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It has lesser to do with the physical feeling of it being raw. It's the idea. Most guys are animalistic beings, especially when it comes to sex, being raw just feels natural. People say it's because it feels warmer or more "shoik" or whatever they call it are basically expressing the emotions they feel when fucking or being fucked raw. The physical different may not be that significant on its own. But when you combine it with the two of you being uninhibitedly connected, skin on skin, no barriers. It enhances the physical sensation. And of course the ultimate gratification would be when the top cums inside the guy. That idea along, even if it's never carrried out for whatever reason, is enough to boost the sensations you are feeling. It's really hard to explain and I assume people have different thoughts of this, but in my opinion, when having raw sex, the other person isn't a guy you're fucking, he becomes more like an extension of yourself. They may not even need to be any emotional attachments because these primal urges and tendencies are imprinted in our DNA, just waiting to be activated.

 

These feelings can't really be replicated so there's always longing for it once you have done it and even if you have never. As we evolve we become more cautious which builds barriers blocking our primal selves from taking control. Some say this is just evolution, becoming more civilized, while others feel we shouldn't restrict ourselves out of fear - but of course take precautions, as much as you can. It's a personal choice and should always be YOUR CHOICE, no one should be making this decision for you.

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On ‎6‎/‎6‎/‎2017 at 0:47 AM, Shenlongjian said:

I'm top and I have tried both, got to admit that raw feels better. But no alot better actually.

 

Dun understand why the hype of fucking raw. Anyone can share some thoughts?

it feels better of course I will stick to safe sex, though it feel better

nevertheless, it is always the btm who requested to do it raw

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7 minutes ago, -Ignored- said:

it feels better of course I will stick to safe sex, though it feel better

nevertheless, it is always the btm who requested to do it raw

 

Fuck you lah, you always shamelessly claim the bottom requests to do it raw.

 

We all know that in actual fact:

1. YOU are the bottom

2. only YOU request to do it raw.

 

LOL

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Maybe those HIV+ guys should use the internet to find hook-ups only with other HIV+ guys. There are plenty of groups for that and definitely a lot of men on Tumblr proudly bragging about their HIV+ status and continuing sexual adventures. Finally, it is illegal to fib about their HIV+ status, and also against the law to not mention their HIV+ status.

 

I hope anybody who gets infected by such dishonest people, and knows who did it, will file police reports and get those criminals sent to jail. Don't just let it go. I know you might want to avoid embarrassment, or hassle, but please do the right thing to save other people's lives. Report them, get them prosecuted, and save the lives of future victims.

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On 6/6/2017 at 0:47 AM, Shenlongjian said:

I'm top and I have tried both, got to admit that raw feels better. But no alot better actually.

 

Dun understand why the hype of fucking raw. Anyone can share some thoughts?

hope you went for your testing

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On ‎3‎/‎20‎/‎2017 at 8:54 AM, cumminginme said:

nope it isn't it's it's my job to let the top wnjoy

 

Wow, you sound like a real slut... :) 

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On ‎5‎/‎12‎/‎2013 at 1:45 AM, Keough-Kenrik said:

Bareback is 10x better than havong sex with protection. Lol.

 

LOL, have you gotten STDs yet?

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I think to be honest, bare feels much better! But you don’t know what to expect from strangers.

reminds me of this incident in Bkk:

it was a straight massage place with both male and female massage workers.

i did oil massage, and while lying face down on the massage bed, I could feel my male massage therapist body rubbing on me, during the initial warm up rub-down.

midway through the massage, his erect member was slid out of his shorts and I could feel it sliding up and down my lower back.

the therapist added more oil to my back and slide up and down, when his very erected cock reach my hole area, I heard him mumble something in broken English “you want?” Or something like that.

Before i can reply, he already started entering me without a condom. 

I resisted, but he pinned me down with

his strong grip.

and the pleasures took over my complaints, I gave up as he thrusted rapidly into my hole. 

Thankfully he did not cum into my hole.

the finale was done over my face, when he suddenly withdrew and moved to the front area, sending his warm juice all over my face! 

