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Lick my arse and I'll suck your cock.

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10 hours ago, sctk96 said:

I get really turned off when the guy forces my mouth open to spit his saliva into it during kissing. Just eww

 

I do not understand why anybody would do this. It is disgusting, gross, inconsiderate, nasty, and possibly disease spreading.

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I am the original threadstarter and wow 5 years have already passed. Didn't know this thread would still exist. Times have changed indeed. Msn? Now its grindr and jackd. Amazing how technology have changed in the span of 5 years..and oh yeah I feel so old now.

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Based on my limited experience, 

I'd say I'd get turned off when the top isnt active/ dominant enough, or when he tries to get intimate and lovey-dovey with me when it's supposed to be a one-time hookup thing. 

And with my ex-bf I'd get turned off when he tries to cum into my mouth even tho I keep telling him no (yea I know some ppl like it, I'm just not one of those ppl :/ ). So the funny thing was like my mouth was so trained in sucking him off that I knew when he was gonna cum LMAO so what I'd do was to quickly get his dick out of my mouth and let him cum on my face instead as some form of concession. Hahaha those were the days XD

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17 hours ago, 98boi said:

I'd say I'd get turned off when the top isnt active/ dominant enough, or when he tries to get intimate and lovey-dovey with me when it's supposed to be a one-time hookup thing.

 

Some tops have that kind of personality because they believe it makes bottoms feel more comfortable and think the penetration will hurt less.

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On 12/18/2016 at 4:01 PM, Guest Nega said:

 

Some tops have that kind of personality because they believe it makes bottoms feel more comfortable and think the penetration will hurt less.

That's where the top must be so experienced to feel out the type of bottom and act accordingly without even being told.

 

These are few but I've met some. Because I look manly, most will think I'm a top. If it's a 0 or some top who is not my cup of tea, I'll reject them firmly. But if it's a top that I think is dominant, I'll put up only a half hearted token rejection push but "accidentally" let him have obvious chances. All these push and pull playing hard to get, a weaker top will be too considerate and be nice to give up. It's fine by me that he's a nice guy but not for sex. We part amicably.

 

Only those dominant tops will persist to tease until finally his finger got into me. That moment when I freezed just enough short moment for his finger to wiggle some inside, it's I know you know even though I pushed it away and tried to look proper. Then come the crucial test moment...either he take me by force or I'll walk away.

 

By force means like almost rape, pull off my towel, hug me tightly even though I'm struggling away and finally penetrate me. When his cock finally breaks through, I'm all his and turned into putty in his hands to strip me totally of my pretense masculinity.  He can fuck me openly or lead me into a room. Those who saw my aloofness previously suddenly turned into submission will gather to watch my humiliation being fucked like a whore.

 

Of course playing hard to get means this type of fun rarely happens. Because really too many soft, considerate nice tops here who respect my masculinity too much. But it's either that or I'm not in the right mood to be fucked. When I gets it, I want it hard and dirty. Any less is too vanilla sex. If you want to take down my masculinity, you better be worth it, else beat it.

 

 

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On 2/26/2019 at 9:11 PM, jzlookin said:

hahahaha needs better breads like sourdough kinds? ;pp

 

but yes body odour (it's different from a natural man scent - which is hot AF) and foul breath is gross as. 

 

also, inconsiderate guys. 

What is AF?

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1 hour ago, -Ignored- said:

What is AF?

 

I think it is a expletive word. 

should be the verb for coitus.

and the a stands for "seperti".

 

hot a f...

 

it's new kidsters on the block (milleniums) spelling...

but I could be wrong

 

 

 

 

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On 3/1/2019 at 7:27 PM, -Ignored- said:

What is AF?

 

it's really not uncommon or a millenial term... i guess it depends on where you are. 

 

tbh ( to be honest) it's not really used much in singapore so my bad on that usage.

 

i'm currently studying in australia (been there for almost 6 years) so got quite used to saying "YOU'RE YUMMY AS" or "YOU'RE HOT AF (as fuck)". it's the aussie variant of singlish.. their local "slang". 

