and there is nothing i can do.

 

Make it short, I fell in love with a straight guy which I shouldnt. But the heart wants what it wants. What can i do? Pleaseee help me. Please tell me if you had experience this before and what did you do. Why does it has to be so harsh and difficult. I cant put up a front anymore, I feel really down. I need to put it aside but that would mean letting him go and that would be heartbreaking. Is this the only way out?

 

I hate this life.  Help.

 

 

 

Learn to let go, easier said than done but ive been thru it before. 

 

After a while, u'll be ok. Being creatures of emotions, u will feel the hurt and pain initially but after aperiod of few weeks, you'll be ok. 

 

Exercise helps as endorphin sets in after a run. First step is always difficult but ull get used to it

 

[Guest Ruben]

15 hours ago, Guest Let it go said:

 

Learn to let go, easier said than done but ive been thru it before. 

 

After a while, u'll be ok. Being creatures of emotions, u will feel the hurt and pain initially but after aperiod of few weeks, you'll be ok. 

 

Exercise helps as endorphin sets in after a run. First step is always difficult but ull get used to it

 

Thank you for your advice. 

[Guest Ruben]

On 8/1/2017 at 8:32 AM, Bennn said:

 

Am in the same situation. There is nothing to change the fact that he is straight and nothing romantic is going to happen. I guess you have to adjust your feelings and thoughts and ask yourself are you contended to have him as your close buddy/confidant? You have to tune yourself to the fact that you can expect nothing in return other than a friendship. 

 

Otherwise, the final resort will be to distance yourself from him. It's tough i know but we all have to move on with life!

 

All the best.

Thank you, all the best to you too

[Guest Ruben]

On 8/1/2017 at 2:17 AM, doncoin said:

Well, you cannot change your sexuality just as he cannot change his. You like guys, and he likes girls. The only way really is for either him to be gay (which is not really possible) or you find someone else and move on. 

 

This is only painful simply because you cannot accept the reality of the matter. If you can accept what is, you may be sad about it, but you will get over it. However, since you are unable to accept the reality of the situation, life is going to suck. The choice is yours. 

 

You can choose to tell him how you feel about him in a respectful manner, and that you value the friendship, and that you need sometime to accept that he is straight. 

 

 

THANK YOU 

[KINKYMALAY]

My crush's birthday is coming up. But we have not really talked for very long. Should I send a birthday wish?

[Guest No big deal]

What's ur hesitation abt sending bday wish? Nothing more than recipient being remembered,unless u had any animosity. 

[KINKYMALAY]

8 hours ago, Guest No big deal said:

What's ur hesitation abt sending bday wish? Nothing more than recipient being remembered,unless u had any animosity. 

Something went wrong and we stopped talking much.

[Fiacla]

On 01/08/2017 at 1:19 AM, Guest Ruben said:

I believed many of you here have been there and done that. I just need a good advice that can help me to get out of this funk.

 

So im 28 and very straight acting. I have very little gay friends so far. Never had a bf before. To me I get physical with guys one-off and I would never imagine being in a relationship with one. Perhaps Im in denial Im not sure.

I got to know this guy from my drinking friends. He is 36. Basically we clicked well and started hanging out together more. Gradually we formed our own drinking clique and we meet up and chill about 2 times every week. This has been on going for a year. I like it a lot, he could pick me up, we would text on and off, its a good buddy thing going on. I love it. 

Somewhere along the way he was suspecting Im bi , I would guess its probably because I showed him a lot of care thats different from how straight guys would show bro love. And a few times when we were very drunk I would express how much I enjoy time w him etc. I never said it out openly but Im sure he knows I have a thing for him. Despite that, things continue as usual, he could pick me up from my place to meet up w our friends for drinks, the text continues, he would tease a little sometimes. I dont expect anything out of it because i know better this leads to nth. I'll be happy just having him as a good friend and that I can see him every week. 

 

Throughout the year, he went from single to having a gf and recently turned single again. A few side chicks in between which I went through all of that w him. He would confide his issues etc and we became real close genuine friends. I was grateful. I was of course also devastated when he first got attached and got jealous but I put up a front. What more can i do right. Theres a few times I was teasing him that I wanted him and thats when he hinted that he's not into that. I do it jokingly but I get the hint. I tried to distant away, pushing his invites to drinks for a while, but i really do miss him. I cant believe i fell for a straight guy. We continue hanging out as best buds until recently after his breakup, one of the side chicks which is my drinking friend too got close w him. We were in the car home 5am ish, drunk, they thought I was asleep in the back seat and they fondled a little. 