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wow that's a really hot encounter... wonder which do you prefer? top shoot his cum in your hole? or on your face?

shooting cum on the face makes me feel like a slutty pornstar while the top forcing his cum in my hole makes me feel so used and violated (which I love!)

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4 hours ago, Guest DidymuzTT 90992155 said:

I think to be honest, bare feels much better! But you don’t know what to expect from strangers.

reminds me of this incident in Bkk:

it was a straight massage place with both male and female massage workers.

i did oil massage, and while lying face down on the massage bed, I could feel my male massage therapist body rubbing on me, during the initial warm up rub-down.

midway through the massage, his erect member was slid out of his shorts and I could feel it sliding up and down my lower back.

the therapist added more oil to my back and slide up and down, when his very erected cock reach my hole area, I heard him mumble something in broken English “you want?” Or something like that.

Before i can reply, he already started entering me without a condom. 

I resisted, but he pinned me down with

his strong grip.

and the pleasures took over my complaints, I gave up as he thrusted rapidly into my hole. 

Thankfully he did not cum into my hole.

the finale was done over my face, when he suddenly withdrew and moved to the front area, sending his warm juice all over my face! 

Raw sex is so dangerous 

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3 hours ago, Ben Ben Ben said:

Raw sex is so dangerous 

 

 

Actually any form of sexual activity carries risk. Condoms do not 100% protect you. It merely reduces the risk. The only safety, really is abstinence. The moment you engage in any form of sexual activity with another person, there is a potential risk of infection or catching something. 

Edited by doncoin
Grammer.

Love. 

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As a spa goer, I am aware of the risks even from bj, rimming, kissing.  I do not bb though did it once with someone at his home (did it with protection several times prior with him already).  But never felt any much different.  

 

As for safety, I am a firm believer in Urine Therapy.  Do research with an open mind.  It has helped those with AIDs and HIV.  For me, it is Protection vs Cure.  Even without bb, I do not know what else I will pick up in a spa no matter how good is the housekeeping.  So far so good...and I am talking of years of spa going.

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From someone that has had bareback a few times, the actual fucking doesnt feel any different, physically.

 

Pychologically... it feels amazing. Like youre giving up everything for the top, and you feel connected as one. And when he cums inside, it feels like he's giving a part of himself in you, like youre his special girl. All bottoms know the feeling of post sex, especially after a good long session. The expanded stretched hole. Sensitive at the rim, and also on the prostate inside. It feels like youre glowing when its slick with sperm and you just lie back and finger yourself gently.

 

But thats only reserved for long term monogamous relationships, im not insane. Just that there is this conflict of pychological needs and reality checks. I do get tempted now and then but reality always wins.

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38 minutes ago, btmslut said:

From someone that has had bareback a few times, the actual fucking doesnt feel any different, physically.

 

Pychologically... it feels amazing. Like youre giving up everything for the top, and you feel connected as one. And when he cums inside, it feels like he's giving a part of himself in you, like youre his special girl. All bottoms know the feeling of post sex, especially after a good long session. The expanded stretched hole. Sensitive at the rim, and also on the prostate inside. It feels like youre glowing when its slick with sperm and you just lie back and finger yourself gently.

 

But thats only reserved for long term monogamous relationships, im not insane. Just that there is this conflict of pychological needs and reality checks. I do get tempted now and then but reality always wins.

 

Oh yes, you can feel his sperms swimming to your womb, you’re going to have his baby, you’re becoming a mother and he’s the daddy.  So sweet. 

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My experience few times top end up want to do raw with me. 

From the one asking politely to the one forcing me till injure my balls (i have internal bleeding coz of that) 

 

The last one that tried to do raw to me has 1 tactic that u guys should be alarmed once u spot this. 

Top will lube his bare cock before put his condom on, by doing this either condom easily slip off or if he remove condom during sex, he can easily continue without adding new lube 

 

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I was given countless chances. And countless more ahead.

 

But i NEVER and will NEVER do raw.

 

Pls practise safe sex no matter how much u trust the other partner. Nth wrong to be extra sex right?

 

But Ive got once this fucking dirtwhore pull out my condom halfway I just raw this bitch and cum in him it was shiok but scare me a damn long time until i got tested.

