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So what was the last song you listened to? If you have the youtube link,just copy the URL and paste it in your comment.If you're using the quick reply,paste the link inside the quick reply box and click 'More Reply Options',and the youtube link would automatically be embedded. Like this : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=07MiAg2vZt0 If not,just state the song name and artist,like this : Artist - Song Name Start sharing!

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Arrested exec shared drugs in F&P flat 18 June 2006 By ADAM DUDDING Graham Ball, the former Fisher and Paykel executive arrested in a Singapore drugs bust, was sharing drugs at a flat paid for by F&P when police swooped, say charge sheets released to the Sunday Star-Times by the Singapore courts. Ball, 45, and local man Lim Kim Hui, who is in his late 20s, were charged with trafficking, consumption and other drug charges after police found 2.25g of methamphetamine and 1.19g of ketamine in Ball's company flat. Urine samples from the men tested positive for drugs. Ball has continued to live at the flat since he was released on bail a week after his March 31 arrest, but a Fisher and Paykel spokesman in New Zealand said he would leave the flat when its lease expired in a few days. Ball's lawyer, Harbajan Singh, said the company fired Ball from his post as Singapore general manager soon after his arrest. He said Ball had "lost everything". "He was earning good money, he was number one running operations here. It's hit him very bad." Ball's $S100,000 ($102,000) bail was paid by his brother, who flew to Singapore after being told of the arrest by the New Zealand government. The two trafficking charges against Ball, each carrying a maximum sentence of 20 years in prison and 15 strokes of the cane, have since been replaced with possession charges in a plea bargain arranged by Singh. Singh said Ball, who is originally from Te Puke, in the Bay of Plenty, was likely to face a sentence of about nine months in prison plus fines. He will next appear in court on June 29. News of the arrest came as Singapore's prime minister, Lee Hsien Loong, arrived in New Zealand for an official five-day visit. Prime Minister Helen Clark yesterday refused to comment on Ball because his case is before the courts. She would not say if she would raise the matter with her Singaporean counterpart during his visit. A Fisher and Paykel spokesman in New Zealand said the company was "shocked" when Ball was charged, but he declined to comment on whether its reputation in Singapore had suffered as a result

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Why I No Longer Want To Be Gay Luis Pabon NOVEMBER 17, 2014 I no longer want to be gay. I know that on the surface this statement reeks of the denial, self-loathing and internalized homophobia commonly associated with accepting and integrating ones gayness but truth is, I just don’t want to be gay anymore. It has outlived its usefulness. I have experienced all aspects of the life and can safely say that it no longer speaks to the person that I am or want to become. I didn’t always feel this way. Initially I came to this community searching for love, intimacy and brotherhood. In return, I got shade, infidelity, loneliness and disunity. The self-loathing in this community forces you to encounter a series of broken men who are self-destructive, hurtful, cruel and vindictive towards one another. I have struggled to adapt my moral code to fit the behaviors concomitant with the lifestyle but it seems that the lifestyle is forcing me too far away from everything I love and value. No matter how many times I try to purge my perception of its firmly held beliefs and skewed biases, the same classic stereotypes of gay men keep rearing their ugly heads. The indiscriminate sex, superficiality, unstable relationships, self-hatred, peter pan syndrome, closeted connections, ageism, shade, loneliness, preoccupation with sex, prejudice, aversion to intimacy all seem to come out of the ground I thought they were buried under. Gay men just seem to find it difficult to transcend the stereotypes and clichés attached to the life and it is becoming disheartening. It has been seven years since I decided to live my life as an openly gay male and it has not been an easy road. It has been fraught with much pain and misery that I initially tried to mask with alcohol, drugs, sex and parties. In the beginning it was hard to admit that I liked other men. But I did and it was a very freeing experience. It gave me the opportunity to assert my identity when for years I struggled with this. It gave me a chance to be my own activist and stand up in the face of opposition from family, friends and society as a whole. I took pride in my gay pride and felt as though I were apart of something greater than myself, a movement of men who loved other men and who were unafraid to show it. Our love was supposed to be a revolutionary act. But the truth is, we didn’t love each other; we were just infatuated with the idea of belonging and going against the grain. We loved the freedom and taboo of rebelling against societal mores. The love that we thought was intricate to the spelling of our revolution was just a knife that we turned in on ourselves under the guise of fun and good times. Personally I believe that love is sacrifice and not many gay men are willing to sacrifice for their brethren nowadays. Initially this spirit of self-sacrifice was salient during the AIDS crisis in the early 80’s and 90’s when resources were scarce and people were afraid. But now, there seems to be a preoccupation with the seduction of risk, as gay men play with matches, hoping to ignite meaningful connections in their never ending self-discovery. The grand prize of intimacy is often forfeited for the immediate gratification of a casual encounter on craigslist or a geo-social hook up on Grindr. Cars have become the new bedrooms and sex is not followed with pillow talk but rather phrases such as: “Blo and Go,” “Pump and Dump” and “Skeet and Leave”. The life is starting to look a lot like a slow death simmering on low heat and it doesn’t hold the same appeal that it once did to me. It is a life in serious need of renovations. Men also used to be men and approached you with a modicum of chivalrous courage. Now they hide behind electronic masks or position themselves in close proximity to you at clubs hoping you initiate contact only to arrogantly dismiss your advances in an attempt to project their own discomfort. I have noticed that a lot of gay men seem to only want a challenge and live for the elusive. They want men who do not want them, men who resemble the emotional distance or absence of their fathers. I am too young to long for the good old days but this life makes you miss what it meant to be gay. It makes you long for the times when a guy would greet you and offer you a drink as opposed to his cock size and sexual stats. The middleman of courtesy has been eliminated and replaced with an immoral devil who chaperons your destruction daily. It just isn’t worth it anymore. And while I recognize my attractions to men, I choose to no longer associate myself with a life that lives outside of morality and goodness. The gay life is like the love of a bad boy whose attention and love you initially covet but eventually outgrow. It’s just not where I see myself anymore. - Luis Pabon, The Thought Catalog (17 Nov 14) http://thoughtcatalog.com/luis-pabon/2014/11/why-i-no-longer-want-to-be-gay/ ============ Mod added the title of the article as is.