 

 

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Yes i learnt something and it does “spark joy”

 

10 minutes ago, jzlookin said:

but i guess bringing different perspectives and terms into the mix makes life interesting ay? at least in the future when you hear someone telling you you're sexy af u know they're not cursing u or whatnot. 

 

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Some tops must have read the face fuck thread & got inspired by the actions described there.

One guy tried doing that to me few nights ago & totally messed up my neatly styled hair when he forcefully held my head & choked me with his big hard cock.

Messing up my hair during sex is a big no no for me & I hit back hard on him by giving him a deep bite instead of deep throat. 

   

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On 3/9/2019 at 3:46 PM, Truth said:

Some tops must have read the face fuck thread & got inspired by the actions described there.

One guy tried doing that to me few nights ago & totally messed up my neatly styled hair when he forcefully held my head & choked me with his big hard cock.

Messing up my hair during sex is a big no no for me & I hit back hard on him by giving him a deep bite instead of deep throat. 

   

This... has to be told .... he may not know or aware.

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On 9/11/2018 at 1:23 AM, Guest Volga Oak Trees said:

Bad breath definitely. One time I asked someone to get into my home for fun. We were already naked but when I smelled his breathe, I asked him to leave right away.

 

Just give him mouth wash will do. Why the extreme? 

 

 

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11 hours ago, Xiaoxianrou said:

 

Just give him mouth wash will do. Why the extreme? 

 

 

I find usually this kind of "extreme" ppl rather sissy and too emotional or tends to low EQ ones. 

I myself turn too obsessive with my mouth hygiene when i start having braces, hope it become a good habit after my braces done. Yes bad breath is a turn off but being rude also turn off

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in a way, u r right

 saw a guy trying to get to know a gal (foreigner) , but he spells "gay" aloud
from his clutch bag, his clothing, his brow and the way his eyes looks
i m so sorry but (it all tells me that he is pressurized to go for matchmaking and get married asap)

also
i was listening to a grp of ladies, they said many tried to intro men to them, but she claimed they are all gays
Her friends asked how does she know?
she replied they way they gestured and speaks just say so much about their orientation

So it is a turn off to straights too 

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24 minutes ago, -Ignored- said:

in a way, u r right

 saw a guy trying to get to know a gal (foreigner) , but he spells "gay" aloud
from his clutch bag, his clothing, his brow and the way his eyes looks
i m so sorry but (it all tells me that he is pressurized to go for matchmaking and get married asap)

also
i was listening to a grp of ladies, they said many tried to intro men to them, but she claimed they are all gays
Her friends asked how does she know?
she replied they way they gestured and speaks just say so much about their orientation

So it is a turn off to straights too 

People who create multiple nicks and talks to himself.

 

And people who tucks in shirt into shorts and calls it high fashion

 

 

Those turn me off

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On 3/9/2019 at 10:22 AM, TwoChnBTMs said:

Tops who cant fuck...!!!!

 

The statement is too general and there is no elaboration.

Not every bottom is the same either.

From times it can be difficult for tops to do a good job.

And never forget , tops are human beings and not machines. We are different every day. Horny like hell, half dry because masturbated during shower in the morning, tired from work, horniness level at medium...

 

I met those bottoms who asked a lot before you met, that "how long can you fuck", "how many times can you come", if I always had an answer to these questions. I don't have an answer.

Tops have certain conditions too. You have the real hot bottom, just the type you like, even with best efforts to do a good job, it just overcomes you, the top will complain it was too short.

(Give him a second go).

The bottom that asks you at every 30s "Are you coming?" I never know , is it he has too much pain and can't endure?

There are even bottoms that you can fuck 1 hour and they still would claim it was too short. Then watch porn if you don't know what's real and fiction (even if it looks real).

 

Have you had that bottom that starts moving away from you? Open your mouth if you have pain. We might be disappointed not to finish the job, but we understand.

 

Then bottoms that make noises which you can interprete, is it pain, is it enjoyment?

 

You can fuck hard and deep, some bottoms can't take it. Others ask you to fuck like in slow motion, the tops might start getting soft.