 

MSG TO WHORES, IF U WANNA RISK UR LIFE, JUST DIE DUN DRAG OTHERS DOWN 

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13 hours ago, Guest gz69 said:

As a spa goer, I am aware of the risks even from bj, rimming, kissing.  I do not bb though did it once with someone at his home (did it with protection several times prior with him already).  But never felt any much different.  

 

As for safety, I am a firm believer in Urine Therapy.  Do research with an open mind.  It has helped those with AIDs and HIV.  For me, it is Protection vs Cure.  Even without bb, I do not know what else I will pick up in a spa no matter how good is the housekeeping.  So far so good...and I am talking of years of spa going.

Thanks - do u mind sharing abit more about Urine Therapy please

 

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1 hour ago, btmslut said:

From someone that has had bareback a few times, the actual fucking doesnt feel any different, physically.

 

Pychologically... it feels amazing. Like youre giving up everything for the top, and you feel connected as one. And when he cums inside, it feels like he's giving a part of himself in you, like youre his special girl. All bottoms know the feeling of post sex, especially after a good long session. The expanded stretched hole. Sensitive at the rim, and also on the prostate inside. It feels like youre glowing when its slick with sperm and you just lie back and finger yourself gently.

 

But thats only reserved for long term monogamous relationships, im not insane. Just that there is this conflict of pychological needs and reality checks. I do get tempted now and then but reality always wins.

totally agree...the thoughts are just sensational. BUT the reality is much uglier than imagined. 

 

so i shall live up the fantasy via bareback porn...

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Damn agree with you dudes on that.  Prevention is way better than cure dudes.  Its no wonder, the general public will always have the perception that those who have gotten these diseases, you deserved it as you played dangerously.  Protection is utmost important.

 

Yup, if monogamous relationship, i do damn fucking wanna fuck and cum in my btm.

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Its sad that most straight married people are having vaginal bareback sex with their partners while for us guys, there is a higher tendency of risk as most gays cheat and you dont even know if he has bareback or been bareback by others in a moment of folly. In his videos, our very own "Singaporean Edison Chen" aka Joal Ong was poking his dick into those women without protection, guess they are not scared of pregnancy?

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The feeling of bareback is better compared to condom, but must take risk and also have to see if the poker is clean.

sometimes go to Spa for oil massage, the therapist claimed my complexion very good and always end up being the-rapist!

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On 5/21/2018 at 5:27 PM, Guest Hmm said:

Its sad that most straight married people are having vaginal bareback sex with their partners while for us guys, there is a higher tendency of risk as most gays cheat and you dont even know if he has bareback or been bareback by others in a moment of folly. In his videos, our very own "Singaporean Edison Chen" aka Joal Ong was poking his dick into those women without protection, guess they are not scared of pregnancy?

Joal cock is bushy and his sex is super raw 

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Most tops are also very careful. They'll pretend to play with my body but they're actually checking my whole body for std.

I'm shy to admit, my hole usually will fail the check. Let's just say I'm no spring chicken and I prefer rough sex, the signs are very obvious. I don't have to say it, they'll automatically put on the condom. Call me a cheap slut but I never got std for so long because I prefer to be safe. Being fucked by so many men, that's the only way to minimise the risks. If the top looks like having signs of std, I'll avoid him. It's both ways.

 

Because of this, I usually don't have to watch out. Occasionally, there'll be some who will sneakily remove his condom while fucking me doggy because I can't see him. Because he already fucked me so rough till I'm opened up, I really can't tell the difference. Even if I'm careful to watch my backside through the mirror while being fucked, he'll use his hands on my butts to block his cock. 

Only after he's cum inside me then he'll purposely turn me around to let me watch his bare cock slip out and my hole dripping with his juices. I feel so sad and don't find it sexy. But what can I do? The more angry or sad I looked, he's more smug. The only way is to act like it's nothing in order to not give him that satisfaction, no matter how he plays with my wet hole.

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1 hour ago, Guest Bull btm said:

Most tops are also very careful. They'll pretend to play with my body but they're actually checking my whole body for std.