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If he lets you buy his underpants, you're "The One" Nov 10, 2009 http://www.reuters.com/article/lifestyleMolt/idUSTRE5A926120091110 LONDON (Reuters Life!) - Men only buy their own underpants when they are hoping to entice a potential partner into a relationship, according to a new survey. The poll by British retailer Debenhams showed that men normally leave the purchasing of their underwear to their mothers until about the age of 19, relatively late when compared to women, who start buying their own knickers around 13. Between the ages of 19 and 23, men tend to buy their own underwear, up to 31 pairs a year in the belief that wearing new underpants is an essential prerequisite to a relationship. Buying declines gradually to zero between 23 and 33, because most men are in stable relationships and leave the shopping to their partners, unless they are still on the prowl. "Our research shows that you can tell when a man is looking for a partner by the number of new underpants they buy for themselves," said Debenhams Head of Men's Accessories Buying, Rob Faucherand. "If he buys more than 31 pairs every year then he's either still trying desperately to impress the woman in his life -- or else she's not The One." However, Faucherand said that if your man seldom goes to the underwear section on his own, and instead assumes that you will choose for him, then you can be certain that your relationship is in a very stable phase. The survey also reveals that underwear-buying among men picks up again briefly between the ages of 38 and 40, when some men are going through relationship break-ups and seeking new partners again. The incidence of this new-found purchasing enthusiasm is short-lived however. It goes into a sharp decline and slumps to zero again at the age of 44 when men mostly find themselves in another stable relationship. After 44, most men remain strangers to the underwear department for the rest of their lives, handing all responsibility for their underwear to women, Debenhams said. "This is the one issue that feminism has never addressed," Faucherand said. "It's not who wears the pants in each household -- it's who has to buy them that counts." (Reporting by Paul Casciato, Editing by Steve Addison)

Hi guys, I have trouble passing IPPT so i'm a regular at IPT/RT. And we all know going to IPT/RT alone can be quite boring, so maybe we can use this thread to look for buddies to go IPT/RT with. At least then we won't be so lonely everytime. So let's post when and where you are going for IPT/RT. Cheers.

Hola guys, some may know me some don't, I started Coffee Sessions long time ago after I ORD from PLC Feb 2007. Already MR last year. Yay! Haha I was confused that time and thinking possible ways to make friends and know more people that is where the coffee session is born. The response was not that good from just 2-3 for the first day till overwhelmed 30...it is fruitful and blessed. As I can't cater to all request it is disbanded till I get request to start it again. From the old Suntec City Starbucks to Marina Square Mall Starbucks to Rochester Mall starbucks. Not just that I also organized a picnic at Sentosa with food provided and jog hike at macritchie. As the years goes by, landscape is changing etc...so as an organizer I also need to understand the best place (MRT food etc..) So for a start, I would like to organized my first session next friday. Day: Friday Date: 28 Sept 2018 Location: Clark Quay (Starbucks) Donuts: By JCO/Crispy Creme What we gonna do: Intro ourselves, first we buy our drinks at Starbucks/7 eleven then walk to Hong Lim Park to Singapore River and walk after MacDonald's and sit near the river steps. If you have better ideas suggestion let me know. See you guys next week. P.S: This invite also goes to all gays apps too. Meaning those who are in gays apps are also invited to come too.