 

My worst bottoms are those who disallow you to come. After 30s "Stop Stop Stop". 30s later: "Go on". 1 Min later : "Don't move, don't move" but don't pull out." OK, right. 2 mins later, now go  on... until you just lose your mood.

 

I know one guy who doesn't like it long. you really need to have your body in control to come at his "timing".

 

To the guy who wrote "tops who can't fuck" I would say: Then, you do the job as the bottom and show him how to fuck. As him to just be on bottom and you do the show for him.

 

 

 

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On 3/9/2019 at 3:24 PM, -Ignored- said:

u mean cannot last?? i m not those who will last long too

what is your definition of lasting?...i mean foreplay and fucking if cannot last more than 20 minutes is a big no no for most of us bottom i think...i mean after sucking you and u can only poke for about 2 to 3 minutes and jizz already ..haha..no thanks

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4 minutes ago, Guest bottom said:

what is your definition of lasting?...i mean foreplay and fucking if cannot last more than 20 minutes is a big no no for most of us bottom i think...i mean after sucking you and u can only poke for about 2 to 3 minutes and jizz already ..haha..no thanks

foreplay is foreplay lah

I posted the standard for all

, i m sorry but this is the reality
which is why the sauna is a carousell, many go around hunting for more next rounds
 

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58 minutes ago, Guest Klooks said:

I myself turn too obsessive with my mouth hygiene when i start having braces, hope it become a good habit after my braces done. Yes bad breath is a turn off but being rude also turn off

 

That is an issue for many expats here. I started avoiding meeting people shortly after breakfast, lunch or dinner.

There are certain foods which can cause bad breath (must not be lack of hygiene).

 

I once made a sex appointment with a local guy from the majority ethnic group. (Damn, which one was that). As he insisted on meeting at 1.45pm, I wrote him to avoid eating some smelly food. The messages I received back were hilarious. I think the word "racist" was already one of the kindest. Even as a Ang Moh I would not eat some garlic bread and french (fresh) garlic vinaigrette on a salad before I date a guy. I didn't even know him. Just called off the sex date. 

To be honest, there are some food dishes (in Asia/ Singapore) which cause your breath to smell bad from the onset. Even asking people to brush teeth wouldn't help, the smell is just there.

 

Back some time someone wrote that here at another point. Bad breath is personal. What one mind find pleasant would not be the same for another. Why do we say: If the chemistry is right?

Yes, we smell and taste different. And we smell and taste different to the others too.

Did it never happen to you that you kissed a guy for a long time and at the end you felt his taste wasn't the same as at the start?

 

I personally would always tell the guy that I can't do it because of bad breath. Give him a chance to improve.

On the other hand, guys with that excessive amount of mouth wash don't taste good or nice while kissing either.

 

For me as an Ang Moh, the different tastes of the guys in different parts in Asia are already something interesting.

And if it is a sex date, then you just don't kiss.

 

I might not taste as good to the Asian either. Here, I sometimes warn guys at evenings before they want to come over, that I ate (excessively) cheese. it is a dinner dish for many Ang Mohs. If they call it off, I fully understand...

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17 minutes ago, Guest bottom said:

what is your definition of lasting?...i mean foreplay and fucking if cannot last more than 20 minutes is a big no no for most of us bottom i think...i mean after sucking you and u can only poke for about 2 to 3 minutes and jizz already ..haha..no thanks

 

And a second round? As tops you meet bottoms who come while you fuck them after 3 mins too. (the worst are those bottoms who then cannot be fucked any longer).

As a bottom I would take it as a compliment if someone comes very fast on a first meet up. You are just very hot to the other.

We can try to last long, but sometimes it just "bursts" out even with best control.

Just give him a second round. At  the second round you might be the one who stops the top because you can't endure it any longer (as he might then fuck too long).

 

 

 

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don't think it's the ang mohs

i've had local dudes who have the same habits too.

specifically, as much as i like chicken rice or thai curry, i don't wanna be smelling and eating it from your mouth

it's quite a major turn-off

 

10 minutes ago, Guest Ang Moh said:

 

That is an issue for many expats here. I started avoiding meeting people shortly after breakfast, lunch or dinner.

There are certain foods which can cause bad breath (must not be lack of hygiene).

 

 

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