 

That strikes me really hard. It just really bites. What truly kills me is seeing him with another person so intimately and knowing that i could NEVER have him. That truly hits me hard. That night i made some excuses and jumped out of the car, took a cab despite him stopping me and all. I think he knew I saw what happened and knew im not okay. Texted me the next morning and I just brush it off pretending im ok, as usual.

 

NOW, that was a horrible night. i was devastated and I think it has became too much for me to handle. I feel like the best thing to do is to distant myself but then again I could not end this friendship, at least my heart wants him to be in my life. We had a good thing going on but to what extent can I take it? I think I got deeper into the attachment with him, everytime when we hang out and when we are got a litte drunk, my guard would be down and I would get emotional and really really sad and all. I do not like that side of myself. Its killin me inside and there is nothing i can do.

 

Make it short, I fell in love with a straight guy which I shouldnt. But the heart wants what it wants. What can i do? Pleaseee help me. Please tell me if you had experience this before and what did you do. Why does it has to be so harsh and difficult. I cant put up a front anymore, I feel really down. I need to put it aside but that would mean letting him go and that would be heartbreaking. Is this the only way out?

 

I hate this life.  Help.

 

 

If you able to avoid him at all cost, then avoid him. Only time will heal. U aste still young. U can try open up to him, if he despises you of who you are, then take this opportunity to heal your heart since he will also avoid you.

 

Been through this in my younger days. Just like you,  im str8 acting and have very little gay frds. At the moment i have only 1 gay frd who we will message each other once awhile. I still easily have crushes with the str8 and already 40. 

 

Its best you correct yourself while you r still young. Go search for your love. Str8 crushes will never have happy ending. 

[Guest Roll eyes]

They only wnt pussies, pussies and pussies. How hard is that to get into your stubborn heads? You can't force a gay to like a girl, neither can you get a straight guy to like a guy, absorb this.

[fab]

Never trouble trouble even if trouble troubles u.

 

Stay away from trouble.

 

[Ben Ben Ben]

It's like waiting for a plane at a harbour or waiting for a ship at an airport. Mission Impossible! 

[EQUINOXx]

I remember always staring at my straight crush and he said: "don't make me POUND you". (Obviously bad choice of wording)  so I said: "pound me la!".

 

He got very pissed and punched me, I fought back and we started fighting lol

[fab]

1 hour ago, EQUINOXx said:

I remember always staring at my straight crush and he said: "don't make me POUND you". (Obviously bad choice of wording)  so I said: "pound me la!".

 

He got very pissed and punched me, I fought back and we started fighting lol

 

Prolly u so itchy that u heard punch as pound.

[EQUINOXx]

2 minutes ago, fab said:

 

Prolly u so itchy that u heard punch as pound.

Nope.. he actually said pound.. he didn't realise pound has two meaning lol..

 

He thought pound just means to hit someone 

 

 

[fab]

2 minutes ago, EQUINOXx said:

Nope.. he actually said pound.. he didn't realise pound has two meaning lol..

 

He thought pound just means to hit someone 

 

 

Maybe if u tussle with him a little longer, he may get a hardon.

 

[Guest Fightcocks]

1 hour ago, EQUINOXx said:

I remember always staring at my straight crush and he said: "don't make me POUND you". (Obviously bad choice of wording)  so I said: "pound me la!".

 

He got very pissed and punched me, I fought back and we started fighting lol

 

Oh yeah, fighting.  Like that?

[EQUINOXx]

32 minutes ago, Guest Fightcocks said:

 

Oh yeah, fighting.  Like that?

Aiyo he's straight and he really hit hard lol..

 

But im also really crazy so if anyone hits me, I won't hesitate fighting back hahaha. 

 

[EQUINOXx]

59 minutes ago, fab said:

Maybe if u tussle with him a little longer, he may get a hardon.

 

He's straight haha.

 

I remembered showing him my camera album which was full of his photos.. he went to complain to the teacher and I had to delete all his photos lol 

[KINKYMALAY]

6 hours ago, EQUINOXx said:

He's straight haha.

 

I remembered showing him my camera album which was full of his photos.. he went to complain to the teacher and I had to delete all his photos lol 

wah wat age were both of u? Until complain to 'cher.

[cutejack]

14 hours ago, EQUINOXx said:

He's straight haha.

 

I remembered showing him my camera album which was full of his photos.. he went to complain to the teacher and I had to delete all his photos lol 

Actually the fela is an idiot.sorry to say that.u look so cute with thick eyebrow n he doesn't like u.if i wasin his shoe.first time meet will initiate a long n passionate sex.

[Guest Lumpar]

1 hour ago, cutejack said:

Actually the fela is an idiot.sorry to say that.u look so cute with thick eyebrow n he doesn't like u.if i wasin his shoe.first time meet will initiate a long n passionate sex.

Fake picture la