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Hi all This is a very interesting podcast. The host spoke well and the guests shared very interesting stories and insights into different societal interpersonal issues ranging from bad romance stories, toxic friendships and importance of looks. Link: https://anchor.fm/wintersun2021/episodes/Episode-4--Bad-Romance-eqhi4p Pls enjoy

It doesn't matter if they felt anything after the fireball erupted. Whether they felt anything after the fireball erupted is of zero relevance completely. Bringing this point as a defense for their lack of sympathy only goes to show the type of poor excuses inhumane people can come up with. Their deaths were tragic. That alone is enough for people with an ounce of humanity to feel bad about their deaths. Period. And yet, we have some people here on this forum who can only complain about their personal comfort and the noise pollution. If the noise pollution do not go away after this tragic incident, I wonder if these complainants would want more people to be burnt to death in the same way just so that they can get their peace during the night? Will the picture of some burning corpses in a fiery car make these complainants happy enough to have some peace of mind to let them sleep better at night? What type of human beings have Singaporeans turned out to be nowadays? Again, some kids died a very tragic death. Addiction or no addiction; obsession or no obsession, it is irrelevant. And yes, like it or not, in my point of view, they are kids even though they are in their mid to late 20s. They could have more than half a century worth of life to live. And it is not that I want to bring up the topic of foreign trash here. But I really got riled up when I saw foreign trash such as @singalion coming onto this forum criticizing the dead in this thread. Excuse me, aren't these foreigners supposed to be better than this? And instead they went around criticizing the dead?? Just who the hell let such dogs into the country here?? And to make matters worse, there are actually people who defended such trash here. And finally.... you got the point here. Blame it on those traffic authorities instead of criticizing all those people who has passed away.

To be frank, I seldom see gay couples at the city area during weekends.

I just signed up, though I posted here a couple of times before, just to let people know about my articles when they were done. Please forgive me, I am not from Singapore, I divide my time between Europe and New York. Why am I here? I believe Singapore is an exceptionally civilized and aware society. I believe it is the ideal place to explore how we have evloved to this point as men who love other males, and how we can continue to evolve. I have been writing about love between males for close to twenty years now. You can find many of my writings here: https://independent.academia.edu/AndrewCalimach and you can download a free pdf of my book on the gay Greek myths. The stories are very beautiful, I hope you will like them. Also, I will be glad to send a free case of books to any organization that would like them for its members. Don't worry, I'll pay for shipping too. Am I gay? I have always loved other males, since elementary school, but I am not comfortable with the term, I do not identify with the culture. I think I was born either a couple of hundred years too late, or a couple of hundred years too soon. I'm not interested in sex without friendship, and I am perfectly OK with friendship without sex as long as it is real friendship. I also draw the line at what I will and will not do in bed, as will be clear from my writings. I do not mean to tell anyone how to live, that is none of my business. Nevertheless I do want to explore what I consider to be the instinctive boundaries of male sexuality. I believe they exist, perhaps in our chromosomes. In my readings about male love in the past I have encountered a significant difference between our culture and theirs. In the past there often was structure and limits. I see it in the Shinto culture of ancient Japan, it is clearly present in the honorable love of teenagers of ancient Greece, and it can be found in other places as well, though it is difficult to uncover the evidence because people have had such a hard time discussing this. The most important limit I have encountered is the barrier against anal sex. I will not go into detail here, I have written enough about it elsewhere. Enough to say that is was considered abusive of the person penetrated. It was also seen as undignified. It is THIS that I would like to explore, if anyone here is interested. From my readings, and my own feelings, I am beginning to suspect that there is such a thing as "natural dignity." Not only humans have that, so do most intelligent creatures. I also suspect that anal penetration is intrinsically at odds with that natural dignity, and that is why it has been seen that way for so long and in so many places all over the world. What do you think? Is there such a thing as intrinsic human dignity, and is anal sex an affront against that dignity even when both partners agree?

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The incident surrounding Seng Han Thong and Cherian George's affirmative blog on "There is Enough Real Racism in Singapore" shows that there are racial biasedness for and against certain races. I believe the same holds for the gay community. Some shirk the issue off by saying it's personal preferences, but often these prejudices of making friends or finding a partner stem from social and peer pressure. Why does race matter when you are having sex or dating someone: Malay, Chinese, Indian or White? Let's go make some gay friends of a different race this holiday season!