I'm shy to admit, my hole usually will fail the check. Let's just say I'm no spring chicken and I prefer rough sex, the signs are very obvious. I don't have to say it, they'll automatically put on the condom. Call me a cheap slut but I never got std for so long because I prefer to be safe. Being fucked by so many men, that's the only way to minimise the risks. If the top looks like having signs of std, I'll avoid him. It's both ways.

 

Because of this, I usually don't have to watch out. Occasionally, there'll be some who will sneakily remove his condom while fucking me doggy because I can't see him. Because he already fucked me so rough till I'm opened up, I really can't tell the difference. Even if I'm careful to watch my backside through the mirror while being fucked, he'll use his hands on my butts to block his cock. 

Only after he's cum inside me then he'll purposely turn me around to let me watch his bare cock slip out and my hole dripping with his juices. I feel so sad and don't find it sexy. But what can I do? The more angry or sad I looked, he's more smug. The only way is to act like it's nothing in order to not give him that satisfaction, no matter how he plays with my wet hole.

Bottom sounds so sad :doh:

but no bottom, how to have TOP 

so irony 

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saw a few raw fucks at the steamroom in the sauna, is really fucking hot

 

the top seems more manly especially if he banging his btm raw, i came before, watching two men fuck raw

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I am one of those guys that let's the small Head take over. When a guys raws me, I will give a weak resistance while at the same time moaning like a slut. After a while I will just go from a soft 'stop' to loud  'yes fuck me'. The though of being forced on and and being dominated like I am his slut is quite intoxicating. It's funny near the end all I am thinking is I want his cum inside me as if it will complete me.

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Those bottom who has taste the raw meat will know that it is good. But need to have safety in mind 

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7 hours ago, Guest Funchub said:

I am one of those guys that let's the small Head take over. When a guys raws me, I will give a weak resistance while at the same time moaning like a slut. After a while I will just go from a soft 'stop' to loud  'yes fuck me'. The though of being forced on and and being dominated like I am his slut is quite intoxicating. It's funny near the end all I am thinking is I want his cum inside me as if it will complete me.

 

You slut!

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On 4/19/2012 at 2:33 PM, Guest Guest said:

I noticed that most tops I've know have at some time or other expressed their preference to fcuk bareback.

These tops include my friends, my friends' partners, my fcuk buddies, etc.

I have also come to understand that it's very common for partners in a relationship to get tested and once both are cleared, start fcuking raw all the way.

As a btm, I confess it's quite exciting to take it raw. I've taken it raw before and nothing beats the feeling of a raw hard dick and hot cum shooting up your fcukhole.

Just wondering, whether most tops here like to fcuk bare if given the chance? Would you just limit it to your bf or would you fcuk any decent-looking cute btm bareback?

Share your views :)

 

if given the chance of fucking raw and what —? seems scenario is not complete to me, coz every fuck is a ‘chance’ per se to do raw, it’s just u and ur partner’s decision to do so or not.. if given the chance to do raw with the perfect world scenario that you are assured you will not get std then i choose raw for the reason that raw is not same feeling as with condom in my personal experience.. again that’s assuming we live in a perfect world scenario , so i’m just answering the original post topic question

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Well, based on my past experiences. Those bottoms always request me to raw them. I guess btm prefere to be raw instead of top.

But I do love to fuck my bf raw especially wake up in the morning while he sleeping beside me.

I remember I did raw him at a hotel balcony in Melaka and one cleaner saw us. He just ignored us. Damn sad. haha

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In the past, I have chatted with guys who are horny and said that they are keen to meet up. They have insisted that they would only do safe sex, which I agree wholeheartedly.  However, in the heat of moment in bed, they actually asked if it is ok to do raw. I guess the lust and passion can override one's logic in the moment of heat.

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On 5/30/2018 at 9:52 PM, gpfun said:

In the past, I have chatted with guys who are horny and said that they are keen to meet up. They have insisted that they would only do safe sex, which I agree wholeheartedly.  However, in the heat of moment in bed, they actually asked if it is ok to do raw. I guess the lust and passion can override one's logic in the moment of heat.

And some of them claim they r on prep, request me to f them raw.

 

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